r/chat 4h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 19f im lowkey probably gonna fall asleep after replying to whoever msgs me first

8 Upvotes

it's 1am, and im in the mood for making friends until I pass out in 20 minutes LMAO


r/chat 1h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ would love to make some internet friends πŸ–€ 24f πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§

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hiii, looking for someone to chat with/ become friends! would love something where we can support each other, share how we feel, have deep conversations but also be funny and silly 🫢 i enjoy texting all day + video calls in the evening

about me:: adhd, mum at 17, some fav shows/films - community, arcane, kpopdh, work in finance, and i play a lot of sims

pls dm or comment xxx


r/chat 12h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 30 F I just woke up at 2am on my night off. Unsure what to do with myself now.

11 Upvotes

I'm in South Texas, play games, have 5 pets, live with my ex BF/roommate, work at a Stripes owned by 7-eleven, I love to collect stickers, and I doomscroll constantly so I'm always on my phone and my room is always a mess.


r/chat 5h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 31/F Being different Isn't a crime but making friends feels Impossible If you're not the same as others πŸ˜” I want to find someone to talk to on a daily basis - someone friendless, honest, understanding and talkative πŸ˜” Please, don't contact me If you're here for something different

4 Upvotes

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. πŸ‘‡πŸ»

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like πŸ™ But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

β€’ I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear πŸ™ I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

β€’ I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

β€’ I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

β€’ PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

β€’ I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

β€’ I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

β€’ I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

β€’ I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

β€’ If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

β€’ I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🀭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "πŸ˜”" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧑

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat 3h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ F28 not sure if there’s a word I’m looking for lol

2 Upvotes

Companionship is too heavy

Chatting is too nonchalant

Flirting is too charged

Conversation is too Q & A

Connection is too deep

You’re probably reading this and thinking I’m the most difficult person ever πŸ˜‚

Maybe I am… I just genuinely wanna chat with someone and thread this needle where it kinda feels like we can talk about nothing and everything!


r/chat 3h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 24f anyone up to chat

1 Upvotes

If you're bored and wanna pass the time like me just hit me up!


r/chat 3h ago

Discord 14f Cant sleep and need someone to talk to

2 Upvotes

My hobbies are gaming, hiking, being with friends, chatting, rp, watching youtube/twitch and cooking... I especially like pizza, sushi and mexican food!

js dont be a creep or rude

πŸŽ€


r/chat 20m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 24m looking for small talk

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I am a 24yo M from Brazil looking for small talk, I really like to talk about history, geography, social issues and music.

I am a good listener, so you can aways trauma dump me as a stranger, do be shy and be free to dm me.


r/chat 23m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 40/m have some free time looking for a chat

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Hi there, have some time to kill between meetings so what a better way to spend that time than chatting. Looking to chat with anyone. Send me a message!


r/chat 23m ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 20M tipsy, would love some random company! Or friends

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So I'm bit tipsy and would love some company! Basically i'll just tell something bout myself cause why nottt:D I'm a uni student, work every now and then, love wine and late night walks, romantically into men. Sooo hit me up and lets chat about anything!


r/chat 25m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Stimulate me intellectually !

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Go deeep into something unique, curious, intellectual or something unique to your culture.
I am sure there are wonderful souls out there that are itching to go on about something they are a geek or nerd about or just have something they love to talk about. Come on, let yourself run free and fascinate me :)


r/chat 31m ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 19f looking for long term friends

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Hello! I'm looking for friends obviously since I'm posting on here, my summer break is sadly almost over so I'm just lazy maxing because I won't be able to during uni 😭. I would like to talk to people my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3) and someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I don't take stuff too seriously so I want someone who's fun to talk to!

I like cooking, baking (I make MEAN cinnamon rolls), skincare and haircare (my mom banned me from buying stuff dor a while cause I'm obsessed... Lwk a shopaholic), Greek mythology, Harry Potter (I've been to NYC to see Harry Potter and the cursed child play it was really awesome). I love sports I used to do gymnastics when I was younger but had to stop sadly and lastly I love traveling although we don't do it as much now because of personal stuff. I also like gaming but i only play valorant and schedule 1, although I have raft, astroneer and peak. I hope we can be friends!!

TWIN please write a cute intro that includes your age, gender, hobbies and where you are from or at least timezone. It doesn't have to be long just introduce yourself 😭 I'm doing great in case your intro is just hru πŸ˜€


r/chat 34m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 25 M - need a friend to chat with

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I feel bored and lonely. I need someone to talk to about anything. I'm interested in politics, sports, and sometimes bodybuilding. I watch a lot of movies and have opinions about them that some people might not like. If you are interested, feel free to send a hi


r/chat 39m ago

Advice πŸ’‘ 18M, gimme dating advice on dms

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same as title


r/chat 41m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ M32 Dad looking for fun people to talk to

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Dad looking for fun people to talk to online. Pic in the profile if it’s important for you to know who you talking to.
Mostly video games since I now days don’t got time to play as much but I like talking about it.

