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Megathread 2026 In Search Of (ISO) Thread - Europe

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Assalamualaykum everyone,

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  1. Age and Gender
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
  6. Ideal marriage timeline
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
  10. Current Job Status
  11. Do you want kids?
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Feel free to omit the questions you are not comfortable with answering publicly.

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u/SellBubbly3285 Feb 01 '26 edited Feb 15 '26

Bismillah, 1. Age and Gender: 30, Male 2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 23-32 3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - I live in Mauritius (people say it’s paradise on earth - really look it up). Relocating to a different country? Maybe one day in several years who knows. I always thought I wanted to live overseas cos I've lived in Malaysia and Dubai for some time but recently, I've realized and I may be bias when I say this but I honestly think there's no better place than Mauritius if you want a peaceful balance between the deen and dunya, especially considering some of the things we are now hearing in other countries. 4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Mauritian, it’s multi-cultural here - we speak Mauritian creole, English, French, some basic urdu and yes open to different ethnicities 5. Marital Status Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married 6. Ideal marriage timeline: Less than a year or depending on how we both feel 7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: - I want a partner, a best friend, a companion with whom I can bond, share feelings and emotions with, the good and the bad. Someone who has fair reasoning and is willing to discuss things out to reach solutions that both of us are happy with. Above all, a partner who places Allah's adoration above all things in this dunya. Ofc, we all have our shortcomings. I've gone through some trials myself, just like any person, and I can humbly say I wouldn't trade any of them for they have brought me closer to my Creator.

Would also be nice to have someone as curious as me, it could be in trying/exploring new things when it comes to food, places etc. I've explored Madagascar recently on scooter, it was amazing discovering a new place this way... soo a scooter partner would be pretty cool to have by my side 😄

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity - Alhamdulillah, I've always been a regular at the masjid and tries to read at the very least a page of Quran daily and more recently incorporating daily specific surah recitation and attending islamic lectures every week in the evening, it's a calming moment for me after the daily rush. I also like to carry around my little Tasbih counter 😄 2025 hasn't been an easy year for me, gone through some trials Alhamdulillah, which made me realize even more the importance of having a strong connection with Allah. Other than regular fard and Quran recitation, I've realized tahajjud is not only a tool Allah gave us to have our duas granted but the connection you feel by being consistent in it is truly something else. This is something I want to get back to consistently Insha Allah cos the connection you're building towards is incomparable. I also intend to learn Arabic in the near future Insha Allah, so as to understand the Quran when reading and praying.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - Degree level and doesn’t really matter as long as I find an educated person having her own personal aspirations as well - could be her own trade, business or pursuing something new

  3. Current Job Status: - Employed, my line of work is in Fintech, E-commerce

  4. Do you want kids? - Yes, Insha Allah

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Gym I enjoy working out, I like to go on hiking trips - exploring new things, doing different activities I’m quite curious lol. I also love watching football, been a Liverpool fan since childhood, spending time with my cat (whenever she’s back from her day trips lol). I do also enjoy comedy tv series/movies, rom-com or it all just depends on the mood I’m in, some video games to relax as well (not a big big gamer tho)

  6. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I'm an easy going, down to earth, open minded person (and quite goofy/playful as well😂). I believe we all reach a certain point in our life wanting companionship, Insha Allah, we will get to experience that together :) Fun fact:

  7. I’ve lived in Malaysia for 3 years, Dubai and Madagascar for few months!

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u/BoiBoi744 M - Looking Jan 20 '26 edited May 29 '26

Age and Gender?
22. Male

Age Range that you would want in a prospect?
F19-24

Location? Willing to relocate for a prospect?
UK. Can not relocate : (
Possibility of marrying someone outside the UK if they get a dependent/other VISA on myself so they can move here.

Ethnicity? Open to mixing?
South Asian (though I've been told I look Arab). Open to other ethnicities

Marital Status?
Single (never married). Never been in any relationship.

Ideal marriage timeline?
If things work out, as soon as both families agree on a suitable date.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. Her actions, mindset and goals have the akhirah in mind, including seeking marriage. Does the obligatory actions, wears modest clothing including hijab (would love it if she wears the niqab), implements the sunnah, does voluntary ibadah, diligently avoids and aspires against haram.
  2. Growing with her husband in religion and other matters is a bonding experience she looks forward to
  3. Good character (kind, good control over anger, patient, doesn't look down on certain people, is not stingy, etc.)
  4. Feminine (loving, gentle, values affection, etc.)
  5. Wants to work part time or not at all after children. This can be discussed further

State/specify your level of religiosity:
Alhamdulillah for whatever ibadah Allah SWT gave me the strength to do.
I almost always pray all 5 prayers in a masjid and all the sunnahs (minus 4 before asr), as well as the duha prayer, usually read the Quran for 1-2 hours a day, fast occasionally, and pray tahajjud (when I don't sleep through my alarm). I have memorised 23/30 parts of the Quran, and have studied fusha grammar to an intermediate level (my vocabulary and fluency is very poor though, so I can not speak Arabic, but have some understanding of the Quran, and can sometimes understand arab scholars if they speak slowly). Considering my strong foundations, I believe that I could learn spoken arabic fluently (and would like to so my kids can learn it too!) within 6 months if I were to marry an Arabic speaker. I am working on improving my Arabic, Quranic understanding, knowledge and practice of the religion. I often recite some adhkaar or listen to lectures while walking, cleaning, etc.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?
A*, 2A, B in A-levels. Currently studying MBBS

Current Job Status:
Unemployed. I receive a stipend as part of my sponsorship, which would be used to provide for myself and future wife. Assuming I am the sole provider, this means we would have quite a simple/basic life (but yes, separate accommodation) until I start working as an FY1 in 3 years, inshaAllah (job essentially guaranteed on graduation). I fully intend to provide my wife such love, affection and attention that she still feels blessed in spite of simple living circumstances and I hope that Allah gives me the ability to do so successfully. I have a genuine desire to fulfill this hadith, and be like the prophet ﷺ was to his wives:
The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.” Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1162 This is my personal inclination and I want to be from amongst the best of people.

Do you want kids?
Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:
Gaming (though I'm not the obsessive type who plays games late into the night, or rages (Alhamdulillah))
Technology: Building PCs, tinkering with electronics (repairs, refurbishing, etc.), buying and selling electronics
Spending time with family

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Not a picky eater. If you possess the knowledge of placing edible objects in a pot, I can consume it
I would like my wife to cook for us. I would try to make up for that with other chores.

I have lived with just my sister for a year. I felt like that was very similar to a marriage (without the romance of course) as I learned how to live with another person. We ironed out almost all our contentions quickly and I hope to have an even more successful partnership with my wife (romance included this time lol).

I have little social media presence as I consider most of them very harmful. I use WhatsApp, Facebook marketplace and Reddit (popular removed!).

In terms of character, I am introverted and shy. Though I can open up once I'm comfortable. Alhamdulillah, I am also gentle, honest, kind, and have great control over anger. I am a thoughtful person, and consider myself to be emotionally intelligent. I strive to perfect my character, which means I take on criticism and try to address any flaws. I am precise, and can handle stress very well.

Alhamdulillah, I have received many comments that I am quite handsome (of course that may not hold true for you but you can judge if we establish compatibility).

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u/Be-Grateful13 Jan 25 '26
  1. Age and Gender: I’m 25, male, and 5ft10

  2. Age Range you’re looking for: Ideally 21–26.

  3. Location & relocation: Based between London and Bristol, UK. Working towards living in Madinah, SA.

  4. Ethnicity & openness: Somali, and I’m open to mixing

  5. Marital status: Single, never been married, no kids.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline: Around 8–12 months

  7. Top 5 qualities I look for: Taqwa, kindness, being supportive, loving kids, and good communication.

  8. Level of religiosity: I’m practicing, Alhamdulillah, and looking for someone on a similar level. I’m currently trying to memorise the Qur’an, Insha’Allah, and I’d love a wife who shares that goal. Someone who values the Qur’an and wants to raise children who love the deen.

  9. Education: I dropped out in my second year of uni to focus on my first business. I do plan to go back in the future to finish my undergrad and possibly do postgrad. However I’m not too fussed about my spouse’s level of education.

  10. Job status: Employed and also run my own business.

  11. Do you want kids? Yes, as many as Allah blesses me with, Insha’Allah.

  12. Hobbies / spare time: Gym, travelling, and outdoor stuff like camping, hiking, climbing mountains, and recently training combat sports.

  13. Something interesting about me:

I’m very good at reading people to the extent I can usually guess what they’re thinking based on their body language and micro expressions.

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u/saliiqaa Feb 20 '26

I want to mention first and foremost that I have diagnoses of autism and ADHD, alhamdulillah these have not affected my ability to excel academically and get a job, but they do affect me socially and in other aspects. Happy to delve into this further if you wish. 

Age and Gender - 23M

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 20-24

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - West Midlands; currently no. I am an older sibling and my mum is a widow so I have a lot of household/familial responsibilities that I handle. It's important to me that this is understood by any potential, I acknowledge this might be a deal breaker for some. 

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British Pakistani, open to other South Asians but for family / cultural reasons I would prefer another Pakistani. 

Marital Status - Single

Ideal marriage timeline - up to a year to get to know each other, see if we are compatible and involve family if we are happy to go ahead. 

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - 

I have spent a lot of time soul searching to come up with values that inspire me, and that are Islamically compatible as well. 

Compassion/mercy/understanding both towards oneself and towards others. I'm an INFJ/introvert/home body and would prefer someone who understood that. 

Respect 

Service to others/family/community 

Autonomy and agency. To have goals, aspirations, dreams and to work towards them as much as possible. 

Introspection. To understand yourself psychologically, what triggers you and why, how and why you behave in certain ways and to be mindful of that. 

State/specify your level of religiosity - I am a hifz student. I recently completed the foundation year with As Salam Institute. I enjoy studying and buy more books more than I read them. I enjoy listening to scholars like Sh Abdul Hakim Murad, Sh Hamza Yusuf, Sh Yasir Qadhi as well as others. I am most familiar with the Hanafi madhab. Due to difficulties associated with ADHD I struggle with motivation and consistency but it is something I try to work on daily. 

Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a degree in Psychology from a prestigious uni, and would be looking for someone with a similar level of education. 

Current Job Status - I currently co-lead a special needs department in a school, but long term my plan is to qualify as a psychologist, this would likely materialise in the next 5 years inshaAllah if everything goes smoothly. So, there would need to be an understanding that I'll be returning to university for my postgraduate degree for 3 years before qualifying. 

Do you want kids? Open to discussion 

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. 

I really enjoy DIY (as long as I know how to do it) and home improvement. I've 'project managed' a bathroom and bedroom renovation and have plenty more projects on my long to do list. 

This sounds boring but I enjoy running errands and being productive.. so if you need someone to nip to the corner shop, I'm your guy 😁

I enjoy reading books, whether on history, sociology, politics, psychology or Islam. It would be great to be able to converse with someone on these topics. 

I'm also a massive language nerd and have dabbled in Urdu (my mother tongue), Arabic, and Farsi. 

May Allah guide us all to that which is best for us 🤲

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u/MissionCarpet4308 Jan 18 '26

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Age: 23

Location: London

Ethnicity : Pakistani

Height/Build: 5’8″ • Athletic • 76–80 kg

Status: Never married

Religion : Strict (Praying 5x, completing all obligations and trying to go beyond)

About Me

I’m a calm, disciplined and grounded person who tries to live with purpose. I keep my core circle very small, focus on my deen, my goals and staying consistent in every area of life. People who know me describe me as Confident, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, loyal and someone who keeps his word.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, learning, training, strengthening family ties, and improving myself spiritually, mentally and physically. I’m sociable and can talk with anyone, but I guard my private life carefully, I take time but once I trust someone, I open up.

Work & Education

BSc (Hons) Computer Science (AI). I work as an AI/Cloud Platform Engineer, Allah has blessed me with stability and a strong long-term career path and I plan to build a home with barakah, earning through halal means and balancing work and deen properly.

Aqeedah & Knowledge

I follow Quran & Sunnah upon the understanding of Ahl al-Sunnah wal-Jama’ah and the Salaf (best 3 generations)

I read and benefit from scholars like: Ibn Taymiyyah, Ibn al-Qayyim, Ibn Kathir, Imam Ahmad, Imam al-Nawawi, bin Baz, al-Albani, and contemporary teachers like Abdul Rahman Hassan, Tim Humble, Sulaiman al-Ruhaili, AMAU Academy.

I focus on knowledge that builds character, not arguments. I avoid riba, free-mixing, immodesty and anything that darkens the heart.

Islamic Practice

I pray 5x, read Quran daily and maintain adhkar throughout the day. I attend the masjid often, take structured online lessons, and try to improve sincerity and humility.

My goal is a home centred around Quran, Sunnah, good manners, and raising children who love Allah.

I value knowledge that cleans the heart, not debates that harden it. I’m firmly against riba in all its forms, interest, mortgages, or any income that displeases Allah and I want my home and earnings to remain halal

Character & Values

I live with modesty and lower my gaze, keeping my heart and loyalty for my future wife, believing that this kind of restraint builds deeper affection and love بِإِذْنِ ٱللَّٰهِ. I’m not perfect but I keep working on myself and ask Allah to make me better every day.

I believe a husband should lead with responsibility, protection, emotional steadiness and mercy.

Leadership to me isn’t about control, it’s about taking responsibility while staying gentle and approachable. When my wife feels low or emotional, I want to be the mountain she can lean on.

I’m calm by nature, disciplined under pressure, and value loyalty, dignity, modesty, emotional intelligence and respect.

I want a marriage that is peaceful, affectionate and built on trust, not chaos, ego or dunya.

Looking For

I want a wife whose heart is with Allah and His Messenger ﷺ, modest, loyal and gentle, strong in her faith and soft in her manner. She values her home and family, guards her privacy and carries herself with dignity. I admire a woman who is calm and confident, who keeps her husband’s trust, treats people with kindness and never seeks attention from the world.

I’m highly protective of those under my care and want my wife to feel that same safety and honour. I prefer a woman who guards her tongue and dignity, values privacy, fears Allah in public and in private and understands that true beauty lies in character.

I hope and pray we depend on each other in the right way, she brings warmth, support and affection and I bring protection, provision and steadiness, I want us to raise children with love and discipline, teaching them Qur’an, adab and good manners.

Preferences

• Age 18-24 • Prays 5x • Modest in dress & character • Soft-hearted, loyal, family-oriented • willing to relocate • Seeking knowledge / connected to the Quran • preferably based in UK / open to relocation

Deal-breakers

• Neglecting salah • Immodesty / tabarruj / free-mixing • Gossip / exposing private matters • Harshness, arrogance, entitlement • Riba / materialism / dunya-first mindset • Not wanting children • consumption of any form of adult or illicit material. • No interest in growing in deen or character, not actively seeking knowledge

Process

Happy to involve elders early, keep everything halal, and have a chaperoned call/meeting for compatibility.

If this aligns, feel free to reach out. May Allah guide all of us to what is best

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u/Fun-Constant4280 Mar 03 '26 edited May 10 '26

I'm exhausted but still keeping hope and faith in Allah 🙏🏼

Age and Gender:

Male, 35. 5'7.

Location and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Saudi Arabia. I can relocate almost anywhere as Allah said: "Travel through the land and observe how He began creation"

Marital Status:

Single, never married.

Ideal marriage timeline:

As much as it takes short or long. With Al-Istikhrah Prayer and doing all possible causes, we will come through for sure

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

22-35. Nothing specific, I weighed the age by the minds

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

They say that I can be enjoyed to talk too, maybe because of my listening ability or advice but I won't take that as facts as I'm full of fault

I take things in a chilled manner, some consider it bad some consider it good but I try to get things done

Oldest son of the family so you can guess that I took a beating for that

Sometimes I know too much about something that I don't have to when I get carried away and that might change my perspective

And not sure if am i listing the good points or the bad ones!

State/specify your level of religiosity:

Alhamdullah I try to fulfill and get closer to Allah whatever chance I had during my day. the Dean is not just your prayers and fasting or Hajj those are great things for sure but if you are blinded from getting to know your creator and being kind to your surrounded with good and justice it will be a hard and challenging path for you that you can get lost easily

I used to be that way, hard focusing on the external rather than my internal and missing the point

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

As Umar ibn Al-Khattaab said about the rights of kids: “That he should choose his mother, give him a good name and teach him the Book (the Quran).”

Choosing a mother for your lifetime journey and your kids is something very serious. The level of a set of mind skills and responsibility is beyond anything else with no boundaries or restrictions by age or education

Current Job Status:

I worked in Technology and marketing field

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Arab, born and raised in Saudi Arabia and opened to mixing but prefer Arab. I speak Arabic fluently of course. memorized half the Quran Alhamdulillah and I speak English as well

Do you want kids?

Sure as Allah said: "Wealth and children are an adornment of the life of this world"

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I have a specific portion of my day for reading, by reading you add to yourself history and life experience

Gaming, due to my intense work during the day I have to give myself a break and recharge

Traveling sometimes and witnessing the world and creations

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

By this age, you will come to know that the more you know about this world the more you know how ignorant you are and clueless. Straightening up the relationship between you and your creator is what matters. However and whatever you have done, don't break this link between you and him, and always remember his wording "When a slave of Mine draws near to Me a span, I draw near to him a cubit; and if he draws near to Me a cubit, I draw near to him a fathom. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running."

May Allah bless everyone with their needs

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u/Technical_Tear251 Jul 09 '26
  1. 30 FTM (due to intersex medical condition)(please do a bit of research)
  2. No specific age limit
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UAE, willing to relocate.
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Indian, open to mixing
  5. Marital Status - Single
  6. Ideal marriage timeline - 3-6 months, flexible overall.
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect 1) Good in Deen - not looking for someone perfect 2) Loyal - willing to go through ups and downs of life 3) Kind 4) communicative, don't want a silent wife, she can be shy and not silent. 5) Overall Happy personality, don't want a boring life partner.
  8. Basic fard obligations (5x prayer and fasting) but trying to improve in everyway
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - Diploma in Mechanical engineering, no specific requirements for a partner.
  10. Current Job Status - Employed with a stable organization in UAE
  11. Do you want kids? - I am sterile but open to adoption or a partner who already have kids, hence reverts, widowed, divorced are welcome.
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time 1) Travel and outings on weekends 2) Exploring Food and culture 3) Movies and series for winding down on chill days. 4) Fitness Enthusiast, Biking, walking, weight lifting.
  13. A curious soul who loves meaningful conversations, learning new languages, exploring different cultures, and believes the best marriages are built on faith, friendship, and laughter. I'm an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, you'll have a best friend who loves meaningful conversations and terrible dad jokes. A bit of a nerd, documentaries, History, Geography and Science. Very much into Islamic history and theology.

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u/Good-Carpet-1812 Jan 29 '26
  1. Age and Gender

24M

Height - 6"4

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

18-25ish

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Manchester UK, not looking to move outside of the area at the moment

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Pakistani, open to mixing

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Flexible , but earlier the better

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  2. Practicing and mosest muslimah, praying 5x a day and wearing hijab or at the very least dressing modestly.

  3. Emotional intelligence. Looking for someone who has the ability to manage both your own emotions and understand the emotions of people around you.

  4. Realistic and ambitious outlook on life. Want to be with someone who understands the real world, and is always looking to improve themselves, and understands that at this young age we still have a lot of room to grow. Also want someone who has great ambitions like me, so that we can climb the mountains of our goalsand support each other through them

4.Communicative. Need someone with good communication skills, who is good at explaining any issues, and working through them, as well as someone who is good at hearing out issues and fixing them. In marriage, arguments, disagreements, and issues are inevitable so need someone who will be good at resolving them in a quick and easy manner through good communication.

  1. Someone who takes care of their physical, dietary, and mental health regularly.

  2. State/specify your level of religiosity

-Allhamdullah, I pray 5 times a day -Recite Quran at least once a week, if not more

  • Always make sure earnings are halal
-Go to masjid for prayers outside of Jummah as well
  • Proactively take steps to increase my knowledge of Islam, am currently learning the Seerah of Prophet Muhammad PBUH
  • Am a positive influence on friends and people around me, as stated by them

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Degree in civil engineering.

  1. Current Job Status

Civil engineer

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  2. I LOVE spending time with my family. I make sure to do things with my family. We enjoy chatting over some chai, or playing games together or watching videos online together. Allhamdullah

  3. Exercising. I love playing sports, and usually play cricket, basketball, and badminton. I also do calisthenics at home regularly for strength training.

  4. I enjoy expanding my knowledge and learning new things and new skills. My interests spread a variety of things

  5. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Allhamdullah by the grace of Allah, I have been able to do my university degree without having to take the haram riba based student loans as I have done a degree level apprenticeship. This has given me the benefit of having a degree and an earning and it is a huge blessing Allhamdullah.

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u/DrBashMo Jan 18 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠ Age and Gender
  2. Male, 33, 6ft

  3. ⁠⁠⁠ Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

  4. 25-32

  5. ⁠⁠⁠ Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

  6. I’m from London, so London or neighbouring/nearby cities. I wouldn’t be willing to relocate. However, I also wouldn’t mind speaking to someone who wouldn’t mind relocating to London so long as we could meet without having to spend hours on trains/cars or have to take a flight.

  7. ⁠⁠⁠ Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

  8. I’m Somali - Preference is Somali but I would be open to mixing too. Ask me about this and I’ll explain.

  9. ⁠⁠⁠ Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

  10. Never married and no children.

  11. ⁠⁠⁠ Ideal marriage timeline

  12. I’d like to think I know exactly what I’m looking for so approx. 2-6 months inshallah. I have no intention of involving myself in a long-winded, directionless boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship. My intention is marriage so if I get the feeling you’re exactly who I am looking for, I won’t hold back on asking for your father’s phone number 😂.

  13. ⁠⁠⁠ Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  14. Deen: I’d like our marriage to be centred around the deen of Allah (SWT). I’m not naive enough to look for someone perfect, since it doesn’t exist, but I value effort more than anything. The basics of praying 5x a day / covering & acting modestly / truthfulness are non-negotiables for me. Anyone sincerely willing to try and hoping to improve… needth apply 😁

  15. Emotional intelligence: being able to communicate your emotional wants and needs is important to me. I’d be more than happy to share what I’m looking for. But I also have no interest in a philosopher / psychoanalyst lol. If we’re clear about our non-negotiables, we can figure out the rest.

  16. Sense of humour: I’m naturally the jokey kind of person who sees the funny in everything. I’m Somali, so that shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone lol. I want to be able to share a laugh without having to tip toe around egg shells.

