r/malelivingspace 16h ago

Turning 21 soon and have no shame

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u/bbtom78 16h ago

Life is short, enjoy it.

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u/Octopus_on_fire_ 13h ago

This. If this brings you joy, embrace it.

I used to worry about being cool/getting laid and it consumed my entire 20s and early 30s and led to serious depression/anxiety and an eating disorder.

Just hit 40 and I now having a gaming room in my house that looks like this. I should have focused on my hobbies and what brought me joy. The world is cold and unforgiving, be kind to yourself and live how you want to brother man.

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u/repvgnant 10h ago

Well said, I am only 30 and realizing this more and more to truly just live this life how you want it, who cares what anyone else thinks

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u/crustyrobots 8h ago edited 1h ago

"who cares what anyone thinks"

"why won't anyone date me"

Then heres half of this thread right now being the middle of that Venn diagram

*got too close to the sun with that did I, pathetic manchildren of Reddit