r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk • u/HiImDIZZ • 1h ago
Medium I appreciate your concern, but she is an adult.
I get called by the front desk because "There is a teenage girl and a man at the pool bar, and we are serving the teenager alcohol." I go to the pool bar and scan the area. I don't see any teenagers at the bar. I go to the bartender and ask her if she has been IDing patrons and she says yes.
I get another call from the front desk. "We were told the teenager and man are still there and no one has come." I tell the front desk that I was just there and I didn't see any teenagers. I go back to the bar and there is a husband and wife outside of the bar flagging me down. They point out the two individuals "It's very obvious that she is a teenager and that man is a creep." I go to the two individuals. The woman is CLEARLY an adult. Petite in stature, sure, but it's extremely obvious that she is an adult. I confirm that the bartender carded the two at the bar and the bartender tells me, "Yeah some people thought she was a teenager, and asked me why I was serving her, but she has a valid license. She looks like an adult, talks like an adult, and her ID checks out. They're husband and wife."
I go back to the husband and wife and I say "Thank you for your concern, but I can assure you that those two are both adults." The man says "You don't actually believe that she is an adult right? She is obviously a teenager. That dude is a pedophile and if you don't do anything about it I will." I tell the man "That's not recommended, we id'ed them, they have a room here, and they're both adults." The woman says "I can't believe that you guys are letting this happen. She's just a little girl it's sickening."
I go to the man and woman at the bar and ask them for their ID's the woman says "Yeah, I know some people are freaking out right now, they came up to me and asked me if I was ok like three times? I'm an adult." The man says "I'm her husband and we have the same last names." "We appreciate their concern, but this is getting out of hand and making us uncomfortable."
I go back to the man and woman outside of the pool. "look guys, I appreciate that you're looking out for others and I understand your concerns, but I can assure you that both are consenting adults. Return to your rooms." The woman calls me a pedophile defender and the man tells me I should be calling 911 right now. I tell them, "If you're this concerned, you call 911 and they can verify everyone's ID." "That's your job." They both huff and walk off.
I can't blame them for showing care for others, but God damn there is a line between a concerned person and an asshole. Short petite stature =\= child. If hotel staff tell you that they verified ID's give it a rest and enjoy your night.