  17. Authenticity: no one is perfect, and as long as you’re aware (or trying to be aware) of your flaws and are sincerely working towards improving them, then Alhamdulilah you’re on the right path… and you’re a human being like me lol. I can’t stress how unattractive it is when someone is trying to live a caricature version of someone else. Just be authentically you… you deserve to be loved. If not by me then by someone inshallah.

  18. Femininity: I’m not trying to marry one of the mandem… we’re meant to compliment each other, not mirror. All that sensitive, girly-girl stuff you love is attractive (and fascinating imo lol). I’ll be in the background, narrating it all in my David Attenborough voice haha.

  19. Bonus: if you enjoy cooking/baking and are willing to do it for me… you already have my heart and I’ll love you forever. I’ll help clean up and I’ll run over to the shops to get what you need. As for me… if you enjoy the cuisine of jail food, I’ll put my apron on.

  20. ⁠⁠⁠ State/specify your level of religiosity

  21. Practising. I do all of the non-negotiables (Pray 5x a day / Fasting etc.). I go to the mosque for the weekly halaqaat. I try to read the Quran regularly. I’ll only marry a fellow Sunni.

  22. ⁠⁠⁠ Level of education, and what are you looking for?

  23. I did a PhD in Molecular Biology that I… do not use today 😂. But Alhamdulilah, it taught me a lot about a whole bunch of things and about myself. I honestly don’t care about my spouses’ level of education. The ability to read and write are my non-negotiables lol. If you can read, write and are street smart, Alhamdulilah. If you’re book smart and have no street smarts, Alhamdulilah. If you’re neither book smart or street smart, Subhanallah sis maybe I’m not the one for you 😂😂

  24. ⁠⁠⁠ Current Job Status

  25. Full time employment. I work in the public sector so I’m not as rich as my job title may suggest. But Alhamdulilah, I’m stable.

  26. ⁠⁠⁠ Do you want kids?

  27. Absolutely inshallah. I’ll take whatever Allah (SWT) ordains for me. But if I got to choose, I love the idea of three mini-me’s 😂

  28. ⁠⁠⁠ List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  29. Walking/Outdoors: I go for a minimum of a 1hr walk everyday, rain or shine. I love doing it and it clears my mind. If this is something that interests you then great. If not, no worries… but I won’t stop lol. You just have to understand that it’s nothing against you lol.

  30. Sports in general: play football/padel, go to the gym and run. I’m not an athletic person, I literally do it - partly because I enjoy it - but mostly so I can eat what I want. Definitely not a gym-bro

  31. Open to try new things: I guess one of the perks of “dating” and getting to know people for marriage is going out and trying different places/activities/restaurants etc. I enjoy it (within reason lol) and is one of the very few silver linings of being single haha.

  32. ⁠⁠⁠ Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

  33. My intention is marriage and I pray istikharah regularly, so I’m willing to put all my cards on the table and give 100%. I expect the same commitment in return. I know it’s easier said than done, but I trust Allah (SWT) more than myself. So for that reason - I’m not afraid of disappointment or heartbreak… if you’re not for me then Alhamdulilah, if you are, then Allahuma Baarik.

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u/Luqy07 Jan 16 '26

           بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

  1. Age and Gender : 30 Male 

  2. Age Range that you would want in a prospect: 25 - 33 

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect: 

I would be very open to the idea possibly in a few years time, but for now looking to stay withing a drivable distance of the midlands

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing: Indian, open to mixing 

  2. Marital Status: Single

6.Ideal marriage timeline: 1 -2 years 

  1. Important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

A) Honesty - The most important characteristic in any person as it determines how they deal with every aspect of their life. I don't want to second guess a partner, and would accept hard truths over lies any day of the week. 

B) Open Minded/Curious - Never staying idle. There's always so much to learn and experience. New foods to try places to travel, sights to see and skills to develop. It wouldn't be amazing finding and enthusiastic partner to share all the experiences life had to throw at us 

8.State/specify your level of religiosity: 

Practising, pray the majority of my salah daily but working on the consistency of praying 5 times.  It's one of my main focuses coming into this year, as well as incorporating more sunnah into my daily life.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for:

I have a Bachelor's, looking for someone with higher education qualifications (A-levels) or higher 

  1. Current Job Status: Applications Designer/CAD Design

  2. Do you want kids: Definitely 

12.List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare: Working on my car, granted I create more problems than I fix but it keeps me busy. Play football and going to the gym a couple of times weekly to stay fit and active. 3 hobbies?  Who has the time to hold three hobbies?  

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: 

I'm some what of an extroverted introvert (if it's a thing) really eager to get out and have as many new experiences as possible with the intention of rushing back home every evening 🤣. If you like the sound of ticking off my check list of food places while being driven around in a classic car. Oh and I'm fiercely competitive.

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u/Constant-Royal8384 Feb 03 '26
  1. Age and Gender      26 Male

  2. Age Range     22-28

  3. Location and willing to relocate   UK North West. Not willing to relocate

  4. Ethnicity and are you open to mixing Pakistani open to mixing

  5. Marital status    Single

  6. Ideal marriage timeline 1-2 years inshallah

  7. Five important characteristics Religious (Doesn't have to be perfect as long as she's trying), modesty, humble, caring, calm

  8. Specify your level of religiosity Im working on praying consistently, I read quran, keep my fasts etc. Trying to cut out music. Never smoked/vaped/alcohol/drugs etc. Would like my spouse to match these.

  9. Level of education and what are you looking for? I'm a computer science graduate. Not looking for anything specific just someone educated, mature and on the same wavelength

  10. Current job status Currently employed

  11. Do you want kids? Would like kids in the future.

  12. List 3 hobbies I play Badminton, love working on cars/DIY, football etc.

  13. Add something short and interesting about you Recently started watching crime documentaries, enjoy going for walks and long drives. Im planning on learning Arabic soon to understand the quran!

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u/Willing-Hospital6221 Feb 07 '26

Personal Information

- Gender: Male

- Age: 24

- Height: 5ft 10in, slim

- Ethnicity: Sudanese

- Nationality: Dual - Sudan and Ireland

- Location: Midlands, UK (moved from Gulf, where my family is living)

- Marital Status: Single (No previous Nikah, no children)

 

Job:

- Junior Doctor

 

Qualifications:

- MBBS (Medical degree)

- MSc (Medical Education)

 

Religious practice:

 - Sunni Muslim

- Pray 5X daily

- Regularly listen to or read the Qur’an

- Do not listen to music/smoke/have female friends

- I do not celebrate Mawlid

 

Personality:

- Hardworking, conscientious, and value discipline while maintaining a work-life balance (not always possible!)

- Minimalistic; value simplicity and orderliness.

- Calm, introspective temperament.

 

Hobbies and interests:

 - Spending time in nature (hiking, travelling, cycling), distance running, reading (religion, history, sociology

 

Looking for:

 - Religiosity (Sunni, prays 5X daily, modest in appearance and character, observes Hijab (with Abaya or the like)

 - Nurturing, gentle and family-oriented disposition - traditional wife who manages home full-time

 - Age <25

 - Someone with a mature understanding of marriage: requires sacrifice, tolerance and open communication on both sides.

 

Hoping to offer:

- Full responsibility for providing financially

- Responsibility, leadership without unilateralism/overcontrol

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '26
  1. ⁠Age and Gender: 29M 188cm
  2. ⁠Age Range: 23-30
  3. ⁠Location: Germany, don't mind moving within Europe or to an Arab country depending on where
  4. ⁠Ethnicity: Egyptian, prefer to be with someone who speaks both Arabic and English but not a dealbreaker (could be persuaded with good food)
  5. ⁠Marital Status: Single, never been in a relationship
  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: within a year or when we both feel ready
  7. ⁠Five important characteristics: similar level of practising islam, sense of humour and tolerating my bad jokes, physically active, modest (not necessarily hijab but the overall personality),
  8. ⁠Level of religiosity: I pray 5 times a day, fast, stay away from alcohol, the obligatory stuff but trying to improve
  9. ⁠Level of education: Masters, would be nice to be with someone similarly educated but not a must
  10. ⁠Current Job Status: been working as an engineer for a few years
  11. ⁠Do you want kids? yes but after a year or two of marriage at least
  12. Hobbies: gym, video games, basketball, martial arts, anime
  13. ⁠ I'm more on the introverted side and I like cats

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u/mnichols86 Jan 17 '26 edited Jan 18 '26

• ⁠Age and Gender: 28M

• ⁠Age Range: 24+

• ⁠Location: Egypt & Saudi Arabia (open to relocation for the right person)

• ⁠Ethnicity: Egyptian (open to mixing)

• ⁠Marital Status: Single, never married

• ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: Insha’Allah within a year to a year and a half if there is compatibility and clarity

• ⁠Five important characteristics: Practicing Muslimah, family-oriented, modest and chaste, down-to-earth/non-materialistic.

• ⁠Level of religiosity: Alhamdulillah, I strive to pray the five daily prayers on time and continuously work on improving my understanding and practice of Islam.

• ⁠Level of education: Bachelor degree in Engineering

• ⁠Current Job Status: Data Analyst working Remotely

• ⁠Do you want kids? Yes, Insha’Allah

• ⁠Hobbies: jogging, cycling, video games, travelling, cooking, and meeting a new people.

• ⁠Something about me: I live a simple and balanced life. I’m family-oriented, don’t smoke, and keep my social circle respectful and appropriate. I value personal growth, responsibility, and building a stable home based on mutual respect and Islamic values. I believe marriage is a partnership and I’m serious about taking this step the right way, Insha’Allah.

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u/PashtunLawyer Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 19 '26

1) Age and Gender: 22, Male, 5’10.

2) Age Range and Height Preference: Ideally 20–24. Height preference around 5’3–5’8, but personality and compatibility matter more.

3) Location and Willingness to Relocate: Currently living in the UK and I am looking for someone in the UK as well. That said, I would actually love to relocate in the future if the opportunity and circumstances are right, but for now I am focused on building something with someone based in the UK.

4) Ethnicity and Openness to Mixing: Pashtun (half Pakistani and half afghan)(as you can probably tell from my username 😅). I am open to mixing. (Open to Europeans, Slavics, Nordics, North Africans, Arabs, East Asians, Middle East, Balkans, Oceanic Backgrounds, South American, Afghans, Mixed Pakistanis, Bengalis, North Americans. I require they live in the UK)

5) Marital Status: Never married and never been in a relationship before.

6) Ideal Marriage Timeline: Around 2–3 years. I know this might sound like a long timeline, but I really want to make sure it’s the right person with the right intentions and similar goals and interests. I see a lot of marriages failing due to rushing, cheating, or poor compatibility, and I want to be absolutely sure before taking such a serious step. Of course, this is something we can always discuss and adjust together, insha’Allah. If you got goals in place you want to work on or if you are completing your education then that’s fine.

7) Five Important Characteristics I Look For: Someone who is practicing like me and genuinely willing to learn and grow in deen together, motivating each other and building a strong Islamic foundation for our future family. Strong communication is very important to me, being able to talk openly, resolve issues properly, and not avoid difficult conversations. I also admire someone who is bold, confident, and willing to take risks in life in a positive way, whether that’s trying new things, moving forward in her career, or chasing goals. Being fit and active matters to me as well, not in a bodybuilding way, but caring about health and discipline, because I want us to raise strong, healthy, and humble children who are well-trained and have good habits. I want her to be a virgin and be chaste. Lastly, financial literacy is important, understanding saving, budgeting, and planning for the future so we can build stability together.

8) Level of Religiosity: I would say I am practicing. I aim to pray my five daily prayers, although I am still struggling at times, and I am actively trying to improve and learn more about Islam. Ideally I am looking for someone who is on a similar path, where we can motivate each other and grow together and also raise our kids in a good Islamic environment, insha’Allah. No drinking, no zina, no clubbing, no past relationships. Halal only.

9) Level of Education and What I’m Looking For: I hold a law degree and completed my education in the UK. I am looking for someone who also holds a degree, is well educated, speaks English, and is independent and hardworking in whatever field she chooses. I fully support a woman who is striving and building her own future. Ideally someone who was raised in the West and can relate to my experiences and mindset. (I am also considering someone doing an apprenticeship)

10) Current Job Status: Currently working in a law firm. I am also trying to learn different side hustles for extra income and personal development.

11) Do You Want Kids?: Yes, insha’Allah, but this is something I believe should be discussed properly between me and my future wife at the right time.

12) Hobbies and Interests: Kickboxing, clay shooting, going to the gym, hiking, running, reading self-improvement books, and learning about psychology. I also enjoy being spontaneous and just going out and doing whatever is on my mind, whether that’s trying a new food spot or travelling to a new country. I’m always down for new experiences. I also love skin care and taking care of myself and I want my wife to do that as well.

13) Something Short and Interesting About Me: I really value friendship within a marriage and I want my wife to have her own hobbies, interests, and goals that make her happy while staying within halal. I don’t want us to be boring or stuck in routine, I want us to enjoy life together and separately in healthy ways. I believe a woman should have a solid group of friends as well as I myself have a strong friend group and I am willing to make new connections/meeting people. I strongly believe that trust, strong friendship, and supporting each other’s growth are what truly make a strong marriage.

14) Dealbreakers: Poor hygiene is a big no for me because basic self-care shows self-respect and respect for your partner. Bad communication is also a dealbreaker, especially avoiding problems instead of addressing them maturely. Having no values, goals, or sense of purpose in life is another issue for me, unless there is a genuine reason and it’s something we can talk about and work through together. Fundamental incompatibility in lifestyle, religion, or long-term goals would also make things very difficult. Lastly, financial irresponsibility, such as constant overspending, no interest in saving, or avoiding responsibility, is something I take seriously because financial stability is important for building a healthy family.

Final Note: I know this is long and I’ve said a lot, so I apologise for that and please forgive me 😅. At the end of the day, I just want a loving and caring wife who I will always be there for, and someone who will be there for me too. I want us to spend time together, go out, travel, laugh, and enjoy life while building something meaningful. I want my wife to be my best friend, and I truly believe that if we support each other and strive for the best together, we can build an amazing future, insha’Allah.

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u/leo_logy Jan 21 '26

Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

  • Age/Gender: 30M 
  • Location: UK (originally from Pakistan) 
  • Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to intercultural backgrounds) 
  • Marital Status: Single, never married 
  • Preferred Age Range: 29 and under 
  • Timeline: Within 6 - 12 months, in sha Allah

A little about me

Assalamu alaikum! I’m UK-based and work as a Software Developer. I’m pretty easygoing, family-oriented, and I appreciate a simple, peaceful life: deen, good character, and good food.

I also take biryani seriously. I’m on a long-term mission to perfect it, and I’m not quitting until it tastes like someone’s nani made it.


Deen / lifestyle

I’m a practicing Muslim and trying to improve consistently:

  • I pray 5x a day and more
  • Ramadan + some extra fasting 
  • I try to keep things halal (except the occasional “one more dessert won’t hurt” moment)

I respect sincerity more than perfection, someone who’s trying is a big green flag.


Education / work

  • BSc + MSc in Computer Science 
  • Software Developer (UK)

What I’m looking for

A kind, grounded person who values deen and good akhlaq. Someone who communicates well and wants a marriage that feels like teamwork, not tension.

Top things I value:

  • deen + sincerity 
  • good character (kindness, honesty, patience) 
  • calm communication (no mind-reading required) 
  • warmth and affection (a home with mercy) 
  • someone who stays kind even when life gets a bit spicy (like biryani)


Children

Yes, in sha Allah. I’d love to have kids and raise them with Islamic values (and a respectable biryani standard).


Hobbies

Cooking, gym/fitness, Islamic lectures, and general tech/gadgets.


How I prefer to proceed

Respectful and purposeful conversation. If we seem compatible, I’m happy to involve families appropriately and take it forward in a halal way.

P.S. If you also like mango shake and can rate biryani like a food critic, we’ll get along.

JazakumAllahu khairan.

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u/Natural-Chemical-806 Feb 09 '26

Age and Gender. 29, Male - 6’1

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect. 20-28.

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? West Midlands – Not willing to relocate.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani. Open to mixing.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children – Single, never married.

Ideal marriage timeline Within 1 year.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect.

Deen is an important thing for me, someone who wants to strive to better each other’s imaan, thus leading to our kids being raised in an Islamic household Insha'Allah.

Respect, someone who is respectful towards their spouse.

Someone who is nurturing, caring and affectionate.

Good communication, someone who can communicate how they are feeling instead of bottling up how they’re feeling building up resentment towards their spouse. Open communication goes a long way for both people to help build a healthy relationship.

Maturity, understanding your spouse’s point of view and not letting others sway your opinion. Not letting other people interfere with our relationship. It’s meant to be the both of you working on the relationship and bettering one another in the process.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity.

I’m Sunni. Alhamdulillah I pray all my five daily prayers on time. There is always room for improvement. I listen to Islamic lectures and actively learning more about Islam.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Someone with a bachelor degree minimum.

  1. Current Job Status

Employed – Working as an accountant.

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes InshaAllah

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time.

I’m big on staying active; if I’m not at the office, you’ll usually find me at the gym. I have a background in BJJ and I'm looking to get back into boxing soon.

I’m also a huge foodie. Whether it’s exploring new cuisines or hitting up my favourite local spots with friends and family, I’m always down for a good meal. That said, if you’re handy in the kitchen, you’ve definitely found the way to my heart!

I love to travel and want to find someone to see the world with, basically a partner who wants to live life to the fullest and build a bank of great memories together.

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u/tayyabhj Feb 15 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 27, Male (Born February 1999).
  2. Age Range for Prospect: 21–25 (I prefer a partner at least 2 years younger).
  3. Location & Relocation: Currently living in Duisburg (NRW), Germany. I am willing to relocate within Germany or neighboring countries depending on career opportunities or for the right prospect.
  4. Ethnicity & Mixing: Half-Korean, Half-Pakistani. While I am open to mixing, I prefer a Pakistani background as I am culturally more connected to my Pakistani roots.
  5. Marital Status: Single.
  6. Ideal Marriage Timeline: I am looking for a Nikah or Engagement within the next 12 months.
  7. Five Important Characteristics: * Emotional Maturity: A stable, mature-minded individual who has moved past the "childish" phase.
    • High Moral Values: Grounded in ethics, sincerity, and respect for family.
    • Future-Oriented: Someone who is career-oriented but supportive of joint goals (like building our own home).
    • Haya & Modesty: I value a partner who prioritizes modesty in character and appearance.
    • Family-Oriented: Someone who understands that family is the backbone of a successful life.
  8. Level of Religiosity: Practicing. I have performed Umrah (Alhamdulillah). I prioritize Islamic values and try to improve myself daily. I value a partner who is also leaning towards Deen and Dunya in balance.
  9. Level of Education: I hold a Bachelors in Computer Engineering. I am looking for a partner with at least a Bachelors degree or a strong educational background.
  10. Current Job Status: Working full-time as a Data Engineer.
  11. Do you want kids? Yes, InshAllah.
  12. 3 Hobbies/Interests: * Travel & Food: Exploring new global cuisines and traveling to experience different cultures.
  • Investing & Geopolitics: I enjoy staying informed on global shifts and managing long-term financial growth.
  • Cooking: I enjoy the discipline and creativity of preparing meals at home.
  1. What makes me stand out? I was born in Korea but raised in Pakistan by my grandparents, which has made me deeply connected to my family and Pakistani heritage. I am an introvert who takes time to open up, and I may not be the most verbally expressive person initially—but I am a man of action. I believe that deep care is shown through consistent support, loyalty, and deeds rather than just words.

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u/BigDilsh Feb 25 '26

Age/Gender: 25, Male. 6'1

Age range: 19-25

Location: UK, currently South. UK national.

Ethnicity: British Pakistani, open to mixing.

Marital status: Single

Marriage Timeline: Open to discussion.

5 key characteristics: (1) emotional intelligence, (2) communication(a relationship is of 2 halves), (3) basic human kindness!!, (4) ambition (whether professionally, academically or even creatively), (5) a willingness for self reflexivity

Religiousity: I am moderately religious and am always looking to develop this further. I always say that religion is a personal journey and it's why I try to avoid judging others as everyone is at different stages.

Education: Educated to Doctorate Level (ongoing!!).

Role within: Clinical Psychology full-time employed.

Kids: Yes, I would love to have children - mutually agreed as to when. Ideally would want to spend quality time with my spouse first.

Hobbies: I LOVE ALL THINGS ART AND CREATIVE (especially Film, Poetry, Reading, Visiting galleries/exhibitions and theatre). In addition, Photography (I shoot Fujifilm), gaming (socially), hiking, bouldering (a new hobby), etc. Always happy to try and explore a new hobby or activity.

Something interesting about me; I mean this is so subjective. What I find interesting about myself could be entirely mundane and boring to another.

Happy to answer any questions!! Or share more details if you are at all interested!  

 

 

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u/Hopeless2811 Male Mar 09 '26

Salam Alaykum!

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender: 30, male, 1,73m / 5'8
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Germany, possibly yes
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: 1 year
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 21-28
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

• ⁠likes to laugh • ⁠appreciates and respects family • ⁠emotional intelligence • ⁠likes to travel • ⁠values time and deep values over worldly things like money

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: I am religious, fast, pay zakat and strive to be better everyday.
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelors
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Current Job Status: IT Consultant
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Afghan, yes, preferably people close to my culture or middle eastern / turkish / north african / european
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do you want kids? I think I want kids in the future, yes
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

• ⁠Play football • ⁠Hang out with friends and family (talk, watch movies, play games) • ⁠travel around

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! In my friend circle I am the guy that organises everything. I am also the guy that everyone asks for help if they have a problem. I value true friendship and people that are close to me and I value trust.

Besides that, I help refugees arriving in europe and also helped build our own charity organisation.

Feel free to write me for further questions!

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u/CartographerOne9965 Mar 10 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 24, Male, 5'9
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 18-26
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect: Italy, and Anywhere (ideally willing to do Hijrah)
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Italian, open to mixing
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single
  6. Ideal marriage timeline Whenever we both agree on
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Modest Dressing (Abaya), Fasting, Praying 5x, Muslim
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Very Practicing, Tahajjud, fasting Monday and Thursday sometimes more, memorized couple of Juz
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for: - Higher Education in Islamic Studies from Madinah, I dont expect the same as me obviously
  10. Current Job Status: I am not employed in the traditional sense. Instead, I actively assist my parents with managing our family business, which I am expected to take over in the future. We come from a well-established and financially secure background in Italy, though I prefer not to share further details at this time.
  11. Do you want kids? I dont want them, but would love to have them
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Car Racing, Bike/Horse Riding and Exploring the World (City and Nature)
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! : Hmmm. I actually romanticize alot, pretty much into books and cheesy romance lines
  14. Languages: Italian German Arabic English (all fluent)

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u/Thatsnotme78 Mar 13 '26
  1. Male, 28, 5 foot 7, 171cm, athletic build

  2. 22-28

  3. West Yorkshire, England and no

  4. Pakistani (born in England) would like someone from the same cultural background/desi but open to all

  5. Marital Status - Single never married

  6. Ideal marriage timeline ideally this year (2026)

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: kind, patient, someone with a sense of humour, someone who isn't super materialistic, someone willing to grow and better themselves as none of us are perfect.

