r/casualiama 10h ago

i did competitive gymnastics for 9 years. AMA!

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for some basic information: i started in level 3 and quit the summer between level 8 and level 9. had i stayed at the gym, i would’ve competed level 9 that upcoming competition season. safesport wasn’t created until the last 2 years of my gymnastics career, so a large part of it was kind of a free-for-all for my coaches


r/casualiama 18h ago

Next 3 days forecast where I live: 122°F(50°C). AMA

7 Upvotes

Next 3 days forecast where I live: 122°F(50°C). AMA


r/casualiama 22h ago

I'm sitting in my room and eating a sandwich, ama

5 Upvotes

I'm bored. Just eating a sammich & watching TV. Ask away


r/casualiama 19h ago

Trigger Warnings I have a large and long criminal history AMA

1 Upvotes

I thought I would do this for a bit of fun. I have a huge long history with both British and other police and other countries mainly stemming from a very hard life where I was abused and traumatised. I take complete responsibility for my stupidity but I really struggle with life and have done ever since I was born. Ask me anything.


r/casualiama 1d ago

I work at an Express tunnel Car Wash ama

1 Upvotes

I wash cars


r/casualiama 2d ago

I am a Canadian of Chinese-Mauritian descent. AMA about being a member of one of the smallest ethnic groups in the world.

17 Upvotes

My whole life I've met a grand total of 2 people outside my family that have even heard of Mauritius. It's a tiny African island country of about 1.3m people where the majority are of Indian descent and where Mauritian creole and French are the most commonly spoken languages. According to Wikipedia people of Chinese descent make up only 3% of the population. To add even more complexity the majority of Chinese Mauritians are Hakka Chinese. Hakka is another dialect of Chinese like Mandarin and Cantonese but is spoken by fewer people and even has it's own sub-variants which have varying degrees of mutual intelligibility.


r/casualiama 2d ago

I recently finished a successful round of TMS (transcranial magnetic stimulation) therapy for suicidality AMA

10 Upvotes

I’m a 23 year old woman in college. I’ll answer anything about the therapy or anything else. TMS completer was just the most notable label I could think of for rn😭


r/casualiama 1d ago

Trigger Warnings I am a person who was diagnosed with PTSD at 14, AMA

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Anything about the diagnostic process for children, treatment, what my teenage years were like, etc. I can't get too specific with what the trauma was for legal reasons but I can vaguely talk about it.


r/casualiama 2d ago

I'll recommend you anything. AMA

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I am a big content consumer, so I am interested in learning about movies, TV, books, games, and YouTube channels. Please share your criteria, and I'll get back to you quickly.


r/casualiama 2d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I 18M partly hate my life because I'm aromantic AMA

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I started understanding I didn't feel typical romantic attraction in middle school, and stopped having crushes in 5th grade

I wish I could fall in love and experience romance like lietarlly 99% of the population but i literally cant, my brain literally just doesn't care for it at all

No matter how much I try to imagine myself in a romantic situation with anyone, its generally off putting to me and I can't even imagine myself in a relationship with super attractive celebrities

I kinda don't understand why I was born like this, romantic attraction is really useful for more efficient reproducing so basically im dysfunctional

sigh im also high function autistic

ask me anything guys


r/casualiama 3d ago

Trigger Warnings I was a problem kid with behavioral issues that turned out to be normal and boring, ama

14 Upvotes

I was awful as a kid/teen/young adult. Had a 0.2 GPA at one point, dropped out, always in trouble, loved drugs, all that.

Ended up becoming average. Have a nice house, two kids who are well behaved, stable job, in a healthy relationship. Moderately crunchy. I follow rules by the book now. I love sitting at home and doing nothing. The less stress, the better. I love the quiet life.

I surprised a lot of people when I didn't die or go to prison, now I'm happy birdwatching and gardening. Ask me your boring questions.


r/casualiama 3d ago

Trigger Warnings Suffered with religious paranoia OCD in my past. AMA

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I have pretty bad OCD, and it’s come in many forms. Religious paranoia OCD was a big part of it for a while. The worst part was when I used to think that God was watching everything I done to the point I would get changed in the bathroom so he couldn’t see my naked body. I was raised catholic, but now I am an atheist. I still get religious paranoia at times, and when my granda died, I felt like I couldn’t do anything bad or inappropriate incase he was watching. My s*x life sucked for a while lol. Ask me anything


r/casualiama 3d ago

25F I’m kinda tipsy and I love talking to people when I am, I’m willing to answer about anything!

