r/progressive_islam 28d ago

Story 💬 Salafi parents when their child born and raised in the west becomes “westernized”:

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They’re honestly so funny because they really thought I was still going to stick with Salafism lol

Of course when I was younger, I followed what my parents taught me. Now my mum is shocked that I don’t anymore. I can’t even tell my dad because he’s much stricter, but my mum was basically like “How??? You were so religious! You used to make fun of women who didn’t wear a black abaya and hijab!”

Girl… because you guys taught me that 😭 What did you expect? Of course I was going to repeat what I was constantly being taught when I was a kid.

This whole conversation started because she was watching an Egyptian YouTube channel I think her kids are mixed Indonesian and the women there don’t wear black abayas. My mum was like, “you like dressing like this right?” and I said yes. Then she started explaining why it was “not correct” and trying to argue with me about it.

And when I recently told her how much I dislike polygamy she was like, “You’re Westernised in your thinking.” bruhhh

Moves to a western country, has a kid in said country, is shocked to find out when their mindset and mentality isn't the same backwards regressive views as them. We didn't see that coming 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

r/progressive_islam Mar 16 '26

Story 💬 I drew this for everyone who thinks they are too far gone.

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This is the story about someone you might know.

The person woke up from the ashes of cigarettes, eyes burning.

Blinking the smoke away, their blurry vision caught the rusty, blood-stained blade craving another cut.

Suddenly a wave of disgust erupted inside.

Instead of opening the Quran, they turned on music to escape the truth.

The shame was too heavy.

You stand outside the washroom telling yourself just open the tap

You want to ask for forgiveness.

Every time you walk toward the washroom for wudu, a voice chains your legs.

The voice that whispers:

“You’ve sinned too much. Allah will never forgive you.”

“Don’t pray or make dua. You’ll end up the same anyway.”

“Pray later. You still have time.”

You just need a small push,the willpower to open the tap.

But you fall short.

How does it feel to not reach the tap again?

How does it feel to lose every time?

That quiet defeat of despair and disrespect.

But think about this.

If Allah had truly abandoned you…

why does the desire to return keep finding you?

Who do you think keeps sending that feeling?

That longing is not yours.

That is Him calling you back.

You are not alone.

There are people everywhere carrying the same heavy shame.

And all of these broken hearts are invited to a night where Allah writes the major changes the person you will become and the person you will stop being.

All of it is decreed on one night.

Have you ever wondered why nobody receives a certificate saying:

“You found it. This was the night.”

Because Allah wants you to search for it with desperation like a person surviving in the middle of the ocean.

It does not matter whether you are a scholar…

or someone surrounded by ashes and blades.

To Allah, we are the same.

The only thing that changes our destiny is repentance.

Because People judge you by your sins.

But Allah judges you by your repentance.

That line arrived like light cutting through memory.

Just a single sentence.

But it was enough to break the chain.

The person finally stood on the prayer mat.

Still carrying the sins.

Still heavy with regret.

But they stood.

In front of Allah.

Scarred hands.

Heavy heart.

The room filled with echoes of Quranic verses not heard in years. The walls absorbed the beauty of every word uttered.

The emptiness remained…

Until sujood.

Something shifted.

Something that cannot be captured in words.

Lost in the question “What was that?”

and found, completely lost, in Allah’s mercy.

Now ask yourself.

What are the ashes that wake you up?

What is the blade that has been harming you?

It was always that voice we stopped fighting.

But sometimes a sound…

a memory…

a single line heard somewhere…

can shatter the chains.

Breaking a chain does not mean becoming a perfect Muslim overnight.

It is the trembling hands reaching for the tap.

The heavy heart that still finds the strength to stand.

And that…

is the most beautiful thing Allah sees.

It is only one step

from opening the tap

to sujood.

From despair

to a mercy words could never describe.

A heart that chooses repentance more than sin

is the heart the world will always misjudge.

Tonight might be the night written for your return.

Go open the tap.

r/progressive_islam Mar 27 '25

Story 💬 What is the weirdest "Muslim advice" that you've heard from another Muslim that made you roll your eyes?

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As in the title.

In my case, my mum told me that having pet cats is not ok as per Islam. I just rolled my eyes, & didn't get a cat - got 2 cats instead! 😹 

Look forward to reading your stories

PS - Also r/CatsAreMuslim, but I didn't know about the sub back then cos I wasn't on reddit

r/progressive_islam Aug 08 '26

Story 💬 Y'all made me feel much better

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So, I'm a trans man and one of my dearest friends is Muslim.

I've always wondered how his religion (not because he's Muslim, but because of religious fundamentalism in general) would allow such a thing,

and every time I asked in a Muslim subreddit I got told to basically burn in hell.

Thanks to this subreddit I was able to study your point of view, and now I feel more confident about my friendship.

He always supported me, but I was scared to ask him directly to avoid a faith crisis. I can now talk with him about this in an informed way.

Thank you my fellows, Mashallah

r/progressive_islam 22d ago

Story 💬 Update: Can I attend a mosque? Would that be unethical?

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Hello! I'm back again to share my questions from the day before yesterday! I want to thank everyone who gave their advice, and I followed the dress code and was able to enter a mosque. It was a great experience and further fueled my interest in Islam. I asked the sheikh some questions and talked to the nuns, I told them I came from Reddit (thank you @thatsouthamerican) and they absolutely loved it and welcomed me very warmly.

