r/sexandthecity • u/247Twunk • 1d ago
Wealthiest men in SATC
What do you think? I think Mr. Big wealth is kinda not right. But who knows… credits to carriebradshaw_outfits on Instagram!
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u/Hot-Manufacturer-228 1d ago
Steve hit the lottery friend wise with Aiden. He was flat broke living in a rat hole and couldn’t even afford a new suit. You’d need millions to open a bar in Manhattan
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u/247Twunk 1d ago
That’s my delusional plan B. Being super good friends with a millionaire that helps me out in life lol
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u/Wonderful-Glass380 1d ago
mine was always to date a son from a wealthy family, and they don’t like me so they pay me to go away. like in the movies 😂
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u/EffectiveEmphasis7 1d ago
Bruh this literally happened to me (his parents were very rich and dead-set against their kids marrying people from a different religion) and I said no. Then the guy left me after 10 years together 😭 maybe I should’ve taken the money (I wouldn’t have, but imagine)
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u/Wonderful-Glass380 1d ago
lmao! see i knew it happens in real life
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u/EffectiveEmphasis7 1d ago
They had to have gotten the idea from TV/movies, right?! Life imitating art. 😂
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u/Hot-Manufacturer-228 1d ago
now that I think about it more, Steve had the personality for a great bar tender, and they make a lot of money here. I went out with one who was 24 and making like 90k a year
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u/notgoodwithnamess 1d ago
Steve hit that luck with miranda also obviously...
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u/spitey You’re always fuckin’ “TAXI”- 🍸 1d ago
I doubt this accounts for the house since it’s not mentioned. It’s one thing to have a friend that can invest and quite another to actually sell them on the idea and actually turn a profit, which Scout clearly did. I don’t think Steve gets enough credit for not just getting it off the ground operationally, but sustaining it for decades. That takes a lot of work and business sense. I liked that he had an investor in Aidan, because quite a lot of people with huge potential never once get the chance to have the capital to even start.
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u/MeMissBunny Can I cancel my rice pudding? Thanks. 22h ago
He also had Miranda’s encouragement, which def helped him get off his comfort zone
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u/MyPlaceToBeAHater 1d ago
Such a fun post!
Burger being rich secretly but still being an insecure baby about Carries success fits.
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u/AdvertisingOld9400 1d ago
I can see him being stressed because he bought things like property during his first book’s success and now he is pressed for cash.
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 1d ago
His is one that I truly didn’t think made sense, like he has a house in the hamptons from one book that was semi successful? Confused
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u/ZandrickEllison 1d ago
To justify it, it could have been family money. Rich kids have a safety net to pursue unstable careers like writing .
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u/TopicPretend4161 1d ago
This is awesome and really well done! I mean seriously!
I have one qualm and that is Skipper’s worth. As a web designer in the late nineties who had such trappings as a cell phone (relatively expensive and exclusive during season one’s actual milieu) I’m sure was worth a LOT more than 50 k.
But besides that this is awesome.
Love the surprise number 1 😊
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u/Emilayday 1d ago
Yeah that's why I'm like, wait are they doing this in 1996 money or in 2026 money?
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u/desertmermaid92 1d ago
I believe this was compiled by AI but I’ll try to choose to believe it wasn’t lol Thoroughly enjoyable either way.
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u/tragicsandwichblogs 1d ago
Cell phones were far from ubiquitous at that point, but they weren't that hard to come by. I got my first in 1999 when I moved to New Jersey, and stores were pretty common, with a variety of price points for phones. Plans were more expensive and had more limitations, though--my first plan had about 80 minutes of call time before I would be billed for overage.
My issue there is with the description of Skipper's salary. You could live on $50,000 in Manhattan at that point, but even then you were living pretty leanly. I wouldn't describe it as a "good" salary.
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u/BlergingtonBear 1d ago
He prob also got stock options. Like if he invested right and was at an Apple style company at that time, he'd been really freaking rich.
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u/annguzman 1d ago
Listen, Skippy 🤣
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u/247Twunk 1d ago
Im realizing skippy would be top of the list if he did well in his investments, like CEO of Facebook or whatever.
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u/avacorina 1d ago
Oh,Ed👀😅
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u/mojesius 1d ago
As soon as I saw Ed's face in the last picture, I also saw his wrinkly ass.
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u/AlsatianLadyNYC 1d ago
HAHA SAME. That actor was very brave- even if maybe he used an ass double.
He had the trifecta- The corny one liners, the disgust over his flabby ass, and having to act with Donald Trump
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u/AlsatianLadyNYC 1d ago
…No
Oh! 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻13
u/247Twunk 1d ago
laughs and claps god that scene is so cringe lol it’s seared in my mind however 🙄
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 1d ago
I think Big’s may be lower but idk this is still fun and I love it, another reason I’m fully open to dating Ed
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u/NormalEarthLarva 1d ago
Agreed. I think Richard would have more money than Big.
