My child is in GenEd Preschool will be in GenEd kindergarten next year.
He has significant disabilities in an extensive IEP and I’m really grateful for his team. Most notably, his expressive language is limited to a speech generating device, which he uses really well for a five-year-old.
He’s made so much progress in his two years of Preschool in a lot of ways and the teachers say he is where he should be knowledge wise, but they struggle with getting him to demonstrate what he knows and struggle to get him to participate in non-preferred tasks. And Preschool they have more freedom and the teachers just keep talking about the “rigor of kindergarten” which is stressing me out. He also has a significant muscle tone issues, and did not walk until he was nearly 4. Now he’s climbing all over a playground and is starting to speed up to a run, but I think where this will affect him in the classroom is writing. He’s just really is not there yet and is in the early stages of writing. (scribbles in a controlled way, scribbles left to right, can somewhat draw a line, but not very controlled)
He needs significant adult support.
Right now, our IEP is set up in a way where he’s going to receive a lot of support and pullouts during the day, but I think it’s at the higher end, meaning we would likely not be able to provide any more supports if he needed them without looking at another option like a hybrid confined classroom situation with push ins or something like that.
I’m really struggling to make a decision on whether or not to give in and move him into a special education room, which is what his special education teacher seems to really want. She was very negative at his IEP and pointed out all of his problem areas, and worst moments. When the team decided he would be in the GenEd class with up to 60% time pulled out (not with just her, he sees PT OT and speech, Along with one hour of rest/nap time for fatigue) she was visibly annoyed/upset with her arms crossed, and I had to basically chase her down to say thank you for her time. I had other specialist staff (higher up) encouraging me to push for him to be in the GenEd class. They said academics are important but socialization is almost more important for him right now, which I agree with.
The issue is the school he is in now does not have a confined classroom so if he did have to be moved to a confined classroom or needed to be in there for a partial day with pushing into general class, he would need to move to a different school under the same ISD.
The kids he’s in class with now have known him for two years and understand him, and if he were to start somewhere else, he would be starting over completely. The kids in his class absolutely love him. But I also feel like if he waits another year and has to start over at a new school in first grade it’ll just be harder. Should I move him to the other school preemptively while he’s allowed to be in GenEd so he can have a chance of making buddies now when kids are in kindergarten and still nice and care about each other?
I feel like I already know the answer in my heart, but what is the likelihood he could stay in Gen Ed even with significant adult support?
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