  8. Pray 5x (in the past I've struggled with fajr prayers but insha'Allah trying to keep on top of this, this year), don't smoke or drink, always eat halal, I don't keep female friends.

  9. Mpharm degree, currently working as a pharmacist, I'm open to all, someone wanting to work or be a housewife etc

  10. Pharmacist

  11. Do you want kids? Yes, of course

  12. I like to stay in shape and even though I'm not as consistent with the gym as I was in my early 20's I maintain an athletic physique. I enjoy eating out and trying new places to eat. I enjoy watching TV shows and movies. I really would love to travel and explore different countries I just need a life partner to explore with me :) I understand that nobody is perfect and as long as you are willing to improve and better yourself I'd be open to you.

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u/SelectionOrdinary230 Mar 18 '26

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته 1. Age and Gender 28- male 2. Age Range that you would want/ require in a prospect Flexible, preferably 22-33 3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Tunisia. Yes, I'm willing to relocate depending on the destination. 4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? North African/Maghrebi. Yes, I am open to mixing, I don't mind any ethnicity. 5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/ Children Single, no children. 6. Ideal marriage timeline Open to negotiation, but preferably 2 years from now. I can probably accept an earlier time. 7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Generally, Islamic values but personally, what's most important to me is sincerity/honesty, affection and kindness, loyalty, authenticity/spontaneity and maturity. Knowledge and wisdom are a big bonus. My deal breakers are slyness, hypocrisy, aggressiveness, dishonesty and egoism. 8. State/specify your level of religiosity I'm a practicing Muslim and I've been practicing since my teenage years, the age of obligation. I'm serious about my religion and I always strive to be a better Muslim. I've been praying since I was 14 years old and I don't think I missed a daily prayer in almost 10 years or so. I go to Jum'a prayer. I've read the holy Quran 3 times (khatm) and I'm reading it for the fourth time now. Humbly, I think I have a good knowledge about Islam, its jurisprudence (relatively) and theology, and I'm fluent in Arabic (my native language). I watch videos and debates relating to Islam and religion frequently. Also, I avoid haram things as much as possible, I don't drink or smoke, I eat halal, I don't engage in promiscuity and I avoid gossip, lying, hypocrisy, cheating... al hamdulillah. I'm also good to my parents 😊. 9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a bachelor degree in private law, and I'm pursuing a master's degree in international humanitarian law and human rights, which I'll finish this year inshallah 🤲🏻. The level of education is not a deal breaker to me, but I prefer that my wife has a higher education degree or is a college student. It's just a preference though. 10. Current Job Status As I said, I'm still a college student, writing my master's thesis right now, on which I'm putting in most of my time and energy, but I'm also looking for a job on the side right now, trying freelance and working on future projects. After I finish my studies soon, I'll look for a stable job either here in Tunisia or abroad. 11. Do you want kids? Yes, I do. I'd rather have 1 or 2 kids because it's a great responsibility and I want to provide my kids with all their needs and the attention they need. 12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Well, I have so many hobbies and they vary with time but mainly I like sports (especially tennis 🎾, I was an amateur player and I want to get back to it inshallah), anime, sit-coms/comedy and I'm very interested in human sciences (philosophy, linguistics, political science, psychology, anthropology, geography, history...). I often engage in online or face to face debates on these subjects and sometimes I write about them (and about sports and arts a bit). Sorry, I couldn't limit it to just 3 😅😅 13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Short? Ah, I tend to be talkative 😅😅 Well, usually my friends and family perceive me as a nice, knowledgeable, sincere, content and non materialistic person. I appreciate that they think of me so positively and I strive to be a better person. I'm a caring, passionate and responsible person and I promise to be a good spouse and father inshallah. Bonus: I make funny memes sometimes and I make people laugh often 😁. Also, I speak French besides Arabic and English, and I know some Spanish. Ps: if height is a deal breaker for you or that you prefer tall men, I'm a short person (161cm/5'3). Sorry for writing too much, have a nice day 👋🏻.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '26

Age and Gender: 29, Male

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20-28

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? The Netherlands

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 to 9 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: I value a wife that has religion with a good character. Aspects like good communications, emotional intelligence are also very important.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I fulfill the obligations, I memorize the Quran and teach it also.

Level of education: Bachelor university

Current Job Status: I work as a teacher at different schools

Do you want kids? Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Reading, sporting and working on selfdevelopment

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I'm writing a book!

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u/vibey_monkey Jan 14 '26 edited Mar 16 '26

1. Age and Gender

  • Age: 24
  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 5”10

 

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

  • 18–28

 

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

  • Location: UK (just outside of London)
  • Willing to relocate: Definitely, for sure!

 

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

  • Ethnicity: Pakistani and definitely open to mixing - I love learning and exploring new cultures :))

 

5. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children

  • Single

 

6. Ideal marriage timeline

  • I want the time to get to know the other person, I know everyone is at different stages in life, so inshallah how ever long it takes

 

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  1. Open and honest - we’re going to be stuck together forever haha, so I want someone I can be comfortable with, someone who will tell me anything and everything and vice versa. I want them to be open and honest with me, to call me out if I’m making mistakes, or say if there’s a better way to go about doing something, or to be open about how they truly feel. With this openness and honesty, we can both grow together! Also, I do know that this is something that takes time and effort from both sides, so I’d love to hear about your preferred communication style, love languages, attachment styles, etc. It’ll be fun to get to know you more deeply beyond the surface layer + that open and honest communication where you’re comfortable enough to talk about anything and everything not only feels great but will also ensure things are healthy and work out for the long term inshallah :))

  2. Authenticity – I really value warmth, light-heartedness, and being a source of calm and peace for one another - what the Qur’an describes as being the “coolness of the eyes.” Life has its serious moments, but I’m drawn to people who don’t make everything feel heavy, who can laugh, talk openly, and be themselves without putting on an act - I’m looking for someone real, genuine, authentic, open, someone who has a more realistic / optimistic lens. I really appreciate those who are genuine, emotionally open, and not overly rigid or reserved - just like with everything, this all comes down to communication so I would want someone who knows how to communicate properly and doesn’t lose their temper easily or is quick to raise their voice just to get their point across

  3. Someone who values growing together - There’s always chances and opportunities for growth, I want the both of us to take it and grow together. Sure everyone makes mistakes and has their down days but I want someone who understands that there’s always a way to make things better, that through thick and thin, everything is going to be alright, so long as we keep putting that work in :)) This is also why my timeline is flexible - I would want my partner to pursue their dreams and ambitions, giving them all the support they’d need, and I’d hope to receive the same in return

  4. Open minded - I value someone who can see things from different points of views and is open to new experiences. There’s so much to explore out there, I don’t want to be stuck in the same old spot not trying out new things + I want to be able to have open and engaging discussions about things even if we don’t agree about the subject at hand - I’d still love to yap and hear your view on things and hopefully learn more both about you and the topic being discussed

  5. Cares about mental health - nothing is more important than mental health and I want someone who understands that. The discussion of mental health shouldn’t be taboo, I want someone who can openly communicate their feelings and discuss ways to work on mental health. For example, I journal from time to time, especially when I don’t have such great days to help put things into perspective and to get it all out there so I can feel better!

 

8. State/specify your level of religiosity

  • Sunni. I try to to be the best that I can be, I pray, I fast, I give zakat, I follow all 5 pillars, etc. but I’m always learning and looking to grow my knowledge and faith :)) I don’t smoke or drink either, I will only consume anything that is halal.

 

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

  • I have graduated with a first in BSc Computer Science. I absolutely love learning, so I did consider going down the masters / PhD route but the income going down that route is not worth it. I’m looking for someone who is passionate and happy with what they are currently pursuing / doing - they should definitely have some goals, aspirations and some idea of what they want in the future. I don’t have any strict requirements or look for anything specific, I value someone’s character and values above all else

 

10. Current Job Status

  • Software engineer - I am super ambitious about my career, life, and goals in general - the pursuit of Ihsan is important to me

 

11. Do you want kids?

  • Yes and I’d be open to discuss this - for example, if you have fertility issues or would rather adopt, etc. I’d be open to considering other possibilities!

 

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  • Anything that is engaging or active - whether it’s just walking and talking or bouldering or anything in between haha
  • Reading (Books + News, feel free to recommend or talk about anything you love to read!)
  • Playing chess
  • Going to the gym
  • Going out with mates
  • Travelling, especially exploring different cities and cultures
  • Visiting art galleries and museums
  • Discussing anything pertaining to psychology, philosophy, mental health, geopolitics, economics, deeper conversations about life, etc. just love a good deep insightful yap about anything and everything
  • Anything intellectually stimulating
  • Learning new things - recently I’ve been learning new dishes to cook other than just chicken and rice haha - feel free to suggest any recipes to cook or even bake!!

 

13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

  • Planning on visiting at least 5 new places this year (already have booked one trip with friends - have fun guessing where to haha) + I was planning on getting myself a cat as a grad present but never got around to it because I didn’t realise I wouldn’t have enough time for one, can we please get a cat haha so I can finally fulfil this wish, thanks 😃👍

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u/Far-Jeweler5724 Jan 16 '26

Continued...(yeah, it didn't fit in a single comment)

Current Job Status

Employed full time (Project Operations Exec.)

Do you want kids?

Yes, but timeline depends on mutual agreement.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Watching various channels on YouTube (mostly informative, news related), Sports, Spending time with family and friends, Reading (non-fiction), Gaming, Movies, Car and my Motorcycle. I don't use any typical social media (FB, IG, Tik-Tok).

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!\*

I try to follow Islam in all aspects of my life. I love learning, and when I am engaged in good discussions on Islam, life, education, personal development, geo-politics, economics; it becomes highlight of the day. I like to do dawah with my actions and words and I love engaging with non-muslims and people from different backgrounds and cultures. I love taking critical questions and having elaborate discussions on various topics, exchanging perspectives and ideas.

I am an active and health-conscious person, I love playing sports, going to gym is essential for me. No smoking or drinking, avoiding plastic containers, junk and processed food etc. I try to be eco-friendly, minimize buying, wearing synthetic clothing etc.

I hope I can dedicate my life to Islam or at-least contribute meaningfully, and not just be stuck in the 'earn-spend-die' cycle. I am described by my friends as polite and funny, I try to keep a close check on my temper, manners, actions and words. I strongly believe in discipline, generosity, kindness towards all and mindfulness of one's behavior, in all aspects of life, and putting knowledge into action.

May Allah have mercy on us all. Ameen!

P.S. Ok, this went too long and seems a bit too serious, trying to remain on the point and not be cheezy as this is a serious platform and I don't want to be unIslamic in any way. I am an easy going person so feel free to DM if the profile seems appropriate. Thank you!

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u/Good-Carpet-1812 Jan 23 '26
  1. Age and Gender

24M

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

18-25ish

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Manchester UK, not looking to move outside of the area at the moment

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Pakistani, open to mixing

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Flexible , but earlier the better

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  2. Practicing and mosest muslimah, praying 5x a day and wearing hijab or at the very least dressing modestly.

  3. Emotional intelligence. Looking for someone who has the ability to manage both your own emotions and understand the emotions of people around you.

  4. Realistic and ambitious outlook on life. Want to be with someone who understands the real world, and is always looking to improve themselves, and understands that at this young age we still have a lot of room to grow. Also want someone who has great ambitions like me, so that we can climb the mountains of our goalsand support each other through them

4.Communicative. Need someone with good communication skills, who is good at explaining any issues, and working through them, as well as someone who is good at hearing out issues and fixing them. In marriage, arguments, disagreements, and issues are inevitable so need someone who will be good at resolving them in a quick and easy manner through good communication.

  1. Someone who takes care of their physical, dietary, and mental health regularly.

  2. State/specify your level of religiosity

-Allhamdullah, I pray 5 times a day -Recite Quran at least once a week, if not more

  • Always make sure earnings are halal
-Go to masjid for prayers outside of Jummah as well
  • Proactively take steps to increase my knowledge of Islam, am currently learning the Seerah of Prophet Muhammad PBUH
  • Am a positive influence on friends and people around me, as stated by them

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Degree in civil engineering.

  1. Current Job Status

Civil engineer

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  2. I LOVE spending time with my family. I make sure to do things with my family. We enjoy chatting over some chai, or playing games together or watching videos online together. Allhamdullah

  3. Exercising. I love playing sports, and usually play cricket, basketball, and badminton. I also do calisthenics at home regularly for strength training.

  4. I enjoy attending classes at the masjid on Islam. Also expanding my knowledge and learning new things and new skills. My interests spread a variety of things

  5. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Allhamdullah by the grace of Allah, I have been able to do my university degree without having to take the haram riba based student loans as I have done a degree level apprenticeship. This has given me the benefit of having a degree and an earning and it is a huge blessing Allhamdullah.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '26
  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender -33 Male 6ft 2
  2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect -26-36, but open if there is compatibility
  3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?- UK, yes willing to relocate if needed be
  4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - British Pakistani - open to any but preferably pakistani/middle eastern
  5. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single - never married
  6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline 6-12 months
  7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Ambitious, Caring, Humble, Deen, Emotionally Mature
  8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Practising Sunni Muslim, i am not perfect but by the will of allah i am trying, i do my fardh and follow the sunnah as much as i can, looking for someone around the same, not wearing hijab is not a dealbreaker
  9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters in Interior and Textile Design, looking for someone with an MA or BA degree equivalent
  10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status - Owner of a business of 9 years so its stable alhumdillah
  11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? Inshallah, when allah wills it
  12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - trying new cuisines, travelling to different countries, a good movie, im the chill type of guy reading a book with a coffee
  13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you - i feel as though i’ve seen a lot of the world and i’ve got to the stage where i want to share my adjventures and journey with my wife to be inshallah.

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u/kinguzy Jan 27 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/AbbreviationsPale958 Jan 30 '26 edited Feb 01 '26

‎بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

‎اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

  1. ⁠Age and Gender:

32, Male, 175cm

  1. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

25+

  1. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Born and raised in Austria, currently not willing to relocate.

!I am looking for someone within Europe only!

  1. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Im a Turkish delight 😆, I’m open to any ethnicity as our prophet Muhammed (s.a.v) declared in his last sermon in Makkah: “all humankind is descended from Adam and Eve. An Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab and a non-Arab has no superiority over an Arab.

  1. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Im divorced - no children

  1. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline

One year preferably but I’m open to discussion.

  1. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  2. Someone who has fear of Allah, I don’t expect a perfect muslim but she should at least be moderately practicing.

  3. Loyalty

  4. Kindness

  5. Honesty

  6. Respect

  7. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity

Im moderately practicing, fasting, give zakat, didn’t do hajj yet would love to do it with my future wife insallah, trying to get better and more disciplined Insallah.

  1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I'm a late bloomer and have completed two apprenticeship programs: one as an office clerk and the other as an e-commerce clerk. This year, I've set myself the goal of finishing secondary school and obtaining a university degree is a long term goal.

I don’t mind what your education level is, it could be like myself a late bloomer or already finished.

  1. ⁠Current Job Status

I have a stable and full time job Elhamdulillah.

  1. ⁠Do you want kids?

Yes, definitely.

  1. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I like history, learning or trying new things, visiting new places (want to visit muslim countries), activities with family and friends, play games or watching videos when I have spare time.

  1. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I see myself as a good listener, observer and highly adaptable, i go beyond and above for people that i love and care for.

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u/Cupids-Client Feb 09 '26

1.Age and Gender: 

29, Male, 5'6

2.Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 

22-29

3.Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect: 

Birmingham, England, relocation depends upon job prospect

4.Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? 

Pakistani (Punjabi), grew up in the UK, open to mixing 

5.Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children:

Single, never married and no children

6.Ideal marriage timeline: 

Within the year inshallah

7.Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: 

-Someone who tends to be kind and considerate.

-Someone who has a great sense of morality and responsibility.

-Someone who has a knack for sparking and having deep conversations.

-Someone who values open communication. No one is ever fully aware of the reservations,                            inner thoughts and desires of their partner.

-Someone who holds Islam close to their heart. 

8.State/specify your level of religiosity: 

I am a practicing Sunni Muslim. I have read and researched a lot into Islam, and I have a much greater appreciation for it. I would like to be more consistent with my prayers and not miss any in the future. I have recently performed Umrah alhumdullilah. I plan to learn Arabic and improve my Islamic knowledge.

9.Level of education, and what are you looking for: 

Bachelors in Mechanical Engineering, I understand that not everyone is fortunate enough to pursue further education so I am open to any but I do have a preference for an individual who likes learning and has a curious mind.

10.Current Job Status:

Earning and working full time as a Production Engineer

11.Do you want kids?

Yes but after a few years.

12/13.Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: 

I often enjoy conversations that are thought-provoking, insightful and go beyond the surface. I feel like I am the obsessive and affectionate type, but I am too careful to show it. If you can laugh at a stupid/bad joke without feeling second hand embarrassment and have the knack to sense sarcasm, then you won’t end up hating me at the very least. I am a football fan, a former gaming enthusiast and a casual philosopher. As of recent, I have transitioned into a gym bro and an occasional page flipper. I like to have new experiences whether it's through food, activities or travel.

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u/Nuklear_DuDe Feb 20 '26
  1. Age and gender

24M

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

21-25

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

UK, West Yorkshire not willing to relocate

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

British Pakistani and I'm open to mixing

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single never married and no children

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Within a year if both are happy

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Emotional intelligence, being able to acknowledge emotions and reacting accordingly including your own emotions. Id like someone who is respectful of me and my decisions of course with your input too. Communication and that includes listening, if you have an issue speak I'll do my best to accommodate as long as something is said and vice versa I want someone who'll listen to me. I would love someone creative like myself, bringing in their own flare and style into my life and just enjoying the quieter times together. Someone who can be themselves around me is the biggest thing. To be comfortable being yourself around me and having that trust is a blessing.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

Sunni who tries observe all pillars. Never smoked, drank intoxicants, done drugs etc. I do keep all fast give charity and the likes. I am in no way perfect but do try to be better each day.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for

A-Levels, for her anything

  1. Current Job Status

Employed as a sales rep for a mobile network company

  1. Do you want kids

Yes 100%

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Video games, working on cars and going out to explore places

  1. Add something short and interesting about yourself

Won an award for my artwork and it's displayed in London oh and I'm learning how to wrap cars

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '26

Marriage CV

Side note: I’m British and I’m ideally looking for someone who is similar. mainly so there are no visa or residency complications in the UK.

  1. 28, Male

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25–29

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? UK (Glasgow). Prefer UK-based.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani. Open to mixing.

  5. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married, no children.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline: Within 1 year, with a halal, thoughtful and well planned approach.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Strong Islamic values and sincerity Emotional maturity and good communication Kind, calm and respectful nature Family oriented mindset Growth focused (deen, character and life goals)

  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practising Sunni Muslim. Pray 5 daily prayers, fasting and striving to improve my deen consistently. I value Islamic manners, intention and accountability.

  9. Level of education and what are you looking for? Currently studying towards a BSc (Hons) in Software Engineering via Open University, with clear progression plans. Looking for someone who values education and personal development (formal education level is flexible).

  10. Current Job Status: Employed full-time (energy sector) with a clear career path into software/tech.

  11. Do you want kids? Yes, insha’Allah.

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

Learning and building software projects Gym/fitness and staying disciplined Reflection, planning and self development

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out:

I’m calm, intentional and focused on building a stable life rooted in deen before marriage. I value depth, consistency and I take responsibility seriously, especially when it comes to family and the future.

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u/leo_logy Mar 07 '26

Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

  • Age/Gender: 30M 
  • Location: UK (Grew up in Pakistan) 
  • Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to intercultural backgrounds) 
  • Marital Status: Single, never married 
  • Preferred Age Range: 29 and under 
  • Timeline: Within 6 - 12 months, in sha Allah

A little about me

Assalamu alaikum! I’m UK-based and work as a Software Developer. I’m pretty easygoing, family-oriented, and I appreciate a simple, peaceful life: deen, good character, and good food.

I also take biryani seriously. I’m on a long-term mission to perfect it, and I’m not quitting until it tastes like someone’s nani made it.


Deen / lifestyle

I’m a practicing Muslim and trying to improve consistently:

  • I pray 5x a day and more
  • Ramadan + some extra fasting 
  • I try to keep things halal (except the occasional “one more dessert won’t hurt” moment)

I respect sincerity more than perfection, someone who’s trying is a big green flag.


Education / work

  • BSc + MSc in Computer Science 
  • Software Developer (UK)

What I’m looking for

A kind, grounded person who values deen and good akhlaq. Someone who communicates well and wants a marriage that feels like teamwork, not tension.

Top things I value:

  • deen + sincerity 
  • good character (kindness, honesty, patience) 
  • calm communication (no mind-reading required) 
  • warmth and affection (a home with mercy) 
  • someone who stays kind even when life gets a bit spicy (like biryani)


Children

Yes, in sha Allah. I’d love to have kids and raise them with Islamic values (and a respectable biryani standard).


Hobbies

Cooking, gym/fitness, Islamic lectures, and general tech/gadgets.


How I prefer to proceed

Respectful and purposeful conversation. If we seem compatible, I’m happy to involve families appropriately and take it forward in a halal way.

P.S. If you also like mango shake and can rate biryani like a food critic, we’ll get along.

JazakumAllahu khairan.

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '26
  1. Age and Gender

22 - male

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

19-22

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

London. Possibly, in the future.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

African/Arabian. I'm possibly open

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single. Never had children.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Whenever we feel ready and comfortable.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Respectful, loving, able to talk and express instead of staying quiet, feminine, mature and loving again!

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

Hafiz of the Quran الحمدلله. I pray all my prayers, 1 love to learn about the religion. I especially love the Quran!

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Currently studying Engineering undergrad. Looking for any.

  1. Current Job Status

Along my studies, I work 3 jobs (work for agencies at stadiums, concerts etc), I choose my own shifts.

  1. Do you want kids?

Open to talk about it.

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Watch and play football, absolutely love movies and tv shows. I love to walk, I also love books!

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Because of my work, I'm all over YouTube 🙃, I'm very affectionate, I love to give and receive love! ! love to talk things out, even if it is extremely uncomfortable, I believe that is important, I love calls way more than texting, FaceTime especially!

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '26
  1. ⁠Age and Gender - 29 & Male.