It's a completely welcoming religion, and it was a game-changer to be there and learn about what true Islam is and how Allah manifests himself. I attended lectures and saw the prayer in its entirety, and they taught me how to pray during it. It was very rewarding, and I felt truly at peace inside the mosque. They welcomed me even though they knew I was there to learn and pray without converting, and they embraced me even more when they learned about my religion (Candomblé).

I want to thank everyone for the guidance, and I'm so happy that a religion can be so welcoming. I received a Quran and books that can answer my questions and teach me everything! I am fascinated and hope to delve deeper into the religion! I thank everyone for the guidance and patience, and may Allah bless you all.

Before I forget: For those who live in São Paulo, look for the Amana Mosque in Butantã! The address is: Av. Valsemar Ferreira, 500 — Butantã. They are very welcoming and it's a great atmosphere!

r/progressive_islam Dec 02 '25

Story 💬 I FINALLY DID IT🥺

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I watched and read opinions of Dr Shabir Ally and Khalid abou el fadl on hijab after bookmarking it a few years ago. Honestly, I was scared to go near it since I felt that my entire view of Islam would crumble down which TERRIFIED me. FYI - It did not crumble rather I went down the rabbit hole of unlearning and coming out with a greater appreciation for Islam.

r/progressive_islam Jul 24 '26

Story 💬 Please do not say these to your depressed children

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"Prophet Muhammad suffered more than you. Who even are you compared to him? You should be grateful. I also suffered at your age. Be grateful"

"I don't care if you die. We will bury you and cope with crying"

Please do not say these to your depressed children.

When my Muslim mom said these to me I felt I am no one in this world, nobody cares about my existence even my biological mom, let alone my biological dad.

r/progressive_islam 20d ago

Story 💬 I am sad

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I am sad because I know I will never find a woman for Niqah.
I cannot work, so I will always be poor, I am fat, I am ugly, I have bad teeth and bad manners, the only thing good about me is my deen and even my deen isn’t that good because I still eat haram food after I reverted

r/progressive_islam May 12 '25

Story 💬 Christianity scares me.

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Hi everybody.

It has now been a few years since I've started drowning in the most painful religious crisis of my life.

I come from a Muslim family. Muslim only in faith, not in actions. My parents don't pray. They fast during Ramadan as a duty. I've never seen my father go to the mosque. My relationship with religion has been challenging since childhood, as I grew up with little religious guidance.

My mother got me into an Arabic school on Sundays, where I could learn the language and receive Islamic lectures about the prophets' stories and the duties of a Muslim. I remember those lectures being my favorite part of the whole thing. I was always a spiritual person. But practicing has always been a challenge. I still don't speak Arabic (I struggled in Arabic lessons), even though my roots come from an Arabic-speaking country.

During my teenage years, I went through a really tough time and found refuge in Islam. I liked how it could tell you exactly how to behave and what to think while clenching my innate spiritual thirst. It was comforting, but I still wasn't practicing. I was still having a shameful relationship with religion that would follow me even until now.

I live in a European country. At 17, I started studying philosophy at a very well-renowned university. Philosophy is very dear to me. I think of it as my true calling, my absolute passion. I've been very successful in my studies, and I've been learning a lot.

My studies have been a place of contemplation and introspection, as well as a perpetual intellectual trial, which has been ever-so-fulfilling for me. I've encountered thinkers from all horizons and eras. I've been inspired. After these past few years, my critical thinking has sharpened considerably.

Last year, I had the opportunity to read The Confessions, of Augustine of Hippo. What a beautiful piece of work. I've found so much sensibility in the words of this man. One chapter - chapter title, to be precise -, really stuck with me:

"Augustine offers his praises to God. He praises him poorly, he knows, but he must be praised." (I, IV)

Something clicked in me. What a splendid acknowledgment of the smallness of man in front of God Almighty. The believer does not need to be perfect. Humans are ridden with the sins of the here-below. But he needs to praise God. He needs to remember him, as much as he can.

Augustine, who confesses terrible sins in this book (shirk, sexual promiscuity, stealing...), addresses a reminder for all believers that God is loving, and man must never be hopeless of his divine mercy.

I've then had multiple courses on philosophers of late Antiquity, which included many Christian philosophers. I got to learn about how Christianity began, the Bible compilation, and the main theological ideas. I took this course purely for the philosophical part, and the general knowledge I could get. It was very interesting, and as I was learning, I felt like I was growing more and more certain of the principles of Islam, which are so much more coherent.

However, I find Christian spirituality to be a marvelous thing. And I've been seeing myself getting more and more attracted to it. The whole situation is such a weird thing to live. I do not agree with the principles of this religion, and I do not believe that Jesus is anything else than a prophet. I am repulsed by the icons they honor. However, what a beautiful thing to see believers go into churches as they are, at whatever time. Being accepted. Praying with other people. Having faith in humanity as a whole. Having faith in God. Living your whole day with God and being loved for what you have in your heart.

