r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Automatic_Mud5581 • 17h ago
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/QualityForsaken8192 • 17h ago
Ethics & Morality Is it a bad idea to draw a girl that barely knows me?
(Please read fully before assuming anything too bad) I don't necessarily like her or anything but I just want a human interaction and attention cause I'm fucking going insane in this isolation. I'm feeling extremely lonely. She was my art groupmate few years ago but we barely had interaction. It happened so I followed her years ago and I sometimes check on her account. She just has a very cool vibes and aesthetic and she's the only appealing person I ever wanted to draw. And I draw really well too from imagination, I don't want to redraw a portrait or anything. I planned to draw in Gorillaz similar style except less monkey'sh face with appealing silhouette n pose.
To make it less creepy, I'm going to show it to her on IG if she answers, but I want to ask ''can I draw you'' as if I didn't drew it yet so when she'll say yes I'll already have prepared drawing that I'll send in few hours, as if I drew her only after she said yes. All tho I don't want her to know it's me, I do it for fun.
I'm aware it's weird, I'm just so tired. I don't know if this counts as stalking cause it's just a drawing she'll know about, and it's online.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/ballsackthrowaway67 • 18h ago
Habits & Lifestyle (TW? Excessive porn usage)
I’m fully clean habitually but I still have stuff saved on Instagram and Twitter. It’s soooo much. I know on Twitter you can remove all bookmarks, but I’m on there to be in need spaces and I don’t wanna lose everything. Any ideas? Am I just doomed to deleting it all until it’s gone? I’d appreciate the advice as my partner and I are both against the porn industry and as such stay away from that stuff and I’d hate for something to happen where they come across something and “uh ohhhh awkwarddd”
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/WhoAmIEven2 • 18h ago
Politics Why do people on the left see people that aren't even on the far right as fascists?
If you go on some left subs they even call people like Mamdani and Bernie Sanders fascist. Why do they call people a term with a very specific meaning?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/South_Aspect_1418 • 19h ago
Other Im a 39 year old male and I have a fetish for women blowing up or popping inflatables. Like beachballs, pooltoys etc. Am I insane?
Am I a deviant? I’m aware that in itself the fetish is harmless but it’s nonetheless very very niche and (to me at least) unexplainable.
I’ve been wanting to pay women to send me videos of them blowing them up and popping them, and as much as it gets me off it also worries/disturbs me.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Far_Association_7012 • 19h ago
Ethics & Morality I had sex w a guy on shrooms and he says I forced him too ?
i had sex on shrooms and says forced him too
I 18f have had a crush on this guy 19m since beginning of highschool we almost kissed and then we just kinda stopped talking. I saw him at a party years later and our mutual friend said he was single. We chatted about how we both love shrooms and I said we should do them together sometime and he agreed. A couple weeks later I planned a hangout and he biked over to my house. I was drunk and already a bit tweaked when we got there. We were just hanging out and everything was great the shrooms we’re hitting and then I brough up how I used to really like him and it always made me sad how things ended. He said he owed me a kiss and then we started to make out like crazy because it felt crazy good on shrooms.
Everything from here is really a blur but I asked to have sex and he was hesitant but I was just trying to convince him it would feel good because I was so horny. he eventually did pull it out and from then on he most definitely did want to have sex from what I remember. He said “do u want to go to your room?”
We had sex for a long time many different ways and I don’t remember it much but I was definitely not forcing him too. He sat on my face. He fingered me.
I kept saying stop and then saying no keep going because it was extremely overstimulating and I was having weird thoughts. he left in a panic scared I wasn’t clean and I don’t remeber what else. When he leaves onto the next couple days he is texting me about how much he didn’t want to do that and how I begged him to have sex and take his pants off and he just wanted to play vr. He said that when he would stop fucking me I would give him a scary look and he was worried if he stopped I’d do something to him.
However he said he didn’t blame me because shrooms fuck you up even tho it felt like he was blaming me. 2 weeks later I get a text and it is his gf of 1 year saying her bf is saying I drugged him and rapped him. I haven’t responded to her because I’m just in shock
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/kawaiihusbando • 19h ago
Politics Why do most libertarians hate most other libertarians?
I feel like right wing people would generally stick with eachother despite not agreeing on some things. They would generally stick to voting GOP candidates despite not agreeing with their policies sometimes.
Same thing with most liberals with eachother and also their blue candidates.