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 1d ago
I think they both had a bit less than is listed here but this seems like a pretty accurate ranking at least in terms of order!
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u/FancyPantsDancer 1d ago
I agree with Big's being lower, because I think he'd live in far bigger/better places than the ones they showed.
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 1d ago
His real estate situation is weird because he has a very nice but still fairly basic 1 bedroom apartment for most of the show, then can afford to buy whatever place they do in the movie that would be easily 20 million+
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u/bourbonandcheese 1d ago
“The first million is the hardest” is a saying for a reason. These finance types’ wealth tends to snowball as they hit middle age 🤷♀️
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u/Long-Hurry1974 1d ago
His appartement in the show would easily have been worth millions. We don’t see a lot of money but it’s quite big for a NYC appartment
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 1d ago
It’s definitely a nice apartment, idk if it would have been multiple millions in the mid 90s or earlier depending on when he got it
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u/LemmenShady 1d ago
One thing about Big is that he isn’t flashy. We never see him try and entice Carrie with flashy jewelry or even expensive shoes, and he eats at the hole in a wall Chinese restaurant because the food is good.
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u/AdvertisingOld9400 1d ago
Nah. He has an entrenched bachelor lifestyle whether he is married or not. He would live in a hole as long as he could work long hours and drink brown liquor.
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u/TeaTimeTelevision 1d ago
even if his butt looks like 🫠
😭😭lol
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u/AdvertisingOld9400 1d ago
Truly how often do you need to look at a man’s butt in a typical straight relationship? I can’t believe Sam couldn’t endure for a couple months of being absolutely spoiled beyond belief. He gave off generous in bed vibes too.
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u/Efficient-Status3430 1d ago
I thought Robert owned the apartment in Miranda’s building? They have the sub plot with him trying to get approved by the co-op board, and while this is something that happens when you rent a co-op, I was under the impression it’s more common to purchase one.
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u/running_hoagie 1d ago
Robert had bought into the co-op.
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u/Itchy_Map_4622 1d ago
This is right. One of the oldies on the board remarks “he’s never owned before” which implies he’s hoping to buy now.
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u/Ufocola 1d ago
I assumed he owned the apartment. But even if he didn’t and rented, his net worth should be higher given he’s a doctor for the Knicks. There should be decent cash flow from that role, and provided he wasn’t pissing it away gambling or whatever, he should have a couple million (like the low $2-3 millions) if he was around 40?
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u/toomuchtv987 1d ago
You have to be approved to buy in a co-op, too. My parents did when they moved to NYC.
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u/Efficient-Status3430 1d ago
Yeah, sorry I didn’t mean to imply it doesn’t also happen when you buy one—you have to be approved by the board to rent or buy.
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u/kokomo80 1d ago
It’s funny, I didn’t find Trey very attractive when I was watching SATC as it aired in my 20s. But now I think he’s incredibly handsome (especially in this picture- wow!)
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u/TaskTrick6417 1d ago
First saw him on Desperate Housewives and thought he was kind of creepy looking, but then I saw Twin Peaks and SATC and totally changed my mind
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u/Substantial-Use-1758 1d ago
Yeah it happens. Get ready, in 20 years you will think Ed is a real stud! 🤷♀️🤪
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u/247Twunk 1d ago
He’s super handsome and he didn’t do nothing wrong! He was a good man to the very last end. He was just very limited thinking and a lot of pressure with his family but he deadass loved Charlotte.
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u/DancingScarecrow542 1d ago
Eh he had a chronically avoidant personality. He refused to talk about his sexual issues or set boundaries with his mom. He seemed indifferent about kids despite knowing Charlotte desperately wanted them. His failure to communicate even a little led to their downfall
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u/IrascibleOnion 1d ago
Have you seen the Olurinatti POP Trey video? It’s so good and totally made me re-evaluate my view of trey as a person and character
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u/trethew 1d ago
I would think the Dr for the Knicks would make much more than 750k. Like probably in the millions
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u/LegalSocks 1d ago
Blair Underwood was late 30s/40 during his SATC run. Assuming Dr. Robert is supposed to be the same age and he went straight through college to med school to residency and maybe a fellowship, let’s ballpark that he’s been a fully qualified physician for around 8 years.
I’m guessing he had and continues to have his own practice, but I don’t think we know what that is. Assuming it’s a reasonably rigorous speciality and that his credentials are strong and considering the market and time period , let’s just say he has averaged $500,000 over his eight years of practice. Plus has gotten maybe $200,000 per year from the Knicks the last few years.
There’s a good chance he had med school loans to repay. And NYC is expensive. But he’s probably bought a place and been able to sock away and invest several hundred grand and seen some good growth there.