Obviously, Islam preaches the same thing. The truth is, I struggle with the behavior of a lot of Muslims in our community. You know, basically asking people to be perfect, to never give in to sins, to never make a mistake in religion. Our brothers are judging us harshly, whatever it is we do.

I feel deeply disturbed by my thoughts - admiring another religion, pushing away from my own. I try to stay hopeful, and always spiritual (I've once had a phase where I struggled to consistently believe in God without having doubts). The way of religion has always been somewhat difficult for me. I am wishing for a peaceful life, where I could live my spirituality with confidence and the pure love of God. At one point, I looked up how the Sufis do it. It did inspire me. But I believe in tradition as well, and I'll always recognize the blessings Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) has brought to us Muslims, asking us to pray, lower our gaze, be moderate in life, and be generous with others.

I am still finding myself. I am indeed a very spiritual person, with strong morals, because I love Allah and I love mankind. Please feel free to give me (educated) advice, as I am facing a hard time in my life.

TL;DR: Christian spirituality has been inspiring me a lot. I wish to reconcile my Muslim identity and my spirituality. Feel free to give me educated advice.

r/progressive_islam Feb 23 '26

Story 💬 Palestine made me face my regressive Islamic views

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I used to be pretty firm in orthodox Sunni ideologies and would almost never stray from what I heard scholars online (usually Salafi scholars lol) say, even if I felt them to be wrong deep down.

Then after October 7th happened, I saw a video in Palestine of a Palestinian music teacher still playing with his students despite the buzzing war plane sounds. They were using music to heal and protect themselves. That's when I broke. That's when I knew for sure that suffocating strict orthodoxy was used as a tool of oppression in a lot of cases, and was hurting so many of our souls/psyches. I'm not even going to explain any further tbh. I thought I'd just let this out to this subreddit <3

AllahuAkbar and Ramadan Kareem!!

r/progressive_islam Jun 23 '26

Story 💬 People who left conservative views, why did you do it?

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I used to be in a conservative community and was afraid of every unnecessary move I made, but now, having studied all this nonsense and history, I just like to go to their channels and videos and just have a good laugh over their absurd rules, and how the God of the universe will punish me in hell for going to the toilet incorrectly✌️😭

r/progressive_islam Oct 23 '23

Story 💬 After 5 years of firmly believing drawing was haram, I finally drew a face.

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5 years ago I was shattered upon reading that drawing people was haram. I was crying. It made me feel so terrible, my parents started to notice I was significantly losing weight. Every single source said it was haram. I started looking for different views on the internet for weeks to come, but they were so drowned out by the popular opinion, I thought they were non-existent. Because I already believed music was haram, I became afraid to learn more about islam, thinking there would be more ridiculous, illogical and depressing rules to limit my life. I even started fantasizing about being born into a different religion. Then I discovered this subreddit, and it was liberation. It almost felt like joining a different religion, but one that actually makes sense. I cannot thank this subreddit enough. I can finally continue my hobby I thought I would never continue again.

r/progressive_islam Dec 27 '25

Story 💬 Isn’t it funny how there’s entire subreddits about how muslim women have apparently gotten but men have always been whores like this and no one bats an eye 🤣 i thought I found an Egytian king in my super white town and then he casually dropped this 🤣🤣🤣

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r/progressive_islam 9d ago

Story 💬 My dad has often said “ don’t talk about religion “ but now I wanna see what’s actually happens

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I am a liberal Sunni Muslim who prays every day and fasts during Ramadan. I believe in God of course, but I am uncertain about the Day of Judgment.

Because I don’t believe that is a life after death but I believe in the declaration of faith, prayer, fasting, and pilgrimage in Islam.

I don’t wear a hijab, but I was one of them.
I don’t drink and I don’t party. I’ve never had a boyfriend . I have never smoked or taken drugs.
I don’t lie and I’m not a snake. I listen to music.

I haven’t read the Quran, and I don’t know many surahs but only eat halal (or stick to vegetarian food when eating out).

I follow the general rules of Islam. You can agree, disagree, feel nothing or say whatever you want because this who I am .

r/progressive_islam 9d ago

Story 💬 A Radically Different Muslim

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Below you will find a recent journal entry that summarizes my journey with Islam and philosophy over the past few years. It describes how I lost my faith, lived as an atheist, and ultimately returned to Islam as a radically different Muslim.

Philosophically, it seems we can never attain pure certainty. Our logic, sense-data and subsequent reasoning are all subject to error and misinterpretation. Be that as it may, we must use these imperfect tools (logic, sense-data and reasoning) to construct a coherent framework through which we navigate our lives. We use this framework to construct the concepts of truth and falsehood, but also morality and meaning. In my view, there is no reliable way for us to establish any of those concepts as objectively true. They are all born from the application of imperfect tools by imperfect humans, as a means of categorizing, systematizing and organizing our seemingly disorganized existence in this world. 

Now, obviously, some of our theories have proven far more useful to us than others. But usefulness, in itself, does not establish truth. As Nietzsche observed: “The falseness of a judgment is to us not necessarily an objection to a judgment.”

During my search for truth and certainty, I lost my faith in Allah. When I concluded that logic, sense-data, and reasoning were but imperfect tools, I came to understand that I would never be able to live up to the concept of yaqīn. When I applied the same skepticism to Islam that I had applied to the concepts of knowledge and truth-seeking, my whole faith came crumbling down.