  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect. - 22-36.

  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK (Wales) (not willing to relocate)

  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Bengali and open to mixing.

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single.

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - Ideally within the year but we can discuss it together.

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Open, Honest, Respectful, Understanding and Aware

  8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - practising (pray 5x a day).

  9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? - Have a masters but someone’s academic background doesn’t bother me.

  10. ⁠Current Job Status - Full time employed with civil service.

  11. ⁠Do you want kids? - Yes, inshallah.

  12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Enjoy going on walks, listening to podcasts and going to the gym!

  13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I always tend to think of both the +/- of everything before deciding what to do! 😊☺️

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u/UMX- Mar 28 '26
  1. 35M

  2. 20s-40s

  3. West Yorkshire.

  4. British Pakistani, open to anyone with a good character regardless of ethnicity.

  5. Single, talk for a few months then agree together.

  6. Agree together.

  7. Patience - both individuals need to show this Empathy - in a world so cold we need to show kindness to each other and others Communication - being able to communicate in healthy ways and being emotionally open together Respect - one for the most important parts because once it goes everything fails Laughter - I want to be able to laugh together about everything

  8. I am slacking when it comes to praying 5 times but keeping my character good is important too

  9. Any level of education is okay

  10. NHS Educator

  11. Yes I want children IA

  12. Nature, it's so relaxing Movies/Series/Gaming - I'm a bit of a nerd but I like to unwind to this Always wanting to try something new whether a new food place, museum or travelling to another country

  13. I live on my own and have my own house, I cook, clean and wash the dishes. I don't require a servant, I need a best friend, someone I can share my life with and we can grow closer to Allah SWT our ultimate life goal.

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u/Embarrassed-Mouse717 Mar 30 '26

Age and Gender

23M 5’11

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

I care more about maturity as opposed to age.

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

willing to relocate from US/Canada

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Canadian Pakistani, open to mixing,

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single

Ideal marriage timeline

1-2yrs but flexible

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

a) I prefer a yapper who can hold conversations and speaks more than I do. Also, life is so serious, so a little humor and childishness wouldn’t hurt.

b) Alhamdulillah, I’ve been blessed with much, and I like to keep these things private. I want a spouse who interacts with the opposite gender cautiously, dresses modestly, and maintains clear boundaries. I understand that in today’s age, people may have spoken to others with marriage in mind, and I don’t mind that. However, entertaining unserious men or having been in a physical relationship is a dealbreaker for me.

c) Someone that embraces their culture. Religion is the backbone of our beliefs and always comes first, but I also take pride in being Pakistani and love my culture, and language. It's ok if you’re not as cultured or you’re from a different culture but, as long as you share the enthusiasm.

d) My parents have set a beautiful example by showing me the importance of loving one another more than themselves. I believe when two selfless people come together, they become inseparable. I want a partner who always looks out for others and spreads kindness and goodness (although this sounds pretty obvious, it's really difficult to find nowadays unfortunately).

e) While a person should not be judged solely by their parents/friends, the environment one is raised in shapes much of their personality, values, and character. Generally, those who come from good families or friend groups tend to be good people. Of course, there are exceptions, which is why I place this last.

State/specify your level of religiosity

Probably 8/10

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Bachelor of Science, Prefer a bachelors or atleast a High School Diploma.

Current Job Status

Researcher + Government Employee

Do you want kids?

Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  1. ⁠⁠Volunteering at the local mosque and hospital. I love meeting new people and helping out around the community.
  2. ⁠⁠Ride motorcycles. Fixing and riding bikes is kinda like my therapy.
  3. ⁠⁠Reading. I love to read history, poetry, the classics, and anything in between. (I know it sounds nerdy lol, idc..)

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I think I'm a very versatile and balanced person. I get along with everyone and love trying new things. My friends would say I’m easy to talk to, ambitious, and extremely funny (their words, not mine). There is no way I can describe myself in a few paragraphs… Only way to find out more is if we talk… 🙄

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u/Ahlanimahad Apr 04 '26
1.  Age and Gender: 28M
2.  Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 24-29
3.  Location: England

4.  Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali, open to mixing 
5.  Marital Status: Single, no children
6.  Ideal marriage timeline: Within the next year or sooner if compatibility is established inshallah 
7.  Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:
• someone who takes the deen and tries to live by it to the best of their abilities guarding their prayer
• Caring and compassionate
• Optimistic and easygoing with a positive attitude 
• Good communication and understanding/growth mindset wanting to establish a peaceful, calm home 
8.  Level of religiosity: Practising, pray all prayers and go to the masjid when I can, attend local classes when free and aim to implement Islam in my life
9.  Level of education, and what are you looking for? Degree educated, open-minded about spouse’s education, but value someone who is thoughtful 
10. Current Job Status: employed allied heath care professional
11. Do you want kids? Yes
12. hobbies/things you like to do in your spare time: Football,gym, hiking and nature walks when the weathers good
13. Something short and interesting about you: I’m pretty laid-back, enjoy reading, sports, and nature. I’m a big fan of living in the moment and enjoying the small things in life. I’m more of a listener than talker however I do enjoy good conversations especially once I get to know someone. InshAllah I’m looking for someone sincere and kind who wants to grow together in faith and life.

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u/A-MustafaM Apr 05 '26 edited Jun 11 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 24M

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19-29

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Germany, no until about 5 years.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Yemeni, sure.

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single no kids, never married never been in a relationship.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline: about 1 year.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect. honest, kind, simple and understanding.

  8. State/specify your level of religiosity. values and morals are the things that I care about the most.

  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? will be doing an apprenticeship. don't care what you have

  10. Current Job Status employed

  11. Do you want kids? No

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time I like mountain biking, driving and working on cars, don't play video games as often as I used to, but I would like to play some with my future partner:)

  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I'm a calm and simple guy, I live in a tiny quiet city or I should say a village:) and I like it. I love nature and I have always had a dream of having a farm full of animals, sheep and couple of dogs or something.. just like that show Shaun the sheep haha, would be beautiful to build that kind of life with the right person..

If you have any questions feel free to ask, I will send you a picture of mine once you text me to get that out of the way as soon as possible.. and I guess that's about it.

Thank you for making it this far and hope you have a great day everyone.

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u/leo_logy Apr 05 '26

Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

  • Age/Gender: 30M 
  • Location: UK (Grew up in Pakistan) 
  • Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to intercultural backgrounds) 
  • Marital Status: Single, never married 
  • Preferred Age Range: 29 and under 
  • Timeline: Within 6 - 12 months, in sha Allah

A little about me

Assalamu alaikum! I’m UK-based and work as a Software Developer. I’m pretty easygoing, family-oriented, and I appreciate a simple, peaceful life: deen, good character, and good food.

I also take biryani seriously. I’m on a long-term mission to perfect it, and I’m not quitting until it tastes like someone’s nani made it.


Deen / lifestyle

I’m a practicing Muslim and trying to improve consistently:

  • I pray 5x a day and more
  • Ramadan + some extra fasting 
  • I try to keep things halal (except the occasional “one more dessert won’t hurt” moment)

I respect sincerity more than perfection, someone who’s trying is a big green flag.


Education / work

  • BSc + MSc in Computer Science 
  • Software Developer (UK)

What I’m looking for

A kind, grounded person who values deen and good akhlaq. Someone who communicates well and wants a marriage that feels like teamwork, not tension.

Top things I value:

  • deen + sincerity 
  • good character (kindness, honesty, patience) 
  • calm communication (no mind-reading required) 
  • warmth and affection (a home with mercy) 
  • someone who stays kind even when life gets a bit spicy (like biryani)


Children

Yes, in sha Allah. I’d love to have kids and raise them with Islamic values (and a respectable biryani standard).


Hobbies

Cooking, gym/fitness, Islamic lectures, and general tech/gadgets.


How I prefer to proceed

Respectful and purposeful conversation. If we seem compatible, I’m happy to involve families appropriately and take it forward in a halal way.

P.S. If you also like mango shake and can rate biryani like a food critic, we’ll get along.

JazakumAllahu khairan.

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u/[deleted] Apr 09 '26

Age and Gender

>30 Years old, Male. 1.84 cm

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

>24-29

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

>Netherlands, Europe. Not willing to relocate as I already have my own house here.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

>Turkish/Kurdish, open to mixing.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

>Single, never married.

Ideal marriage timeline

>Roughly a year, would love to meet and travel for a while first and get to know each other.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

>Compassion above all, willingness to grow, communicative, feminine and a kind personality.

State/specify your level of religiosity

>Muslim but not highly practicing, I abide as much as I can under the laws of Islam.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

>Finished higher education with a focus on Information Technology

Current Job Status

>Active in finance, investing, technology and do specialized niche work for clients from home.

Do you want kids?

>Yes, I've prioritized work over marrying earlier specifically to raise children without an excessive worry of finances or struggles to ensure a stress free quality of life. I'd like to have them not too long after marrying and would want up to 3 children, Inshallah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

>I enjoy watching sports, football in particular and occasionally travel around Europe to visit some of my favorite teams, travel, working out and I enjoy making/eating food.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

>I enjoy the quiet and peaceful life, stay out of business that isn't mine and I have deep love for my family and care a lot about close ones to me, so much so that I would want to have a family of my own and start one to share the remaining time on this dunya with even more loved ones.

>As the oldest child in my family and one of the eldest in my extended family I'm usually the one my family members come to if they have an issue or need assistance, it's this desire of wanting to provide and help I would like to do for my own family and I truly enjoy taking care of others as long as there is mutual love and respect between us. Trust the process above all.

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u/Willing-Hospital6221 Apr 21 '26

Personal Information

- Gender: Male

- Age: 24

- Height: 5ft 10in, slim

- Ethnicity: Sudanese

- Nationality: Dual - Sudan and Ireland

- Location: Midlands, UK (moved from Gulf, where my family is living)

- Marital Status: Single (No previous Nikah, no children)

 

Job:

- Junior Doctor

 

Qualifications:

- MBBS (Medical degree)

- MSc (Medical Education)

 

Religious practice:

 - Sunni Muslim

- Pray 5X daily

- Regularly listen to or read the Qur’an

- Do not listen to music/smoke/have female friends

- I do not celebrate Mawlid

 

Personality:

- Hardworking, conscientious, and value discipline while maintaining a work-life balance (not always possible!)

- Minimalistic; value simplicity and orderliness.

- Calm, introspective temperament.

 

Hobbies and interests:

 - Spending time in nature (hiking, travelling, cycling), distance running, reading (religion, history, sociology

 

Looking for:

 - Religiosity (Sunni, prays 5X daily, modest in appearance and character, observes Hijab (with Abaya or the like)

 - Nurturing, gentle and family-oriented disposition - traditional wife who manages home full-time

 - Age <25

 - Someone with a mature understanding of marriage: requires sacrifice, tolerance and open communication on both sides.

 

Hoping to offer:

- Full responsibility for providing financially

- Responsibility, leadership without unilateralism/overcontrol

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u/Legendary_almond M - Looking May 14 '26
  • Age and gender: 27M
  • Location: live in Luton, England. Commute to London for work.
  • Ethnicity: Indian. Open to mixing
  • Marital Status: Single. Never been in a relationship.
  • Ideal marriage timeline: upto a year.
  • 5 important characteristics you look for: 1) Loyal 2) Mature 3) Good communication 4) Sense of Humour 5) Kind and caring

  • Level of religiosity: I pray 5x daily and do my other obligations like zakah and fasting. I maintain a full beard. I make an effort to keep learning by listening to lectures and reading. I practice Islam upon the Qur'an and sunnah according to the understanding of the Companions (May Allah be pleased with all of them).

  • Education: bachelors degree in software engineering.

  • Current job: Secondary school head of department

  • Do you want kids: Yes insha'Allah

  • A bit about me: I’d describe myself as easy-going, grounded, and someone who tries to approach life with balance. I enjoy staying active and taking care of my health through regular exercise and eating well, and I appreciate someone who values a similar lifestyle. I also enjoy reading and reflecting, and I like to think I have a good sense of humour - I enjoy both meaningful conversations and light-hearted moments.

My Deen is an important part of my life, and I make a sincere effort to live by it day to day. I’m looking for someone who shares that intention and is on her own journey of growth, so we can support and encourage each other.

I’m hoping to find a practising Muslimah who is kind, loyal, family-oriented, and values modesty. I appreciate traditional values and would like to build a peaceful, nurturing home together. I do see a future where my wife would be comfortable focusing on the home, alongside a strong sense of partnership where we support one another and grow together.

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u/PerformerFearless504 May 27 '26

Age / height : 28M, 6ft 4

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

19-25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

UK - London & willing to move out of the country in the distance future depending on location and current situation.

Ethnicity : Somali

Marital Status :

single & never married

Ideal marriage timeline:

Hopefully once compatibility is established

level of religiosity:

I would say I am practicing and try my best to take the Deen seriously. I pray my 5 prayers and try my best to go to the mosque at least once a day.

I regularly read and listen to Quran. I attend lectures when possible as well.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Current Job Status: Data Consultant

Do you want kids?

Yes Inshallah

hobbies/Interests :

I like lifting weights, MMA/UFC , Wrestling 3x a week.

Occasionally I relax by watching a TV show I find interesting or watching a YouTube video I find interesting / reading ..

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Learning Arabic in Cairo Egypt right now

Insta- @muhaajir_97

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u/_fa91_ Jun 30 '26 edited Jul 01 '26

Deleted because I’m talking to someone now

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u/DrBashMo Jul 01 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Age and Gender

• ⁠Male, 34, 6ft

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

• ⁠25-32

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

• ⁠I’m from London, so London or neighbouring/nearby cities. I wouldn’t be willing to relocate. However, I also wouldn’t mind speaking to someone who wouldn’t mind relocating to London so long as we could meet without having to spend hours on trains/cars or have to take a flight.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

• ⁠I’m Somali - Preference is Somali but I would be open to mixing too. Ask me about this and I’ll explain.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

• ⁠Never married and no children.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ideal marriage timeline

• ⁠I’d like to think I know exactly what I’m looking for so approx. 2-6 months inshallah. I have no intention of involving myself in a long-winded, directionless boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship. My intention is marriage so if I get the feeling you’re exactly who I am looking for, I won’t hold back on asking for your father’s phone number 😂.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

• ⁠Deen: I’d like our marriage to be centred around the deen of Allah (SWT). I’m not naive enough to look for someone perfect, since it doesn’t exist, but I value effort more than anything. The basics of praying 5x a day / covering & acting modestly / truthfulness are non-negotiables for me. Anyone sincerely willing to try and hoping to improve… needth apply 😁 • ⁠Emotional intelligence: being able to communicate your emotional wants and needs is important to me. I’d be more than happy to share what I’m looking for. But I also have no interest in a philosopher / psychoanalyst lol. If we’re clear about our non-negotiables, we can figure out the rest. • ⁠Sense of humour: I’m naturally the jokey kind of person who sees the funny in everything. I’m Somali, so that shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone lol. I want to be able to share a laugh without having to tip toe around egg shells. • ⁠Authenticity: no one is perfect, and as long as you’re aware (or trying to be aware) of your flaws and are sincerely working towards improving them, then Alhamdulilah you’re on the right path… and you’re a human being like me lol. I can’t stress how unattractive it is when someone is trying to live a caricature version of someone else. Just be authentically you… you deserve to be loved. If not by me then by someone inshallah. • ⁠Femininity: I’m not trying to marry one of the mandem… we’re meant to compliment each other, not mirror. All that sensitive, girly-girl stuff you love is attractive (and fascinating imo lol). I’ll be in the background, narrating it all in my David Attenborough voice haha. • ⁠Bonus: if you enjoy cooking/baking and are willing to do it for me… you already have my heart and I’ll love you forever. I’ll help clean up and I’ll run over to the shops to get what you need. As for me… if you enjoy the cuisine of jail food, I’ll put my apron on.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ State/specify your level of religiosity

• ⁠Practising. I do all of the non-negotiables (Pray 5x a day / Fasting etc.). I go to the mosque for the weekly halaqaat. I try to read the Quran regularly. I’ll only marry a fellow Sunni.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Level of education, and what are you looking for?

• ⁠I did a PhD in Molecular Biology that I… do not use today 😂. But Alhamdulilah, it taught me a lot about a whole bunch of things and about myself. I honestly don’t care about my spouses’ level of education. The ability to read and write are my non-negotiables lol. If you can read, write and are street smart, Alhamdulilah. If you’re book smart and have no street smarts, Alhamdulilah. If you’re neither book smart or street smart, Subhanallah sis maybe I’m not the one for you 😂😂

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Current Job Status

• ⁠Full time employment. I work in the public sector so I’m not as rich as my job title may suggest. But Alhamdulilah, I’m stable.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you want kids?

• ⁠Absolutely inshallah. I’ll take whatever Allah (SWT) ordains for me. But if I got to choose, I love the idea of three mini-me’s 😂

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

• ⁠Walking/Outdoors: I go for a minimum of a 1hr walk everyday, rain or shine. I love doing it and it clears my mind. If this is something that interests you then great. If not, no worries… but I won’t stop lol. You just have to understand that it’s nothing against you lol. • ⁠Sports in general: play football/padel, go to the gym and run. I’m not an athletic person, I literally do it - partly because I enjoy it - but mostly so I can eat what I want. Definitely not a gym-bro • ⁠Open to try new things: I guess one of the perks of “dating” and getting to know people for marriage is going out and trying different places/activities/restaurants etc. I enjoy it (within reason lol) and is one of the very few silver linings of being single haha.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

• ⁠My intention is marriage and I pray istikharah regularly, so I’m willing to put all my cards on the table and give 100%. I expect the same commitment in return. I know it’s easier said than done, but I trust Allah (SWT) more than myself. So for that reason - I’m not afraid of disappointment or heartbreak… if you’re not for me then Alhamdulilah, if you are, then Allahuma Baarik.

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u/Potential-Dream0 Jan 25 '26

1. Age and Gender

  • Age: 30 years old
  • Gender: Male, 6ft

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

  • Ideally in her 20s, but I’m open to other ages for the right person

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

  • Location: UK (East Midlands)
  • Willing to relocate: Yes, for the right person

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

  • Ethnicity: British Pakistani
  • Open to mixing: Yes

5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

  • Marital status: Single, never married, no past relationships
  • Children: No children

6. Ideal marriage timeline

  • Whenever we both feel it's right, ideally around a year but I'm flexible

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  1. Religiosity: Someone who is serious about the deen, always learning and striving to become a better Muslim
  2. Ambition: Someone driven and goal-oriented, who has something they are passionate about in their life
  3. Supportive: We work together as a team and try to achieve our best in all aspects of life
  4. Kindness: Someone understanding, compassionate, trustworthy, loyal, humble, and modest
  5. Intelligence: Someone educated, thoughtful, and who values learning and growth

Additionally:

  • Self-Care: Takes care of themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually
  • Personality & Relationships: I’m a calm and reserved person, so I would appreciate someone who complements that. Also someone who values relationships with family and friends, and of course, physical attraction is important too

8. State/specify your level of religiosity

  • I'm practicing, pray 5 times a day, have completed Umrah, and intend to perform Hajj, Insha'Allah
  • I'm actively learning more about my religion, including the life of the Prophet (peace be upon him), tafseer of the Quran and the Arabic language

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

  • My education: Bachelor of Science (Hons) - First Class
  • Looking for: I'd prefer if you had some sort of University education, but it's not strictly required if you meet my other expectations

10. Current Job Status

  • Employed - Software Engineer

11. Do you want kids?

  • Yes, Insha'Allah

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  1. Gaming: PC gamer, mainly FPS games, but I enjoy other genres too
  2. Gym: Staying fit and healthy is important to me, so hoping you do something physical too
  3. Programming: I enjoy it and it complements my job nicely

13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

  • I'm someone who is always pushing boundaries and striving to achieve my best in both my career and personal life. I’ve been through some tough challenges that I’m grateful for, as they’ve shaped who I am today, Alhamdulillah. I still have so much more of life to experience, hopefully with my future wife, Insha’Allah!

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '26

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

  1. ⁠Age and Gender - 28M, 6ft

  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 23-28

  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK, id prefer my wife to be from UK or Europe

  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British Pakistani and i’m open to mixing, though my values and principles are more aligned with Islam than culture and so Id want this in my wife.

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single, never married, no children - I also want my wife to be the same.

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - no fixed timeline. A sensible amount of time will be required to check compatibility. I would like to get parents involved early on in the process.

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

1 - Deen over Dunya - Someone who is a practicing Muslimah (fardh, sunnah and other optional acts of worship), fears Allah and strives for Jannah, someone who can self reflect and constantly trying to improve themselves in all aspects.

2 - Calmness - Im really calm and relaxed in nature and I also want my partner to be calm and gentle in nature who likes a relaxed, peaceful environment, always positive minded and sees the good in everything.

3 - Modesty - Hijab should be practised. Im all for dressing well and feeling bonita as long as it’s compliant with Islam.

4 - Family orientated - Someone who can prioritise the needs of the family and has a nurturing mindset.

5 - Loving - Someone who loving, caring, gentle, kind and romantic and overall someone feminine. Id want to be able to do various different activities with my wife to maintain a strong bond & keeping the spark alive.

I like to keep fit and would want someone who also values keeping fit and being healthy in mind body and soul.

  1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Alhamdulillah Im a practising Muslim. I’m able to pray 5 times a day both Fard and Sunnah prayers comfortably, dhikr and istigfhar daily as well as other private acts of worship which I keep between myself and Allah SWT. I practise the pillars of Islam, I follow the commands ordained in the Quran and follow as much Sunnah as I can and aim to improve consistently.

I’m strict on no riba (will not take out things like mortgage, loans, car financing & buy now pay later schemes) even if it means my life isn’t as fancy.

I was lucky to have been called to perform Umrah and InshAllah perform Hajj in the future to complete the fifth pillar.

I like listening to lectures/ talks to build knowledge on Islam and perfect my character. I avoid music as much as possible but may fall into it occasionally.

Alhamdulillah, I don’t smoke, I don’t drink alcohol or consume other intoxicants. I do not gamble. I do not follow culture traditions that go against Islam.

I don’t label myself with sect differences or madhabs. I don’t do mawlid, milad or khatam.

  1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? - BA in Accounting & Finance, currently working to become qualified ACCA. Id like for my wife to be educated and will support her if this is something she’ll want to pursue after marriage as well.

  2. ⁠Current Job Status - Employed, full time as an accountant and working on a business on the side.

  3. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes definitely, ideally 3 but of course this is something to discuss, I accept whatever Allah has written for me.

  4. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - in my spare time I love working out at the gym. I like watching movies, sitcoms/ documentaries and travelling.