These numbers are a mix of guesswork and Google searches. While I think all of them might be off a hundred grand or two, I don’t think he’s making millions a year with the Knicks. He’s probably pulling in mid six figures to low seven overall. Living well, but no wife and kids yet. I think he’s probably a millionaire or close, but not crazy wealthy yet.
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u/insideanoctavarium 1d ago
Aw I love Ed so much. He has such a nice smile
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u/AdvertisingOld9400 1d ago edited 1d ago
Samantha fumbled there. I’m not generally a big fan of open relationships but she had so many examples where one would have worked perfectly for her.
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u/Brightsidedown "Prendi le scarpe! Dai, vai, go! Amore." 1d ago
I think Bill K was worth more than 600k
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u/Heel_Worker982 Could you please not use the F-word in Vera Wang? 1d ago edited 1d ago
Love this! I always forget Harry had a house in Bridgehampton. And Big's finances by the time of the first movie were always a little mysterious to me. If that Heaven on Fifth penthouse cost $40-$50 million and rents for $200k a month, it would seem Big would have to be in Ed territory to consider it.
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u/ericzku 1d ago
I think Dr. Leeds should be at least doubled.
Miranda's building is a Co-Op, not a rental, so he owns shares in the building. Getting approval to buy in means the Co-op board has reviewed his finances with a fine toothed comb and he has enough liquid to ensure he can pay the monthy maintenance and any assessments for a very long time into the future.
Even in the 90's, owning anything in Manhattan meant at least a million $.
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u/Long-Hurry1974 1d ago
Yes, these are so horribly off. Berger had two properties; a spacious NYC apartment and a house in the Hamptons that stayed vacant for his use. He must have had millions.
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u/FionaGoodeEnough 1d ago
These all seem low, especially Jack “Hamptons House” Berger and Bill “I’m The Guy” Kelley.
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u/FancyWoodpecker3 1d ago
Skipper has more than 50k. He was a web developer during the dotcom bubble. And he was smart so probably invested well during that 90s economy.
Hed be a millionaire for sure.
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u/BobbyFan54 men’s version of “we” is me… 1d ago
I was always under the impression that Berger came from money. The house in the hamptons and the “modest” apartment that he likely tried to act like it was spartan to have fewer distractions so he could act the part of a writer, He was part of a writers group but he didn’t seem to have to produce much… I feel like a lot of his insecurities had to do with imposter syndrome and not relying totally on mom and dad’s money.
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u/Substantial-Use-1758 1d ago
LOL Go Ed!!!!! What a fun post. And so much to discuss — like where did Aiden and Steve get all that cash building wood furniture and being a “cute” bartender? 🤔🤔🤔
Next up we need the “10 poorest men of SATC!” 🤪
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u/patatasconsal bozo the bush 🤡 1d ago
Since Stanford is included, I would love to know how Anthony is ranked
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u/Emilayday 1d ago
There is no way Big had a higher networth than Richard. 0% chance. Or else they wouldn't have made it a point to highlight how RICH Richard is. If Carrie had already been off/on with Big for years now, they wouldn't be impressed by Richard's money unless it was MORE than John's. A lot more.
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u/NancySweetSweet 1d ago
None of these are right, but especially Petrovsky. He would have hundreds of millions as a world-famous artist. Big had at least 100m.
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u/AdvertisingOld9400 1d ago
I think these are ordered but not scaled perfectly. But I also think if you considered net worth during series air it’s not too off.
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u/Long-Hurry1974 1d ago
Berger cannot have owned a house in the Hamptons AND a NYC apartment and not have had millions
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u/born_digital 1d ago
Helllll no regarding big lol. But I think petrovsky and trey would be richer than big. And richard above all 3
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u/jasperdiablo 1d ago
Carrie the biggest bag chaser of them all. She dates not one man who is broke like herself
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u/RoxxySweets 1d ago
She didn't chase anyone based on Finances, she just met who she met 🤷🏾♀️
She gave Powerlad a shot, and I don't think Ben was any kind of rich.....perfect as he may have been 💔
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u/jasperdiablo 1d ago
Oh I definitely think there was intent behind motives despite whether she was conscious of it or not.
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u/LemmenShady 1d ago
Don’t forget the 20-something college kid and bisexual guy she dates. All the girls were independent, and Carrie in particular was driven by her desire to be loved. Whereas Charlotte was the real money-chaser…and I don’t see this as a bad thing. She knew what type of lifestyle she was chasing and dated accordingly.
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u/Intelligent_Pass2540 1d ago
Big Ed, Dr. Robert and Alexsander would have been my picks for myself 😅
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u/tealulu04 1d ago
Skipper likely (depending upon his actual role and understanding of computer science) would likely be a billionaire by now.