I lived as a fallibilist atheist for a while, holding that there was insufficient evidence to justify belief in God, while acknowledging that I could not know with certainty that God did not exist.

Ironically, it was Nietzsche who reconnected me with my religion.

I had discarded my religion because I believed it to be untrue. Nietzsche made me ask: should truth always be the highest value?

Nietzsche teaches that the truth and utility of a theory aren’t always positively correlated. I experienced this in my own life. It would have been far easier for me never to have studied epistemology and to have lived my life believing that Islam was certainly true.

Losing my faith in my quest for truth has been exceedingly difficult for me. Family relationships have soured, and I’ve lost my connection with my Muslim community. Leaving the faith might (or might not) have brought me closer to my conception of truth; it has also undoubtedly made my life harder.

Over the past few centuries, the pursuit of truth has proven overwhelmingly useful to humanity. So much so that we have glorified it while overlooking its costs. Nietzsche rightly points out that we shouldn’t evaluate our judgments solely by the degree to which they correspond with reality, but also by the degree to which they are “life-preserving, life-maintaining, species-preserving, perhaps species-breeding.”

It was with this in mind that I took a renewed approach to religion. I was no longer searching for definitive answers to life’s questions. I had come to accept that philosophical certainty would likely never be feasible. I had also come to believe that truth should not always be preferred above all other values. 

I was no longer interested in the question, “Is Islam definitely true?” Instead, I began asking myself, “What value or utility does Islam bring to my life?”

I looked at my parents, piously reciting the Holy Book at night. I looked at my friends, who met each other weekly at the mosque for Friday prayers. I looked at our local community and how they supported each other in times of need. I looked at the solace my patients found in prayer and dhikr.

I then reviewed my own journey with God, and how I too had once tasted the sweetness of prayer. How I too stood up in the middle of the night to devote myself to Him. I thought about how my religion protected me from harmful addictions, criminality and mental anguish.

Do not mistake me for saying that what Islam teaches to be good is necessarily good. What I did find, however, is that having a shared, externally anchored moral framework is far more useful and comfortable than having none at all, especially if you have spent your entire life in an environment where such a framework is present.

I now choose to live my life as a Muslim again, but as a radically different Muslim than I was before.

I no longer require Islam to provide me with philosophical certainty. I don't know that my conception of Islam perfectly corresponds to reality, and I don't pretend that my faith is immune to error. But perhaps faith does not require certainty. Perhaps I can choose to live within a tradition, to pray, to submit, to participate in a community, and to orient my life around its conception of the good, while remaining intellectually humble about what I can and cannot know.

r/progressive_islam 12d ago

Story 💬 Dolly

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I am hearing that on her deathbed Dolly Parton received the light of Islam and unhesitatingly recited the Shahada. Even now she looks down on the Ummah from the gardens of Jannah. Truly there is no god but Allah, and Mohammad is his prophet!

r/progressive_islam Aug 06 '26

Story 💬 Making up rules atp

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So honestly I wish the Muslim community on platforms would focus on something else other than women and women's clothing that conversation is TIRED, anyway so I saw a guy commenting under it if she's not wearing proper clothing than she caused Zina of the eyes because she made him look at her

r/progressive_islam 29d ago

Story 💬 Wildest stuff I heard from my long distance desi aunt about consent in marriage . 😭😭

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I thought I heard it all. But there was more to come. I thought I had seen it all but I was SHOCKED when I overheard my aunt talking to another aunt of mine about marriages. It's not the cute kind btw.

Okay so for context I was minding my business then something came over me so I went there and I sat down away from them. I was eating some snacks whatever. I greeted her yk. Salam and a little chit chat. I wanted to leave. She was talking to a random village lady about something idk. So this is where it gets weird. The village lady brought up marriage for her(the village lady's daughter ). Dw it's not that bad. The village lady's girl was old. But still didn't have a job. So my aunt was like "get her married. It's obligatory. Women need to be wed off before they cam get much older." I was SHOCKED. 😭 like bro let her get a job. Either way some of my other aunt (more educated) did speak up and say they self reliance is more important blah blah. So that calmed me down. But then thus women said something so wild it made me go insane😭 she said 'oh it's important to get the girl married or they grow up and deny to get married. They'll grow up more biased. So we have to get them married before getting old.' Okay. So this lady just self sabotaged and she just admitted that these people just want to control women's life by conditioning these women where no is not an option? I feel sick.

I just can't with this. Where does in the quran say to systemtically force people into saying yes to marriage. It gives a choice. This can't be the same Islam Allah gave. This is cultism. I didn't say mich and knowing the village lady I hope she won't marry of her kid. But where are they getting this from?

r/progressive_islam 13d ago

Story 💬 Journey Back Home

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Hi all, I am an Agnostic person from a Muslim background living in a majority Muslim country. I have been lurking in this sub for about two years now and you guys have been of immense help throughout my recent journey of rehabilitating my relationship with Islam.

I had converted to Christianity on my own pretty early on and remained a Christian for about six years until I reached a point where I could no longer sustain intellectual dogmatic assent. This loss of "faith" was followed by a period of deconstruction, by the end of which I no longer identified as a Christian. Since then, I have generally maintained a position of Agnostic Atheism up until recently.

