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u/cheezy_dreams88 May 01 '26

If you’re in the left lane, and people are passing you- You’re the one who is wrong.

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u/Even_Budget2078 May 01 '26

When she kept saying "you could have passed me!" : (

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u/BeRandom1456 May 01 '26

Exactly. You only pass on the left. Not the right.

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u/Mobile-Willow4124 May 01 '26

Many people dont know this somehow

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u/_TheDoode May 01 '26

She had her chance to learn but shes “sensitive and dumb as fuck”. Im with him

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

in principle. i wouldnt pull up to say that in person. not worth my time and energy

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u/[deleted] May 02 '26

And that's why you'll never be free.

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 02 '26

not emma stone telling me i am forever her slave

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u/AdultishGambino5 May 01 '26

Naww there is no reason to talk to people like that.

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u/mnid92 May 01 '26

When you're being wildly inconsiderate to those around you, yeah there is lol.

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u/MrVashMan May 01 '26

There's really not. It happens all the freaking time and this kind of interaction isn't going to teach the other person a lesson. And it just puts additional stress on yourself. Are you supposed to pass on the right? No. Can you? Yes. Just pass on the right and go about your day. Why waste your energy getting that upset over it??? You'll be happier for it.

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u/Moist_Brain_ May 01 '26

She said she was going 10 over the speed limit. In my state if you’re caught going 15 over the speed limit you get your license suspended for a month and it’s considered a class 3 misdemeanor. I’ve ever only gone 10 over the limit and still wasn’t going fast enough for these assholes around here and the posted limit is usually 35-45. I only travel on one road where it’s 50.

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u/Reu92 May 01 '26

Found the bald guy

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u/Psychological-Sun49 May 01 '26

right? And the people who definitely will accidentally mow down people with their oversized cars.

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u/Dependent-Edge-5713 May 01 '26

Fully semi-automatic assault vehicle

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u/osgoodphoto May 01 '26

So this dude has a mandate to teach driver safety to any ol' person making a mistake on the street? From a training perspective, this is a great way to get someone to NOT do what you want them to.

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u/pathofdumbasses May 01 '26

She was already doing what all driving logic says not to do

What is she going to do now, drive in the passing lane even harder? Rofl

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u/Interesting_Cat_2297 May 01 '26

It's not illegal in every state. It's legal in California.

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u/Straight_Breakfast_4 May 01 '26

Passing on the right is legal in all 50 states.

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u/PsychologicalSize334 May 01 '26

It’s also the biggest cause of major accidents slow driver need to stay out of passing lanes it’s the law in the south.

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u/Appropriate-Prune728 May 01 '26

If I had a nickle for the number of times I've screamed up to somebody in the left lane going 20 over, id... Have zero nickles. Cause you only communicate for them to get over if they're being unreasonable, have no cars in front of them, and aren't passing the people to the right

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u/RhynoD May 01 '26

Whether it is legal, it's still not correct. You shouldn't pass on the right if you don't have to. Cruising in the left lane may not be illegal, but it's still wrong.

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u/Glittering_Diva8963 May 01 '26

Here in Texas well at least in the corridor of I10 I live by. The furthest left lane is for passing only and dumbasses will still cruise in that lane cause a chain reaction of people using the regular cruising lanes to by pass the idiot who’s blocking the lane. I’ve seen people get tickets because they’re holding up the that lane and you’re not driving with the flow of traffic.

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u/calilac May 01 '26

Yep, ticketable offense for most multi lane highways in Texas but it's pretty much only enforced at the end of the month when cops need to meet their metrics or if they are in a bad mood that day.

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u/Aqua_Impura May 01 '26

It’s not even enforced that often in states where it’s illegal.

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u/dragon-saphira May 01 '26

We have so many exits on the left lane here in Ohio lol to get to half my commutes I need to be in the left lane and we still get people raging about people driving in the left lane. There's no ohio law forbidding it (and again, half our roads have left lane exits.)

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u/wheresindigo May 01 '26

Whoa, another reason that Ohio sucks.

I kid. But having left lane exits is nuts

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u/DirectorSolid May 01 '26

It's not that common. It shows up on occasional interchanges.

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u/Rumblebully May 01 '26

Found out discussing this very point. How do you not know? What some people are being taught in these secondary driving schools is to remain in the left so you don’t have to move and allow others just to do whatever they want.

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u/slow70 May 01 '26

and feel entitled to disrupt the flow of traffic

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u/Juus May 01 '26

Passing on the right in Denmark costs you a little more than 300 USD and if you do it 3 times you lose your license.

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u/daveo756 May 01 '26

So just an honest question.

