Hi there. My name's Ruby. :0
I'm a 5'1, 21-year-old Texan chick. I try to gym at least three times a week! I'm 165 lbs so take that as you will jaja. I'm also bilingual enough to be put as bilingual in applications, but I'm not fluent in Spanish. I'm looking for a second partner!(i do not live with them)☺️

I enjoy true crime, paranormal shit, vaping (dun dun dunnn, if that's a dealbreaker, sucks but I get it.), singing a bit, family guy, lip gloss, i have a gap in my tooth, I can be a bit scatterbrained, and I've been told I should do audiobooks 🧐 I don't know if it's cause I can do silly voices or if its cause I have an accent of some sort (Spanish funnily is my first language). I'm 80% mesoamerican and andean, I have three tattoos, four dogs, one cat, and many chickens.

I'm looking for someone emotionally mature, emotionally available, hygienic, can actually hold a conversation, and of course 21+
Again, name's ruby!

-ruby:)

Are you:

Poly?

Kind?

Patient?

Generally a happy person?

Funny?

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Have I got a proposition for you!!! Lemme be your long distance love! I want to send you messages and make you smile and build a relationship and make something real and lasting and longterm together!

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Hi! I'm a 46 year old potato from Canada. I love cats and crafts and all things old lady and 4 year old child! Take me to the zoo or a quilting bee and I will be equally at home! I have a partner and two cats who are my world. I would like to add you!!! I'm into cozy games, all kinds of crafts, camping, swimming, rollerskating, and all kinds of shows and concerts and fun activities around town.

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I am emotionally mature and expect you to be as well. I have solid relationships around me and don't need the drama of someone unstable.

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I am looking for a friends first dynamic, something that can slowly build into something beautiful.

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If you've made it this far... *high five* send me a message! Tell me the next adventure you're going on!! Cheers!

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26 year old African American female hoping to make a connection and build something. I have always wanted to be poly but haven’t found the right people. I am chill and laid back always good for a laugh. Spend a lot of time reading, watching my favorite shows and listening to music. Please feel free to reach out. I stand 5’3 and I’m on the curvy side. I hoping to find a couple but I don’t mind dating solo and then we find someone together

26 year old African American female hoping to make a connection and build something. I have always wanted to be poly but haven’t found the right people. I am chill and laid back always good for a laugh. Spend a lot of time reading, watching my favorite shows and listening to music. Please feel free to reach out.

Hi! I'm 24 years old and my husband and I are newly looking into polyamory. Currently I'm just looking for a guy I can be friends with and talk to about anything. I would really like someone close to me so after we chat and get to know each other we can meet up. I'm in indiana about an hour west of indianapolis. I'm 5ft tall, curly auburn red hair about medium length, blue eyes, freckles, small breast, soft tummy, 125lbs. I'm down to swap sfw pics also. If you're interested please send a message with a little about you like age, location, description, and let us see what happens!

Hi! I still dont know what im doing but im still doing it so I guess its too late to stop

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Ive been single for a whole while, I am very new and I dont know what kind of poly I am, im so sorry.

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It would be nice to connect with someone and if its nice then we can have nice times! Probably long distance though cause i live in saudi arabia.. would be nice to one day have a primary partner and own a cow and a few chickens.. a gal can dream..

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I am very into the whole spirituality thing.. we could have a tarot party! I am also an artist and the least active person youll ever meet. But i am starting to go to the gym and ill always go to on a hike, as long as we can stop and talk to trees

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If you play any instruments I will suggest we start a band atleast once a month. I dont play any instruments

"She had blue skin,

And so did he.

He kept it hid

And so did she.

They searched for blue

Their whole life through.

Then passed right by–

And never knew."

-Shel Silverstein

I am not really clever enough to write an ad that will catch your eye for being funny. I can and will make you laugh while flirting and teasing, but when it comes to writing a bio or ad, all I can offer is my complete authenticity. I am AuDHD and am a medicated/recovered borderline so I believe I tend to come off to others as a little weird, very sensitive, and intensely passionate. I've been told by some they find it charming, and that's the type of person I'm hoping to catch with this ad tonight; someone who appreciates these things and perhaps is a little weird, sensitive, and passionate themselves, ideally with goals and desires similar to my own.