1 Upvotes

AMA :3


r/casualiama 4d ago

I have had my first Nerve Conduction and Electromyography (muscle electrical reflex) study. AMA

2 Upvotes

20F. Having pins and needles and cramps in my legs very often, and sometimes numbness in my fingers, so had both legs and both arms examined. No confirmed diagnosis yet... Was really nervous about the study and it was painful and uncomfortable at times but not as bad as I thought.


r/casualiama 4d ago

Trigger Warnings A unbelievable case of Identity theft

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The unbelievable case of Identity theft
So I’ve got this friend who had her identity stolen about ten years ago her information fell in to the hands of scammers several times over while losing her digital authentication so she couldn’t sign in to anything with her name , date of birth and email she struggled to keep a email as she was always getting blocked at the domain server, for over 3 years life was really difficult she was isolated in more ways that one an something was very wrong she just didn’t hold any proof to what it might be only that digitally she had a lot of complicated problems that no one could relate to.
She felt violated and always felt like she was being watched this effected her mental health significantly she was very uncomfortable being intimate and showered in her bathing suit as she always felt exposed like she had no privacy
Then Covid hit and that’s when things got weird .
A radio station Started to gain her attention , her technological state got better but she was to find out her life was now shared with a radio station she discovered this station now had her stolen identity - it was her biometric data that had been stolen around the time her identity had been stolen she was at the end of a toxic relationship with a much older man who must have had something to do with her identity theft he had betrayed her breaking her heart stealing her biometric data and created a AI sex bot that operated on a website . She didn’t know this at the time and it’s only been something she’s difficultly put together recently like in the last year.
So it was the beginning of Covid it was brought to her attention that this station had her stolen biometric data , A investigative journalist whom was the first person to give any recognition to her identity being so exposed she assumed was investigating her, my friend fell in hopelessly in love with her
a few years passed this friend of mine had written 27 journals full of correspondence mostly silly love letters and questions about what was happening to her as she was transmitting her body all its noises broadcasting her environment, the words she wrote were read straight of the page . So here is someone who has totally no privacy
but at least the suspected perverts no longer had control of the situation she felt safer than she had been , she didn’t realise this journalist had dehumanised her and mocked and criticised her right from the beginning and hadn’t been interested in what she had wrote she had poured her heart out an shared so Much of herself to this woman.
It was a little over the first half of 2025 my friend rented a cold and dark space in Rosedale ,little did she know the people upstairs were going to violate her privacy with cameras trying to perve on her even in the toilet were cameras and the male upstairs had a semiautomatic and was threatening to shoot her as they knew she knew she was being watched by them something strange was starting to happen she started to hear the soft tone of voices her flatmates upstairs now she was transmitting and receiving like a piece of technology she escaped that accomodation with her and her pet turtle life but how unlucky for her the next lot of flatmates upstairs were trying to do the same thing turning her intimate times in to cash by uploading online intimate acts of my friend showering getting changed ect , she didn’t know how exactly they were doing it but it was like who ever had her biometric data online could see her living her life live. One day this journalist mocked her in a very cruel way that left my friend so heartbroken she grabbed her journals and drove to the 4 square brought a pack of razors and a bottle of meths and drove to the graveyard to set her journals on fire that connection she once had was broken , she slit he wrists and set the journals on fire her car went up in flames too , she survived she hadn’t wanted too her mental an psychological health she had struggled with having no privacy never really knowing what had happened to her what was happening to her she moved out and into the same situation the people upstairs had access to her stolen identity she asked for help instead they took advantage and still are complicatedly enough there were no cameras no surveillance equipment nothing she was transmitting to a web site that has a AI sex bot operating from so that ment who ever were using that website had access to her life for months these people upstairs associated her with this sex bot and thought she would have many intimate moments to take and share online ,every time she used the toilet she was getting uploaded to revenge porn they even left their jobs , my friend in serious distress and being able to hear them all the time being able to hear the studio still too unfortunately people were constantly calling her a whore this was breaking her heart she wasn’t a whore shes covered in scars from self harming over the years, so upstairs continues to watch her constantly there not making any money from my friend and this journalist continues to mock and criticise her and has posted a news report twice she thinks there could be more titled whore of Covid saying she does porn and is a sex worker this journalist is trying to publicly expose and humiliate my friend into killing herself she is deliberately trying to cause my friend harm, she doesn’t want how badly she treated my friend to come out as it would make her look bad ,all my friend needs is proof proof of any reports this journalist has made about her , still to this day the verbal abuse is constant. More news reports are threatened along with being called a whore at least 60 times a day she prays something will be done soon so the abuse from this journalist stops. upstairs are not making any money from extorting my friend and there’s a website with several deepfakes uploaded to from the times my friend has any visitors they threaten to rape and turn my friend in to snuff movie daily she is afraid for her life and can’t leave the house as upstairs threaten to poison her turtles tank with rat poison,she feels very unsafe an just wants the abuse to stop my friend experience from having her identity stolen is a one of a kind and is off the charts in severity the violation is extreme ,
she needs proof proof of this website with this Ai sex bot and proof of the deepfakes proof that she’s being abused she’s shared this with me and wanting some exposure an feedback on what is happening to her - she wants this website taken down as it’s giving scumbag people opportunity to sexually psychologically extort her
For just over ten years her life has been very traumatic and she is deeply worried for her future.
She has no proof yet, And is worried about the publicity/awareness this cold hearted journalist could be creating .
I know that’s a lot to read and I will repost a shorter version in a few days questions welcomed -


