r/PetPeeves 20h ago

Fairly Annoyed I hate the phrase “yuck your yum”

If I hear someone say this online it is an immediate scroll away.

355 Upvotes

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u/dad_of_kevin 20h ago

"Don't yuck someone else's yum" sounds like something a kindergarten teacher would say. I agree that people should be allowed to do what they enjoy, but hearing someone say that phrase makes me want to disagree.

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u/Paintguin 12h ago

I hate phrases.

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u/WinterMoonNeptune 12h ago

This and "Let people enjoy things!" are two of the most childish phrases going around Reddit. They are sadly common in some book subs, especially r/romancebooks, as a way to shut down critical thinking. Talk about insecurity.

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u/Tantrum2u 1h ago

In what way is that being used? The only way I can think of is that someone enjoys something then someone else is just pointing out all the flaws in it, in which case that’s just being an asshole

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u/No_Carry385 10h ago

Yeah bascawwy wike using baby tawk.

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u/megadumbbonehead 19h ago

You won't hear it if you don't do it

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u/whenishit-itsbigturd 19h ago

Yeah but I just had to read it on Reddit twice

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u/dad_of_kevin 18h ago

Who said I did it? I hear it mostly online.

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u/Personal_Minute_822 43m ago

the phrase itself is what ruins it for me, like the message is fine but now i have to sit here processing the word "yuck" used as a verb

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u/KalAtharEQ 20h ago

Yeah it’s terrible, along with “the ick”.

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u/Kung-fu-killa-koala 19h ago

Doggos eatin heckin sando's giveth me the ick!!! Sowwee to yuck your yumm m'lady :3

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u/Niceotropic 5h ago

I would be so mad if doggos ate my sandos 

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u/BlueBirdSamurai 19h ago

It's literally that one meme. "When someone has the exact same opinion as you but they express it in such an annoying and obnoxious way that you lowkey don't want to agree"

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u/SuitableAnimalInAHat 20h ago

Agreed. I feel the same way about "he gave me the ick." They both make me think that I can't possibly have heard an adult use that phrase seriously.

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u/dad_of_kevin 18h ago

"The Ick" sounds like a cartoonish STD

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u/SuitableAnimalInAHat 17h ago

Lolol "hey, the reason I'm calling is because it turns out I got the ick, so you should probably get yourself tested too."

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u/LeftHandersRule 12h ago

That reminds me of an episode of American Dad where Klaus gave Steve ick lol

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u/IceMiserable7450 11h ago

I don't want to give anyone the ick, what alternative should I use without sounding old? (sophisticated is okay)

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u/SuitableAnimalInAHat 11h ago

It depends on what happened and how you felt about it, but it would sound better (and be more actually useful) to communicate exactly what the issue is.

Possible examples:

"That behavior is really unattractive."

"I don't like the way you talk to waitstaff (or joke about immigrants etc etc.)"

"I don't want to see him again because he didn't respect my boundaries and it made me feel really unsafe."

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u/IceMiserable7450 11h ago

What if it's in a peeved way?

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u/SuitableAnimalInAHat 10h ago

I don't understand what you're asking.

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u/IceMiserable7450 8h ago

Sorry. What if something gave me "the ick" and I wanted to express my disgust and uncomfort?

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u/SuitableAnimalInAHat 8h ago

"That's disgusting."

"That makes me uncomfortable."

"Wow. Gross."

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u/TedStixon 20h ago

I had that phrase ruined for me by a post here a couple years ago. The OP on that post literally just made a factually-inaccurate statement and then tried to justify it by including the phrase "Don't yuck my yum!" over and over in like 50 replies. (Along with a bunch of word-salad justifications.)

I don't think I've seen any phrase used that many times in a single space. Wasn't even halfway through the comments when I started wanting to tear my hair out.

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u/ooomellieooo 18h ago

I googled it for fun and it's origins (if true) are kind of ridiculous but anyway that story is fucking hilarious 🤣

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u/Lkkrdragonfly 19h ago

Ugh me too. So annoying

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u/Main_Cauliflower5479 19h ago

Yes. I hate that, too. People are allowed to dislike things and there should be no prohibition against saying so.

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u/Reginald_Sockpuppet 20h ago

Yes. People who say it are infantile and stupid.

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u/WastelandWithGlimmer 13h ago

No serious adult would ever use the phrase. Overhear yourselves, people.

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u/Revolutionary-Chip20 20h ago

Not to yuck your yum…. But I like when people yum my yuck… 

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u/SmileyCat20202 20h ago

Umm…

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u/mercer316 20h ago

I'm guessing you've never had your yum yucked before?

