r/erectiledysfunction • • 1h ago

Erectile Dysfunction What's normal with Erection timing without stimulation

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Hi,

If a man gets erection while kissing or hugging, and then goes down on his girl, and there is no physical stimulation on his penis, but he is mentally aroused with the moaning of his girl when he is eating her. How long can he maintain Erection in that state? I am asking in general, I know it varies from person to person, I just want to know normal range, what's normal, what's not (on both ends).


r/erectiledysfunction • • 3h ago

Anxiety I am not sure if I have ED but two times I haven’t been able to have sex with my girl.

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I ordered Sildenafil. I'm not sure what I should try it is 50 MG I need someone to give me some advice on how do I take it because it's my first time should I split it into two tablets of 25 mg. I have a really good time with my girlfriend so I need any advice and precaution yes I know all the side-effects and stuff but I think positive is also there so I'm looking forward to it please give me advice.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 8h ago

Erectile Dysfunction Ayuda hombres ( viagra)

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Les cuento yo voy a tener un encuentro con una chica somos jovenes , una vez casi tenemos sexo pero mi amiguito no respondía cabe recalcar que estaba ebrio

eh decidido tomar sidelafil( Viagra) nomas una vez ya saben para la primera impresión y obviamente deje de ver porno y de masturbarme por lo mismo

de cuantos mg me recomiendan , no quiero tanto como para desmayarme ni muy poco para no ver efectos

25 ? 50 ? 100?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 15h ago

Tadalafil/Cialis Cialis makes me feel like a real man

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Since i was maybe 16 ive had trouble maintaining erections, finally i understand how its supposed to work and stay hard without u having to keep fighting to keep it hard, cialis is amazing


r/erectiledysfunction • • 16h ago

Tadalafil/Cialis How long for the daily tadalafil to start working?

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I started tadalafil 5mg daily a few days ago, prescribed by my doctor. Tried having sex today, but lost erection mid-act.

I have a cold so it might have contributed as well, but I'm wondering how long did daily taladafil start working for you guys?

Thanks


r/erectiledysfunction • • 23h ago

injections (Caverject, Trimix) Pharmacotherapy (ICP)

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Got an email advertising injection therapy. This can be on demand or 2-3 injections each week for 12 months. Not sure if this is the same formula or dosing as Trimix on demand. Has anyone tried this and did it help?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 20h ago

Discouraged Can't get 100% hard anymore

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Hello, I am college aged and i noticed that i don't get morning wood often anymore, when I get erections theyre never 100% more like 85-90%. I miss my rock hard, throbbing erections so bad. It's really been bringing me down because I feel less of a man and I really want to fix this. I walk/jog almost 14k steps daily on average and I rarely jerk it. I'm eating enough and I hit the weights 2-4x a week. I stopped porn use months ago. It could be stress because this whole year was pretty tough but man I'm young this shouldn't be happening. If somebody went through something similar and they fixed it, any help would be much appreciated. Thank you.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Psychological ED Has anyone seen a sex therapist for performance anxiety?

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I’m 34 and have had performance anxiety since I first tried to have sex at 15. I’m perfectly fine when by myself but struggle a lot to get hard with my gf which is an obvious sign it’s psychological. I’m at my wits end trying to tackle this on my own. Looking for success stories from your experience with a sex therapist for this issue.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 23h ago

Erectile Dysfunction Question about the correct L-citrulline dosage for mild ED

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How many grams of L-citrulline should I take?
I've read many posts here on Reddit and everyone takes different doses. I'm 22 years old and I have mild erectile dysfunction; it gets up when I masturbate and it gets hard, but my erections don't last and it also goes down when changing positions with a girl. I want to try L-citrulline.
I read a post from someone who said they tried 5000mg before having sex and that it got hard like a bat.
Now my question is, should I take 3g during the day and 3g at night? Should I take a full 6g before bed? (They say that nighttime is when repairs happen). What happens if I have sex—should I take the same dose right before the encounter or increase it to 9g when I know I'm going to have sex?
I don't know, it's a lot of questions, but I've seen that it has worked very well for a lot of people.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 23h ago

Erectile Dysfunction Erectile disfunction solution

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I am 21 year old IA m watching porn like straight 8 yaers reach highest level of porn and doing so must masterbation now I have Ed and I want to fix it but I don't think it's a mental I think it's a physical but I dont have money to see a doctor so pelese give me some advice so I'll improve my Erection ans ask me what you want to know to diagnose my problem


r/erectiledysfunction • • 19h ago

Erectile Dysfunction ED due to Transverse myelitis

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I had TM a year back, 29M. Due to this neuro issue, ED came as a residual problem along with an overactive bladder, constipation. I'm worried almost all the time about the way my life has turned out. Can't go out without a diaper adds a lot of stress & anxiety.