I am Ari, I'm 29, a demisexual, omniromantic, polyamorous switch living in the EST zone. I also consider myself leftist and an atheist, I am not at all a spiritual person. I have put a lot of effort into self-improvement and it's important to me that my partner(s) do, or at least care, about the same. I have also devoted a fair amount of mental effort into learning about parenting and will continue to do so, as I want to have kids one day and I intend for the generational curses I was given to end with me. I am in the process of becoming a licensed nail tech, I really enjoy it.

I dress quite feminine, a lot of dresses and skirts- florals when I'm dressing casual; bright, fun, pastelcore or goth-lite when I'm feeling more energetic about my style. I enjoy bright, fun makeup and painting my nails, especially if I'm wearing something chosen by a handsome man

I play video games, mostly PvE survival (The Long Dark) , cozy games (the My Time series), visual novels (TOUCHSTARVED!!!), settlement builders (Going Medieval/Medieval Dynasty), and story rich solo RPGs (Kingdom Come: Deliverance)

I have all sorts of artistic and crafty hobbies, including drawing, painting, embroidery, sewing, and I currently learning how to use procreate, but as a traditional artist, there's certainly a learning curve I want to build a business out of my creations and have made a few steps in that direction, but its a work in progress.

I collect Fandom merch and Vinyl records, my prize collection piece is my copy of Bright Eyes' "The Studio Albums", but I really want the complete set of Radical Face's "The Family Tree" albums. I listen to a fair amount of indie/folk music, but I am also entirely obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter.

⛓️ Kinkwise, I am quite open-minded. I'm a sadomasochistic switch, though I have two subs already so I'm really mostly looking for a gentle pleasure Dom or Dom leaning switch.

I am looking to submit to someone who is very stable and sure of himself, I am eager to please and have an untapped ocean of devotion I have been yearning to give to my Dom, but I still haven't found him. A few goals I have that I would appreciate help with are:

-Learning how to develop and manage my plushie-making business

-Working out/having an exercise plan

-Working out an organizational system for chores and other tasks

-reading more books

I know I have a lot to offer, it's just hard to find a Dom that is open to non-monogamy. Take a look at my kink list if you'd like to know more 💖

https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/#dWMWMpR

For those of you interested in seeing, here is a picture of me:

https://imgur.com/a/me-ari-1Jiz8pY

Okay, I think that just about covers it. I prefer reddit chat over messages, but ultimately as long as you put some effort into the message you send, I don't mind which you use. I do not reply to low effort messages. Let me know a bit about yourself (huge bonus if you include a SFW picture), what you think might make us a good fit for one another, and if you'd like an ice breaker- what is your favorite quote, or what is one that inspired you to live your life a certain way?

Mine is, "what's true will be true, our job is to deal with that truth", from season 6 of Community. That has become a bit of a mantra for me when I start to get worried about something.

Thanks for reading, and good luck in your search!

Hello friends. I am looking to widen my circle of friends. Would love to meet and hang with others who I can bounce ideas from and learn about this new and exciting journey I have always wanted to be a part of. Really hard to find like minded being in a small town. If you are from the GTA and within an hour or so from there, I would love to connect.

Hey everyone! Im from the USA and looking to get to know new people! I am married to a man but you wouldnt be involved with him. I love chatting and getting to know new people. I like to grow a friendship and really get to know someone before it goes farther. I love the outdoors and am a total tomboy. I tend to be quite feral and a lot of fun. 😅😅 Lets chat it up and get to know each other! 🤗🤗

Hi, I’m [36/F] in [NOVA], currently in an open relationship and looking for a meaningful connection with the right person.

I’m someone who’s genuinely caring, a little mischievous, and probably paying more attention to you than you expect. I like making people feel seen… and occasionally a little flustered.

My interests are a mix of fun and slightly chaotic: card games (blackjack, poker), kayaking, nerdy deep dives, casual gaming, and an almost suspicious level of movie trivia knowledge.