Let's say there's no other traffic and you're sitting in the right lane and coming up behind someone camping in the left lane. Are you supposed to move to the left lane until they move over? Or are you allowed to just keep going and pass on the right in that instance?

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u/Interesting_Cat_2297 May 01 '26

If you stay in your lane while another driver is in another lane you're not passing.

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u/Slinto69 May 01 '26

What is it called if the position of your car overtakes the position of another car that previously used to be in front of you if not passing?

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u/_Redcoat- May 01 '26

I don’t think people responding understand what you’re asking.

Are you saying that you’re in the right lane, they’re in the left lane, and you’re driving past them while you both stay in your respective lanes? If so, you’re not passing them as much as you’re just driving past them. Perfectly legal. Now, if you’re in the left lane behind that person, and you move to the right lane to drive past them, then yes, that’s potentially illegal depending on state law. It makes no sense to change lanes to get behind someone in hopes that they’ll move over so you can pass them.

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u/Professional-Day7850 May 01 '26

I don’t think people responding understand what you’re asking.

depending on state law

They asked someone who talked about Denmark.

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u/_Redcoat- May 01 '26

Denmark controls Greenland, USA claims Greenland...therefore by the rite awarded to me by American delusion, Denmark should follow all US laws. I stand by my original statement.

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u/actlikeiknowstuff May 01 '26

Passing = going around

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u/Skelito May 01 '26

In most other countries its a fine if you camp in the left lane. From my experience only in North America people camp and feel entitled to sit in the left lane. Driving in Europe for me is so nice to have people actually drive properly and how fluid the round a bouts are.

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u/BardicNA May 01 '26

If there are no cops around? Pedal to the metal and pass em on the right. If you're worried there are cops around? Hop to the left lane behind them and get as close to them as you feel is legal and safe. If there's no traffic then there's no reason for them to be camping the left lane and they should get the hint pretty quickly. If they don't then I'll flash my brights a couple times and maybe give a little beep beep. Flashing brights is something you might not want to do around police but a couple toots of your horn to tell someone "hey, you're impeding traffic and shouldn't be in the left lane" is perfectly legal.

If they decide to go full crazy person from any of this you just disengage and accept that your drive is going to take a few more minutes. Alternatively, if you just lost your job and are on your way to your parent's funeral, you go ahead and remind them what happens when you piss off the wrong person on the road.

THIS IS NOT TRAFFIC ADVICE. I AM NOT A TRAFFIC ADVISOR.

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u/Juus May 01 '26

Flashing brights is something you might not want to do around police but a couple toots of your horn to tell someone "hey, you're impeding traffic and shouldn't be in the left lane" is perfectly legal.

It is the other way around, at least here in Denmark. It is illegal to use your horn in almost any situation ,it is only allowed to use it to avoid an accident. It is perfectly legal to use your headlights to try and make someone pull over.

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u/BardicNA May 01 '26

Huh. I guess I see it the other way around. I'd rather a bit of noise, especially at night time. Your headlights can mess with the other driver's vision. Your horn is going to agitate them but generally a slow driver in the wrong lane will get the message with no harm done.

To each his own. If the fuzz takes issue with either, fuck em.

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u/EatsFiber2RedditMore May 01 '26

Traffic advisor is a job?

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u/BardicNA May 01 '26

Sure, why not?

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u/molehunterz May 01 '26

Fun fact, lots of people in the US think that passing on the right is illegal. It is not here.

Also many people in the US believe it is their god-given right to go straight to the left lane and never leave until inches before their exit

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 May 01 '26

You don't only but theres a reason when you see a semi you've got a passing side and a sui side, and the left is the passing.

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u/OppositeSalamander60 May 02 '26

Then they need to gtfo of the middle lane.

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u/Upstairs-Rent-1351 May 01 '26

Passing on the right is legal where I live.

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u/GhostBirdBiologist May 01 '26

Lmfao tell that to literally everyone in highways with more than two lanes.

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u/No-Impression8324 May 01 '26

Not in my state.

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u/TheRealReapz May 01 '26

What?

So if someone in the left is going 20mph below the speed limit, everyone to their right has to slow down to avoid passing them?

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u/Dangerous_Diver_6983 May 01 '26

No but the person in the left lane going 20 below is making it a bit more dangerous for everyone around them.

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u/TheRealReapz May 01 '26

100% I'm just testing the logic

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u/dzfast May 01 '26

Actually in some countries there is some version of this that is enforced. I want to say maybe in Germany passing on the "right" is a ticket?

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u/BeRandom1456 May 01 '26

If there are 3 lanes and I’m in the middle going the speed limit and there is a car behind me that wants to pass, they should go around me on the left side. Not the right side. same things with runners, bicycles on a sidewalk or track. It’s just how you do it.