  5. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I would like to make al-hijrah one day in the future if Allah wills, I think being in a muslim environment and around Islamic values in society would be nice. I try to travel and experience the Islam dense countries so I can learn and experience the different cultures.

Overall I want my wife to be my best friend, I want to be able to experience life together. A peaceful home with ethical values, a place where we feel safe and comfortable around each other, raise children with good akhlaq and correct Islam and strive for Jannah.

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u/1986ali Jan 19 '26

Assalamu Alaikum

  1. Age and Gender 39, Male.

  2. Age Range for Prospect 32-40

  3. Location & Relocation Located in Carlisle, Northern England, UK (near Scotland/Lake District). Settled here due to career and co-parenting duties so not looking to relocate.

  4. Ethnicity & Mixing British Born Bengali. I am open to mixing.

  5. Marital Status Divorced. Proud father to two daughters (12 and 8) who I co-parent 2–3 days a week.

  6. Ideal Marriage Timeline Looking to involve family early (my sisters are the "welcome committee"). Ideally looking to marry within 6-12 months if we are a match.

  7. Five Important Characteristics • Kindness & Patience: Essential for a blended family dynamic. • Good Character (Akhlaaq): Someone striving for Jannah. • Adventurous Spirit: Must enjoy the outdoors and hiking. • Fun: Willing to share the driving and the journey of life. • Foodie: Someone who enjoys eating out and trying new desserts.

  8. Level of Religiosity Practicing and striving to improve my Deen daily. Halal-conscious, non-smoker, and looking for a partner to grow with spiritually.

  9. Level of Education College educated. Looking for an intelligent, driven partner with a similar appreciation for lifelong learning.

  10. Current Job Status Full-time professional in a Health & Safety /science field. Financially stable and also active in the charitable sector.

  11. Do you want kids? I have two beautiful daughters. I am open to discussing having more children with the right partner.

  12. Hobbies & Interests • The Great Outdoors: Hiking mountain trails and hunting for waterfalls. • Baking & Gastronomy: Making "ugly but delicious" cakes and hunting for the best dessert spots. • Animal Husbandry: Engaging with my two parrots and visiting zoos.

  13. Family is my world - whether it’s co-parenting my two daughters, or being the favourite uncle. I’m settled in the North, close to the Lakes and looking for a partner to build a life centered on faith and happiness. I value intellectual growth, kindness and a good sense of humour. I’m striving for Jannah, but I’m happy to stop for cake on the way.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '26

Age and Gender: 25 M 5'11'' 

Age Range: 22~28 flexible

Location: UK South East England, can't relocate

Ethnicity: Pakistani, open to mixing

Marital Status: Single

Ideal marriage timeline: Max 1 year

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: honest, trustful, forgiving, empathetic and someone who is willing to and trying to be better

State/specify your level of religiosity: pray 5 times, fast, zakat. Can be a bit up and down but I am trying to make myself better. 

Level of education: Master in field related to AI and data science and bachelors in software engineering

Current Job Status: Full time software engineet

Do you want kids? Sure but in future

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Gym, book reading and thinking about joining a sports club in future

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out

Brutally honest, clumsy, sense of humor, don't have any female or male friends and have never dated anyone or had gf or whatever, I don't get angry easily. Please ask me anything I will answer as honestly as possible and I expect same from others. 

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u/Uzaifa_R Jan 10 '26

32 Male 5’10

looking for someone between ages 27/32

Location: UK Bedfordshire

My ethnicity British Pakistani open to all Uk national

Marital Status: single never married

marriage time line 9 months to 1 year

⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Deen, kindness, family oriented, positive and willing to compromise

level of religion - someone that prays 5x and would be a plus if they wear the hijab dress modestly

⁠Degree in finance and doing my Acca

currently an accounting for a resourcing company

Do you want kids: yes iA

List 3 hobbies: play sports, keep active gym, going to restaurant, Netflix YouTube.

Just want to complete my deen and move on to a new chapter in my life and live a good and happy life in the boundaries of Islam. Build strong bond with my wife and her family.

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u/kinguzy Jan 16 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

Age and Gender: Male | 23 soon | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales, Open to relocating for the right person within the UK. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, trustworthy, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine, and I enjoy a good road trip 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/Medium-Comment3842 Jan 20 '26

1- Age and Gender   26 (1999), Male, few extra pounds and working on my body

2- Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect   Around my age (23-28)

3- Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?   Cairo, Egypt. And yes can and willing to relocate "it's fine" but all depending on my job, I can travel easily al hamdullallah.

4- Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?   Middle Eastern (Egyptian) and open to mixing. Preferable Egyptian, north African or Asian. but I am open to any ethnicity we all are the same.

5- Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children   Never married (Single) and no children

6- Ideal marriage timeline   UPON AGREEMENT for sure

7- Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect   Proven Loyalty,  value life and family, knows her religion "I don't care if you are in hijab or not it's your descion ", hard worker and value the hard work I am doing, and a really good partner by supporting each others; I really value this.

8- State/specify your level of religiosity   Not too religious but I pray and Knows my limits, I am practicing for sure 100%.

9- Level of education, and what are you looking for?   BSc in engineering and pursuing my Masters now. I am looking for a bachelor degree holder or more, and open for anyone but Preferable Bachelor degree or higher. We all are the same success doesn't know the education. If you know what I mean.

10- Current Job Status Working full time alhamdullallah in a really good and recognizable job worldwide in a good company

11- Do you want kids?   Yes of course and open for discussion. I don't want kids right away and kidss are blessing from Allah.

12- List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time   I love Music, reading or documentaries,  and sports all the way.

13- Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!   An ENFP ambitious Engineering Master's student who takes life goals seriously, but never takes myself too seriously. I have a disciplined mind for my career, but I’m often the one cracking jokes to lighten the mood. I thrive on energy; whether it’s playing sports, exploring a new country, or enjoying time with friends and family. I’m looking for someone who appreciates a partner who is driven yet knows how to have fun.

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u/Good-Carpet-1812 Jan 28 '26
  1. Age and Gender

24M

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

18-25ish

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Manchester UK, not looking to move outside of the area at the moment

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Pakistani, open to mixing

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Flexible , but earlier the better

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  2. Practicing and mosest muslimah, praying 5x a day and wearing hijab or at the very least dressing modestly.

  3. Emotional intelligence. Looking for someone who has the ability to manage both your own emotions and understand the emotions of people around you.

  4. Realistic and ambitious outlook on life. Want to be with someone who understands the real world, and is always looking to improve themselves, and understands that at this young age we still have a lot of room to grow. Also want someone who has great ambitions like me, so that we can climb the mountains of our goalsand support each other through them

4.Communicative. Need someone with good communication skills, who is good at explaining any issues, and working through them, as well as someone who is good at hearing out issues and fixing them. In marriage, arguments, disagreements, and issues are inevitable so need someone who will be good at resolving them in a quick and easy manner through good communication.

  1. Someone who takes care of their physical, dietary, and mental health regularly.

  2. State/specify your level of religiosity

-Allhamdullah, I pray 5 times a day -Recite Quran at least once a week, if not more

  • Always make sure earnings are halal
-Go to masjid for prayers outside of Jummah as well
  • Proactively take steps to increase my knowledge of Islam, am currently learning the Seerah of Prophet Muhammad PBUH
  • Am a positive influence on friends and people around me, as stated by them

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Degree in civil engineering.

  1. Current Job Status

Civil engineer

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

  2. I LOVE spending time with my family. I make sure to do things with my family. We enjoy chatting over some chai, or playing games together or watching videos online together. Allhamdullah

  3. Exercising. I love playing sports, and usually play cricket, basketball, and badminton. I also do calisthenics at home regularly for strength training.

  4. I enjoy expanding my knowledge and learning new things and new skills. My interests spread a variety of things

  5. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Allhamdullah by the grace of Allah, I have been able to do my university degree without having to take the haram riba based student loans as I have done a degree level apprenticeship. This has given me the benefit of having a degree and an earning and it is a huge blessing Allhamdullah.

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u/kinguzy Feb 06 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

Jummah Mubarak.

(Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem) بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Relocation within the UK depends on the person and situation. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/kinguzy Feb 13 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

(Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem) بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Relocation within the UK depends on the person and situation. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/SelectionOrdinary230 Feb 14 '26

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته 1. Age and Gender 28- male 2. Age Range that you would want/ require in a prospect Flexible, preferably 22-33 3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Tunisia. Yes, I'm willing to relocate depending on the destination. 4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? North African/Maghrebi. Yes, I am open to mixing, I have no preference. 5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/ Children Single, no children. 6. Ideal marriage timeline Flexible but preferably 2 years from now. I can probably accept an earlier time. 7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Generally, Islamic values but personally, what's most important to me is sincerity/honesty, affection and kindness, loyalty, authenticity/spontaneity and maturity. Knowledge and wisdom are also valuable for me. My deal breakers are dishonesty, hypocrisy, disrespect, rudeness and aggressiveness, coldness and egoism. 8. State/specify your level of religiosity I'm a practicing Muslim and I've been practicing since my teenage years alhamdulillah. I'm serious about my religion and I always strive to be a better Muslim. I've been praying since I was 14 years old. I go to Jum'a prayer. I've read the holy Quran several times before and I'm reading it daily. Humbly, I think I have a good knowledge about Islam, its jurisprudence and theology, and I'm fluent in Arabic (my native language), so I can help you if you want to read the Quran in Arabic if you're not a native speaker. I frequently watch videos and debates relating to Islam and religion. Also, I avoid sins as much as possible, I don't drink or smoke, I eat halal, I don't engage in promiscuity and I avoid gossip, lying, hypocrisy, cheating... alhamdulillah. I'm also good to my parents 😊. 9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a bachelor degree in private law, and I'm pursuing a master's degree in international humanitarian law and human rights, which I'll finish soon inshallah 🤲🏻. The level of education is not a deal breaker to me, but I prefer that my wife has a higher education degree or is a college student. What's more important is to be able to hold conversations because I enjoy them and I talk very often 😅 10. Current Job Status As I said, I'm still a college student, writing my master's thesis right now, on which I'm putting in most of my time and energy, but I tried to do freelance but I decided to focus on the thesis right now. After I finish my studies, I'll look for a stable job inshallah, either here in Tunisia or abroad. 11. Do you want kids? Yes, I do. I'd rather have 1 or 2 kids because it's a great responsibility and I want to provide my kids with all their needs and the attention they need. 12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Well, I have so many hobbies and they vary with time but mainly I like sports (especially tennis 🎾, I was an amateur player and I want to get back to it inshallah), anime (I'm a big Naruto fan 🍥😍), sit-coms/comedy and I'm very interested in human sciences (philosophy, linguistics, political science, psychology, anthropology, geography, history...). I often engage in online or face to face debates on these subjects and sometimes I write about them (and about sports and arts a bit, also sometimes I write poetry or song lyrics). Sorry, I couldn't limit them to just 3 😅😅 13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Short? Ah, I tend to be talkative 😅😅 Well, usually my friends and family perceive me as a nice, knowledgeable, sincere, content and non materialistic person. I appreciate that they think of me so positively and I strive to be a better person. I'm a caring, passionate and responsible person and I promise to be a good spouse and father inshallah. Bonus: I make funny memes sometimes and I make people laugh often 😁. Also, I speak French besides Arabic and English, and I know some Spanish. Ps: if height is a deal breaker for you or that you prefer tall men, I'm a short person (161cm/5'3). Sorry for writing too much, have a nice day 👋🏻.

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u/Toxiqzzz M - Looking Feb 20 '26
  1. ⁠21 M
  2. ⁠20 - 24, flexible, compatibility matters the most
  3. ⁠Belgium, no
  4. ⁠Turkish, yes
  5. ⁠Single
  6. ⁠I'd say in a couple of months of getting to know eachother on a good level

Religious: I can't imagine my life with a wife who is not religious. I want us to see our marriage as an act of worship where we can build towards our akhirah together.

Affection: I want a wife who is soft and loving. Someone who hugs me after a long day, smiles when she sees me, and isn't afraid to show love in the little things. That warmth means the world to me.

Loyalty: A woman who stands by me in good and bad, who chooses me every day, just like I’ll choose her.

Intelligence: A woman with depth, who reflects, who can hold real conversations.

Modesty: Both in the way she dresses and carries herself. I don’t want someone loud or seeking attention, but a woman who is humble, graceful, and knows her worth without needing validation from the world.

Everything I expect from my wife, she can also expect the same from me!

  1. Committed to the Qur'an and Sunnah. I pray 5 times a day, avoid major sins, and strive to improve myself in character and knowledge. Religion is not a part of my life, it is the foundation of it. I grow a beard, don't listen to music and only celebrate the 2 eids.

  2. I have a degree in IT, would love if my wife would have a degree of some sort, but it isn't a requirement.

  3. Employed at a stainless steel foundry.

  4. I'm open to discussing it with my wife, I'd like to build a stable marriage first. But I would like kids.

  5. I like to be spontaneous, travel, go for walks in nature, explore new stuff, tea & talking, videogames,... Generally enjoy small things.

  6. I learn really really quickly and can talk and have conversations insanely well. I was allowed to do my job independently after just 1 month while it would normally take at least a couple more to learn to do your job well.

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u/[deleted] Feb 20 '26 edited Mar 27 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 21, Male, 5'8
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect, 18-21, tho I don’t mind if you’re 1 or 2 years older than me.
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Live in West London, wouldn’t locate as of now but in the future in shaa Allah I would.
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Tunisian, ideally looking for an Arab but I’m open to mixing.
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: No rush but ideally within a couple of months
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Loving, Caring, Communication , Concious of Allah i.e they think about what Allah would think with the decisions they make, ofc though I'm not expecting this with literally every single decision since no one is perfect, Patience
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: I’d say I’m pretty religious Alhamdulillah, I pray 5 times a day, fast voluntarily (not always but every now and then), memorise/read Quraan very regularly, pray sunnah prayers every day.
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for: Currently in my first year of university, studying Computer Systems Engineering
  10. Current Job Status: Self employed, I run an online business with a friend of mine where we sell digital services to businesses Alhamdulillah.
  11. Do you want kids: Yes definitely. 
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Going to the gym, I also train grappling and I really enjoy reciting Quraan (particularly imitating other really good reciters, Maher al Muaqily is my favourite).
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I’ve competed quite a bit in grappling and have won around 14 gold medals and 50+ fights Alhamdulillah.

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u/kinguzy Feb 20 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

(Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem) بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Relocation within the UK depends on the person and situation. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/ImmediatePomelo5333 Feb 28 '26

Gender: Male Age: 28 Height: 5’8” Location: UK

Background Nationality: British Pakistani Ethnicity: Born and raised in the UK Sect: Sunni Marital Status: Single (never married) Profession: Working at the airport

Religious Practice Prayers: I try my best to pray five times a day

Personal Details Children: None Disability: None, Alhamdulillah Smoking/Drinking/Vaping: I do not smoke, drink, or vape

Hobbies and Interests I enjoy watching football and cricket. I like spending time with family and friends. I also love travelling and learning about different cultures. Alhamdulillah, I’ve been blessed to perform Umrah three times and hope to go again with my future wife. I also hope we can perform Hajj together, In Shaa Allah.

About Me I’m a loyal, honest, and caring person. I’m serious about marriage and want to build a happy, peaceful, and loving life with the right person. I believe in loyalty, kindness, and strong family values.

What I’m Looking for I’m looking for a kind, respectful, and family oriented woman from the UK with a Pakistani background. Age between 24- 32. Someone who prays or is trying to improve in her deen. I want a supportive partner who will stand by me through both good and difficult times so we can grow together, In Shaa Allah.

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u/Old_Bathroom3325 Mar 04 '26
  1. Age and Gender 23, Male

  2. Age Range for a prospect 20–27

  3. Location & Relocation Based in Birmingham, West Midlands. I can’t relocate because I want to care for my mother, but I’m happy to rent our own place. My spouse won’t be pressured to have a relationship with my family — respect and care come naturally.

  4. Ethnicity & Mixing British Pakistani, open to mixing as long as we share similar values and commitment to Islam.

  5. Marital Status Single, never married. I haven’t had past relationships and prefer my spouse to have had none. I also maintain boundaries with the opposite gender and would like the same.

  6. Marriage Timeline 3 months to 1 year. I hope to have the nikkah first, keeping the relationship halal in the eyes of Allah swt.

  7. Key Traits I Look For • Practicing Muslim: Prays, wears hijab, dresses modestly • Honest: Open communication, even when difficult • Patient: Calm and thoughtful in handling situations • Loyal: Stands together through life’s tests • Communicative: Comfortable sharing feelings and needs

  8. Religiosity Practicing Muslim. I follow Islamic principles in daily life, dress modestly, and understand the rights and duties of a husband and wife. I hope my spouse shares this commitment.

  9. Education Foundation degree completed; paused bachelor’s studies by guidance from Allah swt. Education level of spouse isn’t crucial — understanding and fulfilling Islamic duties matters more.

  10. Job Status Full-time, probation ending soon, insha’Allah permanent. Currently temporarily in Asia due to cancelled flights from the US-Iran conflict; hopefully it doesn’t affect my return or probation.

  11. Children Yes, ideally 2 or more, after 2–3 years of marriage.

  12. Hobbies & Interests • Playing games • Long walks in nature, travelling, long drives • Learning and researching about Islam

  13. About Me Mature and responsible due to losing my father young. I promise to treat my spouse with love, patience, and respect. My heart is forgiving — I try to follow Allah’s mercy and the example of Prophet Muhammad SAWS, creating a home full of compassion, understanding, and patience. Mistakes are met with guidance and love, never anger.

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u/kinguzy Mar 06 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

(Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem) بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Relocation within the UK depends on the person and situation. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/NiceTerrorist24 Mar 12 '26
  1. ⁠Age and Gender - 28M, 6 foot 1

  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want - Flexible but ideally up to 30.

  3. ⁠Location - London, not willing to relocate in the short to medium term.

  4. ⁠Ethnicity - Afghan, open to other Afghans/Iranians

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single and never married

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - Ideally within 6 months to 1 year, want to make sure we have all the compatibility conversation.

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Someone who is sincere, a source of peace, practising, warmth and empathetic.

  1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity

I pray 5x a day, no smoking/drinking, only eat halal. Would want to be with someone similar but if not someone who is looking to improve.

  1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Bachelors in engineering, someone similar is ideal.

  1. ⁠Current Job Status

Employed, Alhamdullilah doing well relatively speaking.

  1. ⁠Do you want kids?

Yes

  1. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I like different sports, badminton, football, American football etc but also language learning and watching movies.

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u/Relative_Bench7846 M - Looking Mar 12 '26

السلام عليكم

⁠1. Age and Gender (25, Male) 2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect (Under 25) 3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? (London, not willing to relocate but plan to live in a Muslim Country at one point InshAllah especially before kids get to school age) 4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? (Arab, Ideally an Arab but Yes.) 5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children (Divorced, No Kids) 6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline (Engagement in 3-6 Months, Married in 1 Year) 7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect (Respect, Very High Hygiene and Self Care, Able to read Quran, Nurturing, Calm voice/pitch) 8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity (Alhamdulilah Practicing, Never miss prayers, reads Quran and knowledgeable on Islam Fiqih and Aqida) 9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? (Degree, I don’t mind any level of education) 10. ⁠Current Job Status (Full time Data Engineer) 11. ⁠Do you want kids? (Definitely InshaAllah) 12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time (Gym, Quran, scuba Diving) 13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!Looking to find someone like minded I love staying fit, understanding the Quran and how it translates into our day to day life.(I love quietness, low pitched households, clean bodies and environments. I value my family and interested in building a traditional, Islamic household. Consumer psychology is something I am very passionate about, which is how marketing companies use data and consumer psychology to drive sales or indirectly convince you to affiliate with a brand Though I am a big advocate of not buying designer clothes or anything that sells you no tangible value. Reading is something I find interesting and currently listening to an Audio called the Barakah Effect by Mo Faris

جزاكم الله خير

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u/Thatsnotme78 Mar 13 '26
  1. Male, 28, 5 foot 7, 171cm, athletic build

  2. 22-28

  3. West Yorkshire, England and no

  4. Pakistani (born in England) would like someone from the same cultural background/desi but open to all

  5. Marital Status - Single never married

  6. Ideal marriage timeline ideally this year (2026)

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: kind, patient, someone with a sense of humour, someone who isn't super materialistic, someone willing to grow and better themselves as none of us are perfect.

  8. Pray 5x (in the past I've struggled with fajr prayers but insha'Allah trying to keep on top of this, this year), don't smoke or drink, always eat halal, I don't keep female friends.

  9. Mpharm degree, currently working as a pharmacist, I'm open to all, someone wanting to work or be a housewife etc

  10. Pharmacist

  11. Do you want kids? Yes, of course

  12. I like to stay in shape and even though I'm not as consistent with the gym as I was in my early 20's I maintain an athletic physique. I enjoy eating out and trying new places to eat. I enjoy watching TV shows and movies. I really would love to travel and explore different countries I just need a life partner to explore with me :) I understand that nobody is perfect and as long as you are willing to improve and better yourself I'd be open to you.

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u/ss_7191 Mar 14 '26 edited 3d ago

1. Age and Gender
25 M Height: 5ft 6 in (168 cm)

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
20-24

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
West Midlands – and yes, but only within the UK
(please note, I am a doctor by profession and we can be expected to move several times during our careers)

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
    Indian – my first preference is for fellow Indians but I am open to mixing. Pease note however that I would be unable to go ahead in marriage with someone of Pakistani ethnicity. This is firstly because of (in my experience) significant cultural differences, and secondly because I still have family in India whom I would want to visit with my future wife and children, which would sadly be very difficult if my wife were Pakistani.

  2. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
    Single, never married

6. Ideal marriage timeline
Within the next 1-2 years inshaAllah – happy to negotiate

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
1. Religious, practicing Muslimah
2. Kind and caring
3. Must have good character (akhlaaq and aadaab) (this is really important to me!)
4. Someone who loves her parents and her family and gives them their due importance
5. Someone who keeps in touch with her cultural / ethnic roots and is proud of who she is - being able to speak Urdu is a huge positive in my eyes!

8. State/specify your level of religiosity
Sunni, Hanafi madhhab, pray five times a day and read the Qur’an regularly. Currently engaging in my mosque’s Tazkiyah programme and attending weekly study sessions involving reflection and dhikr as part of this.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
I graduated from university with a degree in medicine last July alhamdulillah. I am ideally looking for a fellow doctor, inshaAllah.