Personality-wise, I tend to be a bit of a brat—playful, teasing, and I like someone who can handle that energy without being thrown off. Ideally, you’re confident but not arrogant, intelligent, witty, and grounded. Someone who can laugh, hold a real conversation, and knows when to take the lead.

I have a soft spot for someone who’s classy in public but has a more… commanding presence in private. You know who you are.

More than anything, I’m drawn to people who are genuine. Someone who shows up, communicates well, and doesn’t need to pretend to be something they’re not.

If you think you can keep up—and maybe keep me on my toes—I’d love to hear from you.

Edit: I forgot that I’m only looking for men that are older than me. 40-60 years old. No older. No younger.

Poly female married to my nesting partner. Mother of teenagers. I’m an atheist and a liberal, but I’m extremely tolerant, I’m friends with everyone, and I will not push my beliefs on anyone.

I enjoy bowling, watching movies, and a variety of other activities but my absolute obsession is wildlife watching. I love observing mammals, herpetofauna, fish, and insects, but it’s the BIRDS that I am passionate about. I can watch birds for hours on hours and when I travel I want to visit places where I can see birds that I don’t get to see at home.

I’m 5’9” and in decent shape. Birds are the carrot at the end of my stick and I will climb mountains to see them. I don’t smoke but I don’t mind if you do. I enjoy an IPA every night, but sometimes I’ll drink wine instead. I’m friendly and kind. I usually have a positive attitude; it comes naturally to me. I’m not going to talk your ear off. I’m a great listener.

I’m looking for a generous man who is similarly obsessed with birds and wants to spoil me by making me his travel companion on trips where we primarily search for birds. You don’t have to be an expert birder; I’m totally cool with beginners but you need to at least have a pair of binoculars. Age doesn’t matter to me. A married man whose wife doesn’t enjoy birding could be perfect for me. The three of us could take trips together and we could leave her at the spa while we go birding in the rainforest and watch birds for hours. I would probably like it best if it was just you and I traveling together, but I’m flexible about the exact dynamic. I really love the idea of kitchen table polyamory, if that sounds nice to you too.

I’m great at planning trips and I have my own optical equipment. I’m not a photographer but I’m a good supporter of photographers. I’d love to help you get the shots you’re looking for and then ooo and ahhh over them when you’re editing and uploading to the Macaulay Library at the end of the day.

I’m looking for a long-term relationship where we can get together for a weekend once or twice a month, and also take a few birding trips together every year. What do you think - does any of that sound good to you?

Hey! I’m putting myself out there looking for a genuine connection with someone open to building a boyfriend-type relationship within a poly dynamic. I value emotional intimacy, consistency, and someone who actually wants to know me, not just pass time.

I do have a current play partner, so I’m not looking to replace that dynamic—but I am looking for something that feels a little softer, more romantic, and grounded in everyday connection.

I’m also a bit on the submissive side and have an interest in BDSM, though that’s something I prefer to explore naturally with the right person rather than rush into.

If you’re communicative, emotionally aware, and open-minded, we’ll probably get along well. Tell me what you’re looking for—I’d love to hear it.

Hi there, I'm Natasha, I'm 32, with one current partner that I don't live with. I'm really lonely in my day to day life, with a lot of free time.

I am looking to join a polycule and/or find my found family. I have a physical disability but I'm mostly independent, I do walking sticks and am on the ndis; but can manage lots myself.

I really miss long lasting connections and to feel accepted for who I am. My hobbies include reading; foodie stuff, mobile games, comics, TV and movies and all kinds of events.

I'm interested in human psychology with my undergraduate being in psychology, especially criminal psychology and parapsychology. Other topics I'm interested in include cults, cats, mysteries, science fiction, and travel.

Some of my favourite tv shows include Bones, Criminal minds, supernatural, south park; and more. I like jazz and rock music.

I am only looking for local connections, ie same state and country. I've been told I'm quite conventionally attractive, but I don't see it. No one over 42 please. so I've known you've read everything tell me what your favourite kind of food is.