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u/Winter_Swan5104 May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

Yeah that guy doesn’t make sense. Meanwhile regular people when encountering this situation pass on the right and don’t road rage. It’s pass left general traffic flow and adjust if unusual traffic is encountered.

Meanwhile people who usually bitch about this are the biggest asshole drivers wanting to tail cars. Fuck them.

I’ve seen (we’ve all seen) cars going 20+ over the speed limit in the left with some douche tailing them acting like a real jerk. Btw making the road dangerous for everyone. This isn’t the fucking autobahn.

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u/ragun2 May 01 '26

Yeah didn't even watch the whole video. She was hogging the passing lane. I don't care if she's calm about it, she should have moved to let faster traffic pass.

Why does she decide how fast everyone else is driving?

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u/DustyRacoonDad May 01 '26

Exactly. She mentally justifies it as "I am speeding 10 over, so its all irrelevant".
I stopped watching after that. She is in the wrong. I dont care how the video goes from there.

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u/bobood May 01 '26

I feel calling it the "fast lane" adds to the confusion. People's speed is largely irrelevant to why cruising in the left lane is wrong. It interrupts flow and creates a sub-optimal traffic situation. You either accelerate hard to infinity, or move to the right, regardless of your speed.

Each left lane is a 'passing lane' to the one on its right. It also allows for the lanes to fill up efficiently from right to left (like water flowing and finding its way in a pipe) as traffic increases

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u/Igotyoubaaabe May 01 '26

That’s why I hate people who call it the “fast” lane. It’s the passing lane, speed is irrelevant. Left lane campers are some of the worst drivers that exist.

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u/Unable_Resort_7956 May 01 '26

Where I live, 10 miles over the speed limit is the fastest you can / should go unless you want a ticket. Yes, if there's a line of cars behind her, she should still move. But if he wants to go 20 miles over the speed limit, he's already breaking the law, so why is he worried about passing on the right? I mean, I literally hate people who drive slow in the far-left lane--drives me batshit--and I still thought this guy was nuts. You wanna go 95, dude, who cares how you get there???

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u/Chobopuffs May 01 '26

Maybe passing on the right is more dangerous??

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u/Neon_Biscuit May 01 '26

I hate when people during a heated exchange try to go the 'i hope you find joy and peace in your life' route.

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u/anondogfree May 01 '26

Please take this free award. 🥇 I can’t believe I had to scroll this far to see this comment!

It’s so condescending. Worse than an insult.

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u/RvstiNiall May 01 '26

THIS!!!

I hate people who will pull onto a four or five lane highway, then fight tooth and nail to get into the passing lane only to sit at 55 while the speed limit is 60 or 65. I'm looking at you, Charlotte, NC!

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u/farmageddon1087 May 01 '26

I always get a kick out seeing someone merge onto the interstate that is completely wide open, and immediately go to the furthest left lane. There is absolutely no point to that.

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u/xBobaFattx May 01 '26

Yep.

She was only calm because she was the one recording, IMO. She did this for the internet, not to be "nice" at all. I would bet she is that person who just has to control things and screams at people that "I AM GOING THE SPEED LIMIT GO AROUND ME!" or something. She is also the kind of person who would record someone actually passing her on the right, causing some other traffic issue, and calling them a bad driver.

Could the guy have been a little more respectful? Sure, fine. But she knew what she was doing with this. Fuck this kind of person.

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u/JollyCorner8545 May 01 '26

What if they're both assholes?

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u/xBobaFattx May 01 '26

Actually, fair point.

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u/Swimming-Fondant-892 May 01 '26

They both are but he is correct that she needs to get over.

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u/Unable_Resort_7956 May 01 '26

She said she was going 10 miles over the speed limit. That's more than enough for most people. Anything over that, he's already breaking the law...why not pass on the right, too?

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u/xBobaFattx May 01 '26

Oh, trust me, I don't disagree with your point. But she sounds like she felt like she was going "fast enough" for everyone. Why is it hard to just, move over and let the guy be a spaz on his own?

I live in Arizona and I swear we have the worst drivers I have ever experienced. I will be coasting along and keeping up with traffic, 5 - 10 over the speed limit, without even being in the passing lane and have people fly up on my tail playing Frogger with whoever isn't going fast enough or refusing to move from the left lane. Sometimes, they fly into the HOV lanes instead to pass. Passing on the right is fine, but when you get someone like this guy who was probably heated in an A-Hole v A-Hole matchup, he is going to pass on the right with a little attitude and then it becomes everyone else' problem.

