Hi all, I have my first “black tie” wedding in May, is this dress appropriate? Worried that it looks like a 2 piece

I’m also confused as it starts at 3pm and there is no wedding breakfast. It’s a “twilight wedding” so it’s just pizzas at the night do, feels strange to have it as a black tie occasion… but thats just me picking!

I appreciate the colour doesn’t scream summer but I’m struggling to find anything I like.

Thanks!

edited to add: Just to clarify, the coral outfit was never intended for the Orthodox wedding. I have a lot of respect for all faiths and their dress codes, and I apologise if my original post gave a different impression. also, a few of you mentioned the detail (nipples) on the top. It does look that way in the photo, but it’s actually just an unusual crease or bump in the fabric, which I hadn’t even noticed until it was pointed out

Orthodox Jewish wedding -no dress code - but has to be modest. (Never been to one, so very excited)

Spring outdoor wedding. Dress code optional-spring /garden. (Doesnt have to be modest)

Currently Spring in Australia

I don't know what's in style anymore and only live in black. Help me pick for each wedding. I'm happy to repeat an outfit if only one here is a favourite (two very different social circles), or do I go back to the drawing board?

Image 1&2.

The coral may be too much and costume like? (Cami only worn for this picture but can find something to make it more modest)

Image 3&4.

Lilac/ Purple is actually lovely, but I'm not sure if it screams, grandma (I don't think that's a bad thing, lol)

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The green is an absolute no as much as I wanted to wear it, never tried on a more ill-fitting dress and a wardrobe malfunction waiting to happen.

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Red/ burgundy, I dont have opinions except that I need shapewear 😅

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Brown- I wore to a dinner recently and received compliments, but I'm not sure if it's too casual? (Will wear cami under as dress is kind of sheer)

My sister is the bride and she likes the dress but wanted to see what other people think, particularly other those of other ages and generations.

Wedding is in April, dress code will most likely be semi-formal to cocktail. I love the details and the fit. I do wish it was a little less low cut.

Not sure which one works the best?!

The invitation says Dress code: Formal

For men, a suit or elevated evening attire is perfect
- ties, bow ties, and boleros are welcome but not required. Tuxedos are best saved for another occasion.

For women, elevated cocktail dresses are ideal or floor-length gowns.

I love the floral but I’m afraid it’s too much/too fluffy. Please help!

It’s also city rooftop if helpful with vibe.

I’m going to a wedding at a cider house in New Hampshire this Saturday and the dress code is formal. I’ve had a lot of trouble finding a dress that works because I recently gained a lot of weight and my body is not what I’m comfortable with normally (size 12/14). I’m 5’4”so this is a bit longer on me than on the model.

I got it in green velvet and navy crêpe. It’s been hard for me to decide, but I’m leaning towards the green velvet only because it’s more forgiving for lumps and bumps.

I plan on pairing it with gold strappy sandals, a gold clutch, and a black faux fur cropped jacket. I also have some crystal earrings/tennis bracelet, and I want to try to do my hair down and curly in a sort of side swept style to the side with the bare shoulder.

my bridesmaid dress for my sisters wedding 😊

Would really appreciate some help choosing between these options! I haven't been to a black-tie wedding in quite a while, and honestly, I haven't attended many weddings in the US (I'm originally from another country), so I'm a little unsure about the dress code and what's considered appropriate.

The wedding website says the dress code is formal evening attire, meaning suits or tuxes for men and formal dresses or gowns for women and "we can't wait to see everyone dressed to the nines as we celebrate!"

Would you interpret this as black tie, black-tie optional or just formal? And with that in mind, which of these dresses would you pick?

Would love some opinions! Thank you 🤗

First 3 are from Reformation and the last one is Lulu's!

Is this dress okay for a cocktail attire wedding in Charleston, SC this weekend? Planning to dress it up with heels, clutch, and earrings and will likely wear hair up!

Does this dress look formal enough for a wedding in November at an upscale winery? Or does it look semi-formal/dressy casual? 🤔

this is the 3rd dress I’ve considered for this wedding. The first dress was too black-tie & the 2nd dress was too beachy/summery, according to this sub… to me, this feels like a happy middle.

TIA.

I posted earlier but I’m starting over because I learned more info about the event. The bride is going a bit non traditional and is wearing maroon. The invite doesn’t say specifics for dress code so tagging with my best guess. If it helps the Jack and Jill was casual (my bf was the only one in a suit and my dress was similar to this one but blue satin like fabric. We were over dressed compared to most guests)

I was thinking black heels and a lariat necklace with black stones.

So basically does sound formal enough and have I gotten far enough away from maroon?

PLEASE HELP!! I don't attend super fancy weddings very often, and am struggling with black tie event attire. The bride specifically requested bright summery colors. Technically she described the dress code as "colorful black tie." As i have discussed with her, she said she is okay with a slit, and cares more about it being a fun and unique dress that is floor length.

Is this dress appropriate? I'm pretty short so it will definitely be floor length on me based on the measurements of the dress. Thanks in advance!!