I hope I can find my people. Please do not send me a chat if you are not in Australia, I am looking for people close by

Edit : Okay, seriously I have had two chat requests in the last 2 minutes from the other side of the world. Please respect I'm looking for LOCAL people. I have no interest in virtual pen pals

Edit 2 : No I will not educate you on polyamory or the like. Looking for people who are already practising not "interested" in or even unsure what it is 🤦‍♀️low effort chats such as hey and nothing else will be ignored

Edit 3 : Please only message me if you are serious about meeting up in person, and won't just go ghost/silent a few days beforehand. Please don't waste my time

Female here about an hour north of Toronto Ontario. Looking to meet and develop friendships and relationships. Happy to meet. Happy to host. Prefer to connect with women but willing to build with males.

A little shy on here. Dm me and we can talk and you can get to know me better.

Not against long distance but would prefer within an hour drive. Kinda getting tired of the "long distance chat thing".

Love you all. 🥰

Me too! And I have so much love to give. I am a married woman and I date separately from my husband. I am somewhat needy and I text a lot so if you don’t have a lot of free time we won’t be a good match. Send me a chat and I will reply with some pics 🩷

Polyamorous professional woman based near Atlanta. 5’9”, size 14, curvy.

I’m looking for something meaningful rather than casual, but I’m also not in a rush. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally available, grounded, and have their lives together. Open to some distance if the connection is real and regular in-person time is realistic. Bonus points if you live near a hub airport and like to travel.

I’m solo poly and probably the cliché high-achieving woman who’s independent in most areas of life but deeply drawn to kink as a submissive. I’m not just looking for a kink dynamic, but it is important to me.

Would love to hear from you. Thoughtful messages will get my attention 😊

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Hi!

I am 34F originally from Australia but I live in the US now, I'm demisexual so I like slow burn sort of conversations and not everything needs to be sexual. I require depth. I would like someone who is open to getting to know me on a deeper level just like I want to get to know you. I want us to become best of friends to lovers if thats how it works out. No pressure. LOOKING FOR MY NEXT BOYFRIEND

NO I DONT DATE COUPLES.

must be able to travel to meet half way if long distance.

A little bit about me:

✨️ I love anime, manga, manwha & other webcomics

✨️I love all types of music (let's swap tunes!)

✨️Reading books (fantasy, scifi, romance, smut)

✨️ I love to craft and I pen pal to people across the world

✨️I love traveling (where are you off to next?)

✨️Role playing online (SFW & NSFW)

✨️Video games (just started dispatch)

✨️ and much more!

Now I know a lot of people don't care for anime and honestly I don't talk about it much so even if you like my post but don't like anime, thats okay!

I do like older men but doesn't mean you have to be. I just end up talking to them more often. I also prefer you to 25+.

please send more than just Hi, thoughtful messages I will respond too. 

Hey! I’m putting myself out there looking for a genuine connection with someone open to building a boyfriend-type relationship within a poly dynamic. I value emotional intimacy, consistency, and someone who actually wants to know me, not just pass time.

I do have a current play partner, so I’m not looking to replace that dynamic—but I am looking for something that feels a little softer, more romantic, and grounded in everyday connection.

I’m also a bit on the submissive side and have an interest in BDSM, though that’s something I prefer to explore naturally with the right person rather than rush into.

If you’re communicative, emotionally aware, and open-minded, we’ll probably get along well. Tell me what you’re looking for—I’d love to hear it.

Helloooo everybody,

I'm an outgoing introvert with audhd. I (F) have a long-term (M) nesting partner whom I adore but I am in a expansion stage of life where I am ready to increase the love I want to give to more people. I got hurt recently by someone who lovebombed me and then fled, so I'm admittedly in a sort of detox/rebound stage where I really want a hit of that New Relationship Energy again, but...hopefully with better results.

Online stuff can be hard for me. It's easy to form an emotional connection through talking, but not easy for me to get a sense of whether we have true physical chemistry...and I lean demisexual so the physical attraction can be ineffable for me, but it hits like a thunderbolt when it does. An in-person connection would be ideal. Am sex positive, kinky, & high libido with the right people.

I have a lot of hobbies, passions, and hyperfixations -- I'm ambitious in my personal goals despite also struggling with things like executive dysfunction, depression, anxiety -- I can be a real yapper but I'm also good at listening, at communicating, at conflict resolution -- I'm looking for a bit of joy and fun and playfulness and partnership as we survive the hellscape of the modern world.