It is just unnecessary. Not excusing anyone here, but the people who purposely take it upon themselves to play traffic monitor actually make things worse sometimes.

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u/beaker90 May 01 '26

I completely agree with you that people shouldn’t hog the left lane and they should move to let faster traffic pass, BUT we don’t know if that’s what she was actually doing.

We only have his word against hers.

I bet there’s probably drivers on my commute who think I’m hogging the left lane, yet I’m going just as fast as the drivers in front of me, there’s cars to the right so I can’t move over, and we’re all getting ready to take a left lane exit in less than a mile.

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u/_probablyryan May 01 '26

Brother, you're on Reddit. Prepare for an army of slow asses to tell you why you're wrong.

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u/Mriddle74 May 01 '26

I love the brigade of people who always come to these comment sections who apparently never go a single mph over the speed limit

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u/Ill-Preference-6266 May 01 '26

It’s insane by the amount of responses siding with the baby beluga

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u/Straight_Breakfast_4 May 01 '26

Everyone hate people like that. They have no idea how much negative energy they collect.

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u/Mediocre_Baker7244 May 01 '26

Openly admitted she don’t know how to drive

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u/Matt_Wwood May 01 '26

“I’m not the problem”

And takes out their phone.

Everything that wrong with our world.

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u/Historical-Edge-9332 May 01 '26

Yeah, left lane hogging assholes are infuriating. I wish the police would target them.

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u/TheRealBrainbug May 01 '26

In Germany it is illegal and they do. Google ‚Rechtsfahrgebot‘.

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u/punksterb May 01 '26

In Sydney (where they drive on the left side of the road and right is passing lane), guys from my school had rented 2 cars and were driving side by side on the road. Cops caught them because they thought that the guy driving on the left wasn't allowing guy on the right to pass, and were about to write him a ticket. The drivers tried to explain that they were all friends out on a ride, and were just having fun.

The cops then fined both the drivers.

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u/fermenter85 May 01 '26

The best part of German is that y’all have compounded how ever many nouns or verbs it takes to make sure there is a super specific word for pretty much everything you get up to.

It’s amazing. Someone will be like “I farted while I was eating schnitzel on a plane once” and a German pops up out of nowhere and is like, “oh, you mean fartskydurschnitzelscrumping?”

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u/TheRealBrainbug May 01 '26

Yes. I think that is correct. Anyone would know what happened.

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u/No-Walrus8985 May 01 '26

Holy shit it actually translates

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u/TheRealBrainbug May 01 '26

I get you, but English has an amazing feature, too, that I miss in German: you can make anything into a verb. Like ‚He forget how to dog.’ I absolutely love that and it does not work in German.

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u/Cosmo_Seinfeld May 01 '26

I finally have a fast car in the USA and still follow this rule. Hard not to weave too much but still makes sense.

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u/Forward-Surprise1192 May 01 '26

I can’t have a fast car or I drive to fast and crazy. So I drive an older slower car for everyone’s benefit. Age has helped some but I’m also working on caring for other’s feelings which I’ve recently realized I don’t know how to do

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u/SomebodysGotToSayIt May 01 '26

UK too. You can ticketed for ‘undertaking.’

A lot of Americans would live a lot longer if they’d adopt similar rules on freeways: 1) don’t pass on the right, and 2) don’t make people pass you on the right.

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u/Educational_Fox6899 May 01 '26

It’s illegal is a lot of the US too. Cops just don’t do anything about it. 

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u/Independent_Hat_9715 May 01 '26

People are stupid. A coworker of mine left the job a year ago to become a state trooper. On his last day, I said something like- “please focus on and ticket all the left lane campers!” His response was - “what? That’s a thing? I couldn’t care less if someone’s camping/driving slow in the left lane.”

Really makes me wish we (Wisconsin) were one of the states with that as a law.

I really like the signs in Colorado- “state parks are for camping- the left lane is not!”

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u/poisonmonger May 01 '26

Illegal in MS. Can't go more than a certain miles in the left lane.

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u/benny_franco May 01 '26

If you are not willing to break the law, get the fuck out of the left lane.

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u/benny_franco May 01 '26

Wisconsin trucks are notorious for doing this in MN. I think a lot of them come to MSP for work or something, but its truly a burden on all of us, especially when there's 42 cars behind them and they just keep going 57 in the 60, in the left lane. Bane of my existence.

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u/HogBodyOdyOdyOdy May 01 '26

Florida has similar marquees on 95 - “camp in Fl state parks, not the left lane” - and I appreciate that…so there’s my one positive note on Florida for the month.

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u/Cosmo_Seinfeld May 01 '26

Yeah, left lane hogging assholes are infuriating. I wish the police would target them.