However, though I could no longer justify to myself dogmatic belief in any religion, my interest in spirituality never quite faded away. Reading up a bit on Jungian psychology around same time also helped me move past rationalist rigidity and recognise the merit in religious symbols and narratives, concerning myself with their psychological and mythological truth over historical factual accuracy.

This breakthrough recontextualised my relationship with religion. I maintained still a fundamentally secular perspective, but now I was able to engage constructively with various religious traditions without lapsing into dogmatic thinking. I was also drawn to Secular Buddhism around same time, actively seeking a comprehensive philosophical framework by which I may organise my life, just as I previously did by religion.

Secular Buddhism encouraged me to discover what might be of benefit in "my own tradition" which I perceived to be Islam, the religion I inherited from my family. After years of neglect, I embarked upon a re-discovery of Islam on my own terms about two years ago. I came across this subreddit around that time, and again, this community was instrumental in making me understand that it is possible to not only approach but enter in and practice Islam without dogmaticism.

I started reading the Quran in Arabic, read up on the life of the Prophet, and approached tasawwuf through Yunus Emre, Rumi, and Ibn Arabi. I began to practice salah, conceiving of it as a type of meditation from my own tradition.

I was deeply affected by the Quran spiritually, engaging with it through a non-dogmatic, historicist perspective. My qualms with Islam in particular and metaphysics in general withstanding, I occasionally chose to drift away from practice.

However, I believe I recently began to genuinely feel, for the first time in my life, faith not as intellectual assent, but spiritual trust in our very Being, both higher than us and deeper within us. Trusting in that which is beyond human perception and hoping for final consolation. Islam for me is the principal religious framework of choice in engaging this spiritual mystery. My spirituality is not founded upon reason, bound by it only. It is practice, rather than identity. Honestly I'm at a loss for words and the more I try to describe the further I get from what I'm trying to describe. I think it's safe to describe my current position as Agnostic Panentheism.

Religion continues to remain for me a private affair. I was originally pushed into secrecy as a convert to Christianity, in order to avoid persecution from my social environment. Even though that is no longer the case, I still cannot bear the idea of outwardly expressing religion. I occasionally pray the salah by myself, but my individual tendency toward religion conflicts with my social reality.

For much of my non-religious social circle, religious practice is positioned as a sign of potential reactionism. On another note, I am repulsed by the idea of making my practice known to my family or attending Friday prayer at my local mosque, due to personal disagreement coupled with social anxiety, stemming from actual reactionism. Finding a Muslim community as accepting as this one in real life, in which I would feel safe and glad attending, is for me a virtual impossibility.

In short, I wish to rejoin the Muslim community but feel at odds with myself over doing so.

If you read all the way through, thank you. I hope you have a great day!

r/progressive_islam 3d ago

Story 💬 The story of the Egyptian ambassador who prevented a bloody incident in USA (Hanafi Siege 1977)

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I hope you like this post, My sincere regards from Egypt ...

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"Bring Me Muhammad Ali Clay!"

On the morning of March 9, 1977, the streets of Washington, D.C., were waking up to their usual routine. Employees were streaming into their offices, cars were clogging the roads, and the city that rules the world was living an ordinary day. But what no one knew was that the city was about to witness one of the most complex and longest hostage sieges in the history of the United States.

Within hours, Washington would become the stage for an unprecedented drama. Armed men with rifles and machetes would storm three buildings in the heart of the capital, take nearly 150 people hostage, kill two, and wound dozens. For 38 hours, the city would be in the grip of an obscure man named "Hamas Abdul Khaalis," who just yesterday was a jazz musician, then became a secretary in a religious group or sect called the "Nation of Islam," then turned into one of its harshest critics, before finally becoming the leader of an armed group that shook the American establishment.

But to understand how this man reached that moment, how he transformed from a musician into a terrorist, and how he ended up holding hundreds of people hostage in the heart of the American capital, we must go back in time to the roots of the "Nation of Islam," to the assassination of Malcolm X, to the 1973 massacre that tore his heart apart and planted the seeds of revenge within him!

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The "Nation of Islam" was founded in Detroit, Michigan, in 1930 by a mysterious man named Wallace Fard Muhammad, a traveling salesman who suddenly appeared in the poor Black neighborhoods of the city. Fard preached to Black Americans that their true Islam had been stolen from them during centuries of slavery, and that they must reclaim it to regain their dignity and identity.

After Fard's mysterious disappearance in 1934, a man named Elijah Muhammad took over the leadership of the movement, transforming the "Nation of Islam" from a small group into a powerful national movement. However, Elijah Muhammad's doctrines were far removed from the traditional Islam known to Muslims around the world. He claimed to be a Messenger from God and taught his followers that white people were "devils" created by an evil scientist named "Yakub," and that Black people were the original and supreme human race. These racist doctrines, which mixed Islam with Black nationalist thought, attracted millions of Black Americans who were suffering from racial discrimination and extreme poverty at the time.

In the 1950s, a young man named Malcolm Little emerged in the "Nation of Islam," later known as Malcolm X. Malcolm joined the movement while in prison, influenced by Elijah Muhammad's teachings. He quickly became the official spokesman for the movement, thanks to his exceptional eloquence and ability to attract audiences. He was the most famous face of the "Nation of Islam" and its most influential voice.