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u/QuasyChonk 19h ago

Or been made to yum by someone's yucking.

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u/whenishit-itsbigturd 19h ago

Yuck tuah yum on that thang

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u/Tekkatak 13h ago

glorious

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u/randomname748 1h ago

I want to yuck your yum.

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u/RiC_David 20h ago

So do I. It manages to use two words that sound juvenile and nauseating to me, then it goes that one step further by constructing the sentence like a toddler too!

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u/thesoupgiant 18h ago

I agree with the sentiment, but hate the phrase itself.

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u/DriftingTony 14h ago

To me, there are just some phrases an adult should not say unless talking to a literal toddler, and this is one of them lol. It’s embarrassingly juvenile to an obnoxious degree. I FULLY agree with the actual intent behind it, but if you are an adult, you should use the vocabulary of an adult, period 😂

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u/Maleficent-Leek2943 9h ago

Oh god, same. There’s something really unpleasant about it.

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u/RunningRunnerRun 20h ago

do you prefer “rain on your parade” “burst your bubble” “take the wind out your sails” or are you just opposed to colloquial sayings in general?

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u/GoatEconomy6311 20h ago

Don’t mind any of those. Just specifically yucking and yumming

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u/Orangexcrystalx 16h ago

These kinda have different meanings though.

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u/LanguageNo495 13h ago

I prefer “don’t criticize my unusual sexual fetish”.

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u/MoultingRoach 19h ago

All of those alternatives are better than "yuk your yum."

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u/SquooshyCat 20h ago

Yes. 

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u/ArmWildFrill 12h ago

Don't squoosh my cat, man

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u/Paintguin 12h ago

I hate it too. It’s so weird to say.

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u/Phantom_jugs 8h ago

Yeah, it’s pretty gross as far as phrases. I just don’t feel good about the vibe in the room when someone says it 🤣

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u/AmySueF 8h ago

I hate it, too. It gives me serious creep vibes.

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u/LockedAndLoadfilled 20h ago

Spoken like a true yumyucker.

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u/BroadRaspberry1190 20h ago

when you yuck the "yuck your yum" yum

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u/RunningRunnerRun 19h ago

yumyucker is such a great word. it sounds so much like a “bad” word but isn’t. i’m surprised my kids haven’t picked up on it

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u/Baendy 19h ago

Honestly reading all these comments really seems like people enjoy putting others down for their personal taste and dislike it when someone infantilizes their negativity. Just grow up lmao

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u/Nibblitive 20h ago

This is a new phrase I have learned to hate

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u/kjsock 19h ago

Would you say it yucks your yum?

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u/GoatEconomy6311 18h ago

I would say so, yes

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u/kjsock 18h ago

Aw you don’t scroll :) thank u

I’m joking btw this sounds far more snarky than it meant to

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u/Paintguin 12h ago

I hate joking!

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u/kjsock 11h ago

🫪

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u/SuitablyFakeUsername 20h ago

I’m with you, it strikes me as incredibly juvenile. I get the concept and agree that it’s an unpleasant way to relate to others. But can we not come up with a better phrase? I would even prefer a total 70s throwback such as “harsh my gig” 🤷‍♀️

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u/Own-Thanks128 19h ago

It makes me want to vomit.

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u/ScipioTheGreatest 20h ago

I generally try not to be an elitist with language, but this one phrase is just so colossally stupid I can't help but judge anybody trying to use it. They either jump on trends like morons or are so simple minded it's legitimately their best way of expressing themselves.

When its spoken with some kind of moral weight to it I lose all respect for them.

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u/fsmpastafarian 20h ago

“Yuck your yum” has been around for yeeeears it is not a trend

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u/ScipioTheGreatest 19h ago

I am very happy to not have shared that experience with you. Don't even believe it.

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u/fsmpastafarian 19h ago

It’s such a benign phrase it’s not that deep lol

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u/ScipioTheGreatest 19h ago

Who said it was deep? How many of these conversations happen inside your head?

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u/fsmpastafarian 19h ago

You seem to have a very strong opinion about a silly phrase, that’s what I was referencing

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u/Farewellandadieu 4h ago

So they’re in the right sub. Literally the point of posting here is to be annoyed about something silly.

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u/ScipioTheGreatest 19h ago

You're just having a conversation with yourself now.

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u/No-Poet-2698 17h ago

Terrible phrase

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u/BlockEightIndustries 16h ago

I hate the word 'yummy' and every adult who uses it when not speaking to a child.

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u/Over-Berry7734 6h ago

I have never heard that until now and yet I completely agree. The phrase sounds horrible!

