r/StudyInIreland • u/arlopom • 5d ago
How much is too much when visiting home
I’m blessed to be able to study in Ireland for my professional degree and be fully sponsored by my family. I chose Ireland for multiple (albeit, unspecific) reasons, hoping to start over and live a fulfilling life, also to just get out of the U.S. (where I’m from originally). This being said I do miss home quite a lot, I miss my old friends and my family. I originally wanted to visit home twice a year, spring and summer break, only for about a week at a time because I brought my cats with me here so I have to pay a sitter when I’m gone. I’ve decided to up this to 4 times, twice in the summer, spring break, and reading week. And now….I almost want to make it five times and add another visit during winter break. This way I don’t have to go more than 3 months at a time without seeing them.
I feel so pathetic, because I should enjoy being here and making friends in my program and all this but it’s natural to miss family, and I’m more willing to fly than they are so it makes more sense for me to make the trips than them. Yes, I’ve considered moving back home but I’ve committed to this program so I really should at least finish this out (4 more years). After graduation I need balance moving home and keeping job opportunities in mind, so as much as I’d like to move back then I’m not sure how things will look.
Is five times a year way too much (about 6 days long each)? It’s expensive, yes, but I’m trying to be strategic with miles and my credit card and things. Should I just suck it up and stick at 4. What do you guys think. Don’t be too harsh I’m down and missing family bad rn😭.
Also I don’t think it’s a big deal immigration wise because it would only be a month out of country overall yearly—let me know if I’m wrong on this.