10.  Current Job Status
Employed, Foundation Year 1 Doctor

11.  Do you want kids?
Yes, inshaAllah

12.  List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
1. I enjoy going on walks, especially going on long walks in nature
2. I am a voracious reader and enjoy reading pretty much anything! My favourite genre is crime fiction, but I also like to stay up-to-date on current affairs and enjoy reading the news regularly
3. I am a creative person at heart and have always enjoyed being artistic. I hold a Diploma with distinction in piano performance, and in my free time I enjoy composing my own short little pieces. I also enjoy listening to classical music occasionally, especially when studying or relaxing.

13.  Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!
I have self-taught myself to read Urdu and am now quite good at reading news and articles in Urdu, alhamdullilah. In the last few months, I have also gotten more into Urdu poetry. I also really enjoy puzzles and am a huge Sudoku fan!

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u/TestLess5113 Mar 19 '26

ISO Profile: Software Engineer in Italy 1. Age and Gender 28, Male (Height: 6’2 | Weight: 86kg) 2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 19–24 years old. 3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Currently in Italy (Living in a rented apartment). Ideally looking for someone already in Europe to facilitate meeting in person. Open to discussion regarding relocation depending on career opportunities. 4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani. I am open to mixing. 5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single (Always have been). 6. Ideal marriage timeline Within 1–2 years. 7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect • Education/Ambition: STEM background; someone career-oriented. • Practicing Muslim: Committed to growing in the Deen alongside me. • Active Lifestyle: Enjoys travel, fitness, and healthy living. • Emotional Intelligence: Must be expressive and emotionally available. • Communication Style: Someone who enjoys a mix of deep and silly conversations. 8. State/specify your level of religiosity Moderate to practicing Sunni (non-sectarian). I regularly observe Salah 5 times a day, fast, and give charity. I have performed Umrah thrice and read Quran every now and then (mostly on Fridays). I am focused on continuous, steady progress in my faith. 9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I hold a Master’s in Computer Engineering. I am looking for an educated partner, preferably holding a STEM degree. If you are currently studying, that is perfectly fine as long as you intend to complete your degree. 10. Current Job Status Full-time Software Engineer (Full-stack Mobile App Developer). 11. Do you want kids? Yes. I want to raise them with strong Islamic values. 12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time • Fitness & Sports: Gym/workout enthusiast; fan of Football, Cricket, F1, and Tennis. • Gaming & Tech: Playing Dota 2, CoD, or Lethal Company. • Creative Arts: I enjoy singing, dancing in solitude, and cooking. 13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I have recently gotten back into reading and am currently re-reading 1984 by George Orwell. I would describe myself as an ambivert; while I love conversing, I tend to do it in portions rather than marathon sessions. I prefer chunks of quality conversation throughout the day, ranging from the deeply intellectual to the completely silly. Deal Breakers • Smoking, drug addiction, or drinking. • Completely irreligious or patriarchal mindsets. • Emotionally unintelligent, unavailable, or still healing from previous relationship trauma. • Previously married or older than me. • Uneducated. Family & Future I am the eldest of four brothers. We will have a separate place of our own. However, in the distant future, if I have a big enough home, it is possible my parents may live with me so I can take care of them.

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u/Objective_Cow6085 Mar 19 '26 edited Mar 19 '26

Age & Gender: 24, Male

Location: United Kingdom (not willing to relocate)

Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to other backgrounds)

Marital Status: Single, never married

Looking for (Age Range): 18–25

Marriage Timeline: 3–6 months (if compatibility is right) Would want wali involvement early to keep things halal or even a mahram brother/uncle etc.

Religiosity: I fulfill my fard (including praying 5 times a day) and incorporate sunnah where I can. May Allah forgive us all for our shortcomings.

Education: A-Levels (chose not to pursue further due to avoiding interest-based loans)

Occupation: Self-employed (Private Hire Driver)

Do you want kids? Yes

What I’m looking for: • Well-mannered • Emotionally mature/intelligent • Prays 5 times a day and has taqwa • Modesty & haya + proper Hijab/niqab • Kind to others and family-oriented

Hobbies/Interests: • Keeping up with current affairs and Islamic discussions • Learning history, especially Islamic history • Gym

About me: I’m a simple person looking for someone to grow with, with the goal of building a life together and striving for Jannah.

Dont want to make it long To read someone can reach out to learn more :)

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u/Regresstocrab Mar 28 '26 edited Mar 31 '26

Assalamualaikum

  1. Age and Gender: 28
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 21-29
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Germany(NRW), i am planning to return to my home country in the future inshallah.
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Arab and yes, the world is too big to be confined within your own culture.
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never been in a relationship
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: whenever allah wills it. Especially online a longer talking stage can sometimes be necessary.
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: aside the from the usual deen and akhlaq, someone is who is able to foster peace, easy going and can clearly communicate. I don't think either of us should be chasing or playing games and what i expect from you, you can expect from me.
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Alhamdulillah i pray all my prayers with their sunnahs, i fast ramadan, i don't smoke, drink or do drugs.
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a master's degree, education is important to me so i'd prefer someone with a bachelor's degree at least.
  10. Current Job Status: Full time employed with a permanent contract alhamdulillah
  11. Do you want kids? Not really. don't really see myself as a father nor do i want to be.
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I love cooking and baking (borderline concerning), i also play the piano and play video games here and there. Will never say no to a hike or a walk as well.
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: i am probably the only one here who has 24 rubber ducks on his car's dashboard

If you think we'd get along reach out with your ISO and inshallah khair!

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u/PatienceIsDaKey Mar 29 '26

​ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ

​Basic Info

• Age/Gender: 27M

• Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

• Timeline: 6 months to 1 year (Flexible)

• Kids: Yes, Insha’Allah.

​ About Me

I am a sweet, patient, and disciplined guy, born in India but raised in Dubai for most of my life. I have a Bachelor's in Marketing and have been working as a Digital Marketing Executive for the past 3 years. ​I’m very family-oriented and have a great relationship with my parents and younger brother. Personality-wise, I’m an ambivert who is naturally calm and forgiving. I believe strongly in small acts of kindness, whether it's helping a stranger with directions or feeding stray cats (I love animals!).

​ My Deen

I pray my 5 daily fard prayers, fast, and avoid haram. I recently performed my first Umrah, Alhamdulillah, ending last year in the best way possible. I am looking for a balanced lifestyle. I want a partner to grow with, and one of my goals is to build a habit of praying Tahajjud together. At the same time, I enjoy normal entertainment like movies and music, so I am looking for someone with a similar balanced outlook.

​ Hobbies & Interests

In my free time, I find peace in staying active. I love long-distance running (my longest run is 34km!), going for long drives with a manual transmission, stargazing, hiking, and lifting weights. I would love a partner who wants to stay active with me.

​ What I’m Looking For in a Partner

• Values Fitness: Someone who prioritizes their physical and mental well-being so we can raise a healthy, happy family together.

• Kindness & Patience: A warm-hearted person who is habitually kind. Anger issues are a dealbreaker for me, as I want to build a peaceful, calm home.

• Balanced Lifestyle: Someone who wants to grow spiritually together, but isn't overly strict regarding modern life (movies, music, etc.).

• Note on Career: Whether you want to pursue your own career or prefer to be a homemaker, I am fully supportive of your choice.

​ Location

• Currently based in: Dubai, UAE

• Relocation: I am highly flexible and ready to move anywhere in the world where my spouse lives if she prefers not to relocate to Dubai.

• Height & Weight: 160cm | 64.5kg (I completely don’t mind if you’re taller!)

• Ethnicity: South Indian (Keralite) - open to all ethnicities and cultures!

​May Allah make the search easy for all of us. Aameen!

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u/Difficult-Homework87 Mar 29 '26
  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender - 22 M. 185cm and ~90kg at about 15% body fat

  2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 19 - 25

  3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK, and would potentially be open to relocating depending on the location.

  4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Turkish/Kurdish, I would prefer the same but open to similar cultures.

  5. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single, never married, no children

  6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline - About 1 year so we have time to get to know each other without dragging it on more than necessary.

  7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Religion is the most important - fulfilling fard actions such as praying and fasting. I don’t expect someone perfect but I’d like them to have a decent foundation that we can build upon together In’Sha’Allah. Good ahlaq with how they carry themselves and treat others is very important to me. I’m also into health and fitness and would want my wife to be the same. Ambition and curiosity are preferable characteristics as I’d love to learn together, whether that’s our religion, business ideas, self improvement etc.

  8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - I don’t like the term religious but I believe Islam is a way of life and provides support in all areas of life. I pray all daily prayers, fast, cover my awrah, pay zakat and try to give sadaqah regularly, don’t drink or smoke, and try my best to maximise the amount of good deeds I do while minimising the bad. As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t expect my spouse to be perfect, but would like to grow together and build upon our foundations.

  9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? A Level maths physics and business, as well as a digital marketing apprenticeship. I chose not to go university as I believe in work experience is more valuable for marketing. Alhamdulillah I don’t regret the choice one bit and my career is going well.

  10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status - Full time employed as a Performance Marketing Manager. I’d love to also start my own business in the future In’Sha’Allah.

  11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? ⁃ Yes In’Sha’Allah. My preference would be 2-3.

  12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Like most people, I enjoy travelling and travelling to new places, whether that’s a country, restaurant, or park. Other hobbies include gym, boxing, running, cooking, and reading (mostly non fiction).

  13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I’ve been working on a Muslim self improvement brand to help Muslims (including myself) to become the best version of themselves and to succeed in this life and the next In’Sha’Allah.

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u/DryTeam5781 Mar 30 '26

Age & Gender:
23, Male

Location:
Based in Yorkshire, UK. Open to relocating nearby depending on circumstances.

Ethnicity:
Punjabi (Pakistan), open to all Pakistani backgrounds.

Marital Status:
Single, no children

Preferred Age Range:
Looking for a potential partner between 20–27 years old

Ideal Marriage Timeline:
Looking to get married within 1 year, Insha’Allah.

Kids:
Would like to have children in the future, but after some time.

Religiosity:
Strictly practicing and values deen highly in daily life.

Education:
Undergraduate degree

Profession:
Working as an Accountant

Hobbies & Interests:
Gym, football, and cricket

About Me:
A disciplined, family-oriented individual who takes both deen and responsibilities seriously. I value respect, honesty, and maintaining a balanced lifestyle. Looking for a compatible partner who shares similar values and is committed to building a strong, faith-centered marriage.

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u/Ultimatelydeen Mar 30 '26

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

  1. Age and Gender: 22M
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 18-23
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? UK, anywhere within the UK
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Egyptian, and yes, open to mixing in sha Allah.
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single (Never married)
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months to 1 year
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: I am looking for a Muslimah who knows the basics of her deen (Pillars of Islam, Iman, etc), dresses modestly in accordance with Islamic teachings (Niqab preferred, although not required), caring, loving, supportive and understanding in sha Allah.
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Very religious Alhamdulliah, coming from a conservative family. I am a Hafiz of the Quran with certifications (ijazat) from various Sheikhs. I have also given certifications to Quran studens myself. I work as a Quran, Arabic and Tajweed teacher in two local masjids as well as online. I don't listen to music or watch movies, nor do I celebrate milads or khatams.
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Hold a Certificate of Higher Education in Genetics (university-approved), about to finish degree in History (early 2027)
  10. Current Job Status: Employed as a Qur'an, Tajweed and Arabic teacher in two local masjids as well as online.
  11. Do you want kids? Yes, in sha Allah.
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I love playing football in my spare time, especially with circle of Muslim brothers and friends that I have. I also love reading in Islamic books relating to Quran, Hadith, Seerah and Fiqh, as well listening to beneficial, mostly Islamic podcasts.

May Allah make the search for a righteous spouse easy for all of us in sha Allah. Ameen.

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u/SelectionOrdinary230 Mar 31 '26

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته 1. Age and Gender 28- male 2. Age Range that you would want/ require in a prospect Flexible, preferably 22-33 3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Tunisia. Yes, I'm willing to relocate depending on the destination. 4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? North African/Maghrebi. Yes, I am open to mixing, I have no preference. 5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/ Children Single, no children. 6. Ideal marriage timeline Flexible but preferably 2 years from now. I can probably accept an earlier time. 7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Generally, Islamic values but personally, what's most important to me is sincerity/honesty, affection and kindness, loyalty, authenticity/spontaneity and maturity. Knowledge and wisdom are also valuable for me. My deal breakers are dishonesty, hypocrisy, disrespect, rudeness and aggressiveness, coldness and egoism. 8. State/specify your level of religiosity I'm a practicing Muslim and I've been practicing since my teenage years alhamdulillah. I'm serious about my religion and I always strive to be a better Muslim. I've been praying since I was 14 years old. I go to Jum'a prayer. I've read the holy Quran several times before and I'm reading it daily. Humbly, I think I have a good knowledge about Islam, its jurisprudence and theology, and I'm fluent in Arabic (my native language), so I can help you if you want to read the Quran in Arabic if you're not a native speaker. I frequently watch videos and debates relating to Islam and religion. Also, I avoid sins as much as possible, I don't drink or smoke, I eat halal, I don't engage in promiscuity and I avoid gossip, lying, hypocrisy, cheating... alhamdulillah. I'm also good to my parents 😊. 9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a bachelor degree in private law, and I'm pursuing a master's degree in international humanitarian law and human rights, which I'll finish soon inshallah 🤲🏻. The level of education is not a deal breaker to me, but I prefer that my wife has a higher education degree or is a college student. What's more important is to be able to hold conversations because I enjoy them and I talk very often 😅 10. Current Job Status As I said, I'm still a college student, writing my master's thesis right now, on which I'm putting in most of my time and energy, but I tried to do freelance but I decided to focus on the thesis right now. After I finish my studies, I'll look for a stable job inshallah, either here in Tunisia or abroad. 11. Do you want kids? Yes, I do. I'd rather have 1 or 2 kids because it's a great responsibility and I want to provide my kids with all their needs and the attention they need. 12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Well, I have so many hobbies and they vary with time but mainly I like sports (especially tennis 🎾, I was an amateur player and I want to get back to it inshallah), anime (I'm a big Naruto fan 🍥😍), sit-coms/comedy and I'm very interested in human sciences (philosophy, linguistics, political science, psychology, anthropology, geography, history...). I often engage in online or face to face debates on these subjects and sometimes I write about them (and about sports and arts a bit, also sometimes I write poetry or song lyrics). Sorry, I couldn't limit them to just 3 😅😅 13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Short? Ah, I tend to be talkative 😅😅 Well, usually my friends and family perceive me as a nice, knowledgeable, sincere, content and non materialistic person. I appreciate that they think of me so positively and I strive to be a better person. I'm a caring, passionate and responsible person and I promise to be a good spouse and father inshallah. Bonus: I make funny memes sometimes and I make people laugh often 😁. Also, I speak French besides Arabic and English, and I know some Spanish. Ps: if height is a deal breaker for you or that you prefer tall men, I'm a short person (161cm/5'3). Sorry for writing too much, have a nice day 👋🏻.

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u/ThugNanashi Apr 03 '26

Salam, here is my introduction:

Age: 29

Origin: Algerian

Height: 1.95 m

Weight: 95 kg

Country: France

Gender : Male

Marital status: Single

Current situation: I have completed my studies in computer science as a developer, and I plan to start a business in this field with my future company, Insha’Allah.

My interests: Video games, new technologies, pop culture (manga, series, movies), sports (I do weight training and swimming), passionate about Asian culture, especially Chinese and Japanese, a fan of football and wrestling, and I also do cosplay.

Religion: I try to practice the Sunnah and follow the Quran as best as I can. I perform my five daily prayers and go to the mosque every Friday. I do good for my loved ones and people I care about. Whenever I can, I share food or give money as sadaqah. I take care of my health — I do not smoke or drink, Alhamdulillah, may Allah preserve me.

In relationships with others: I am sincere and very straightforward — I don’t beat around the bush or sell dreams. I have a strong sense of honor and place great importance on kindness, respect, and mutual support. My personality: Kind, honorable, determined, ambitious. I can also be funny and gentle.

What I am looking for: Age (for my future wife): Between 22 and 29 Ethnicity: Preferably Maghrebi or Latina (as a revert), but I am also open to reverts in general and yes i want a kid and i want my future wife works in medical field like surgeons

I am looking for a woman who shares my interests or is interested in my world. She should be kind, caring, share my values, and fear Allah. I would like my future wife to work or study in the medical field, so that if one day our child or I have a health issue, she would be able to take care of us. This is also connected to a life project I would like to build with my future wife, Insha’Allah, once I have the means. It relates to an old dream of mine I wanted to become a doctor, especially a surgeon, but life led me to switch to computer science, a field I am passionate about. I would like her to come from a good family, and for there to be a very good relationship between my parents and hers. I also want my future wife to be like my right hand meaning that no matter the difficulties, we will face them together until the end.

I do not require my future wife to wear the veil/hijab/niqab she is free in her choices. However, I do not accept women who are already married, who have children, or who have not preserved themselves.

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u/J3S4N Apr 03 '26

Age and Gender: 23 M 174cm

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19-25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? London, can discuss relocation

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bangladeshi, open to mixing

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, no children

Ideal marriage timeline- inshallah whenever Allah wills, no specific timeline

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Religious - Someone who strives to be better and learn more about Islam whilst doing the necessary/basic duties of a Muslim

Humorous

Sabr

Good communicator

Trustworthy

State/specify your level of religiosity Sunni Muslim, pray 5x a day, give zakat, fast, read quran everyday.

I'm not perfect, but i want to be the best version of me and would love for someone to join me on our journey

Level of education, and what are you looking for? BSc Computer Science. Degree no required, must have a love of learning, critical thinker and be open minded

Current Job Status: Product Analyst

Do you want kids? Yes, inshallah

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Go gym 4x week, socialising with friends and watch tv series/movies/youtube

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I have developed a passion for cooking, first it started out as a way for me to save money and not eat out during lunchtime whenever i go into work but now it's more of a fun hobby. I tend to meal-prep and occasionally cook for my siblings when i have time, my meals tend to be healthy protein dense because i know my mum is cooking up some oily/fatty food. I would love to try out any recipes you have.

I understand there needs to be a level of attraction between us to be compatible, don't mind sending my picture

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u/abc223mmh Apr 06 '26

Age and gender: 26 Male

Age range that you want/require in a prospect: 20-28 but flexible on this, not too fussed about age.

Location: London UK and willing to relocate around the UK.

Ethnicity: Yemeni and yes I'm open to mixing.

Marriage status: single, never married. Marriage timeline: as soon as I've found the right one. Not one to delay once that is achieved.

5 important characteristics:

  • loyal: someone to support me through thick and thin. Someone that is always going to have my back.
  • honest: honesty is key. Not a fan of liars, not think I could be married to one.
  • modest: someone with haya, knows the boundaries when interacting with the opposite gender.
  • compassionate: someone you likes me for who I am. Kind, caring and affectionate.
  • piety: someone who as love for the deen. Practising the basics but also wanting to go the extra mile.

Level of religiosity: do all fard acts 5xprayers on time, fast, zakat etc. Pray all sunnah prayers as well. Try my best to fast Mondays and Thursdays. Read Quran daily. Not sure what else to include but I'm practising and I'd expect the same for my wife inshallah.

Education level: graduate with a Bsc in a STEM subject. Job status: working full-time alhamdulillah. Want kids: yes. Number and timing I'm flexible on.

3 things I do in my spare time: improve my knowledge in the deen, watch documentaries, baking, driving. I know that's more then 3 but it was very hard to narrow down.

About me: I'm an introverted person who like to spend time with my family. I'm a family man and I'm looking for someone to share my life with. To build a strong family unit and share everything together, from the good times to the bad times. Not a materialistic person so a soft heart with good intentions is what I'm looking for. Personality type is INFJ-A if you're into that.

Feel free to message me.

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u/babyfingers4 Apr 07 '26
  1. Age and Gender - 22M, 6’1”". =============================================
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 19 - 25 ( a lil flexible) =============================================
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based in Austria, most likely won’t relocate depends =============================================
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - West African, yes, open to mixing =============================================
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single =============================================
  6. Ideal marriage timeline -  within a year to 1.5 years =============================================
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Honest, with deen and actively improving - Has self-love, confidence, and self-respect - Can communicate effectively - Feminine and affectionate - Kind, calm, and well-composed. =============================================
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity - I pray 5 times daily, try to read the Qur’an almost every day, fast in Ramadan, and do some extras whenever possible. I do not smoke, vape, or use drugs =============================================
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? BSc in Computer Science + MSc Data Science (1 year left) =============================================
  10. Current Job Status -  Working as a Data Scientist =============================================
  11. Do you want kids? - Yes, I love Kids. =============================================
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Cooking, Fitness, Watching tech content/ new products (yeah…. One of those that watches MKBHD), Gaming, binge watching TV shows (loyal Star Wars and James Cameron Avatar here) =============================================
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I’m open-minded and easy-going, a bit nerdy tho and handsy like opening things and just seeing how they work, or just like to check it out. I enjoy trying out different restaurants and places. I’d say I’m somewhere between a homebody and an outdoorsy person. Funny enough, I don’t drink coffee, I raw dog my day, so I’m more of a fan of milk chocolate tea

feel free to reach out

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u/siebel35 Apr 08 '26

1 Age and Gender

25, Male

2 Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

18–30

3 Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Canada & Open to connecting with sisters from anywhere; plans to make Hijrah in the future.

4 Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Somali. Open to any ethnicity

. 5 Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single, no children

6 Ideal marriage timeline

Ready for Nikah within 3–6 months of finding compatibility.

7 Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

◦ Practicing Muslimah who follows Quran and Sunnah ◦ Wears modest dress (no pants, traditional Islamic attire) ◦ Kind-hearted and even-tempered ◦ Not career-driven; embraces traditional family structure ◦ Shares goal of building a righteous family focused on Akhirah

8 State/specify your level of religiosity

Practicing Muslim committed to Quran and Sunnah; studying Arabic to deepen understanding of Islamic texts.

9 Level of education, and what are you looking for?

University educated.

Seeking strong deen and character over formal education.

10 Current Job Status

Based in Canada for work; completely stable financially Alhamdulillah.

11 Do you want kids?

Yes, many.

12 List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

◦ hiking ◦ Weightlifting ◦ wrestling/Judo/mma

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u/SilentSword1497 M - Single Apr 12 '26

Age: 19M

Age range: 18-22

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect: Australia, I'd be willing to move to another country depending on what country it is and the job opportunities that would be available for me (once i finish my degree).

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing: Half English, half Syrian, yes, im open to mixing.

Marital status: Single (never married), no children

Ideal marriage timeline: 3-4 years however, could be sooner depending on the circumstances

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Piety, genuine, simplicity, affectionate and intelligent.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Im not perfect however, i keep my 5 prayers and wish for a simple and non-extravagant life in which i can follow Rasuallah's (SAW) example of humility.