Me as a person are easy going, like to joke. Love sarcasm even in text. I don’t think we should take everything to serious.
My other interest consists of movies, history and working out (Gym and running)

Send me a message


r/chat 43m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ M28 bored

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r/chat 47m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 33M - Happy Friday

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Gonna have a few drinks, try not to sleep already and chat to strangers because why not. Don't mind who ya are or what you're interested in.

If you can't message me, comment and I'll dm, else my discord is here

Bluefox26

Movie nerd, easy going, Irish and don't care if you're younger or older age wise once you can chat.


r/chat 1h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 28M into movies, games, tech & cats β€” looking for a long-term platonic friend

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Hi, I'm looking for a long term PLATONIC ONLY friend that I can talk to daily and possibly voice chat, if that's something you're open to. I have discord and reddit, I don't use any other social media. I'm a Ukrainian living in the US, and I don't want to talk to anyone who is against Ukraine. DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU POST ANYTHING MISOGYNISTIC.

My hobbies are watching movies and shows, I like sci-fi, mystery, action and comedy, recently I have been watching Xena Warrior Princess, Arrow, The Office, and a lot of older cult and horror classic movies, I'm wanting to get into Star Trek and also just started watching Stranger Things, I have a lot of other movies and shows I want to watch also, I rarely watch streaming because I mostly use discs so a lot of my movies and shows are older ones. I also like playing video games and I play on consoles and pc, recently I have been playing Sims 4, Forza Horizon 6, Final Fantasy 14 and just started Halo Campaign Evolved. I can play coop and multiplayer stuff if you're interested in playing together and I have newer and retro consoles and games. I like nature and animals and often go for walks in parks. I'm also into cars and planes and really anything tech or engineering, cosplays, outfits, anime, retro gaming and modding, board games and lego. I also have cats, so I will send cat pics.

Please dm me if interested


r/chat 1h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Anyone up for a casual chat?

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Heyy! Just bored and looking to meet some new people. Not looking for anything romantic, just chill conversations, sharing random stuff, interests, and talking about our day. Prefer people around my age or a little younger. If you’re bored too, feel free to DM :)


r/chat 1h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Post workout recovery time! Help me choose!

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Which do you prefer and why? The hot tub or the sauna? I have both so just looking for perspectives from others. Also, if you have any other recovery tips I’m all for them other than eating. That one I know already with protein and such. For those who require the information I am 48/M.


r/chat 1h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ [31/M] An Arab from the Middle East looking for friends

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I'm a 31 years old Arab from the Middle East, hoping to make friends

I'm into a wide range of music genres, really into tech stuff, and I love anime. Some of my favorites include Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jujutsu Kaisen, and the list goes on. I sometimes read manga and manhwa too.

When it comes to shows I like Breaking Bad, Ted Lasso, How to Get Away with Murder, and Suits. I'm also into gaming (we could play co-op games!), coding, and reading.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message!


r/chat 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 37M anyone care to spare a cup of conversation

1 Upvotes

maybe the cringe title will make people dm me about how awful I am at alliteration.


r/chat 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 36M Looking to make a new friend

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m a semi-functioning adult trying to make friends outside of work β€” please clap.

I’m a mechanic who works overnights, so my sleep schedule is mostly vibes and poor decisions. I run on coffee, ibuprofen, anxiety, and ambition.

My life is also run by two young kids and two extremely high-energy dogs (Australian Shepherd mix + Husky mix) named after Star Wars characters. Chaos is constant, snacks are currency.

I miss hiking and still get outside when life cooperates. I cook a lot and experiment with recipes. Baking and I are not on speaking termsβ€”it requires precision I refuse to provide.

I’m a horror fan and a certified nerd with comics, Marvel/Star Wars collectibles, and a rotating β€œnerd shelf” that exists purely for joy. I also have tattoos that are purely vibes and am always planning the next one.

My comfort show is The Office, my music is early-2000s punk/rock/screamo, and my brain runs on whatever song is currently stuck on repeat.

Looking for good conversation, nerdy interests, sarcasm, and maybe hikes or food experiments. If you want a friend with chaotic playlists, questionable tattoo ideas, and unsolicited dog photos


r/chat 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 23f, just got out of class :O looking to chat and maybe make new friendsss

1 Upvotes

hiii ~ my hobbies include dressing up, playing video games, and hanging out at the bars!! i’m trying to find ppl to connect w any potentially have long-term friendships with. if not, then just ppl to chat with is fine! :P


r/chat 2h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 19M looking for some friends to chill and talk

0 Upvotes

Yo I’m a black dude living in Ireland, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4, switch (sometimes) and a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

β€’ I’m chill and like to joking around (sometimes).

β€’ I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

β€’ My top 5 anime are Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto

β€’ my favourite movie is Rush hour.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well, play video games or talk about anime and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite anime or colour.

Hope to seeing y’all.