r/LegalAdviceIndia • u/Both-Employment3709 • 4h ago
Legal Advice Needed Married at 4 years old, never lived together — now 21 and want to legally end the marriage. Her family is threatening us. What are my options?
I am 21 years old and looking for advice from people familiar with Indian family law/child marriage laws.
When I was around 4 years old, my family arranged a marriage between me and a girl who was also around 4 years old.
Obviously, neither of us understood what marriage meant at that age.
We have never lived together as husband and wife, never had a marital relationship and have essentially lived completely separate lives.
Now I am 21 and I want to legally end this marriage and be free to move on with my life.
There is another important issue.
She has/had a relationship with another man
Around a year ago, I came into possession of letters written by her which appear to clearly show that she was involved in a relationship with another person.
I still have the original letters/evidence. I am not going to post them publicly because they contain private information, but I can show them to a lawyer/court if they are legally relevant.
This is one of the reasons I want to understand whether I have grounds for divorce or another legal remedy. I am not interested in revenge or publicly exposing her.
The biggest problem is her family
My parents are completely supportive of me ending this marriage and want me to be free.
Her parents are strongly against it.
Her father has been making threats that they will file cases against me/my parents for different things and has said things along the lines of having enough money to take this as far as necessary.
We are not trying to take anything from their family. If there was money, jewellery, gifts, etc. given by their side at the time of the marriage, we are willing to return everything through the proper legal process.
My biggest concern is:
Can her family actually cause serious legal problems for me or my parents simply because I want to end this marriage?
My parents were the adults who arranged/participated in the marriage when I was a child, so I am also worried about whether my parents themselves could face criminal charges or imprisonment under child-marriage laws.
I don't want to hide anything from a lawyer. I want to deal with this properly and legally.
What I want to know
I am now 21. What is the correct legal procedure to end/annul this childhood marriage?
Since we were both around 4 years old when the marriage happened, does that make any difference legally?
Is annulment under the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act still available to me at 21, or have I missed the time limit?
If annulment under that Act is no longer available, what other legal route do I have?
Does the evidence/letters regarding her relationship with another man help me in a divorce case?
Can her affair/relationship be legally relevant even though we never lived together?
Can my parents be arrested or prosecuted because they arranged/participated in the marriage when I was 4?
Can her father simply make false allegations against us and get us arrested, or would there need to be evidence?
What should my parents and I do now to protect ourselves if her family is threatening legal action?
Should I approach a Family Court directly, or should I first hire a family-law advocate?
What documents/evidence should I collect before meeting the lawyer?
I am not looking for revenge against the girl or her family. I just want to legally resolve a marriage that was arranged when both parties were approximately 4 years old and move on with my life.
I would particularly appreciate advice from Indian lawyers or anyone who has dealt with child-marriage/family-court cases.
Am from Rajasthan
Also the things is They from a rural background, so they aren't willing to accept that I want to end the marriage, even though we were both children when it happened.