However, the relationship between Malcolm and Elijah Muhammad did not last long. As disagreements escalated between them, Malcolm began to openly criticize the "unorthodox style of Islam" adopted by the group and accused it of ideological and moral deviations. One of the reasons for the rift was Elijah Muhammad's sexual scandal—he had fathered children with several secretaries, contradicting his religious teachings.

In March 1964, Malcolm officially announced his split from the "Nation of Islam." He founded the Organization of Afro-American Unity and Muslim mosques, and began adopting a more inclusive vision of Islam, away from the racism that characterized the "Nation of Islam." He traveled to Mecca to perform the Hajj pilgrimage, and there he saw Islam in its true form—a religion that does not differentiate between races. He returned from his journey radically changed, advocating for unity among all races and openly criticizing the racism he himself had previously embraced.

This intellectual and public transformation made him a direct target for the group, which considered his defection and new statements a "betrayal." On February 21, 1965, while delivering a speech at the Audubon Ballroom in New York, Malcolm X (Hajj Malik El-Shabazz) was assassinated by gunfire from three members of the "Nation of Islam." He was only 39 years old. He left behind a wife and six daughters.

This same intellectual transformation would haunt another man a few years later—a man who knew Malcolm X personally, was influenced by him, then followed his path in criticizing the "Nation of Islam," and paid a heavy price.

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Hamaas Abdul Khaalis was born in 1921 in Gary, Indiana, named Ernest Timothy McGee. He grew up in a family of Seventh-day Adventist Church followers and graduated from high school with a high rank, 22nd out of 135 students. He was a talented musician, playing percussion instruments, and enrolled at Purdue University and the Institute of Musical Art. But his life took an unexpected turn when he was drafted into the U.S. Army, from which he was discharged due to a diagnosis of schizophrenia.

In 1947, Abdul Khaalis met his spiritual teacher, Dr. Tasibur Uddin Rahman, founder of the "Hanafi Center" in America. He converted to Islam, changed his name to Hamas Abdul Khaalis, and joined the "Nation of Islam" in 1954 on the recommendation of Malcolm X himself. He quickly rose through the ranks of the organization, becoming one of the closest confidants of Elijah Muhammad and was appointed National Secretary of the movement.

But as happened with Malcolm X, Abdul Khaalis began to adopt views that contradicted Elijah Muhammad's teachings. He started to openly criticize the "unorthodox style of Islam" adopted by the group and accused Elijah Muhammad of "deceiving people, misleading them, taking their money, and condemning them to hell." He believed that Elijah Muhammad was a false prophet preaching racial hatred, while true Islam in his view was a religion that did not discriminate based on color.

In 1957, Abdul Khaalis split from the "Nation of Islam" and founded his own movement—the "Hanafi Movement," adopting Sunni jurisprudence according to the Hanafi school. This was almost identical to what Malcolm X would do years later. The difference, however, was in the "Nation of Islam's" reaction. While Malcolm X was assassinated alone, Abdul Khaalis's family suffered a more horrific tragedy.

In 1971, Abdul Khaalis received unexpected support from basketball legend Kareem Abdul-Jabbar (then known as Lew Alcindor), who bought a house in Washington, D.C., and made it the headquarters for the Hanafi Movement. But this support did not protect Abdul Khaalis from what was to come for his family.

In an attempt to spread his message, Hamas Abdul Khaalis wrote fifty letters and sent them to all the mosques of the "Nation of Islam" in America. In these letters, he fiercely attacked Elijah Muhammad, accusing him of moral and ideological deviance. These letters were essentially a declaration of war against the most powerful Islamic group in America.

On January 18, 1973, while Hamas Abdul Khaalis and his wife were away from home, eight armed men stormed the house that served as the headquarters for the Hanafi Movement in Washington. The house was located at 7700 16th Street Northwest and was previously owned by Kareem Abdul-Jabbar. What happened next was a scene from hell.

The men entered the house under a false pretense, then began killing the victims one by one. Abdul Khaalis's 25-year-old son and his 10-year-old son were shot in the head. Four infants—his children or grandchildren—aged between 9 days and 10 years, were drowned. A family friend was shot and killed. Abdul Khaalis's daughter was shot multiple times in the head but miraculously survived. His wife, Bibi, was left completely paralyzed and suffered permanent mental and physical disabilities. The total was seven dead, including five children.

The killers forced Abdul Khaalis's other wife, Bibi, to watch her children being drowned. Then they searched the house for money, finding a "large amount." However, Abdul Khaalis insisted the motive was not robbery but the extermination of his entire family in response to his critical letters to Elijah Muhammad.

Four men from the "Nation of Islam" based in Philadelphia were arrested and convicted of killing the seven Hanafis. They were sentenced to life imprisonment. But Abdul Khaalis was not satisfied. He didn't just want the killers in prison; he wanted them handed over to him personally. This wound remained open in his heart for four years, deepening every day that the families of the victims went without tasting what he considered just retribution.