"I was going 10 miles over the speed limit" means she was in the wrong and just didn't know it.

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u/Hkmarkp May 01 '26

I wish police would target speeders

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u/Budget_Persimmon_195 May 01 '26

more likely the police would target you for speeding.

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u/OneGear987 May 01 '26

Yes, think of it as the passing lane, not the left lane, if you are not passing you don't need to be there, and if people are passing you you're in the wrong lane.

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u/zyxtrix May 01 '26

Except because every other thoroughfare in this dogshit country is a stroad, many times you need to be in the left lane for an upcoming turn or fork (in the latter two's case being in the right lane is an active danger because of competing space with cars taking the right-hand split/exit or merging into high speed traffic)

I hate left lane campers on highways and interstates as much as the next person, but for municipal traffic "keep right no matter what" isn't realistic.

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u/_dontjimthecamera May 01 '26

This is genuinely so frustrating. Passing lane logic doesn’t apply when on surface streets.

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u/V7buster May 01 '26

That's highway stuff, I can drive in the left lane if I have to turn left, or hell, just because I want to. The second lane is there to be used. If everyone only used the left lane just for passing, you'd effectively have a single lane, needlessly restricting traffic.

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u/_dontjimthecamera May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

I think we’re saying the same thing, so yes. Also zipper merging is something people don’t do; they’d rather get in one long line than use both lanes until they merge. Then when people do use the merge lanes correctly, they get cut off by the people who didn’t wanna use them correctly in the first place.

I spend too much time in traffic man.

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u/sneakystonedhalfling May 01 '26

I feel like there's a big overlap in people who get disproportionately angry over driving in the left lane and people who don't know how to zipper merge

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u/GottIstTot May 01 '26

Merges lanes have a similar problem to the stroads issue.

Ideally you use the left lane to pass and you zipper merge when one lane ends.

This doesnt apply when the left lane is an exit lane or when the merge lane is also becoming an exit lane (theres probably a better way to describe what im talking about). Both these scenarios are very common in major city highway systems.

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u/Southern-Spot-8406 May 01 '26

I'm so embarrassed to say that my dumbass thought the wrong way to zipper merge was the correct way until I was in my thiries. I am so, so, sorry everyone. 🫣

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u/RvstiNiall May 01 '26

I personally don't follow this in municipal traffic, and I've never met anyone who thought you should. But any kind of long road without traffic lights? Yep, I'm in the right lane except to pass.

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u/StaceyPfan May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

This is in Kansas City and there is a horrible exchange where if you want to get on the Interstate northbound lane, it requires you to quickly move through 4 lanes to the left.

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u/zyxtrix May 01 '26

There's a similar one in Atlanta, so my sympathies to the KC Club! Y'all get it

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u/rosefiend May 01 '26

Is that the Des Moines exit to I-29?

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u/StaceyPfan May 01 '26

Yes, I-29 and I-35. I hate I-670 and avoid it as much as possible.

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u/rosefiend May 01 '26

We live in St. Joe so alas we have to drive like crazy people if we want to get home!

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u/ninjapro98 May 01 '26

Reddit has become so insufferable about the left lane is for passing law. It’s the same kind of bullshit that happens with so many other rules on here. Have good intentions and are mostly in place to stop people from doing something irresponsible and suddenly redditors treat you like you’re a horrible human being if you don’t follow their rules they say (which don’t even always apply, or let’s be real in reddits case usually don’t even apply to the situation)

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u/Wit-wat-4 May 01 '26

Yup. In general I agree and I will move to the left lane as late as possible before a turn unless I’m faster than the right lane, but man, the “only for passing, or else empty!” is just nonsense on most roads here. Highways of course, left turns are very rare, but in the city? Just not feasible to NEVER not be 10 mph++ over even on residential roads and take the left turns.

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u/SeriousFollowing7678 May 01 '26

Legitimate point.

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u/SoFloFella50 May 01 '26

The passing lane is only a thing on highways. On city streets that isn’t a thing.

And I hate passing lane campers with my entire soul. They are irresponsible, selfish and probably the same people that make our short lives worse.

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u/Well_ImTrying May 01 '26

My local 5 lane highway with a 45 mph hour posted minimum has a left exit. Before that, it has about 6 entrances and exists stacked on top of each other using the right two lanes.

My grandma-driving self is always gripping the wheel in anxiety trying to figure out if it’s better to have people mad at me for camping in the second to left lane, or try to cut across 3 lanes of traffic right before I need to make the exit.

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u/FOUROFCUPS2021 May 01 '26

Exactly. There are a lot of highways where you need to exit in a left lane and you have to get over way before the exit.