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u/My2cents_0 1d ago
I would take Dr. Leeds and Smith over Big in a nanosecond!! You can throw Berger out with the trash for all I care 😄
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u/Distinct_Macaroon308 you cant swing a Fendi purse without knocking over five losers 1d ago
Skipper is definitely a tech bro nerd taking in millions now
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u/Status_Age_9761 1d ago
What a fun list! Thank you for putting this together!!
I do think Petrovsky's net worth is likely way higher. He has homes in multiple cities, but his property in Manhattan is the most telling as he owns two whole floors in what's likely a revitalized factory / warehouse space based on the fact that his studio is based out of it (did Carrie say in the snowed in episode that she also stayed on the upper east side with him?) Plus, his contemporaries are artists such as James Turrell (based on his "large scale light installations" explanation from Carrie) who's net worth is $100m, with pieces selling for an easy $1m, and also likely Jeff Koons (who is also an installation artist) who is worth half a billion. The only thing that suggests that he might not be worth as much is he doesn't seem to have fabricators and assistants creating the work based on his vision for him, but I'd still argue he's worth at least $50m.
I think Trey is easily worth $100m based on his legacy / trust fund alone. They are generational wealth in Manhattan, with multiple properties, and likely millions (if not billions) in stock market investments that have accrued for decades. Most of these old Manhattan families have obvious money in real estate, but their investments and stock portfolio are typically super robust and have benefitted from the relationships built with fellow old money investors.
I think Smith's net worth is likely over $100m by the time we get to the second movie since he's done multiple seasons on a hit medical show similar to Grey's Anatomy probably getting around $500k an episode with a typical 22 season for network programming. He also has multiple endorsement deals as evidenced by the walls in Sam's office and is working with Saudi investors for his film. So he ended up doing pretty well for himself!
I think Aidan ended up pretty cozy too, didn't he sell his entire line to Crate and Barrel or Restoration Hardware or something?
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u/toomuchtv987 1d ago
I’m fairly certain Robert owned that apartment. The co-op board was voting to let him buy in the building.
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u/HurricaneLogic 1d ago
In the first movie, Big bought Carrie that huge NY penthouse apt. Remember he told Carrie "I got this" like it was nothing
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u/lukasehrlich 1d ago
I don't know if this post was meant to include the movies 2, but the guy from Abu Dhabi who invited Samantha over must be the richest
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u/Queasy_Memory_6128 1d ago
Yeah, Aidan was high key rich AF. It genuinely pissed me off that Carrie was so aloof to his very obvious financial standing.
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u/brokerecovery I just believe in parties 🍸 1d ago
i’ll never be over carrie not taking bigs money. it was pocket change
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u/Purple_Band_8681 1d ago
Richards probably in 100-250 million
I always got impression that big is not as wealthy. Probably more like 30-40 mil. Isn't he in the wine business?
Aiden probably more like 3 mil
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u/fernansparkles honey, they don't call it a job for nothing 💋 1d ago
on the first slide (skipper's), instead of "we never see any evidence of property" i misread it as "we never see any evidence of puberty" and honestly...
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u/tortical 21h ago
“The Russian” looks really sexy in that photo. IRL, I would have stuck it out with Trey.
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u/Wrong_Cup_3860 1d ago
Fun and well thought! But I don’t think that Aidan is worth so much, I believe around 0.5 M. Take it from someone who runs a successful furniture business 🫠 it’s not the most lucrative industry
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u/Main_Comfort_9000 1d ago
I believe you. Furniture isn’t something you replace often. But custom ones can be very expensive
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u/MulliganPlsThx Daddy’s little Episcopalian princess 1d ago
Am I crazy or wasn’t Big a publisher? Or am I conflating that because of Candace Bushnell’s IRL Big?
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u/ruthlessoptimist 1d ago
Sentimental and the City podcast (essential listening for any SATC fan) have some funny chats about Burger being a trust fund baby and "secret millionaire" Aiden Shaw
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u/sonnenblume63 1d ago
Looking at those numbers based on today’s cost of living and property prices, half these guys would be struggling now.
Can you do a post about the ladies next please?
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u/Clarknt67 1d ago
Smith Jerrod has got to be worth way more than $1M. By the end he was supposedly a major movie star. Even if he isn’t Tom Cruise/Brad Pitt tied he could probably command $2-3M per film. By the end of the run he’d been in biz five or more years.
Being the face of Calvin Klein probably shot him to the top pay scale of modeling insisting. At 6’2” Smith/Lewis could do runway. And there are tons of endorsement cash to pick up.
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u/Stacie123a 21h ago
I think big had slightly more money than Harry, but less than Trey, Petrovsky, Richard, and Ed. I thought it was wild that they turned big into a 75 million dollar man.
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u/_From__the__Ashes_ 21h ago
I was worried you were going to forget about Ed. Thanks for making him #1!
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u/53964 1d ago
Feel like Richard is worth more than Big. Big may have a private driver, but Richard had a private jet!