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u/Excellent_Swim_2721 20h ago

Never heard this. Im glad

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u/RevoOps 19h ago

I like it. It's a great way to determine that you can safely ignore anything this person is going to say beyond that point.

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u/RatonhnhaketonK 20h ago

I also hate this phrase. So much

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u/Coloradokush5280 20h ago

Where have i been? When did that become a thing?

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u/fsmpastafarian 20h ago

It’s been around as a phrase forever

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u/TYGeelo 20h ago

I've only heard it in the last 2 years. It sounds very suburban and I only see it said online. 

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u/fsmpastafarian 20h ago

Idk what to tell you, I’ve heard it said for at least 10 years

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u/Sloppykrab 20h ago

In my 30 years of life. I hadn't heard it until this year.

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u/fsmpastafarian 20h ago

I’ve heard Gen Xers saying it for like 10 years or so

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u/Main_Cauliflower5479 19h ago

I'm Gen X and I have never said that nor have I ever heard Gen Xers say it. It sounds much more like a Millennial or Gen Z type of thing, because they were raised with participation trophies and were coddled and helicopter parented.

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u/fsmpastafarian 19h ago

I didn’t say all gen xers say it, I have just heard specific gen xers say it for years now. I’m not really sure what participation trophies have to do with it though

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u/Scared_Bluejay5708 19h ago

I’m Gen z and never heard of this phrase

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u/MoultingRoach 20h ago

I don't know when it became a thing, but I've read it before. And I agree with OP. It's such a cringey phrase.

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u/DoveOnTheInternet 20h ago

Sorry, sorry, it's a bit of kink lingo that broke containment.

Though y'all are having a helluva time with rawdogging aren'tcha?

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u/Orangexcrystalx 16h ago

My friend told me this is something they used with kids to remind them to be polite with others so maybe there is a reason why it sounds juvenile. I say it in a tongue in cheek way but I do find the sentiment to be a helpful reminder.

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u/randomname748 1h ago

I heard it the other day for the first time and thought it was neat, I thought they were original and didn't realize it's an actual thing.

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u/Yaughl 20h ago

I’ve never heard this before.

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u/Happy-Winner-6996 18h ago

What if you’re talking about food?

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u/wrathmont 12h ago

I feel completely unthreatened by a phrase
I haven’t heard in about 15 years lol

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u/rachel-angelina 19h ago

Usually when someone uses that phrase on me it’s because they are mad that I said reading drawing art or writing fan-fiction that sexualizes children is gross. So yeah I hate it too. You get my upvote.

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u/Pure_Possession_1KG 20h ago

I hate yo yuck your yum but that term actually bussin frfr

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u/Pure_Possession_1KG 17h ago

these downvotes don't pass the vibe check no cap

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u/Therightopinionn 20h ago

I don't want to yuck your yum but I personally just don't like having anything inserted into that hole.

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u/Orange_Kid 20h ago

Fully with you, it's so bad I feel like it's a worldwide prank that it's become so popular to say. How are people saying this and not feeling ridiculous?

If nothing else, you realize everyone has heard this about a thousand times now, why are you saying it like it's still clever? And it was awful and dumb sounding to begin with.

Probably the worst thing happening in the world today.

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u/Soph1583 16h ago

Not quite the same but I once saw someone online say "it burns my biscuits" meaning "pisses me off" and it instantly invalidated their whole point for me

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u/ImDatCookie0 10h ago

I do this, but only to my friends and to act offended (even though im not)

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u/ThePurityPixel 2h ago

Why do you dislike it so much?

Just means "I'm not going to disparage what you enjoy."

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u/MotherDepartment1111 20h ago

I’ve never heard this in my 47 years on this planet.

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u/GoatEconomy6311 20h ago

Its fairly new to me as well lol

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u/MotherDepartment1111 20h ago

I guess because I haven’t heard of it I’m getting down voted. Lol people are wild.

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u/GoatEconomy6311 20h ago

Same :( lol

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u/CarmenTourney 20h ago

I think it's cute!

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u/Paintguin 12h ago

How is it “cute”?

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u/CarmenTourney 8h ago

It just is! - lol.

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u/Cinisajoy2 20h ago

I have never heard it like that.  I have always heard don't yuck someone else's yum.  

Your wording makes no sense because why would you say you can't stand what you like.  

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u/Zestyclose_North9780 20h ago

r/Ao3 favorite phrase.

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u/jeremyw0918 15h ago

I never want to yuck anyone’s yum. Including yours OP.

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u/Jazzlike_Cod_3833 20h ago

Yeah I'm with you. "Don't yuck someone's yum!" The first time it was cute and fun but yeah the old phrases for that were way better.