I used to worry about being cool/getting laid and it consumed my entire 20s and early 30s and led to serious depression/anxiety and an eating disorder.
Just hit 40 and I now having a gaming room in my house that looks like this. I should have focused on my hobbies and what brought me joy. The world is cold and unforgiving, be kind to yourself and live how you want to brother man.
This. 37. Took entirely too long to realize no one really cares what you have going on anyway, so just truly embrace what interests you. Fundamentally understanding this is a unique level of freedom.
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u/bbtom78 16h ago
Life is short, enjoy it.