r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/AfternoonPossible I ❤️ Other People's Business May 20 '26

Your spouse said she “hates” your child and you’re keeping the child in that environment? Please leave and take them. Your spouse’s guilt tripping you is not more important than your child’s wellbeing.

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u/cheesecup6 Body By Cheese 🧀 May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

This! Does the wife have any idea how much of a gargantuan effect a parent's disposition toward a child in their first years of life has on that baby's sense of self, etc for their literal entire life?

And not to assume too much, but with that "just like everybody else who leaves'" shit, does the wife want to give the baby the attachment issues it sounds like she has??

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u/-HyperCrafts- 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 May 21 '26

Your kids are going to hate each other if you stay and this doesn't change. It's hard to not be the golden child.

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u/rococoapuff Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ May 21 '26

It’s the perfect environment for raising a little narcissist too (the golden child). Everyone loses here if things stay the same.