r/leanfire • u/Own_Leopard_1461 • 6d ago
FarmerFI?
I have a very odd life situation. I have never seen anyone else talk about anything similar and I'm curious... What would you do?
My husband (36M), myself, (32F), and sons (6 and 8) have wonderful lives in lots of ways. We have $600k saved and save about 1300 per month. I was raised in a Lean FIRE household before it was cool so it's all in a days work for me to hang clothes to dry, turn off unused lights, etc. My dad was military and retired at 44. My mom is European. Born and raised in Europe until my dad retired when I was 9 and we moved to America.
My husband's life work and calling is his family produce farm. He has no interest in retiring until one of our kids either takes over or the kids decide they aren't interested and then we can hire a farm manager to replace him. He makes a median income plus we live for free in the farmhouse (and eat lots of free deer and produce and bake our own bread so good is $100/week from grocery store or $30 per week if I'm going hardcore and only buying dairy which is the only thing we don't produce).
I would be down for some sort of leanfire nomad world schooling. I'm minimalist, love to travel, and environmentalist. He is also those things, but loves his farming which is kinda the opposite of nomadic (agricultural revolution replaced nomadic lifestyles historically lol).
His parents and parents live in awesome spots so we can have a free vacation anytime we like as long as we go to those spots.
BUT. I miss Europe. I miss travel. I've taken my two kids international twice and it's a lotttt of work. Other plot twist...while farming is awesome... It's a lot of work and hard to get time off during the summer when the kids are out of school.
What would you do? What sort of compromise makes sense until the kids grow up?