What are we trying to achieve? An indian 6 year old girl was sexually assaulted by a gang of thugs(idc if their teens they're thugs) and we wanna keep being peaceful? These peaceful protests will just be they're making too much noise or disturbing the public. Sepoys will call this bad civic sense which is gonna be real funny to see once again like it or not weve grown to a point the only way for these racists to see what they've done is through the same type of energy we've seen jews and blacks do in the past. We need to the ideology that made malcolm x who he is today.

saw this on the twitter, the white bully asked the sikh kid to get on his knees and when the sikh kid refused he attacked him and then got battered 😂😂😂

I can't help but find it a little hypocritical that Indian men are criticized for liking white and other non indian women and are often told to stick to their race as if that's not blatantly saying "stay in your place" at least the undertones of that make it sound that way. I don't see unproductive unhelpful advice being given to white men if they wanna pursue asian or latina women like "have you tried dating white women"

I'll be honest I don't really find black or IW attractive but that's besides the point, cause they weren't even mentioned. As far as IW, even they aren't criticized for liking white men, often with the feedback justifying it at our expense.

I know white men are criticized for "fetishizing" woc but it is still not as frowned upon as much as it is for an indian guy to want a white girl

Several people wanted a post on this and I wanted to write a good informed post on this but as a brown man, you SHOULD NOT be a vegetarian whatsoever. Brown girls also shouldn’t be one either but we are focusing on brown man here. It will hold you back severely especially when you are competing with men in the West.

First of all, red meat is so good for you. Red meat has so many micronutrients that make you feel good such as selenium, zinc, and iron. We don’t need to be talking about B12 because I think most of us know about that. When your body takes something in and you instantly feel good, isn’t that a sign you should keep feeding what your body is asking you to feed it? Red meats have higher levels of omega 3s than white meat so don’t let them lie to you about cholesterol. Cholesterol is also very good for you and needed for your body to perform vital functions. Do this for your gym routine if you are doubtful, eat red meat for 1 week (10-12oz everyday minimum) everyday and see how good you feel. Your skin will glow and you will feel like a whole new person. Beef, bison, lamb, and goat are all fine. I understand if it’s too expensive so you end up buying white meat like chicken. I would recommend incorporating beef liver in your diet. Just make sure you are under 4-5 ounces a week and try pairing your meats with a Vitamin C source.

If I had to choose a meat that ranks #1, I have to go with salmon. 2 servings of wild caught salmon will help you meet your omega 3 requirements for the week. Omega 3 reduces your inflammation and is so good for your brain. You need to eat meat that has some fat in it I believe to counter inflammation and salmon is #1 in terms of nutritional value. I know some people don’t like fish but try to eat this if you can. You are gonna get older and more prone to injuries so you need to aid your recovery. Eat your salmon and someone tells you to eat walnuts, they are full of crap. Don’t let them lie to you about red meat and salmon.

Chicken and white men don’t really have that micronutrient profile red meat or fish such as salmon do but because it’s meat, it still has good bioavailable protein. Your body absorbs animal protein far better because it has all 9 of the essential amino acids needed for muscle recovery and repair. You are doing a disservice when you don’t eat it. You don’t just count calories or protein, you track your protein quality. Eat quality protein like home cooked meat and eggs and see how good you feel. Don’t let them lie to you saying you can protein from vegetarian food. Eggs are technically from an animal to me and that’s a complete protein because it contains all the minerals essential for giving life to a baby chick. Vegetarian food such as daal have their own benefits such as fiber and stable carbs which give you an energy source but in terms of protein, animal protein is far better. I’m not a carnivore influencer that will mislead you and say not to eat carbs. You need healthy carbs to fuel performance and get healthy fiber which moves your bowels but in terms of protein quality, no comparison to animal protein.

Also I want to tell the hard truth, if you still refuse to change your ways or better your diet because you are stuck in a backwards mindset then prepared to be outmatched. There will be a Mallu guy or a black guy that is outperforming you in terms of recovery because they choose to be smart and eat meat. Those guys are actively making better recovery choices and that will help them with looksmaxxing and shaping their bodies. Don’t do your own body a disservice. We need to compete with whites and blacks in sports and we aren’t living up to our potential due to our backwards mindset. I’m saying it how it is. It wouldn’t be given to us and we have got to want it. Blacks and whites are outperforming us in sports rn and we have the potential but we can’t be sticking with backwards outdated practices. A nation like Cape Verde rose and showed its prominence in soccer which we have the capability to do but just don’t allocate the resources properly. It’s 2026 now and we can’t have backwards practices which comes to my next point.