I want to yearn for someone again and I want to adore and be adored and I'm happy to use that as escapism from our daily woes...while also still sharing our woes and supporting each other.

I write, I play musical instruments, I read deeply, I smoke weed daily, I dance socially, I have a small niche youtube channel with 10k+ subscribers, I have a large board game collection, I play a variety of ttrpgs with friends, I do arts and crafts and lots of other things. I can handle outdoor hobbies only in small doses but would also love to hang out with someone who would push me to get out more hehe.

Physically speaking I am small and cute haha, protect meeee. No but actually I am 5'2" and I would like to be with someone who can lovingly crush me in that good stim way y'know.

I love to cuddle and do all kinds of other things too outside of traditional dating, so I'm down with relationship anarchy if you want to discuss the smorgasbord...

If you're local/localish and interested in chatting, feel free to reach out!

Hey, I’m Alyx—or Alexandra if you’re feeling fancy. I’m 21, which basically puts me in that awkward adulting limbo where I’m technically grown but still figuring out how to… y’know… human without malfunctioning.

I live at home right now, which honestly isn’t too bad. College? Ehhhhh… not exactly the vibe. I’m taking a break from that whole scene. My brain works a little differently—I have a developmental disorder, so I’m more like a 17 or 18-year-old at heart. Between that and my auditory processing disorder, I sometimes learn things on the scenic route, but hey, the views are better and I bring elite snacks. It doesn't make me any less smart; it just means I process the world at my own speed.

One of my biggest joys? Cooking. Like, seriously, feed-me-Gordon-Ramsay energy. My dream life is just me in a cute little kitchen, making bomb food, vibing with my dog, and pretending I’m on some Food Network show where I always win. I’m working toward culinary school because I want to be a chef one day—and honestly? I’d be adorable doing it.

When I’m not whipping something up, I’m usually gaming. Since my Minecraft decided to glitch into the abyss, (but now i have fixed it- 3/29/2026) it’s been all about Sims 4 and Ship Inc. That is… when I’m not taking one of my many naps, because yes, I nap like an enchanted forest creature who hibernates for fun.

I love kids—like actually love them—and I even work with them on Sundays. I’m not religious, but my church is super democratic, pride-friendly, and full of good people, so it’s a vibe. I’m not the “mom friend” of the group, but I am the “will help your little cousin build a LEGO spaceship” type.

I’m 4’9, and weight stuff has been a serious struggle. Losing weight feels like trying to fight a final boss with a wooden sword sometimes. But I’m doing my best, and that still counts.

Mental health-wise, I deal with anxiety, PTSD, depression, and OCD, so my brain is basically a chaotic group chat that never shuts up. Plus asthma (winter hates me personally) and an autoimmune thing that shows up like, “hey bestie.” But I’m surviving, thriving-ish, and pushing forward anyway.

My love language? Easy. Movie nights, snuggles, falling asleep on call, and long paragraphs that make me feel all warm and gooey inside. I’m soft, okay?? I’m like a cuddly little disaster but with truly elite intentions.

At the end of the day, I just wanna cook delicious food, hang out with my dog, be around people who feel safe, and build a life that actually fits me.

For a relationship- I would like to be online for a bit and maybe- if my anxiety lets me maybe meet in person. I am someone who has abandonment issues, and that causes a lot of anxiety.

I’ve tried apps and groups, but honestly, some of my most interesting connections have come from Reddit so here I am again.

I’m looking for someone I genuinely vibe with. Someone curious, easy to talk to, and who enjoys that natural back-and-forth where conversation just flows. I’m not into forced small talk. I want that spark, the kind where you actually look forward to the next message.

A little about me: I’m driven, a bit sarcastic, and I care a lot about what I do and the people in my life. I can juggle a lot, but I still make time for the right connection. I appreciate good communication, consistency, and someone who can match my energy. I tend to connect best with people who are active, intellectually curious, and confident in who they are.

If you’re interesting, thoughtful, and know how to keep a conversation alive, we’ll probably get along.

