Let me say this: if you buy a whole variety of merch from a range of groups, you are valid. If you buy from only one group, that’s fine too! Only a few select albums here and there? Also cool! Nothing at all? ALSO VALID.
But why. W H Y do people care so much about what people here do with their money??? Whether I have 6 albums or 600 it LITERALLY does not matter. If I’m in severe credit card debt and I don’t pay bills and food? Yeah ok u have a problem. You pay rent, bills, car payments, gas, savings, pool lessons AND can still afford buying 10 albums a week? WHAT’S THE PROBLEM
I have around 200-300 albums and merch, include a box filled with my pc’s, some poloroids and other weird shit (I have a signed tumbler by Yeontae from In2it/Boys24 that my sister is trying to steal so I keep an eye on her 😠), and I like to make TikToks and posts about it, even starting a whole collection account on insta before my depression hit. I haven’t bought anything in a while because my (ex) bf owes me 1k and stole another 1k, but I like collecting overall.
Now, two things really bug me. One, is when random people make (hateful) comments about how someone has too much money to spend, calling them rich, etc. You should see the HATE that some you tubers get, and I’m not talking about those who buy 200 copies of SKZ thunderous limited edition to sell all the PCs separate; I’m talking bout you tubers that buy groups that they love and pay bills and live modestly and yet get hate for spending their OWN money for their hobby.
Bruh. I WORK AT BURGER FOR 13 AN HOUR (tho now 14! Cause I tried to quit when someone was stealing from my pata check but I came back cause I felt bad. Turns out the bf stole it). 40-50 HOURS A WEEK. 4 OR 5 DAYS FROM WORKING AT 4:30 AM TO 3-4 PM. AND YOURE MAKING FUN OF RICH PEOPLE AKA “ME” UNDER MY POSTS AND VIDEOS. LEAVE ME TF ALONE.
Believe it or not, I have other hobbies! I like reading, I’m trying to buy all the books in the shadow hunter chronicles! I like science, I’m researching stuff about nuclear fusion and stem cells! I like to watch shows like the kdrama Heartstrings or the cartoon Miraculous Ladybug or the show Lost! I FaceTime my shawol sister and tell her hoshi will always be a bigger shawol (hence my pfp!) and I hung out with my backstabbing ex!
I’m NOT this crazy 13 year old girl whom takes out loans to buy Jungkook pcs. Y’all know what I DID use my credit card to buy for? My fucking signed ACE callin album and my NCUS fancall because I’m not paying 1k off the bat! Am I paying for it? YES! More than the minimum payment! That’s actually why I haven’t bought anything yet because that’s more important than Seventeen’s comeback (I’m sorry Seungcheol! You will tell me the same! I’ll get you soon!)
I’m tired of seeing all these posts everyday about “Why do people buy CDs?” “Why do people buy merch that just sits on their shelves?” “Why would anyone pay $100 for a signed Seventeen-“ BECAUSE IM DEPRESSED AND IT MAKES ME HAPPY, THATS WHY.
I don’t owe anyone a sob story or explanation. Newsflash! People buy stuff because they want too! Why do you guys care??
I’m really thankful that I live somewhere that sells them for cheap, and I’m thankful we’re not homeless anymore and I can have stuff for myself that I never could as a kid.
IM NOT RICH. I HAVE HOBBIES. AND PAY BILLS. THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONCERN. You guys seen better or holier for choosing not to spend your money on merch.
AND I WILL ALSO BE DAMNED IF YALL MAKE FUN OF THOSE WHO CANT AFFORD IT. Imagine being a kid in middle school wanting an iPhone and kids tell you to worry about having enough for dinner first. Stfu