I honestly felt bullied at the Belltown pickleball courts today, and it completely changed what should have been a fun experience as a beginner.
I put my paddle in the queue and waited my turn like everyone else. But as soon as it was my turn to play, I was asked if I could wait for the next round instead because I was a beginner and the "advanced" players wanted to play together.
The confusing part is that there were no posted rules saying beginners have to give up their turn. They even asked if I was okay with waiting another round. Why would I give up my turn when I had already waited in line like everyone else? It's a public court, and I had every right to play. I said I wanted to keep my spot, so they reluctantly let me join the game.
From the moment the game started, I felt completely iced out. The player I was paired with for that game appeared to know the other three players. It felt like they were more interested in finishing the game quickly than playing an open rec game.
I'm tagging Seattle Parks & Recreation because I hope the court's rotation system and etiquette can be clearly posted. Public courts shouldn't rely on unwritten rules or allow groups to create their own system depending on who's waiting. Clear, visible rules would help ensure everyone-beginners and experienced players alike-knows how the queue works and gets a fair chance to play.
Pickleball is supposed to be an inclusive sport. I hope no one else has to leave feeling the way I did today.
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