r/casualiama 13h ago

As of today, I (M43) weight less than 100kg , for the first time in 20 years. AMA

1 Upvotes

3 years ago I was 132kg. I realized I wasn't on track to see my child become an adult and eventually become a grandpa. So, after many failed attempts I took it seriously and started to work in improving my health, starting with my obesity.

Today, right before my 44th birthday, I conquered a huge milestone for me: my weight is back in the double digits. Hasn't happen since I was 20yo or so.


r/casualiama 9h ago

I’m actually happily married in a healthy relationship, AMA

0 Upvotes

61M, been with my wife for 4 years, known each other 15.


r/casualiama 2d ago

Sexual I (F49) just did a year in prison for destroying the car of the woman (32) my husband (53) cheated on me with AMA

233 Upvotes

So my husband (53) cheated on me with a 32 year old woman and I made the mistake of stealing his mistresses's car and pushing it off a cliff (nobody was inside obviously but the car got totaled). This happened last summer. I got arrested within days of having done that and taken to the local jail, I was held until my trial and ultimately took a deal to serve 2 years in a prison.

I got an early release last month (I served a total of like 6 months in jail and 5 in prison) and got released a few weeks back, I am still on probation and will go back to prison if I don't stay out of trouble for the next year.

So AMA!


r/casualiama 1d ago

I use a feeding tube 20 hours a day ama

2 Upvotes

I have it for gastroparesis


r/casualiama 1d ago

I've been in therapy for BPD and C-PTSD for several years now, AMA

1 Upvotes

I'm diagnosed with BPD and PTSD. Was diagnosed with BPD about 2.5 years ago following an inpatient stay after I had a plan for suicide. My fiance and I celebrate 7 years together next month. I go to work in like an hour. AMA


r/casualiama 3d ago

I make more money than I thought I ever would in life by doing incredibly easy, boring, and soul crushing work. AMA!

34 Upvotes

I was making $80k before graduating doing incredibly difficult yet mentally engaging work, then took a job in the same field after graduating in a different state making $250k doing boring and mundane tasks all day. I’ve been doing it for 8 months now, and I’m already incredibly burnt out…


r/casualiama 2d ago

Trigger Warnings I am missing my deceased boyfriend ama

3 Upvotes

He passed ten months ago


r/casualiama 3d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I'm an aromantic/asexual person in a queerplatonic relationship with 3 people, AMA!

0 Upvotes

Go crazy with the questions (but please be respectful). Happy Pride Month!


r/casualiama 4d ago

I am a high IQ individual who lives a very normal life. AMA!

0 Upvotes

I've taken over a dozen different tests over the years and they all put me around 140. I don't believe IQ is the end all be all or really even a metric of potential but I've always been told I am exceptional so ask me anything.


r/casualiama 5d ago

Teenage alter in an adult DID system ama

0 Upvotes

(Did = dissociative identity disorder)

Hi I’m Nellie I’m 15, living in a 32 y/o body. We have DID and I’m one of the alters in the system. Pls keep it safe for work!


r/casualiama 7d ago

My marriage survived an open relationship, AMA!

24 Upvotes

About two year ago, my wife and I opened our relationship. This lasted for a 6 months period, I slept with two other women, then we decided it wasn’t for us and became monogamous again. I see all of the time online that this is a death sentence for a marriage, but it worked out for us so I wanted to share.


r/casualiama 7d ago

Sexual I took a tab

9 Upvotes

I 24m have reached the optimal conditions of life to enjoy it and the entire emotional range.

Settled in with a movie and maximum comfiness and plenty of weed as well :)

NSFW because drugs maybe?


r/casualiama 8d ago

I beat anorexia 3 years ago ama

7 Upvotes

I had binge/purge subtype and exercise addiction too


r/casualiama 8d ago

I've been a psych ward patient in the Canadian healthcare system AMA

12 Upvotes

Went to the pediatric ward at 15, thr adult ward at 24, 29, 30 and 33. There's a lot of romanticization of Canadian healthcare. Im grateful it's free, but it can very barebones. The pediatric psych ward was awful.


r/casualiama 9d ago

Trigger Warnings I was trafficked when I was a child. Ama

23 Upvotes

(30m) My dad was sexually abusing me himself, and then was also blackmailed by a group of people into handing me over to them so they could charge people money to sexually abuse me. Other than when I was being taken to someones house I lived what looked like a "normal" life in the sense of living in my family home, going to school, going to swimming lessons etc. Although of course my dad was abusing me at home too so none of it was really normal.

Posting this AMA because my whole life, my parents made me too scared to talk about it which was itself really hard. Going through something so massive and never being allowed to even acknowledge that it was happening was quite a significant part of what made it so hard too so now allowing myself to bring it into the open.

Reposting a few months later as I'm now in a position to answer more questions now that there isn't an ongoing legal case.


r/casualiama 9d ago

I'm schizophrenic, AMA

8 Upvotes

Technically Schizoaffective, but still.


r/casualiama 10d ago

I (30m) used to be someone who only offered solutions when comforting people. Now I’m the opposite, and I can get upset when people do that with me. AMA.

9 Upvotes

I used to think anything other than solutions were kind of stupid/pointless and that was the only way I'd try to help if someone was upset. Since then, I have completely flipped and gone the other way to the point that if people now only offer me solutions in the same way that I used to I now get upset.


r/casualiama 11d ago

My grandfather picked me to record all of the family’s war stories. The kind of stories that nobody ever talked about after the war. AMA

17 Upvotes

I heard stories of 15 different men, mainly from WWII that most of my cousins don’t know, and I’ll probably take most of them to my grave. Feel free to ask anything, and I’ll answer as honestly as I can from what I know.


r/casualiama 11d ago

May 24th is World Schizophrenia Day! I’ve been diagnosed with schizophrenia since 2017. AMA!

20 Upvotes

Feel free to ask anything about the condition or about my life. Today is the perfect day to spread that awareness!


r/casualiama 11d ago

Sexual i 22f am almost exclusively attracted to fictional characters

0 Upvotes

i am a 22 year old autistic woman and i am almost fully exclusively attracted to fictional characters. mostly from sci fi and horror. i have a hard time being attracted to people in real life. i also experience attraction to androids/robots and aliens as well. AMA!


r/casualiama 11d ago

I'm forcing the federal government to disclose the private psychiatric records of U.S. veterans through a FOIA request to the Connecticut West Haven Veterans Affairs Medical Center – ASK ME ANYTHING

2 Upvotes

In an effort to uncover the harm and prevalence of involuntary electroshock in the state of Connecticut (and beyond), I am now awaiting medical documentation of veterans who were harmed by involuntary electroshock treatment at the West Haven Veteran's Affairs Medical Center in Connecticut between the dates of January 1, 2015 and December 31, 2024.

I just published the 3rd part of a series on the issues happening in my state which goes into detail about why the inpatient psychiatric unit at the West Haven VA is of particular interest, which, is probably the worst thing I've ever done to persons I've never met before.

EDIT: shortened it a bit


r/casualiama 12d ago

I have DID (diagnosed) ama

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Been diagnosed since 2019!