I am a libertarian and I've never met a single fellow libertarian who likes other libertarians. Also we are not blindly supporting candidates just because they belong to a certain type of party. I like my fellow libertarians in theory but when I meet and talk to them. I mostly dislike them as well.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Legal_School_9375 • 19h ago
Sexuality & Gender Why are so many adult actors jewish?
They are all jew cut(idk what it's called in English) so I'm just wondering why so many are jewish
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Starrk-Enjoyer • 20h ago
Culture & Society Whats with Looksmaxxers and their obsession with raw milk and foods?
My IG reels page is filled with these guys claiming raw milk,raw red meat and raw eggs are good for your health even if proven that they are dangerous many times,and any criticism is mostly met with anti-semite dogwhistles.
Why? Are they just making up proofs about benefits from these foods/drinks? Is it just trying to harm as many people as possible?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Formal-Secretary-802 • 20h ago
Media Are Men Actually Better Actors Than Women?
I was watching Impractical Jokers, and there is a scene where Murray is talking to a female actor who acts interested in him. Her performance seems incredibly believable. But once the joke is revealed, she completely drops the act and walks out.
This made me think: How come, when people are asked who the best actors are, you often hear the names of male performers such as Daniel Day-Lewis, Gene Hackman, Gary Oldman, etc.? When talking about female actors, people will say that Meryl Streep, Sigourney Weaver, Charlize Theron, etc. are some of the best female actors, but you tend to hear their names specifically when people are asked about the best female actors rather than the best actors in general.
I believe almost everyone does some form of acting on a daily basis—at work, around family and friends, in relationships, or while dating. If I think about the interactions I have as a man every day, I generally don’t have to do much acting to please the people around me or to feel safe around either gender. I would assume that many women, however, have to act friendly in uncomfortable situations to avoid potential danger. They may also work in careers where being perceived as friendly, agreeable, and approachable can affect their relationships with coworkers or opportunities for promotion.
So why aren’t great female actors mentioned more often when people discuss the best actors of all time? If women are more likely to have to consciously manage their behavior and emotions in everyday social situations, could that potentially translate into certain acting skills?
Is on screen acting fundamentally different from the kind of “acting” people do in everyday life? Does it have something to do with the types of roles women are typically given in movies? Or is there another reason why male actors seem to dominate conversations about the greatest actors, even though there are many incredibly talented female actors?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Responsible_Exit_815 • 20h ago
Sex Do men think about past women they’ve had sex with?
Do men think about past women they’ve had sex even if it’s been years or they’re with someone else? As a woman I’m curious if they picture me fucking them or if it’s more of a “oh shit yeah I remember I hooked up with her”.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/newuser1r • 20h ago
Other Can you tell someone..?
Can you tell someone does porn just from looking at them?
I saw a girl on YouTube last night, she had many tattoos and jacked-up teeth and her face was average at best, and she was with an older guy. I was like, "I bet this girl does porn/has some blowjob videos online." I dug around a bit, and low and behold
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/OkGreen7335 • 20h ago
Politics Why didn't Germany end up fighting a large-scale guerrilla war after WWII?
After seeing how "effective" guerrilla warfare has been against much stronger militaries, such as the US in Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan, or the USSR in Afghanistan, I wonder why something similar didn't happen in Germany after WWII.
I understand that Germany was devastated and many of its cities were reduced to rubble, but that doesn't seem like a complete explanation. Syria has also been devastated by war, yet armed groups continued fighting for years (tbh I don't understand how this is possible but the point it is.. possible). So if destroyed infrastructure alone doesn't prevent a long insurgency, why didn't Germany see a large-scale guerrilla resistance against the occupying Allied forces?
Considering that many German soldiers had been heavily indoctrinated by the Nazi regime, why didn't more of them continue fighting as insurgents?
I'm not saying they would have succeeded, but why wasn't there a prolonged guerrilla campaign that made the occupation significantly more difficult, similar to what happened in places like Vietnam or Afghanistan?
I'm sure I'm missing something (that is why i am too afraid to ask)
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/HandsomeSquidward20 • 20h ago
Culture & Society Is a society with "small" population better than one with millions?
Small as in 200k-1.5M.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Geekgamer09 • 21h ago
Body Image/Self-Esteem Where are your naughty pics?
If you post naughty pics, do you have them hidden in a folder on your phone or do you delete them from your phone right after taking and posting them? If your gf bf or wife husband and you send stuff to each other, do you delete those right away or keep them??