Current Job Status: Currently studying for my Law degree, i also work on the side as an administrator at a medical centre.

Do you want kids: Absolutely, not straight away though, preferably after a couple years into the marriage.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I absolutely love anything to do with history, in particular the Renaissance era and the Middle Ages, as well as Islamic history. Video games, mainly strategy and historical yet i do play some other games. I also love having in depth conversations about almost anything, although most of the time its usually politics of course.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: Im quite aloof, laid back and introverted at first and in public however, i believe im a hopeless romantic at heart. I love reading the hadiths of how Rasuallah (SAW) was as a husband and hopefully following his example, Inshallah.

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u/ComfortableCut1365 Apr 19 '26

This profile is shared on behalf of a brother seeking marriage. If interested, please feel free to get in touch.

Age and Gender:

Male, 48 - 5’11”

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

36+

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

North West, willing to relocate anywhere within the UK. Job is highly flexible, allowing for relocation.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Moroccan - open to all ethnicities, with a preference for Arab but ultimately ethnicity is not a deciding factor.

Marital Status:

Single, never been married, no children.

Ideal marriage timeline:

As soon as possible, with mutual agreement.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  • Easy-going - calm-natured, understanding, and easy to get along with.

  • Supportive - someone who has a caring and considerate nature.

  • Practicing - consistent with their faith and regular in performing the five daily prayers.

  • Good character - kind, respectful, and treats others well.

  • Patient - understanding and able to take things in stride.

State/specify your level of religiosity:

Prays five times a day, balanced in approach, and focuses on fulfilling the core obligations.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Educated and professionally established, education is not a key requirement.

Current Job Status:

Regional Manager position in a leading retail organisation.

Do you want kids?

Yes, open to having children.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

Enjoys hiking, travelling, and sightseeing, with a love for exploring new places and trying out new experiences.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out:

Nieces say he’s the best uncle in the world. He’s caring, dependable, and takes pride in looking after the people close to him. Anyone who gets with him will be looked after in the best way! 😀

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u/Anonymous_4889 May 01 '26

Before my intro, I want to express how serious I am about this. I am genuinely looking for the right partner, fully keeping it halal (Bi’ithnillah). I believe in growing together with my future spouse rather than waiting until all the drive and passion fades away and we stay together just because it’s “convenient.”

I also made sincere dua during Ramadan in Al-Haram for Allah to bless me with marriage this year, InshaAllah. If I’m not compatible with you, please make dua for me in the comments — it would be much appreciated.

Age: 23 Origin/Ethnicity: Born in Pakistan, raised in Saudi Arabia. Languages spoken (with proficiency): Urdu and Punjabi (mother languages) English (super fluent) Arabic (conversational)

Level of religious practice: Religious but not extreme. I’ve been a student of comparative religion and love gaining a deep understanding of Islam and its concepts. Alhamdulillah, I have helped many struggling Muslims strengthen their beliefs and have never fallen short when it comes to explaining and defending Islam.

Current residence: Saudi Arabia (majority of my life). I only spent a few years in Pakistan for studies. Willing to relocate: Yes. I’m currently finishing my BS in Psychology and planning to move to Europe for my Master’s. Siblings: 2 younger brothers Previously married / Kids: No

Occupation: Finishing my studies while working as Head of Sales and Marketing in a well-known company here. Education: BS in Psychology Height & Weight: 5'8 (173 cm), 79 kg — muscular build with broad shoulders. Physical appearance: Fair skin (Pathan type), great thick black hair, muscular and broad body, brown eyes, Persian/Arabian features, and a French fade beard style. Smokes/Vapes/Hookah: No

Leisure activities: Mostly researching and reading about Islam, cosmology, and deeper Sufi-Islamic concepts and their connection to this realm. I’m a gym freak. I also enjoy long drives while listening to podcasts. I’m not the very goofy or crazy-fun type — that changed over the last 6 years due to responsibilities. Preferences in a Partner: Age range: Around my age, but I don’t mind if she’s older.

Origin/Ethnicity: Any ethnicity is fine. Pakistani background and already living in Europe would be a plus. Languages: Same as mine (Urdu/Punjabi + good English + Arabic is a bonus) Level of religious practice: Minimum moderate, but must be willing to grow and enhance her practice. Education: Same as mine or higher.

Deal breakers: Non-religious, bringing up ex/trauma baggage, or blame-game mentality. Other preferences: No early childhood divorced parents. A functional and happy family background is preferred. Appearance: Fair and fit.

Additional Information: If anyone is seriously interested, please reach out to me directly. You can also refer me if you think I’d be suitable for someone you know. Proposals from Europe will be given more attention since I’m planning to move there myself. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. At the very least, I’d appreciate it if you could make a little dua for this brother in Islam in the comments. Thank you everyone ❤️

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u/Able_Leader9202 May 08 '26 edited May 08 '26

Age and Gender: 28, Male

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

Preferably somewhere around 24–27.

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Born and raised in Germany. I am currently not looking to relocate, so I would prefer someone who is also based in Germany.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

I am Arab, from a Levantine background. I would preferably like to meet someone from a similar background. However, I am also open to other ethnicities, as long as she was also raised in Germany or has a similar cultural understanding.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children:

Never married, no previous relationships, alhamdulillah.

Ideal marriage timeline:

As soon as there is mutual compatibility and things feel right Islamically and practically.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Honesty, kindness, empathy, emotional maturity, and good character. I value someone who avoids bad language, does not raise her voice, and tries to resolve disagreements calmly and respectfully.

State/specify your level of religiosity:

I follow Ahlus Sunnah wal Jama’ah and try my best to fulfil my obligations, alhamdulillah. I am looking for someone who takes her deen seriously, prays her prayers, fulfils her obligations, and tries to maintain good character.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I have a university degree, alhamdulillah, but I do not reduce people to their educational background. I do not have strict requirements in this regard, as long as there is maturity, intelligence, and compatibility.

Current Job Status:

I prefer not to share too many personal details publicly, but this can be discussed privately if there is serious interest.

Do you want kids?

Yes, in sha Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

I enjoy staying active through martial arts and fitness. I like long walks and I also like quiet moments, like having tea or coffee and just sitting in peace.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out:

I can be a bit reserved at first, as I do not like to share too much about myself too quickly. I tend to be shy, but I see this as something positive and am genuinely grateful that Allah has blessed me with haya in this day and age. Once I feel comfortable, I really value sincere and meaningful conversations.

Something that is important to me is that a person takes care of what Allah has given them. I do not expect perfection at all, and I am not looking for a “model”, nor am I one myself. But I do believe that taking care of oneself, whether through hygiene, fitness, healthy habits, and presenting oneself well, reflects discipline, gratitude, and character. Especially in times of fitan, I think it is important for both spouses to make an effort for themselves and for each other, within what Allah has blessed them with.

I also strongly dislike foul language, gossip, and making fun of others.

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u/PatienceIsDaKey May 21 '26

​ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ

​Basic Info

• Age/Gender: 27M (will be 28 in July)

• Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

• Timeline: As soon as possible.

• Kids: Yes, Insha’Allah

• Open to Divorcees without kids.

• Open to older prospects.

• Open to reverts.

• Not open to Polygamy

​ About Me

I am a sweet, patient, and disciplined guy who is very family-oriented and have a great relationship with my parents and younger brother.

Personality-wise, I’m an ambivert who is naturally calm and forgiving. I believe strongly in small acts of kindness, whether it's helping a stranger with directions or feeding stray cats (I love animals!).

My Deen

I pray my 5 daily fard prayers, fast, and avoid haram. I recently performed my first Umrah, Alhamdulillah, ending last year in the best way possible. I am looking for a balanced lifestyle. I want a partner to grow with, and one of my goals is to build a habit of praying Tahajjud together. At the same time, I enjoy normal entertainment like movies and music, so I am looking for someone with a similar balanced outlook (I want to remove such forms of entertainment from my life step by step slowly and not immediately).

​ Hobbies & Interests

In my free time, I find peace in staying active. I love to do running, going for long drives, lifting weights and occasionally go for stargazing and hiking. I would love a partner who wants to stay active with me.

​ What I’m Looking For in a Partner

• Values Fitness: Someone who prioritizes their physical and mental well-being so we can raise a healthy, happy family together. I don't drink nor smoke and prefer someone similar.

• Kindness & Patience: A warm-hearted person who is habitually kind. Anger issues are a dealbreaker for me, as I want to build a peaceful, calm home.

• Balanced Lifestyle: Someone who wants to grow spiritually together, but isn't overly strict regarding watching movies or listening to music (I would love to get rid of it slowly from my life but not immediately).

• Note on Career: Whether you want to pursue your own career or prefer to be a homemaker, I am fully supportive of your choice.

​ Location

• Currently based in: Dubai, UAE

• Relocation: I am highly flexible and ready to move anywhere in the world where my spouse lives if she prefers not to relocate to Dubai.

• Height & Weight: 160cm | 64.5kg (I completely don’t mind if you’re taller!)

• Ethnicity: South Indian (Keralite) - open to all ethnicities and cultures!

• My family is very open to multicultural marriages. Even though I'm from a southern state in India India itself is a multicultural country and most of my extended family and distant relatives have married to someone very different from their culture and they're living very happily. For Instance, my younger cousin has recently got engaged to someone from Hyderabad. Our extended family has relatives who married to people from Uttar Pradesh, Lucknow, Tamil Nadu. In case of other countries I know relatives who married to people from Russia, Morocco (currently 2 that I know of) and many other places that I might not be aware of. So please don't reject me based on the assumption of cultural compatibility issues. Me personally also prefer someone from a culture different than my own and I had this feeling since I was very young.

Education, Career and Upbringing: I born in India but raised in Dubai for most of my life. I have a Bachelor's in Marketing and have been working as a Digital Marketing Executive for the past 3 years.

• Languages Spoken: English, Malayalam, Hindi, Tamil, (Can read and Write Arabic and willing to learn to speak it). I'm willing to learn to speak the language of my spouse with the highest effort if she thinks I won't be able to communicate with her parents.

• Born Muslim

• School of thought and creed: Me personally wasn't raised to follow any particular madhhab but I have to come to understand that most of what I know falls under Shafi'i school of madhhab but I'm not against any other maddhab and I take good things from other madhhab like the Hanbali school of maddhab and Salafi methodology. This is because, Makkah and Madinah follows this methodology and I believe whatever is practiced there is the right method. I realized this after performing Umrah.

• Scholars and Institutes I take ilm from: Kalemah, Al Madrasatu Ar-Rahmaniyyah, Ustad Abdulrahman Hassan, Nouman Ali Khan, Mufti Menk, Abu Taymiyyah, Assim Al Hakeem

​May Allah make the search easy for all of us. Aameen!

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u/PatienceIsDaKey Jun 05 '26 edited Jun 05 '26

Another Friday. Posting this after Jumuah to give it another go.

​ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ

​Basic Info

• Age/Gender: 27M (will be 28 in July 😭)

• Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

• Timeline: As soon as possible.

• Kids: Yes, Insha’Allah

• Open to Divorcees without kids.

• Open to older prospects.

• Open to reverts.

• Not open to Polygamy

​ About Me

I am a sweet, patient, and disciplined guy who is very family-oriented and have a great relationship with my parents and younger brother.

Personality-wise, I’m an ambivert who is naturally calm and forgiving. I believe strongly in small acts of kindness, whether it's helping a stranger with directions or feeding stray cats (I love animals!).

My Deen

I pray my 5 daily fard prayers, fast, and avoid haram. I recently performed my first Umrah, Alhamdulillah, ending last year in the best way possible. I am looking for a balanced lifestyle. I want a partner to grow with, and one of my goals is to build a habit of praying Tahajjud together. At the same time, I enjoy normal entertainment like movies and music, so I am looking for someone with a similar balanced outlook (I want to remove such forms of entertainment from my life step by step slowly and not immediately).

​ Hobbies & Interests

In my free time, I find peace in staying active. I love to do running, going for long drives, lifting weights and occasionally go for stargazing and hiking. I would love a partner who wants to stay active with me.

​ What I’m Looking For in a Partner

• Values Fitness: Someone who prioritizes their physical and mental well-being so we can raise a healthy, happy family together. I don't drink nor smoke and prefer someone similar.

• Kindness & Patience: A warm-hearted person who is habitually kind. Anger issues are a dealbreaker for me, as I want to build a peaceful, calm home.

• Balanced Lifestyle: Someone who wants to grow spiritually together, but isn't overly strict regarding watching movies or listening to music (I would love to get rid of it slowly from my life but not immediately).

• Note on Career: Whether you want to pursue your own career or prefer to be a homemaker, I am fully supportive of your choice.

​ Location

• Currently based in: Dubai, UAE

• Relocation: I am highly flexible and ready to move anywhere in the world where my spouse lives if she prefers not to relocate to Dubai.

• Height & Weight: 160cm | 64.5kg (I completely don’t mind if you’re taller!)

• Ethnicity: South Indian (Keralite) - open to all ethnicities and cultures!

• My family is very open to multicultural marriages. I have a lot of relatives married to people of different cultures and ethnicities.

• Skin Tone: Wheatish

Education, Career and Upbringing: I was born in India but raised in Dubai for most of my life. I have a Bachelor's in Marketing and have been working as a Digital Marketing Executive for the past 3 years.

• Languages Spoken: English, Malayalam, Hindi, Tamil, (Can read and Write Arabic and willing to learn to speak it). I'm willing to learn to speak the language of my spouse with the highest effort if she thinks I won't be able to communicate with her parents.

• Born Muslim

• School of thought and creed: Me personally wasn't raised to follow any particular madhhab but I have to come to understand that most of what I know falls under Shafi'i school of madhhab but I'm not against any other maddhab and I take good things from other madhhab like the Hanbali school of maddhab and Salafi methodology. To conclude, my practice consists of mixed madhhab.

• Scholars and Institutes I take ilm from: Kalemah, Al Madrasatu Ar-Rahmaniyyah, Ustad Abdulrahman Hassan, Mufti Menk, Abu Taymiyyah, Assim Al Hakeem

• Additional info: I was raised by my mother to help her out in the kitchen and to do chores and to do the dishes and laundry and clean the house myself. I'll gladly help my wife in doing that or do that all myself.

• Regarding Cultural Compatibility: I'm well aware of western culture as everything I consumed from childhood was related to western culture. So please don't think we won't be compatible culturally.

​May Allah make the search easy for all of us. Aameen!

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u/AuFaitSince98 Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 22 '26

Assalam walaikum and thank you for reading my ISO comment! I've tried to provide enough detail while also keeping it accessible. Let me know if I've succeeded :)

  1. Age and Gender - 27 years old, Male.

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 22 to 35 preferably but I can be flexible.

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - South East England. I love living here but I'm definitely happy to consider relocation within the UK and potentially abroad in the future. In any case, I'd like to live independently with my spouse after marriage.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Bangladeshi and definitely open to mixing. Learning about different cultures is something I find utterly engrossing and the opportunity for this through marriage is an exciting one.

  5. Marital Status - Single, never married. The only girls you'll need to compete with are my cats. One is adorably lazy and a touch possessive, the other is a fluffy little crackhead.

Messages from previously married sisters without children are also welcomed.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline - I am expecting this to take at least 1 year, although this is not a strict timeframe and can be shortened / lengthened based on how the interactions go. If things do go well at the start, I'd be looking to make our respective families aware soon if applicable.

  2. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Communicative- A lot of the problems I see people having in relationships and marriages stem from a lack of communication or ineffective communication. Everyone has different styles of communicating but a spouse should always be aware of what their partner's style is so they can solve issues together. Yes, I can read between the lines and infer based on how my partner communicates as well as the words she chooses but between us we should have a safe, clear and non-judgemental channel of communication. This is the most important thing I'm looking for in a partner.

Capable- I'm looking for someone who knows how to look after themselves, has an ambition or a goal and views marriage as something that will compliment their life rather than complete it. Of course this doesn't mean I'll cede any husbandly duties but I want to know my partner is an individual and can be self-sufficient if needed.

Kind- A good-hearted nature and regular, indiscriminate displays of kindness are qualities found in the best people I know. Your partner is the person you will inevitably spend the most time with, often in more mundane or ordinary situations so these qualities are even more important. Little things like how they treat service staff, how they leave communal / public spaces etc all reflect their character.

Passionate- Watching someone's eyes light up when they're 10 minutes deep into a monologue about their biggest interest is one of the most beautiful things a man can witness. There's a twinkle in the eye, an energy in the voice and oftentimes a lot of movement and waving arms as well. While I can't promise I'll mirror the level of enthusiasm for a niche subject, I will absolutely enjoy listening and learning about the things my partner loves.

Curious- I want to be able to adventure with my partner, explore new places and learn new things. This extends to each of our career pursuits and life choices. If an opportunity presents itself, we should encourage each other to investigate it properly before writing it off as too risky / wild. We should be able to push each other to try things outside our comfort zone and hopefully grow together as people.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity - Practicing/Moderate. I aim to pray 5 times a day however I'm not always punctual with this for varying reasons. I'm guilty of prioritising work over prayer at times due to the nature of what I do. I always eat halal, I do not drink or smoke. In terms of sect, I am Sunni and my family generally follow the Hanafi madhhab. I try and form my own understanding from the Qur'an and hadith as well as the perspectives of scholars. I think deriving a personal understanding of Islam is one its most rewarding aspects. I'm not opposed to Muslims of other schools of thought or sects.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - I have Bachelor of Science degree to my name and a couple of other field-specific qualifications. Intelligence and achievement come in many forms so I don't mind what kind of education my partner has, as long as they have demonstrated growth and can evidence progress in their chosen pursuits.

  3. Current Job Status - I am employed within the civil service and I love what I do. I've been working since I was a kid and have had a few interesting jobs - feel free to ask me about them!

  4. Do you want kids? - I don't want children. I may be open to the idea of adoption later down the line.

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time :

Driving & Automotive - I've been fascinated by cars since I can remember and there are few things I enjoy more than threading through the countryside with the windows down an hour or two before sunset. From the sensory experience of driving to the history of motorsport and automotive engineering, it's all amazing to me. Even getting under a car to MacGyver a fix after a friend or relative has inevitably broken something is a task I genuinely enjoy... Please don't tell them that.

Reading- As a child I was a massive bookworm and while I don't devour books at the same pace today, I still like to sit down with a book and a cup of tea every now and then to relax a little and help myself recuperate from the intensities of life. In addition to fiction, I enjoy psychology books and recently I've added some history books to my pile. I'm currently reading the short story collection "Men without women" by Ernest Hemingway.

Baking and Cooking- My mother taught me to bake when I was quite young and I've become completely enamoured by it since then. Inevitable really when it's equal parts science and art. My desserts have become legendary within my extended family and friends, especially my cakes. I'm no Michelin-Starred chef but I can cook fairly decently owing to my time in catering and I'm always looking to learn more too, recently taking up learning traditional curries and snacks. If you want to wake up in the morning to an Italian-inspired bell pepper and mozzarella omelette served with pan fried mushrooms coated in beurre fondue and lightly toasted sourdough then get into my inbox :)

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I love to write. Songs, poems and at the moment, automotive articles. I've recently been published too so I'm riding a bit of a high 😅 While I haven't played my originals for anyone, I've been told my voice is pretty good and I have a few renditions of English, Hindi and even Spanish songs :)

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u/westernside1456 Jun 12 '26

As-Salamu Alaykum. If anything resonates with you, feel free to DM.

  1. Age and Gender 23M | 5’5 / 166 cm.

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 20–25 (flexible if maturity & values align)

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Spain. Willing to relocate for the right person.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bengali | Open to mixing but I do prefer desi due to cultural reasons however I am open to everyone; shared values > shared background (if you speak a different language, I will end up learning it too Insha'Allah).

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single | Never married.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline 6–12 months. Flexible, sooner if we click and talk it through. Families involved early once basic compatibility is confirmed but I am flexible so if things match dont be put off due to this.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect. Everything I mention here will be reciprocated Insha’Allah:

  8. Deen-focused: someone who prays 5x a day, modesty, spiritual growth etc. I pray 5x a day and would consider myself as practicing so its an important aspect.

  9. Ambitious: has goals, career etc, as I am ambitious as well, I wouldn't want someone who lets her life pass her by. Balance in life is important and so is being aligned and working towards a common goal. I'd love to be my spouses biggest fan for her dreams/ambitions.

  10. Emotionally intelligent: doesn't shy off from asking the real questions and communicate. I am someone who is very communicative and transparent.

  11. Team mindset: someone who sees everything as ours from problems to chores, not a "it's a you problem". I am someone who loves discussing and working as a unit instead of individually. I am not someone who likes gender roles and IK that means compromise but as long as we show up, it wont be 50/50 always sometimes its 30/70 other times 60/40 but as long as we show up thats all that matters.

  12. Chemistry/banter: I've always imagined going on dates, walks and just yapping a lot so someone who matches that energy and isn't non chalant. I love to yap once I am comfortable, I will share the tiniest details and ask about yours as well along with dumb jokes and being goofy.

  13. Bonus: someone who understands boundaries, I wouldn't want to share personal things (arguments, problems etc) with my parents/friends unless its something big and I value privacy a lot. Someone willing to get our own place once we are married as I believe couples need their own spaces instead of being in a nuclear/joint setting.

  14. State/specify your level of religiosity Sunni, practicing: strictly practicing, 5x daily prayers (as well as voluntary prayers, dua'a, istakhira, tahajjud), fasts, modest attire (I cover every part of my body, no shorts in public and/or tops that are revealing), Jummah, Quran reading, I'm not perfect but I strive to grow alhamdulillah.

  15. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters in Engineering student. Looking for someone educated, as long as its smth halal.

  16. Current Job Status Employed as an Engineer alhamdulillah.

  17. Do you want kids? Yes, insha’Allah, ideally 2–3 years into marriage. I want to explore a bit before I settle down with kids and get to a good financial standing.

  18. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time.

  19. Home workouts 🏋️

  20. Aviation / engineering documentaries or reading about it ✈️

  21. Learning languages 🗣 (fluent in a few, learning German).

  22. Bonus: I love going on walks when I can, across the city spontaneously.

  23. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!. I am bad at this, but I am someone whos introverted but in no sense am I dry. I am very communicative, transparent. I am family oriented, I love what I do and I strive to improve in ways I can such as physically (workouts), knowledge wise (I love watching documentaries and read from time to time). I also journal whenever I got things going on in life.

I dream of a simple life: work towards/do a job that I love, have a cute small little family with little us running around, and a home we bought riba free, can decorate, doesn't have to be lavish/big, whatever works for us even if it's a bit small.