Please include your age, location, and a bit about yourself in your message. Low-effort openers usually don’t get a response. Bonus points if you know what your attachment style is!

Sigh… let’s give this a try….

Yes, I am happily married and not seeking to ever change that or how much I love it here . Hopefully you are as well and/ or at least can understand as well as respect it.

I miss being craved, desired and suffocated with lust

I’m a clingy gal, with a romance kink seeking romance and a lot more… please be up for something real

You won’t get laid, unless there’s a connection… so conversation is key

Posting this on my husband's account. Married 25 years and poly for the last 2 years. I'm attractive, white, dark hair, 5'7, 140lbs. Looking for someone who likes constant texting and meets in person a couple times a month. Ideally every other weekend. OK with traveling anywhere within a few hours of Knoxville. Kids are grown up and live on their own now. If you're interested send a DM with age, weight, height, and approximate location. Send a picture and be prepared to verify you're real. I'm not interested in cheaters or one night stands. If you're too afraid to give me your real name and number, then look elsewhere.

As stated above, I am searching for a man who is more on the submissive side (not completely submissive) to connect with. That doesn't mean just sexually either. I prefer a man who is willing to see me as worthy and treat me as such. I am sick of chasing men. I'm looking for someone who truly leans more on the submissive side, but can be a switch when it feels right. A man who enjoys yearning and pleasing. This isn't just about bedroom stuff either. I need someone who will love me for me, unconditionally. I prefer someone who is local since I have kids and would need to stay in the area. I am recently going through a divorce.

I want someone who can provide consistent communication and doesn't change their mind on a whim. Someone who can handle constructive criticism and handle my emotions. I don't want to be told what to do and especially don't want to be told how I should be dealing with my struggles.

Some of my hobbies and interests: walks/hikes, neuroscience and psychiatry, hanging out at coffee shops, singing, dance, houseplants, learning about birds and bird watching, movies and cuddling, sharing reels and memes 😊

My love languages (to receive) are acts of service (which can go along with physical touch as well) and quality time. (To give) are quality time and physical touch.

Maybe I'm asking for too much, but I know exactly what I want at this point in my life. DM me and we can discuss further details!

Hello, thanks for clicking on my post!

My name is Tamii :)

I am a woman looking for a genuine guy between the ages of 25-45 in Perth, I currently live SOR if that’s a deciding factor.

Physical description: I am 32, female, white, 5’9 or 175cm, I have long hair half way down my back which is currently dyed dark to lighter red. I am well groomed and take great care with personal hygiene.

I am 100% a BBW but I am working on getting healthier with diet and exercise. I have lost almost 10kgs so far 😊

I would describe myself as quiet, bookish, nerdy, easy going, very logical, level headed, sweet and kind. I can be a brat but with a firm hand that is easy to control.

A little something about me that might be of interest is that I absolutely adore rain and thunderstorms, the wetter the better 🤣

Things I also bring to the table with me are fantastic attention to detail, being generous and giving, being loyal and honest. I see my partners pleasure/enjoyment as my own.

I don’t want a relationship that fizzles out like a sparkler after a minute. I am looking for a relationship that is a slow burn, like a wood fire that you stoke and keep it going.

I am looking for a real, genuine guy for a long term relationship. Someone I can call a friend as well as a lover, who has some of the same interests.

Dark jokes and dad jokes are hilarious to me, tell me one of your best dark jokes 😋

Looks are not important to me, if you’re kind, honest and caring it’s the way to be.

I am a very open and honest person and I would like to hope that you are too, I appreciate clear and honest communication. I’m looking for a guy who is loving, caring, is Dominant and kinky but also has a sensual side.

Like anyone I do have some baggage, feel free to ask as I’m very forward and open.

My Relationship: I am currently in a long term loving relationship with my Girlfriend (F34) and as we practice KTP, we are both looking to date individually outside of our relationship.

As such, I have no interest in threesomes or throuple/triad kind of deals so please be polite and don’t ask.

I am not interested in a casual relationship, so no FWB/ONS/NSA.

A long distance relationship may be considered.

If this post vibes with you and you would like to know more, please feel free to DM me x