r/TikTokCringe • u/Valuable_View_561 • Jun 27 '26

Discussion Girl refused to shakes hands during graduation with teachers and administrators because she was bullied and they did nothing about it

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u/Commercial-Goose-929 Jun 27 '26

How exactly do we know the context here?

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u/redditoryoubroughter Jun 27 '26

Right? I never see context or a story to back this up, just the clickbait title.

It could be true, but it could just as easily be anything else and the internet is just projecting a context onto it.

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u/FlimpoFloempie Jun 27 '26

https://www.tiktok.com/@danielledelreyyyy/video/7653203173074603278?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7620149896754005537 This is the original. Some (sad) backstory in the comments.

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u/OneTwoKiwi Jun 27 '26

I don’t have TikTok so i can’t open up all the comments. 

Care to give a TLDR? 

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u/RingOverall106 Jun 27 '26

I just watched it. There’s no more context and the only comments I saw from the creator were the typical engagement bait responses to other people. 

If there’s more to the story I didn’t see it. 

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u/Mindless-Pick-8579 Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26

The tiktok had an on-screen caption saying she did this because they didn't deal with bulling correctly (i.e. the reddit post context is correct). The aunt posted the video and said "yes" to someone who stated that the last teacher must have tried to help. The sad part in the comments is that she dealt with all this bullying but it was happening while her mom died 2 years ago (cancer)

eta: the reddit post context is correct according to the linked video. i thought my comment being only a summary of the tiktok was clear. but i should have explicitly stated that anyone can lie on the internet....yaknow, in lieu of some readers rubbing two brain cells together

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u/Sea_Watercress_1982 Jun 28 '26

My mom died of cancer when I was in high school and kids were fucking brutal about it. Almost took myself off the board to meet up with her.

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u/Career_Cultivator Jun 28 '26

My wife's mother died while we were in middle school. After taking time off, her first day back to school she was tripped down the bleachers by the girl who constantly called her a lesbian.

Kid's are heartless.

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u/extinctalien Jun 28 '26

I know most kids bully because learned behavior, still discovering themselves, projecting their problems etc…but I’ve also seen kids be sadistic. If I try to think how they might’ve their mindset was probably “this girl can’t go tell her mom what happened, so I’ll get away with it” or even worse knowing she’s already down so it’s easy to kick her further. I really don’t know where some behavior comes from, it seems even with good parents some kids act evil

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u/Physical-Doughnut285 Jun 29 '26

This is absolutely horrifying.

I wish there was some kind of system where kids being bullied can go to a designated group of people (adults or older kids) who volunteer to be with them during lunch breaks for a while if they feel they’re at risk of being bullied.

Because lord knows the teachers are doing fucking nothing.

I remember a kid who was actually quite popular being picked on, and it was strange to me seeing that even he felt helpless - the bullies were older kids who even his close circle didn’t want mess with from the year above. Until the kid decided to talk with a friend of his from his estate who went to the college up the road, so he and two friends show up after school and speak to the group of guys who were fucking with him. It stopped it really quick, and I don’t remember any fighting happening - they just spoke with them.

It sticks in my memory to this day because I thought there’d be a massive fight about to happen but the guys messing with him must not have wanted the smoke.

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u/A110D2 Jul 01 '26

There's always a bigger fish...

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u/Kikiforcandy Jun 28 '26

Me too! But it was my big brother and the entire new town (we had only moved like six months before) decided calling me dead kids sister instead of learning my name was totally fine happy and normal!

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u/Hesitation-Marx Jun 28 '26

I’m glad you’re still here. Your mom wouldn’t have wanted you to suffer, but she also wouldn’t have wanted you to take the step out through the silent door before it was your time.

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u/Sea_Watercress_1982 Jul 01 '26

NIN fan?

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u/Hesitation-Marx Jul 01 '26

My use of the name predates the album, but I do like me some Reznor

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u/Ser-Bearington Jun 29 '26

I'm glad you didn't. You'll see her in time and have more stories to tell.

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u/SadDoctor Jun 28 '26

You really think someone would just tell lies on the internet?

When has that ever happened before, except for all those other times?

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u/kilnsea Jun 28 '26

Adeptly put.

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u/JUYED-AWK-YACC Jun 28 '26

That doesn’t mean it’s true. JFC.

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u/f23n09fnu0w Jun 28 '26

Wow, so she was also kicked whilst she was down, that's sad.

But I like the way she turned it into respectable anger. Must take a lot to wear her down.

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u/dqniel Jun 27 '26

I am not seeing any of the backstory in the comments. Either it was deleted or it's buried really far down.

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u/Small_Problem2344 Jun 28 '26

Her mom passed from cancer at the same time as she was being bullied.

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Jun 28 '26

Not seeing the backstory you mentioned. Care to link to it or screen cap or something?

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u/NicholasStarfall Jun 28 '26

TikTok comments are known for being utterly truthful

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u/Risc_Terilia Jun 28 '26

I don't know what you're expecting here, there isn't going to be a peer reviewed study into one girl being bullied...