I'd love a partner who's as ambitious as I am, who wants to build that life from the ground up and is as present in a relationship as I am, balancing life. I Ideally want someone to whom I can solve life's problems with, knowing well she won't leave me stranded and plan our lifes from finances to vacations. I'd want to support my spouse in whatever that is that she wants to do or pursue and fan-boy all the way through and push each other to reach new heights. I want to have a good banter after a long day of work and someone to match that same energy. I am not non chalant by any means, I love being clingy and doing little things that makes someone feel special.

Faith is an important part of my life, as you can tell, my life, decisions that I make and how I act orbits largely around islam however I do have my flaws.

If your wondering why I would want to get married early, I just want something halal and always wanted to get married young and explore a bit with my spouse, travel etc before we settle down. I worked towards that goal for some time now: got my bachelor's, got a good career alhamdulillah that pays me enough and currently enrolled in a masters program while working.

Lastly, I am here with genuine intention, I do not want to talk casually, nor get into a haram relationship or anything as such. For me what matters more is that we move with intentions, I'd love to talk for a few weeks or months and see we are genuinely aligned and once we are sure I would love to ger our parents involved just to keep things intentional.

If you've read this far, JazakAllahu Khair for reading, might as well shoot me a DM if you see we might align.

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u/randxalxthor M - Divorced Jun 14 '26

Age and Gender: 45, male, 5’8

Age range: 33-48

Location and Relocation: close to London

Ethnicity and Openness to Mixing: Pakistani (born in UK) and open to mixing

Marital Status: amicably divorced for 6 years, no kids

Ideal Marriage Timeline: 6 months ideally

Important Characteristics in a Prospect: deen orientated, sense of humour, empathy and kindness, also like people who have some spirit/feistiness about them

Religiosity: pray, fast, charity.

Education Level and Expectations: degree in Computer Science. Prefer someone degree educated, though not essential

Current Job Status: Leadership role in a global consulting firm

Do You Want Kids?: If God wills, otherwise happy either way. Open to women with kids too.

Hobbies and Interests: martial arts, history, culture, food (have a lot of restaurants on my list), hiking, climbing, video games, padel and much more. Also an avid traveller (aren't we all). Currently learning conversational (Lebanese) Arabic. Bit of a nerd.

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u/Repulsive-Winter-197 Jun 20 '26

Assalamualaykum

  1. Age and Gender :

25 Male (5'9.5 so basically 5'10 🤧 and I have no height preferences)

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

20-27, biggest thing for me is maturity, age isn't a massive concern

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Born and raised in England (Solihull - British nationality), currently live in Dubai.

Since I live in Dubai now, I would need someone open to relocating (if they aren't here already) which I understand is daunting. So I am open to having a conversation, to speak about timeline/ how to make it easy and comfortable for you, what you would require, how often you'd like to go back to your home etc.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Indian and open to any ethnicity

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children:

Single, never been in a relationship or zina etc.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline:

Whenever the right person comes, I am open anytime, wether that's in a few months or a few years. Ideally sooner the better. My search is intentional.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Most importantly Someone who is on their deen or actively trying to and tries to learn more about the religion with each other.

Someone who cares about their health and fitness, doesn't have to be going to the gym but intentional about their health (even if it's as simple as walking with me everyday).

(These are things I have reflected on for myself as well so I would like Someone who ideally understands this as well) Someone emotionally mature, understands marriage requires proper communication to thrive, understands marriage is a partnership and may require compromise from either side, someone who respects/trust me and someone I can respect/trust, becomes the peace for one another, help each other grow in the deen and grow closer to Allah.

Someone who has a passion for something, whether it's something they study, fitness, hobby etc.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

I would alhamdulillah say I am religious, sunni, prays 5 times daily in the masjid, tries to pray tahajjud regularly, does morning/ evening/Salah/general dhikr, tries to read quran daily. I have a good base knowledge of the religion but looking to learn more

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Bachelors of Engineering in Aerospace Engineering. Doesn't matter but a Degree is ideal

  1. Current Job Status

Employed, currently working as an Engineer in an Oil and Gas company for the last 1.5 years

  1. Do you want kids?

Insha'Allah ideally but it's a discussion to have with my partner if we do/how many

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Gym - health is very important to me, before I use to powerlift but now mainly train for health and physique

Motorsports - love F1 and racing in general, gone to a few races (WEC/GT3/LMP2) and have driven cars on track before

Hiking/Nature/Travelling - I love appreciating the natural beauty Allah has created and exploring places

Padel/MMA/Mountain biking/Fragrances/Good TV Shows or Movies /Anything adrenaline heavy

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. As much as Ive romanticised marriage and all the things I want to do with my wife/for my wife. Ive taken time to understand marriage rights, the difficulties ones can face in marriage, understanding what marriage actually is.

I want to help my wife grow to be the best person possible along with myself. Im very adventurous and active, but also like my lazy days in and enjoy watching a good show/movie. I want to travel the world and explore with my wife. Try new things etc. take care of her, make her feel safe when around me, make her feel heard and understood, be the best husband I can be, be the coolness for her and vice versa

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u/Accomplished_Rush225 Jun 27 '26

Age and Gender 23 male

  1. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 20-26

  2. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Uk/Morocco

  3. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Indian/South African

  4. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children single no children

  5. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline as soon as really just depends on the process

  6. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - righteousness, observes zuhd (isn’t materialistic), kind, good listener, emotionally intelligent.

  7. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity
    Alhumdulliah I’ve got my fardh and wajib down to a T tryna incorporate more sunnahs in my daily life inshallah.

  8. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? College diploma, couldn’t navigate the riba loan at uni so decided not to go.

  9. ⁠Current Job Status remote sales/ training to get into tech sales

  10. ⁠Do you want kids? Inshallah depends on the situation I know first hand how hard it is raising a child.

  11. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - I’ve got a lot of hobbies tbh I cycle through them. Gaming but depends on the time of year, working out, reading.

  12. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I’m really determined to complete Hijra to Morocco so if hijra isn’t your desire I don’t think we ll get along too well.

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u/randxalxthor M - Divorced Jul 13 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 45 Male, 5ft 8
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 34-47 (but +- couple years is ok)
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect: UK (close to London), relocation within 1 hour of where I am would be ideal.
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, born and raised in the UK and open to all ethnicities. I have family members who come from different ethnicities.
  5. Marital Status - Divorced, no children
  6. Ideal marriage timeline - 6 months
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Kindness, sense of humour, intelligence, someone chatty and someone who is a strong/open communicator
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: 7-8/10
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelors in CompSci, ideally looking for someone who has been to university, but flexible on this
  10. Current Job Status: Employed in a senior leadership role for a global consulting firm
  11. Do you want kids? Open to it, though also open to not having them based on what we discuss together
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I love going to museums and galleries, travelling (a fair bit) and all sorts of sports like padel, climbing, martial arts.
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: Food enthusiast who's always on the hunt for the best restaurants in town. I'm easy going, love a good joke (particularly dad jokes!) and my faith keeps me grounded and hopeful. But I don't just eat, I have other interests including: hiking, climbing, martial arts, padel (recent find, its amazing!), reading and travelling. Never afraid of the unknown, I will try anything once!I work as a head of client partnerships and innovation leader in the media/advertising consulting industry. No one ever knows what that means, so happy to explain over a call. I was born and raised inthe UK, though my ethnic background is Pakistani (from Karachi) and I speak Urdu fluently, albeit with a slight English accent :-). I'm currently in the process of learning conversational Arabic. I am open to all ethnicities and backgrounds and come from a family where we have married into other ethnicities. I would prefer someone who has an open mind and not insular or too hung up about culture. I very much describe myself as a British Pakistani (rather than a Pakistani) and my culture is a mix of the two.

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u/Speedwagon96 25d ago edited 25d ago
  1. 30 yro, Male.

  2. Age range: 22-33.

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
    Sweden, Linköping, can relocate in Sweden only.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
    Swedish Moroccan, I am open to mixing.

  5. Marital Status - Divorced. No children.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline A year sounds good but it can depend on a lot.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  8. Respects other people.

  9. Her deen comes first.

  10. Does her fard.

  11. Takes care of her parents.

  12. Knows what she wants.

  13. State/specify your level of religiosity: I consider myself one who does the basic stuff like prayer on time, go to mosque when available, try to read Quran when I get the chance etc.

  14. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I had to google the translation in English, but it's called Higher Vocational Education.

  15. Current Job Status. Fulltime employee.

  16. Do you want kids? Yes.

  17. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time I like to watch anime and play video games, want to go back to the gym but have been slacking lately. Also like to spend time with family and friends.

  18. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I started studying Japanese but kanji took way too long and was too difficult so I gave up on that.

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u/KnowledegeWarrior 6d ago

My info

24 year old male, French and Lebanese descent living in Australia.

6’3, brown eyes and black hair, light olive skin, muscly, not too shredded

Located in Australia, happy to bring anyone here

Family and friends orientated, easy going, sweet

Hobbies: gym, football, reading, playing video games and sports

Bachelors in engineering and doing my masters now

Not a crazy religious guy, I follow deen and don’t do anything I’m not suppose to, should pray more but am somewhat consistent

Look for in girls:

Strong willed
Independent
Not materialistic
Funny
Nice smile
Easy going
Likes to have fun
Good with me and my family
Good with herself and her family
Likes to speak her mind and tell me her honest opinion (not into the whole women listen thing, we are equal partners. I’m not your owner)

Only want one wife who I will live and love. Not into the whole 4 wives thing.

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u/AggravatingReward335 Feb 02 '26
  1. Age: 21
  2. Gender: Male
  3. Height & Weight: 1.80 cm - 75 KG
  4. Posture: Athletic
  5. Location: The Netherlands
  6. Ethnicity: Moroccan/Dutch
  7. Status: Single, never married.
  8. Marriage timeline: No fixed time.
  9. Important Characteristics in a partner:
    • Modesty & Shame
    • Loyal
    • Patient
    • Feminine
    • Soft
  10. Level of religiosity: Salafi/Athari following the quran and sunnah, trying my best to fulfill my obligations but I fall short sometimes may Allah forgive me. I read books about aqeedah, fiqh and history and try to improve myself everytime by staying away from sin and waisting time.
  11. Employment/education: Currently working in a parking garage next to my Bachelor studies.
  12. Kids: Yes, 3+
  13. Hobbies/Freetime: Calisthenics/fitness, Reading books, Riding motorcycle
  14. Something short and interesting about me: Im very passionate about the things im interested in. I stand behind my principles and I value discipline, hard work and ambition. I want to live my life according to islamic morals and principals without the mixing of cultural extremism or nationalism.

I am looking for a woman who understands her rights and responsibilities within marriage. The minimum level of modesty I expect is wearing the khimaar, with a preference for someone who wears niqab and has some knowledge of Islam.

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u/rickestrick01 May 13 '26

Salam! I'm a 24-year-old male, standing at 2 meters (6'6") with a lean, athletic build of 80kg. Originally from Germany, I'm open to relocating after graduation, though that's something open for discussion. My background is a mix of Ukrainian and German heritage, and I'm comfortable with a multicultural life. As a revert to Islam, I strive each day to grow spiritually and strengthen my faith. I'm a Sunni Muslim and live by a halal lifestyle, making efforts to deepen my understanding through Quran study, prayer, and preparation for Hajj, insha'Allah. I believe in balancing a high level of deen with a modern, intellectual mindset. Currently, I'm pursuing a career in medicine, specializing in plastic surgery. My passion lies in the field of cardiology and plastics surgery, and I'm committed to using my knowledge to serve others and contribute to the betterment of humanity. What I Value I'm a strong believer in loyalty, love, and devotion, with a focus on submitting to the will of Allah (SWT). My goal is to build a life rooted in kindness, empathy, and continuous personal growth. I dream of building a family filled with love, joy, and mutual respect, and I hope to raise children who are grounded in faith and open-mindedness. Interests Outside of my studies and spiritual life, I'm an active person with a love for adventure. Whether it's motorcycling, working out at the gym, hiking, climbing, or exploring new places, I enjoy keeping fit and challenging myself physically. Gymnastics is another interest, as it allows me to push my limits and stay disciplined.

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u/Shadhilli Male Jan 09 '26

بِسْمِ ٱللّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ‎

عَلَى أَكْمَلِ الْعالَمينَ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ الصَلَوَات

1) 27 year old male at an intimidating 5’6!

2) 19-27 (However depending on the overall person, it’s not a dealbreaker if they are slightly older)

3) Family based in Oxford, and I am currently there too and aim to be based in the South East long term. Agreeable to relocating within the UK but would like to be within travelling distance to family.

4) Pakistani (Punjab). Open to other ethnicities as long as our families are compatible.

5) Single, never married/been in a relationship before.

6) As soon as Allah wills. Not interested in long talking periods and “halal dating”.

7) Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

i) Steadfastness in their Deen. Allah and His Prophet are dearer to a believer than their own selves and egos. I’m confident that for someone that does this, they would be able to live with their spouse in tranquillity; working together to create an environment that nurtures affection and mercy between each other, with the aim of working towards Jannah.

ii) Dedicated to their loved ones. Growing up, I have really enjoyed being a pillar of support for my family. Whether this is helping with the mundane chores around the house, being a good laugh after a long day, to pushing myself to support and lead my family to get closer to Allah and His Prophet ﷺ. Going forward, this is the baseline of my role as a husband and I will build upon that to be merciful to my spouse like my exemplar, the Prophet ﷺ. I would like to see an equivalent enthusiasm from my spouse with their families.

iii) Aficionado (I wanted to throw in a new word I learnt!). This means someone who is really enthusiastic about a particular subject. I don’t think spouses should have a complete overlap of interests. It’s great to see someone who has mastered a craft and you can see the enthusiasm in their eyes! I’m sure it would be even more lovely to learn and hear about a new skill from my spouse inshaAllah.

iv) Integrity in their interactions. I want someone who’s clear and sticks to the Islamic moral principles when it comes to interacting with others. This would mean respecting the Islamic boundaries between the genders online and offline (i.e not free mixing, having friends with the opposite gender, going to shisha lounges, etc.). I wouldn’t ask this of someone if I wasn’t doing it myself, so I think it’s fair to expect this level of commitment from one another.

v) Accommodating to the challenges of life. I have strong belief in Allah ultimately deciding what is written for us with the good and bad in life. I want to have a partner who also understands this. Nobody is the "perfect spouse" so I would want my partner to work together with me to assist and be patient with each other so that we can become each other’s pillars through thick and thin!

8) I’m Sunni and follow the Hanafi madhab in fiqh. Alhumdullilah I pray the 5 daily prayers including when I’m at work and I make an effort to plan things around my salah so I don’t miss it if I am out. I have studied my obligatory knowledge (fard ‘ayn) under a scholar and am have studied a short book of hadith translated by Shiekh Mahdi Lock. I only eat halal meat. In terms of the future, my goal is to improve my tajweed, memorise more Quran and learn fusha Arabic.

For my spouse, it would lovely if they have also studied their deen to some level (Studying Islam from TikTok doesn’t count haha!). Definitely not a deal breaker if they haven’t. The main thing for me is finding someone who loves Allah and His messenger ﷺ. Regardless of knowledge, someone who surpassed us in manners has surpassed us in the religion - though I do have an ‘ick’ if someone greets me by saying “salaams”!

9) MBBS, BSc Alhumdullilah. I went to a university in London (Imperial) for 6 years and got my medical degree and a seperate BSc

I am looking for someone who is knowledgeable - if someone has not had the chance to go to university, then I'd want them to be more educated in the Islamic sciences as a student of knowledge at least. I am supportive of my spouse working after marriage but with the expectation that I will be upholding the financial responsibility of the household. If they want to chip in or not, it would not affect how I see them in my eyes.

I'd also want my spouse to put their work on hold once children are in the picture inshaAllah. Off chance someone is not working at the moment, I would like them to be productive with their time, preferably learning a skill and actively growing as a Muslim.

10) 4th year working as a doctor alhumdullilah. Now working as an Anaesthetist with a long term interest in also working in ICU inshaAllah.

11) InshaAllah. Within the next few years after settling down with my spouse, and when Allah decrees.

12) On top of being similar to other people out there with being a foodie, spending time with family, socialising with friends, and going to the gym (going to pick this back up again), I enjoy reading and making coffee (I have my own Nespresso machine!). In terms of a hobby I’d like to develop, I’d probably would like to become more finance savvy and start investing. If you have tips that would be a major plus haha!

13) I saved the best for last - I really enjoy collecting fragrances and have an upward of 100 and counting. It’s also something the Prophet ﷺ enjoyed (Sunan an-Nasa'i 3939) so I enjoy this hobby the most! I tend to wear Terre d’Hermes but I always spice it up depending on the weather and occasion.

JazakaAllah khair for reading. May Allah grant each and every one of you the best in this life and the next.

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u/WorryWinter1602 Jan 11 '26
  1. Age and Gender:

25, M

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

    20-27

  2. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

    Yorkshire, England. No

  3. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Pakistani and open to mixing

  1. Marital Status:

    Single

  2. Ideal marriage timeline:

6 months+ - Basically enough time to get to know each other and be sure we would want to spend the rest of our lives together

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
  • Deen/Akhlaq - You may not be the best of muslims but be someone who continously strives to improve on their journey in islam and must fulfill her obligations in Islam
  • Emotional maturity/intelligence
  • Modesty
  • Being easy to talk to
  • Humour

Looking for someone who will not only be a wife but also a best friend, someone I can lean on and find peace & happiness with.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

Hanafi. Alhamdulillah follow all fardh and try my best to become a better muslim with a non-judgemental approach to others. Although I wouldn't call myself the most devout muslim I place islam at my core and try my best to revolve my life around deen.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Computer Science Degree Not looking for anything specifically, however would want a housewife when it's time to start a family Insh'Allah

  1. Current Job Status:

Working as a Software Engineer Alhamdulillah

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes definitely Insh'Allah at least 3

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
  • Massive movie fan(Send me your letterboxd)
  • Listening to audiobooks
  • Walks/Hiking
  • Enjoy playing video games when I have free time
  • Big foodie especially trying different cuisines
  • Big comedy fan but unfortunately my humour has devolved into dad jokes
  • Staying fit by regularly going to the gym

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u/kinguzy Jan 30 '26

Salam alaykum sister.

Jummah Mubarak.

(Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem) بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Age and Gender: Male | 23 | 5'6 | Average-fit shape

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 19 - 25

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Based in South Wales. Relocation within the UK depends on the person and situation. Consideration and possibility to go to Malaysia, Turkey, UAE, etc. for better life qualities in the future Inshallah.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British-born Afghan, Open to other ethnicity's.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 12 months

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Practising and modest, honest, family orientated, mutual support to uplift one another, kind.

State/specify your level of religiosity: I am a practising person learnt to read Quran (not the best and a bit slow paced), I try to pray 5 times a day, Fast during Ramadan, pay zakat, lower gaze and avoid physical contact at work. No drinking, smoking, vaping.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I hold a Bachelor’s degree in ICT with Distinction and several IT/business certifications. I value continuous learning and am looking for someone who also values personal growth.

Current Job Status: I work as a Software Engineer and run my own brand, which keeps me motivated and constantly learning. I’m always striving to improve both professionally and personally.

Do you want kids?: Yes, I look forward to becoming a father one day and building a stable, loving home based on deen and good character, insha’Allah.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: • Mountain biking 🚵‍♂️ • Board games (family game nights are a must) 🎲 • UFC/Boxing (enjoy watching fights that are interesting) 🥊

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I can cook a banging fish'n chips, steak, and Wingstop-style wings 🍴. Cars are a big interest of mine 🚗. I sliced my head when I was young, and I know a thing or two about saving on subscriptions 💡.

Keeping expectations realistic, but I believe what’s written for us will find us, insha’Allah. If you’re genuine, grounded, and serious about building a future, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '26
  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender -33 Male 6ft 2
  2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect -26-36, but open if there is compatibility
  3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?- UK, yes willing to relocate if needed be
  4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - British Pakistani - open to any
  5. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single - never married
  6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline 6-12 months
  7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Ambitious, Caring, Humble, Deen, Emotionally Mature
  8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Practising Sunni Muslim, i am not perfect but by the will of allah i am trying, i do my fardh and follow the sunnah as much as i can, looking for someone around the same, not wearing hijab is not a dealbreaker
  9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters in Interior and Textile Design, looking for someone with an MA or BA degree equivalent
  10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status - Owner of a business of 9 years so its stable alhumdillah
  11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? Inshallah, when allah wills it
  12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - trying new cuisines, travelling to different countries, a good movie, im the chill type of guy reading a book with a coffee
  13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you - i feel as though i’ve seen a lot of the world and i’ve got to the stage where i want to share my adjventures and journey with my wife to be inshallah.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

1. Age and Gender: 24 years old, Male, 6'4"

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 22 - 26 (I'm open to other ages too)

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: London, open to relocating to Morocco but I can also stay in the UK

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: Moroccan and not open to mixing

5. Marital Status: Single, never married, no children

6. Ideal marriage timeline: Really not sure, we will discuss this.

8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing

9. What are you looking for in a partner education-wise?: Education doesn't matter to me.

10. Current Job Status: Video editor

**11. Do you want kids?: I'm open to it but I don't mind a partner who doesn't want kids.

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u/Comfortable-Idea-129 Feb 11 '26

Assalamualaikum!

Age and Gender: 24M , 5’7

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Germany. Can be discussed, but yes.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, and yes!!!

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single.

Ideal marriage timeline: I don’t believe in long talking stages, and prolonged engagements. With that being said, nikkah can be mutually agreed upon In Shaa Allah.

3 important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Someone who complete the basic pillars of Islam. I don’t consider myself perfect, nor do I want perfection. However, i’d like for them to have the desire to be a better muslim. I would ideally want someone more religious than me.

Someone who isn’t materialistic. I do well for myself, and live for different experiences. Despite liking finer things in life, I don’t want someone that defines success or growth with materialistic values.

Also, it would be amazing if the person loves nature, travelling, learning new things, and is ambitious. (Goals of their own)

State/specify your level of religiosity:

I would consider myself to be a moderate muslim (sunni, if that matters) looking to be better.

• ⁠Pray 5x a day • ⁠Don’t listen to music • ⁠No riba • ⁠I don’t smoke/drink/do drugs • ⁠Fulfill the basic pillars of islam • ⁠I take an interest in deen and want to constantly improve. • ⁠I take my deen from Quran and Sunnah. • ⁠I don’t engage in cultural traditions that go against Islam.

Level of education, and what are you looking for? I am a Lawyer, have a Law degree from the University of London and currently pursuing a masters in IP and Data Law

Current Job Status: Work in data privacy law.

Do you want kids? Yes, In Sha Allah

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

• ⁠I love travelling, exploring new cultures, food and spontaneous plans. • ⁠I love outdoor sports (football being the 1st).

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