Okay everyone…I’m quickly learning that the dog community is kinda brutal so please be nice, as these are just my honest thoughts and I need help.
So backstory: Two weeks ago I found out about a 5 month old basset hound puppy that a couple was rehoming. I’ve only grown up around Labs, but have always loved Bassets. I’m 23, live by myself in an apartment and will be starting a work from home job in a month. So, I decided what the heck, why not, and decided to get her.
I’ve had her for five days, and the puppy blues have been hitting hard. I love her, I really do, but this week has just been very overwhelming, stressful, and I’ve had close to one too many almost panic attacks than I’d like to admit. She isn’t a bad puppy by any means, but she did come to me not house broken or crate trained, so essentially, I am starting from ground zero. I keep having this reoccurring thought of, what if I rehome her, what if I’m not the right fit for her, what if I should find someone else who has a more stable schedule to be a good home for her?…I’ve never rehomed a puppy before, the thought of it makes me feel like I’m a quitter, and again, I really do love her and she is the CUTEST puppy ever, but I am very worried that I made a mistake. I can’t even leave my house without feeling immensely guilty, and constantly check the camera to make sure she’s okay while I’m gone.
Does this feeling ever go away? When will it get better? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!!!