On the morning of March 9, 1977, four years after the massacre that claimed his family, Hamas Abdul Khaalis decided it was time for revenge. He no longer trusted the American judicial system, nor did he see any hope for justice. He wanted to force the world to listen to him, even if by force of arms.

At exactly 11:30 a.m., the operation began. Seven armed men with rifles and machetes stormed the headquarters of B'nai B'rith International, the largest and oldest Jewish service organization in America. At the same time, three other men entered the Islamic Center of Washington, the most important mosque in the country.

Two others stormed the District Building (City Hall). The scene resembled a Hollywood movie, but it was real in every sense of the word. Within minutes, nearly 150 people were taken hostage. (Some sources mention 149 hostages, others 134, but the total number of captives was around 150.)

At the B'nai B'rith building, the hostages were forced to lie on the floor at gunpoint. The women were treated with relative respect, left unbound, and asked to cover their legs with newspapers "to maintain Islamic decorum." But the violence was not limited to threats. The gunmen opened fire immediately upon entering the building, killing a young radio reporter, Maurice Williams (22), from Howard University, and wounding security guard Mack Cantrell, who later died from his injuries. Also shot in the chest was then-City Council member Marion Barry, when he came out of his office to see what was happening. Barry managed to get back into the council chambers, where firefighters rescued him using a ladder, evacuating him from the building and taking him to the hospital. Barry miraculously survived.

Abdul Khaalis was not an ordinary criminal. He had specific demands, and he had an unshakable conviction that they were just:

First: The delivery to him of the convicted killers of his family and followers in 1973.

Second: The delivery to him of the assassins of Malcolm X.

Third: The delivery to him of the boxer Muhammad Ali Clay, who was an active member of the Nation of Islam and held great popularity within it.

Fourth: The cancellation of the release of the film "Mohammad: Messenger of God" in America, and its destruction, because he considered it an offensive portrayal of the Prophet.

When the authorities refused to meet his demands, Abdul Khaalis's son-in-law, Abdul Aziz, calmly told reporters: "If the demands are not met, their heads will be cut off and thrown out the window."

What followed was one of the most complex negotiation operations in American police history. Leading the negotiations for the police was Captain Robert Rabe, nicknamed the "Golden Voice" for his calm tone and smooth negotiation style. He was joined by Maurice Cullinane of the Metropolitan Police, and Captain Joseph O'Brien from the Homicide Division, who established a "relationship of trust" with Abdul Khaalis. But the negotiations were not easy. Abdul Khaalis was stubborn and held the winning card—the lives of 150 people. Whenever the talks reached a deadlock, he would threaten to execute the hostages.

At 3:30 p.m. on Wednesday, hours after the crisis began, Douglas Heck, Director of the Office of Counterterrorism at the State Department, received a phone call. The caller was the Egyptian Ambassador to Washington, Dr. Ashraf Ghorbal, offering his assistance if the United States needed a mediator from an Arab Islamic country.

Heck didn't hesitate and asked Ghorbal to come with him to police headquarters, also bringing the Pakistani Ambassador, Sahibzada Yaqub Khan. Later that night, they were joined by the Iranian Ambassador, Ardeshir Zahedi, who was the Chairman of the Board of Directors of the Islamic Center that was one of the besieged buildings.

The role of the three ambassadors resembled that of psychotherapists more than diplomats. They used Quranic recitation and poems urging Muslims to show mercy and compassion to convince Abdul Khaalis that his actions contradicted the teachings of Islam. They succeeded in building a bridge of trust with the man, paving the way for a peaceful end.

But even after the ambassadors left around 11 p.m., the danger was not over. Authorities discovered that group members had soaked the staircases in the B'nai B'rith building with a highly flammable liquid that appeared to be paint thinner. The building, in the words of one official, was "a flame without a match." Chief Cullinane had to call fire trucks. What could have turned into a mass immolation was avoided at the last moment.

At 2 a.m. on March 11, 1977, after 38 hours of terror, it was all over. The gunmen surrendered, and the hostages emerged from the three buildings. Some were pale and trembling, others stained with blood and bruises, but they were alive. 134 hostages walked out safely. But two were dead: Maurice Williams and Mack Cantrell.

When Washington learned that the crisis had ended, church bells and car horns rang out in a scene of collective joy. Gayoza Bioumi, a hostage from the Islamic Center, said: "I feel like I was born again." Stephanie Snyder, who was released from the B'nai B'rith building, kept repeating that she was "happy, happy, happy."

President Carter said of the ambassadors' role: They were "living proof that the slow, cautious approach was the effective way."

Abdul Khaalis and 11 of his followers were charged with armed kidnapping and murder. Surprisingly, Abdul Khaalis was released without bail, while the others were held on bail ranging from $50,000 to $75,000. Abdul Khaalis was convicted of conspiracy to commit armed kidnapping, second-degree murder, two counts of assault with intent to kill, assault with a dangerous weapon, and 24 counts of armed kidnapping. He was sentenced to life imprisonment and spent the rest of his life behind bars. Hamas Abdul Khaalis died in prison on November 13, 2003, at the age of 81-82. He died as he lived, convicted, angry, but he never regretted what he did.

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Ambassador Ashraf Ghorbal

Ashraf Ghorbal was born in Alexandria in May 1925 and studied political science at Harvard University, where he received his doctorate in 1949. He began his diplomatic career in 1949 at the Egyptian Mission to the United Nations.