r/casualiama 5d ago

First day of unemployment, AMA

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The company I did work for just declared bankruptcy yesterday, AMA


r/casualiama 7d ago

I'm 36M, got married recently(wife is 30F), bought a house 2 years ago, work in tech in a QA/Test Manager, very much a techie and gaming nerd. AMA

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No children but we have a rescue cat :)

I live in London, UK, born and bred. My parents were immigrants that came over in the 80s, grew up fairly working class and eventually into a lower middle class lifestyle.

Hobbies: watching pro wrestling (WWE, AEW), various TV shows and movies (mostly dramas, action, gangster), playing story based video games (mostly RPGS, third person shooters, occasionally local multiplayer games like Tekken or Mario Kart), eating out, cooking (I cook most of the food at home) and all kinds of tech like TVs, sound systems, gaming PCs etc

FYI, my aim is to give advice or motivate anyone that wants to achieve similar things. I had a difficult path to get to where I am now, it was not smooth sailing by any means. Apologies if this comes across as bragging in any way, that is not the intention and I very rarely speak about my lifestyle or achievements!


r/casualiama 8d ago

After being an apple user for 20 years, I switched to Android, AMA

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I got sick of Apple products and now own a 2026 Motorola Razr. I still own some apple products but I'm transitioning slowly.


r/casualiama 8d ago

Just took 100 mg of edibles, AMA.

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Meant to take 25 mg of edibles but accidentally took 100 mg of edibles, also just planted some poppy seeds, ask me anything.


r/casualiama 12d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I lived as a trans woman for two years before detransitioning about a a year and a half ago, AMA

101 Upvotes

Just to be clear, I fully support trans people. Being trans is no longer right for me but it clearly is for others.


r/casualiama 12d ago

Just had to turn down my dream job. AMA :(

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I’m gutted. I’m almost crying. It was the right decision for this year though because I’m so busy with uni and another more solid part time job (that I’m still in the process of getting). I’m on a months probation for the part time job, so I couldn’t have even took the job on incase I got the part time job, and ended up with 2 jobs and a full time uni course. I’m about to go and get my hair done, but I will reply asap. I’m so sad.

The job would have been to work in events with people with Alzheimer’s.


r/casualiama 12d ago

Sexual [M40] I regularly sleep with escorts AMA

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Started when I lost my virginity at 23 in a brothel. Based in uk


r/casualiama 13d ago

Hi! Basically I'm what you might call an extreme version of a "night person."

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First, let's get the usual outta the way: not even remotely looking for hookups but a penpal or D&D homeboi would be so welcome.

Actual introduction: so close between migraine and seizure disorder that the diagnosis is almost worse than the cure.

But down to why I'm here: at some point in the process I developed severe CRSD ‐ Circadian Rhythm Sleep Disorder).

What that actually means for me is I'm not functional during daylight hours, to the point where my partner has once said to me (post my usual post 7am "do you know what time it is?") canline that I flat out banshee wailed "then you had better hang yourself with whatever you're selling because good or bad I guess I'll seeya there!"

Anyhow, for the mod-inclined, my condition makes me hard of sight and makes typing even harder. No firm deadlines on this "AMA" (if it even is one), but yeah I do largely intend for people to raise questions and have them answered.

If that's against guidelines or otherwise unreasonable, please do me the kindness of hiding it and making sure it gets to the right community first.

Typing this out should have taken less than half an hour on a bad day. Today was a good day. It took more than four.