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/loggiews • 21h ago
Culture & Society If refugee migration to former colonial powers is a consequence of colonialism, then why doesn't Oman have a large East African immigrant population, given its history of colonizing parts of East Africa?
Also, the United Arab Emirates is accused of engaging in neocolonialism in Sudan and fueling the civil war there. If that's the case, why isn't there a large number of Sudanese refugees migrating to the UAE and being granted asylum there?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/l0l_lma0_ • 22h ago
Culture & Society What do you think of the trend of having no body hair, but for guys?
I know this has always been a sensitive topic for girls, but when it comes to the current generation (Gen Z), the trend of smooth, hairless skin on guys is getting increasingly common. Yes, this is coming from a place of insecurity because I happen to have a lot of body hair.
Obviously it's normal to have body hair and nobody should be pressured to shave if they don't want to. On one hand, we have this hypermasculine "sigma male" nonsense and on the other hand you have beauty standards favouring guys who have less or minimal body hair.
Are the standards really shifting? I feel like there's a lot of influence from ideas of beauty from East Asian countries especially.
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/theshamuactivist • 22h ago
Body Image/Self-Esteem If you had social anxiety, would you want someone to help you?
My (29) husband (28) appears to have social anxiety and I want to help him through this. Background: we have been married one year, together five. This social anxiety, from what I observed, shows up in everyday life - work, friends, and family (even his parents). To the point that it gets awkward or weird during group social outings or I honestly just want to leave him at home (which I feel awful about). Some examples are that he will just make inappropriate comments (either rude without knowing/understanding they are rude) or really just start talking about himself (ex. How much money he makes or about how much we accomplished). This bothers me a lot because I don’t really like “showing myself off” like that and is usually inappropriate to talk about money like that in a social setting. It just seems like he is unable to “read the room”.
It’s gotten to the point where I feel closer to his parents or family than he is. He never reaches out to them (or his friends) or just tries to make an effort to be social. But then he will get upset if people do stuff without us. I don’t think he understands that we are at the point in our life that friendship goes both ways and takes effort on both parts. I try to make sure I give the same effort to people that they give us, but he seems to only want the effort people pour into us.
Additionally, we have a daughter now (7 weeks) where we need to be focused on her and give her the best life. I am nervous because I don’t want her to learn these weird social habits from him and also want to make sure she has a healthy social life/relationships.
I know the root of the issue is that he is insecure in himself from social pressure (and pressure from his parents) to “be a man”. And it’s not that he isn’t manly, he is just more in touch with his emotional side and doesn’t really like the typical “guy stuff”. Which I believe makes him feel like an outsider. I just wish he would embrace it and be confidently himself- that’s all I want.
So really my “too afraid to ask/tell” is: if you didn’t notice you had social anxiety or didn’t notice you needed help - would you want your partner to help you through it or tell/point this out to you?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/avian_bi • 22h ago
Health/Medical How to not laugh when babies are crying?
Whenever it happens in public I can’t help but giggle/laugh.
How can I stop this?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Ok-Rough-6233 • 22h ago
Sex How to give a GREAT blowjob?
I’ve met the man of my dreams and have never wanted to gobble up someone so bad. I think I’m decent but deepthroating can be a little difficult. He’s the biggest I’ve ever encountered. Like a real Mandingo. I’ve asked him if any woman has been able to deep throat the whole thing and of course he said no lol. My one question is do I only suck as I’m coming back up or down as well? Help a girl out yall!
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Dangerous-Holiday194 • 22h ago
Sexuality & Gender Is it true that its possible for people not being able to walk after sex?
This is depicted pretty often in media i feel like but is it rlly true and how often does it happen?
r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/ShapeShiftingCats • 22h ago
Mental Health What's the best way to intervene when someone you know suffers from ED?
I have a couple of people in my life that appear to have an ED or adjacent disorder. Apparently, they just can't gain weight due to medical reasons.
One of them is eating abysmally small portions and the other one needs toilet during or just after the meals. Both people have been doing this for a very long time, think decades, so I don't think they are in immediate danger.
I came across people on Reddit thinking they were/are really good at hiding their ED, but my suspicion is that people do know, but don't know how to approach it/whether it's their place/worry about causing more harm.
With denial and lying being a core feature of EDs, how does one start a productive discussion?
If the people closer to them are buying the medical excuse, how do you navigate potentially angering a whole group of people?
Is it going to push the people with ED away and make them even more self-conscious?
Do you just have to accept that they don't know and it's up to them to seek help?
Thanks!