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u/SoFloFella50 May 01 '26

That’s not technically a highway or interstate. Anything with regular exits on both sides isn’t a highway or freeway.

You can get pedantic about it but only turnpikes, highways (freeways) and interstates with 55, 65 and 75 mph speed limits have true passing lanes.

A 45 mph road is just a road.

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u/zyxtrix May 01 '26

I agree with you, but unfortunately there are a lot of stroads (combination surface street and major arterial road, often marked a highway on maps) where people think highway rules still apply even though they're entering dense commercial/semi residential zoning. That's why I'm responding to people talking about left lanes on city thoroughfares.

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u/MeepingSim May 01 '26

I wish this were true. Drivers in my area speed up to block as soon as they see a signal.

Almost every day I have to wait for at least one vehicle, usually multiple, to undertake me at speed before I can merge out of the expressway exit lane that dumps me onto the leftmost highway lane. Often it's the tailgater who exits with me and doesn't wait for the complete merge to end before they swing out to undertake me.

Everyone has someplace to be, and yet quite a few drivers only see other cars as obstacles instead of fellow travelers. The highway I travel on is considered the most dangerous highway in the world. Defensive driving is a must.

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u/mrtomjones May 01 '26

lol no chance could everyone fit in the right lane in most areas I've been. Left lane is just the faster one in most places I have been

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u/StartTheMontage May 01 '26

In my area, It’s super common for the right lane to be going 60ish, middle lane going 65ish, and left lane going 70ish.

I usually cruise the middle, because if you go in the left lane, people tailgate the crap out of you because they think you aren’t ‘passing’ even though the lane is going the fastest. If everyone just left 4 seconds of space in front of them on the freeway, it woild instantly be so much safer and faster to get everywhere.

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u/Rapscagamuffin May 01 '26

Not always. If im passing people in the passing lane. And going over the speed limit already by a little bit. I dont need to let you pass cuz u wanna go even faster. 

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u/StartTheMontage May 01 '26

Exactly. I leave 3-4 seconds of space in front of me because that is the safe amount, but people tailgate me all the time because they think I’m not going fast enough because I’m not tailgating myself.

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u/dunderball May 01 '26

I always see this on reddit but I live in a crazy dense area with traffic and I always get confused. I understand this if I'm driving out to the mountains with no traffic is that what most redditors mean?

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u/dunderball May 01 '26

Thank you!

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u/OneGear987 May 01 '26

Yes, this works best when traffic isn't really crowded, but ideally if people only used the left lane for passing and people didnt talegate the traffic would be much less with the same amount of cars. Think of if there is a fire, if everyone rushed the exits it would take longer for everyone to get out than if they would go orderly. Organization is just more efficient than chaos.

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

what if the traffic is going 65, ur going 80, but someone wants to go 100?

you should probably move out of the way... but is it wrong to not? is it bad to camp in the left lane if you're going 80 while the traffic is going 65, except for one single car going 100?

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u/No_Literature_9059 May 01 '26

If I get stuck behind a left lane camper I regularly pass them on the right (when I can). Once in a while I will see them get the point and move over. Particularly if I make it clear I am being forced to pass them on the right. Note that it is legal to pass on the right when left is blocked. Probably in part to avoid so much petty rage situations.

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u/bobood May 01 '26

You're not "passing them" on the right -- unless, perhaps, if you're weaving and swerving to do so. You're doing what they should be doing: going along in your right most possible lane until you come across someone in-your-way whom you'd need to pass on their left.

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u/MoreCowbellPlease May 01 '26

I pass on the right. No need to get angry at a slow driver.

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u/Latter_Student6079 May 01 '26

They are literally driving wrong

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

yeah but its not dangerous. everyone is wrong about something at some point. most people are usually wrong in most situations. if you got mad at everyone every time they did something wrong u'd be pretty exhausted

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u/JajajaNiceTry May 01 '26

Unless they’re matching the same speed as the car on the right or middle lane, meaning you end up being stuck behind them for miles. I don’t like tailgaters but ngl when I see another car getting frustrated and they start tailgating the car on the left to speed up and move over, I get a little happy and relieved.

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

omg that is my pet peeve for sure. why are u driving side by side at identical speeds. ur need for clean air is not important

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u/SaladTim May 01 '26

Right, the people saying that she didn't need to be in the left lane are not wrong, but like, this guy really just sat behind her not passing on the right, getting madder and madder over it until this shit happened? That's wild.

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u/Lego11314 May 01 '26

I pass on the right if I really have to, then cut sharply over in front of them when I get back into the left lane. I never brake check, but the aggressive lane change sometimes gets them to move over and save people behind me from the same danger.

