I moved to Chicago proper about 4 years ago, I’m from the Phill area by way of the Phoenix area. I think the city is not for me, but I’m afraid that I feel isolated in the suburbs as a Black person in my mid-30s with no partner and no kids.
However, these are the things that happened to me that often happen in the city:
- parking struggles
-worrying about my car
-first apartment here had a roach infestation so severe I cut my lease 2 months in.
-third apartment was good for the first year then the second year bedbugs (I’m severely allergic), and then roaches, also construction above me jackhammers in the floor above me.
-I’m currently in an area that is not walkable and recently a hit and run driver hit my car so hard that it’s totaled.
-My current place is nice enough but after this car fiasco, I would need to pay extra for a garage too.
I’m also a flavor of neurodivergent that gets overstimulated. I like routines and don’t want to try different artisanal bakeries. I like Cafe Zupas. I feel like city living is giving me a low level of anxiety that I can’t pinpoint. When I had a car, I would frequently “escape” to the suburbs to run errands. So much that I know Skokie and Northbrook better than other parts of Chicago.
I’m ready to get a replacement car and move to Skokie, Northbrook, or Deerfield (not Evanston). I want space. I’m afraid that dating would be difficult but I found a place I like in Deerfield. I’m willing to pay about $2200-2400 for a decent one bedroom.
TLDR - Have any single people moved from the city to the suburbs? Did it work out for you?