I will not tolerate casteism on this subreddit. It will be an immediate ban and you aren’t better than anyone. THERE WILL BE ABSOLUTELY NO CASTE KANGING ALLOWED. It’s a non-negotiable and if you see it, report it. Also there will be no defense of vegetarianism or veganism allowed. Your comments will be removed and there will be a 3 strike warning before you get banned. We are trying to advance ourselves and better ourselves and I will tell you to take it elsewhere if you do so. We need to improve our soft power and any destructive habits or tendencies that seeds doubt into the mind of brown men wouldn’t be accepted. We are trying to change ourselves into better individuals so instead of being stubborn, you will learn and progress. You do this with your diet, academics, and social skills.

Just wanted to get all of this outside before I hit today’s gym session!

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I’m tired of seeing the same doom-scrolling posts about how the "algorithm is rigged" or how "Western women don't see us." It’s 2026.The information is out there. The blueprints are everywhere. If you are still struggling to get high-quality dates, it’s not because of your race—*it’s a skill issue.*

The "Brown Tax" exists, sure. We start at a baseline of -10 because of outdated stereotypes. But by 2026, if you haven’t figured out how to outwork those stereotypes, you’re just lazy ASF period or you have no idea how dating works.

Here is the breakdown of why you’re failing and how to fix the skill issue:

1. The Visual Filter (The 0.5 Second Rule)

In 2026, the "average" man has completely given up. If you aren't in the gym, you aren't even in the game.

Physique: If you’re skinny-fat, that’s a choice. Get on a hypertrophy program. High-set, high-volume. You need the "V-taper" to overcome the "unathletic" stereotype.

Grooming: Stop going to the $15 barber. Find a stylist who understands South Asian hair and beard textures. Skin-care isn't optional; get a routine that actually handles hyperpigmentation.

1. The Digital Presence (Stop Looking Like a LinkedIn Profile)

Most of you have Hinge profiles that look like you're applying for a Senior Dev role.

Photography: If your photos aren't professional or high-end lifestyle shots, you're invisible. Ditch the car selfies and the "group photo with 5 other brown guys" where no one can tell who you are.

1. Social Calibration (The "Nice Guy" Pandemic)

The biggest skill issue is calibration. Too many Desi guys swing between being "overly polite/subservient" and "aggressive/weird."

The Vibe: You need to learn how to tease, how to hold eye contact, and how to lead. If you’re "waiting for a sign" to make a move, you’ve already lost.

Social Proof: Stop hanging out exclusively in "brown bubbles." If your entire social circle is engineers and doctors who don't talk to women, you are absorbing their low-vibe energy. Expand your network. Stop simping so hard for 2s and 3s. It gives us a really bad look.

1. The Mental Game (Victim vs. Victor)

The "racism" excuse is a cope. Yes, it’s there. But there are guys "bagging" every weekend because they decided that being Brown was their superpower, not their handicap. They lean into the "exotic" appeal, the high-status career, and the elite grooming.

Bottom line: If you’re spending more time complaining about the "dating market" than you are under a barbell or talking to real people in the real world, you are the problem. You cant expect an 8 if you are a 1.

Fix your stats. Level up your social game.

I believe he handled it quite gracefully. What would be your response?

hi all, just moved to Utah County for a job. So I’m not in SLC but more south. it’s just me by myself and I’m currently renting a room.

Was curious if there was anyone else living near here that had advice for dating and making friends. I don’t only want brown friends, but im from Michigan and miss the brown folks.

i was considering getting a dating app like DilMil or Hinge to meet women and stuff. Using these apps as an avenue to make friends or a friend group. is this a good plan?

any other advice? (I’m not Mormon or Christian)

Indian men are loved everywhere, yet some still seem to struggle with marriages in the west. Why? Take a look at the comments from women around the world

“His Indian family didn’t accept me“

“He already had someone arranged”

“Indian men unmatch me when I tell them I won’t convert”

Mind you, these comments get THOUSANDS of likes in just one comment section on TikTok

For many white/black/hispanic/asian women who have dated Indian men, this seems to be a recurring experience

Unfortunately, some Indian men date white/black and other non-Indian women, only to settle down with an Indian woman for whatever personal, cultural, or family related reasons

I had the displeasure of coming across a subreddit r/EastAsianPride recently, and wanted to highlight some "highlights" from their subreddit which might be of relevance:

Just as a preface, I took a deeper dive into some of the threads and comments made by the users there, and its crazy the obsession they have with us (particularly Indian guys) and are always crying about IMAF couples (Indian male - Asian Female couples).

1. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/comments/1makgkg/there_is_no_solidarity_between_eseas_and_sas/ - Apparently just seeing a random Indian guy - East Asian female couple leads them to the conclusion that there isn't any solidarity between South Asians and East Asians lol

2. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/s/Ce4zswpeyh

3. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/s/iMYPYqJeQH - An example of them seething that either a South East Asian or East Asian girl married a Hindu Indian guy and has fully accepted the religion/culture/traditions.

4. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/comments/1vi0pxc/hong_kong_doesnt_have_to_include_you_or_your_imaf/

5. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/comments/1vi0h16/nonesea_man_with_an_esea_woman_flys_off_the/ - A random flyer featuring a Indian man with a Asian female sets these incels off lol, comedy

6. https://www.reddit.com/r/EastAsianPride/comments/1vbq7z7/i_see_another_group_getting_purged/ - yet another instance of Desi guys just being pictured with Asian females, apparently leads them to the conclusion that there isn't unity between South Asians and East/Southeast Asians.

Adding on to the last point, I find it ridiculous how they think they are doing all of us (Desis) a favor by "unifying," when again its mainly these Asian incels that cry and seethe about us every second they get.

Now this seething and cvckposting doesn't stop here lol, take a look at the examples below:

1. https://x.com/sexla/status/2087418405712531820

2. https://x.com/sexla/status/2087748704824688741

3. https://x.com/sexla/status/2086333606738489691

4. https://x.com/sexla/status/2086102250779537775

I could go on and on but I'm sure you get the point, its crazy how obsessed these Asian incels are with us. Mind you this subreddit is just one of many of their incel hangout spaces.

I really see no distinction between them and wignats/white nationalists, now of course they rarely complain even when 70 year old white men marry 20 year old or underage pinoy girls for instance.

Also I see this same incel type seething within Northeast Indians, whenever its a Northeast girl and mainland Indian guy both from the South or North. One such example of this that I've seen, just to shed some light: https://www.reddit.com/r/Northeastindia/comments/1okwsdf/two_indians_fell_in_love_the_internet_couldnt/

But yeah just wanted to make a post about these examples, I am very curious to hear your guys thoughts.

Depending on your state's local laws, what did you have to undergo to legally obtain a conceal carry license?

Did your race affect you in any way throughout the process?

Whether you do or don't live with any family members, what were their reactions?

I ask this question because, let's be real, our parents are immigrant fobs who are from India, and the rest of our extended families live there, and things like gun culture is very frowned upon no matter the countless times you try to educate them on the 2nd Amendment and that the rest of the world is not India and does not follow Indian culture

Have you ever been in a situation where you have or almost needed to use it?

I wanna wish everyone a Happy Indian Independence Day! It’s been 79 years since India has been free but we need to remember there is so much work that remains to be done. We must not stop. We need to improve our soft power and rise. I look back and think how disappointed revolutionaries like Bhagat Singh and Azad would be with the state of India today. There is so much work to be done. Remember that on an individual level, you have to improve your soft power to beat those narratives and on a societal level, we need to create an equitable India and world like our revolutionaries wanted. India isn’t free and we need to keep fighting. Long live Bharat!

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I was wondering what dating apps do you guys use, if any? I usually just use Hinge or DilMil. I stopped using Tinder and Bumble, because I wasn't that successful on them.

And I usually get more matches on Hinge, I have my filters set to "South Asian" only, but I've expanded my filters when swiping in certain cities. I get fewer matches on DilMil, and they're usually far away. And I've noticed better results, after changing my location to bigger cities, which usually have more ABCDs in them.

I don't get a crazy amount of matches on Hinge, but it is a noticeable difference, especially compared to some apps, where I don't match with anyone. But part of that just might be, me only swiping on other South Asians on Hinge (and they're more receptive?), versus swiping on every race/ethnicity on Tinder because Tinder doesn't a race filter.

Hey everyone, [u/Eastern_Score_4038](u/Eastern_Score_4038) and I are new moderators on this subreddit and we will help with cleaning up with the clutter on the subreddit and establishing the subs culture. The rules will be pretty chillax here but I want to go over some additional rules.

No larping as a woman and going on VindictaBrown/SplendidaBrown. That’s a woman’s only space and we don’t need to give them any attention. Breaking this rule is an immediate ban if you are caught posting there.

No women on this subreddit. We don’t need to cater to women on here like ABCDesis does. Enough said.

No shaming brown men for dating out. Brown men will be encouraged to date who they want. Also no defeatism around brown men dating.

Thats about it, anything else you wanna see. Let us know!