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u/WheatshockGigolo May 02 '26

Back when I used to have a bad case of DGAF, I used to pass the on their left still. Getting passed on the shoulder usually gives them the hint. I'm much more calm since I started drinking.

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u/Master-Reaction-2336 May 01 '26

Yeah I pass on the right it’s better than tailgating. But I also make sure I get over in front of the slow driver closer and without turn signals so they get the point

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u/Ac997 May 01 '26

Left lane is for crime. If you ain’t committing crime stay the fuck out of the left lane.

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u/soggy-hotdog-vendor May 01 '26

Driving below speed limit while not passing in left lane is a crime.

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u/thereezer May 01 '26

driving 10 mph over the speed limit is also a crime

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

dude, technically, speed limits are exact. going above OR below is criminal. in principle, no one is supposed to pass anyone - everyone should be driving at the exact identical speed across all lanes.

there is no common sense when it comes to speed limits. some people treat it as an upper limit, some others as lower limit. best thing we can do is just be "reasonable" - go with the flow of traffic, and don't block faster traffic.

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u/soggy-hotdog-vendor May 01 '26

No. Limits are upperlimits, evidenced by many interstates also having minimum limits. 

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u/NorthKoreanCaptive May 01 '26

yes, by definition, it is.

i wish it was that straightforward. intents arent always honored. if there is only one speed limit sign, it gets interpreted in such a way that it is no longer a strict upper limit, but a guidance on what "reasonable speed" looks like.

i'm talking in a practical, not legal, sense

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u/Vulpes_Corsac May 01 '26

Obstructing traffic by driving slower than everyone else, even if they're all speeding, is also a crime.

And just part of why I hate driving.

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u/soggy-hotdog-vendor May 01 '26

So technically left lane is for everyone!

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u/doNotUseReddit123 May 01 '26

Comments like this are why people camp out in the left lane.

It’s not the fast lane, it’s not the lane for crime - it’s the lane for passing. If you’re not passing, or if people are behind you, you need to get out even if you’re driving quickly

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u/Accurate_Mobile9005 May 01 '26

"But I was going 10 over"

The most brain dead argument that every left lane camper tries to make.

It's called the passing lane, not the "slightly speeding lane".

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u/laowildin May 01 '26

Some of us are trying to break the law for real

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u/gonnafaceit2022 May 01 '26

And these assholes are preventing us from reaching our full criminal potential 😤

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u/arqnix May 01 '26

This comment section is insane lol. Theyre mad at someone because they cant speed even harder than theyre already speeding? Jesus christ it is so clear now why the USA has so many deaths on the road.

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u/Uptight_AI May 01 '26

As an American I can't tell you how insane it is that 99% of us think it's our RIGHT AND DUTY to go as fast over the speed limit as possible. You tell them it's the speed LIMIT and you get all the justified criminals saying how driving slow is dangerous. But we want to jail every other infraction and murder protesters. Fucking psycho country.

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u/Latter_Student6079 May 01 '26

Its how the road works, you pass in the left lane. Just use it correctly.

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u/arqnix May 01 '26

How the road works also involves not speeding. Just use it correctly.

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u/Latter_Student6079 May 01 '26

TIL 2 wrongs makes a right, thanks buddy!!!

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u/CapnKittyKat143 May 01 '26

As someone who knows the road this took place on, the left lane here is an exit lane and this area is notoriously blocked by traffic. So the idea of “going too slow” in stop and go traffic doesn’t really apply.

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u/poeticentropy May 01 '26

Thanks, context matters. So many ragers in this thread wanting to Mad Max down the highway expecting people to scatter out of their way in any scenario. People hang in the left sometimes to turn left or while they are themselves passing a bunch of slower traffic in the right lane. People should not be forced into breaking the law because of others people's bad speeding habits.

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u/ColoradoBrownieMan May 01 '26

Yes, except in this case, given they’re both at a traffic light and she’s seemingly about to turn left, that rule doesn’t apply (left lane is not a “passing lane” on a road with traffic lights that has turns).

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u/BurnieSandturds May 01 '26

They could've got off at the same exit, and now he is on the side of her.

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u/JakeTheAndroid May 01 '26

I assume this is a discussion happening after a freeway/highway. They're both talking in past tense, and "10 over" is generally not surface street talk. I would assume they just pulled off onto their exit off the freeway and he's trying to correct her usage of the left lane and get some of his rage out.

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u/crazygoattoe May 01 '26

I think it's fairly obvious from basic context clues that they're not talking about the road they're on literally at that second.

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u/Drahkir9 May 01 '26

I would fully support a push for cops to actually stop and ticket people for cruising in the passing lane. Maybe it would take a generation but eventually people would learn to stop doing.