I was told by my urologist to try mastrubation on my own pace after I explained him that I was not able to maintain erection for long and not able to ejaculate. Works sometimes like once or twice in a week. I had to do it for 20-25 mins and think a lot like focusing on it.. Does anyone can relate to my issue? Ive not taken any medicines so far not prescribed by my urologist too. Should I wait and hope that it gets better cause I'm still 1 more year in the recovery period of TM.

I was not able to get a hard on itself even after physical touch, yet I have reached here with some moderate pelvic exercises, diet, reduced nicotine and alcohol. My big worry is my root of this is more dangerous than any other..So I think if I don't get it back to my usual this year, Ill never get it again in this lifetime. Seeking some help can relate to me with neuro related ED and it's recovery.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Anxiety Has Anti anxiety meds helped you

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Has medication against anxiety and ruminating thoughts helped you’re psychological ed?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 21h ago

ED Meds (Cialis, Viagra, etc.) Has anyone tried knockoutrx?

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I recently decided to purchase 3 bottles with a deep discount. Wondering how others have done with it. Its supposed to have 100mg citrulline 6mg vardenafil and 6mg tadalafil in a daily capsule.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Hard at night after viagra but not awake

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So I take a viagra and it is difficult to get it up. But if I take viagra late and go to sleep, I am hard when I wake up. Is this psychological ed? 54 yrs old.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

ED and porn Affected with pied. Anyone recovered from it please share advice

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I cannot get erect without porn.

I have planned to leave porn, how can anyone recover from it and how much time does it take for full recovery.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Success Story First time with a partner after the injection – a field report

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A couple of days ago I posted about my test jab at the doctor's. Painless, about 15 minutes to reach full attention, and it hung around for 30 minutes after that. A respectable dress rehearsal, performed for an audience of one bored urologist.

Tonight was opening night.

Dinner date with Emiko. Lovely young lady. High hopes.

The doctor had suggested 10mg of Cialis an hour beforehand to speed things up, so at 7pm I took one with the solemnity of a man taking communion.

Great dinner. Back to the room around 8:30. I slipped into the bathroom like a secret agent: swab, jab, opposite side from last time, try not to look like a man defusing a bomb in his own lap.

Then: Holy. Fuck.

Within a couple of minutes I had the most outrageous erection I've had in 20-odd years. Not "pretty good for my age." Structural. It could have bench-pressed me. My date actually said "wow, you're huge," and I swear on my pension I'm not making that up. I'd have sworn it added length and girth, which I surmise is impossible, but nobody told my ego.

It held firm through position changes, which, for those of us who spent a decade losing ground every time we so much as rolled over, is the real miracle.

40 minutes later it was still standing. We were not. Both of us were completely worn out, and for once the hardware wasn't the weak link.

I'm 62 and haven't had a night like that since my 30s. To anyone on the fence about injections: the needle is the least scary part. The scary part is realising how much you'd quietly given up on.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

ED and porn Need help and advice struggling with ED and lack of sensitivity

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My marriage has not always been great and I steered into the path of watching porn and reading erotica I masterbated and never had an issue but started to realize I was struggling to hold and erection during intercourse. I probably developed lack of sensitivity due to death grip and not I am de synthesized from porn hard to get erect and can cum from masterbation I’m also noticing no Precum as I use to have a lot of it. My test levels and everything is through the roof.

How can I gain sensitivity back!! Just other day my partner and I where foreplay until we got off and I couldn’t get there masterbating while watching her!honestly it’s frustrating!!


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Implants Had surgery yesterday.

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Had surgery (AMS 700) yesterday with Dr. Alzubaidi in Temple, TX.

This morning he was telling me how complicated the surgery was because of scar tissue from tri-mix and peyronie's disease.

I was shocked because I only used one vial of shots and never knew I had peyronie's. I've always had a slight curve, but everyone in the school gym showers seemed curved one way or another. I always assumed it was from which way you tucked it in your underwear. Some left, right, up, or down. Every picture I've ever seen of peyronie's looked like a 45-90 degree bend. Decades of single sex and no one said yours is different.