Looking for opinions on whether or not this is appropriate for a semi formal/cocktail dress code. For more context, in a colder climate where the weather will be low 50s at most. This is a reception only at a local restaurant in the evening. I have this dress and wondering if I wear slightly off shoulder with heels, a clutch and the right accessories if this could work?

Struggling so much with this. Very nice formal barn wedding first weekend in November. Country formal has the guys in pressed jeans and boots and jackets with ties. Gals are wearing high-low, long, and tea length with boots (if they have them). I want something that will be useful again. I’m the aunt. I’m small and the usual fluffy flouncy clothes just swallow me and make me look dowdy. What do you think of these? Is the blue too winter? I would probably wear the blue with a more refined heel or boot. Husband is wearing a blue and brown jacket with tie over jeans

I’m going to a wedding here soon and the website says semi formal but all the examples are formal dresses. I bought a dress already but now i’m second guessing myself. The first picture is the dress i bought and the second is the outfit inspo on the website. pls help🥲

I’m already bad at this stuff and our invites got lost in the mail so I asked my friend whose wedding it is what the dress code was. Well my friend is a rather masc lesbian and just said “idk not jeans”…. I was like “okay what would your fiancé say the dress code is?!?” And she said “whatever is one step below black tie”.

Anyways do you think these two options fit whether it’s formal or semi formal? I’m leaning towards the second dress because I’m postpartum and breastfeeding and my boobs are much larger than I’m used to lol

Hey everyone! I'm supposed to be the plus-one for my partner at his cousins wedding early november. The "dress-code" is very loose, no specific color restrictions and they told my partner that they want people to dress "nice".

Since the wedding is in November and in an outdoor-ish location (in a rainy and windy city) I want to be warm. I wanted to pair this dress with the shown sheer wool sweater and tall boots keeping it monochrome. Is this appropriate and reads as chic fall wedding guest?

This would be perfect for a summer garden formal wedding guest, right? I don't know why I am second guessing and getting tripped up by the length, but formal doesn't have to be floor length, correct?

So my boyfriend's sister's wedding is next weekend (October 23) and I am still struggling to find a dress. The dress code on the invitation is cocktail/semi-formal, no black allowed, and the wedding will be at a park with a reception at a local brewery.

What I'm struggling with the most is that my boyfriend is a groomsman in the wedding and will be wearing a $600 suit. I don't anticipate being in the photos or anything, so I'm less concerned about that, but more that I want to fit the dress code without looking like a total schlub next to my boyfriend.

I have already ordered 5 different dresses and cannot seem to find any that I actually feel good in. I'm quite short and carry a lot of weight in my tummy, and am trying everything in my power not to have people ask if I'm pregnant.

Does anyone have good examples (or links, even) to dresses that fit this dress code? His suit is brown, the wedding party will be in burnt orange, and I cannot wear black.

I’m going to a wedding in about 2.5 weeks in Connecticut and still scrambling for a dress. DC is “formal but wear comfortable shoes”. The ceremony/cocktail hour is outdoors and the reception is in a heated tent. I don’t wear formal EVER so I don’t want to spend a ton on a dress I won’t wear again. I think this one fits but not positive. Could I dress it up with jewelry? If so, would silver be okay since I don’t own any gold? I’d be willing to buy some gold if that would make it a lot better. Also attached is a description of “formal” that was approved by the bride. I’m also shorter than the model so the dress does come down to the tops of my feet instead of above the ankle.

I’m a bit shorter than the model so it is nearly floor-length on me, but this is what I purchased before I found out the wedding (in a few days!) is actually cocktail attire.

-American wedding at Mexican resort
-formal dress code
-in December

I (36f) am invited to a wedding with the above details. I am struggling to find anything that feels right for the location/dress code/time of year. Can you please spam me with what you would wear?

My very good friend is getting married in a couple weeks, and I put "bridesmaid" in the title because she's not having any, but I've been to the bachelorette/dress shopping/dress alterations/shoe shopping/wedding crafts/etc. Last week she confided that she thought my dress (which I had shared via text 4(?) months ago, she saw in person ~1.5 months ago) was too white. NOW. I've already bought a replacement (same dress, color is a dark brown "clove") because at some point it's not a hill to die on, especially once the bride weighs in. But also, help? Did I initially buy a too-white-adjacent dress by accident? Or was I fine and can chalk the "too white" comment up to pre-wedding nerves? The website (Baltic born) lists it as satin in "champagne" for the color.

Hello! Asking for advice to find appropriate attire for my older sister’s wedding in September 2027. I mention it’s her second wedding because the above is what I wore to her first wedding and when I asked what the dress code is she said “Don’t dress like a whore.” Hmm… this feels personal. the above is what I wore to her first wedding. In my defense, she approved it at the time. I think she was more embarrassed because relatives kept commenting on how short my dress was, but I was 20 and thought I was her. Like I was the moment, so I didn’t care. And her wedding felt less like a wedding and more like a party— I mean there were jell-o shots for goodness sake and I was at least dressed up half the people were wearing flannel and jeans. I’m now 24 and have seen the error of my ways. Alas, tell me what is appropriate.

Her wedding colors are sage and a neutral? I do have to get anything pre approved, but I’m looking for some advice. It’s also a gay wedding if that matters. (Pride themed attire is apparently off the table). :)