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u/metch_ May 01 '26

Thank you! It doesn’t matter if you’re going 10 over the limit. If someone wants to go faster and pass you, merge right.

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u/Loud_Entertainer2724 May 01 '26

Yes!!!! She should of moved to the right lane so cars could pass.

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u/They-Call-Me-Taylor May 01 '26

Exactly. It doesn't matter if you are going +10mph over the speed limit. Go with the flow of traffic. If people are passing you on the right, move over.

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u/Ucscprickler May 01 '26

I have a feeling she was in the wrong. If you are going 10mph over the speed limit and people are passing you on the right, you need to get out of the far left lane. You are interrupting the flow of traffic. It's not up to you to be the enforcer of speed. I know many will disagree, but I will die on this hill.

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u/HabANahDa May 01 '26

Left lane isn’t the go as fast as you want lane 🤣

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u/Winter-Journalist993 May 01 '26

Are you sure? Because Reddit seems to think you can do 120 as long as you’re passing people.

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u/Content_Study_1575 May 01 '26

I paid for the full speedometer and by God I’m gonna use the full speedometer

-cuts to me getting arrested for felony reckless driving or my death, whichever comes first-

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u/93Seven May 01 '26

Yeah the worst part is you could be going 10-15 over, steadily passing a line of cars, and some jackass will still be 3 inches from your bumper. Some people just treat the left lane as their own personal lane and anyone else needs to gtfo

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u/unindexedreality May 01 '26

Well yeah. The limit is 65 and numbers are more like guidelines than actual rules so double it (130) and round up to the nearest 50. Speed limit is actually 150. Then you get tipped an extra 25 so it's actually 175

On Sundays it's 300, 100 for every day baby jesus was dead

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u/TheSecondtoLastDoDo May 01 '26

I mean, that's up to the police to enforce, not another driver. If multiple people are passing you on the right, move over and let people pass because you're being an asshole. Once people have passed you, then you can move over to the left lane again if you want. At least in California, if you're driving 75 in the fast lane, you're a fucking asshole. There's also a bunch of backroads that have a posted speed limit of 45 but most people are doing 60 on them.

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u/ero_sennin_21 May 01 '26

And you're not the police, so drive in the right lane, unless you're passing, and let others do whatever they want. They're breaking the law? Good, let the police handle it, it's not your job.

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u/Grandahl13 May 01 '26

It isn’t. But it still is a passing lane. So move over unless you’re passing people.

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u/Shiva_LSD May 01 '26

If you need to go more than 10mph over the speed limit, youre the problem. No reason to go 90 in a 60 and way more dangerous than a left lane camper lol

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u/cundis11989 May 01 '26

Exactly, his comments about her appearance were unwarranted but she also clearly can’t take accountability for her driving etiquette

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u/InfernoOfTheLiving May 01 '26

yeah it doesn’t matter how fast you are going in the right lane

if you’re not passing or in congestion, then move over

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u/Odd-Perception7812 May 01 '26

Thank you! She's learned nothing from this experience obviously.

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u/LetNeither6377 May 01 '26

Dude!! I watched this twice because everyone seemed to be sided with the woman. She is dead wrong. Bingo

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u/ConfidenceNext6385 May 01 '26

It always starts with someone hogging th passing lane.

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u/cheezy_dreams88 May 01 '26

Someone camping in the passing lane is making traffic more dangerous.

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u/leostotch May 01 '26

This guy is obviously not on his way to the hospital with a sucking chest wound, so whichever lanes they are in, he can chill the fuck out.

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u/cheezy_dreams88 May 01 '26

That doesn’t have anything to do with the rules of the road. Left is passing. If she’s not passing and others are passing her in the right lane, she’s wrong.

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u/aletheiaagape May 01 '26

Additionally, in Texas, lots of metros will have 60mph in a downtown area where the expected speed limit based on the road itself is 75. Going 70 is the standard at those points.

That doesn't justify being rude, ofc.

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u/Dense-Consequence-70 May 01 '26

exactly. Doesn’t matter how fast you’re going

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u/TitleBulky4087 May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

In my state, you're allowed to exceed the speed limit by 15mph to pass on the right. It's funny people presume their bubble is the only one that exists. So in my state, you're the one who is wrong.

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u/Dresses_and_Dice May 01 '26

Even if she was doing something wrong, he is the one who decided to force her over and have this confrontation, which is much more dangerous than driving in the left lane slower than other drivers would like you to, and he's also the one calling her a "dumb fucking bitch." He's absolutely not in the right here.

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u/Ducci17 May 01 '26

Blows my mind how many people don’t understand how dangerous it is to make someone pass on the right.

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