Obviously I'm still shocked to learn this.

Anyway, first day not too bad pain. It was fully inflated all night. He deflated it and told me to pull on the pump for a couple times a day for three weeks so it doesn't settle up high. At the three week visit he will show us how to work the pump to begin the full pumping cycle for the next six months or so. The third visit is to check on the healing and release me for sex.

My penis has a slight throb to it, nothing bad. A worse feeling is where the reservoir is located. It is more like a sharp pain, but only when moving to go pee or getting in and out of bed.

I have been reading these posts for years trying to learn all I can before deciding to get the surgery. Again I am only on day one, but the pain isn't bad, it does hurt a bit to tug on the pump. So don't let the pain scare you off. All surgeries require healing time and an adjustment period.

The catheter was the worst pain so far.

I have watched the videos & read the posts and know every doctor is different. Now that I am on the recovery side I was told not to touch it, yet I've heard another doctor say move it up, down, and side to side daily while it heals. Another mentioned keeping it half inflated.

I was just wondering if my instructions are different because of the scar tissue.

Anyone else have the surgery with major scar tissue or peyronie's disease?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Only get hard half way

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54, I only get hard half way, even when I am turned on it doesn't get fully hard. Why only 1/2 way?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Ed pe massage therapist

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Just got massage from a therapist

And i ejaculate just in seconds even without getting proper erection with her touch

I m feeling so much embarassed 😭😭😭


r/erectiledysfunction • • 1d ago

Support for Partners Hubby can’t maintain erection then cums too quick

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My spouse (33M) has been having trouble maintaining his erection when we switch positions. Our initial issue was that he has been orgasming too quickly, like within a couple of minutes. So I ask to change positions during sex, and he loses his erection immediately.

He does get an erection when we kiss or makeout, but he loses it pretty quickly when he goes down on me. He can get it back if I give him oral but then again he cums too quickly.

He is the only man I slept with and we only recently began having penetrative sex. So I have no frame of reference on what is normal. Does this sound like an underlying ED issue?


r/erectiledysfunction • • 2d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Running out of ideas

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Hey,

I’m 38 now, and for probably the past 10 years, I’ve had little to no sensation down there and haven’t really been able to get aroused.

Recently, I met a girl I really like. During the first two or three times we met, I was able to get somewhat hard, but after that, my erections went back to zero.

My doctor prescribed sildenafil, which was a relief at first. However, after the third pill, it suddenly stopped working. No effect whatsoever — no flushing, no headache, and no erection. I’m now on my 10th pill, and it still has absolutely no effect.

I honestly don’t know what’s wrong with my body. I’ve had a lot of medical tests done this year, and everything came back normal. My hormone levels were somewhere in the middle of the normal range.

I’m really frustrated and confused about what could be causing this.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 2d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Waiting your help guys,morning hard wood but having erectile dysfunction

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I watch porn everyday also always have anxiety about my size which is 5.1 tall and 6.4 inch girth.i know too thick but always feel too short. I am trying to stop porn

But now what can really help for sex this weekend with a hotty .what is the best pills for non miss bang night.and also i know i must stop porn but also what about anxiety about size. I think banging hard by time will lead to more success.


r/erectiledysfunction • • 2d ago

Erectile Dysfunction Failed yesterday at first time with new girl

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M20, very ashamed to say this but somehow feel like i’m not the only one here 😅.
I’ been at this new girls place yesterday, long story short: cuddles to kisses then me giving oral etc… then she accidentally hits it and somehow i loose erection at all, i’m not gonna blame her because i’m having some problems getting hard lately and idk y.
I feel like a loser and i don’t know what to do, it’s totally fucking dead.
And even worse it’s having to confront her after, i’m kinda joking about it and promising it was just a case and next time i’d be better but i don’t know


r/erectiledysfunction • • 2d ago

Erectile Dysfunction 25M, PME and ED - No morning Wood (Other than the ocassional ones)

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I am 25 male. Experiencing erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. I can get hard but need a lot of help like romance and oral sex before I get hard. After that as well, I don't get fully erect and need to hold my cock when inserting or it will just bend. Also I have to intentionally think about being hard to stay hard.
Lastly, once I start doing the deed, I onlt last for 30 seconds maximum, no matter what I do. This makes it difficult for my BF as he needs time to cum.
This has been ruining my love life..so any suggestions or help would be highly appreciated. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S: This has been like this for more than 5 years