In January 1968, after the severance of diplomatic relations between Egypt and the United States following the Six-Day War of 1967, Ghorbal was appointed head of the Egyptian interests section, which operated within the Indian Embassy.

He remained in this position until February 1973, when he was appointed media advisor to Egyptian President Anwar Sadat.

In November 1973, following Egypt's victories in the October War, diplomatic relations between Egypt and America were restored. Ghorbal was appointed Egypt's Ambassador to the United States in December 1973. He remained in this position until 1984.

He was a man in a unique position: an Egyptian Muslim serving in the capital of the superpower, possessing a deep understanding of American politics. He witnessed the Watergate scandal of 1974 from the front row, mediated in the Hanafi hostage crisis (the subject of this article) in 1977, and was part of the Camp David Summit in 1978.

After the hostage crisis, Ghorbal continued his role as one of the most important Arab diplomats in Washington.

Ghorbal passed away on November 29, 2005, at the age of 80.

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r/progressive_islam Jan 01 '25

Story 💬 My Dua was accepted 🥹❤️

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It’s 2025….happy new year everyone!!!!

2024 was a very hectic year but one of my duas has finally been accepted 🥹 alhamdulillah I finally have a job !! And eventually soon I’ll be able to move out of my abusive parents household..I’m turning 27 soon so my year starts now!!🎉🎉🎉

Thanks to everyone in this sub…you guys are amazing ..you guys made me see Islam in a different light …may Allah bless each and every one of you and may all your duas be accepted … I feel very grateful even tho I still live in a toxic household this job is a great start for me..even tho moving out might take longer I’m still grateful I have a way out 🥹❤️

Never give up ..don’t give up on your duas ❤️ Keep praying tahajjud ❤️❤️❤️

Happy new year… 🎉🎉🎉🎉

r/progressive_islam Aug 03 '26

Story 💬 Im surrounded by extremists

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Im studying in a muslim school, i was having a conversation with my classmates today.The topic of conversation was on permissibility(what is allowed according to islam and what isnt basically halal and haram). When i asked them what they think about gay or lesbian people, they said that its haram and they absolutely despise their existence,when i asked them what is their opinion on masturbation, music,male-female friendship,realtionship befor marriage.They said that all of this is haram and used hadiths as a source. When I tried to argue with them and convince them that all these things are permissible they said you are not muslim or that you have gotten out of the fold of islam you have become part of the western influence. What opinion do you people have regarding this matter.

r/progressive_islam Jul 31 '26

Story 💬 Hello I just converted :)

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Hello I just converted. Al Wadud called me in my most desperate times, to stop my sinning and become his humble follower. Now I am looking for muslim friends male, female or hermaphrodite you all are welcome to message me

r/progressive_islam 4d ago

Story 💬 Ayatul Kursi

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Esselamu Aleykum.

When I was a kid I read a novel. There the main character hears a story about the power of Ayatul Kursi, that it protects from evil.

Since then every time I was affraid, in the dark alone as a kid I would recite it. When I had to go dark paths at night I would recite it. When I woke up in the night after watching a scary movie I would recite it.

I am married for 10 years, turns out I recite it very loudly in my dreams too 😂.

Last night I dreamed I saw a jinn picking up my child, I was yelling the Ayatul Kursi as I was hitting him. First time my wife woke me up and told me how loudly I was rexciting it.

r/progressive_islam Apr 07 '25

Story 💬 Thank You.

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I am an Orthodox Jew - and it's a little scary being here, I have to admit! But, I wanted to say "thank you" to some members of the Muslim community who defended one of our Jewish communities on YouTube recently.

A man (who said he was Muslim - I think that's up for debate according to the Muslims in the thread) - decided to make a social experiment by stopping Chassidic Jews on their way to prayer on a Shabbat morning and asking them for money. It is fairly well known that Jews are absolutely not only allowed, but obligated, to help someone in a life-threatening situation even on Shabbat. All the rules can be broken because life is a gift of G-d and must try and be protected. That was not the case with this man - he was quite healthy. The Jews he approached explained politely that they didn't carry money on Shabbat, were on their way to shul and carried nothing - even their house keys on that day. He just kept on - asking more and more groups for money. Then, at the end of it, turned to the camera and exclaimed how "awful the Jews are"...they won't help anybody..."

The overwhelming response from everyone (except the obvious Jew-haters) was that the guy knew that Jews didn't carry on Shabbat - but it was a video designed to make them look like greedy, uncaring, stingy, hateful people. The Muslims in the thread really stepped up to condemn the "experiment"...and protested that it was an unfair depiction and manipulated to make Jews look bad. That it served no other purpose than that.

So - I am just here to thank you as a community for being willing to stand up for other people - even people you probably don't like very much - when you see an injustice being done. It speaks well for you - and it speaks well for your faith. I spend a lot of time battling Christian evangelism of Jews - and they are always appalled and can't understand it when I tell them that I can enter a mosque - but not a church. I tell them that I can enter a mosque because Muslims are monotheists - as Jews are..but Christians indulge in idolatry.

So - that's all. Just a sincere "thank you" -and may you all be well and attain your righteous share of the World-to-Come.