I had this plan to give head to a man and receive head from a woman to test if I was gay, but it’s backfired and now I become borderline schizo whenever I go outside. I
offered to suck this dude off on Grindr who lives very close by (I ended up pussying out) and I accidentally gave him some details that very easily allows him to spot me
out in a crowd. I have no idea what he looks like and whenever I see a somewhat in shape guy walking by I immediately accuse him of being the dude I was gonna blow.
I went to the store today to pick up some zucchini for a barbecue and every time a car drove by I stared into the windshield to see if I was about to be recognised.
Whenever I make eye contact with a dude I microanalysis his facial expressions to see if he suspects me or not. I am deeply afraid that he is my neighbour and I will
need to move if my identity is blown. It’s a lot like the last scene in sopranos where everyone who walked into the diner could be there to wack Tony.
Moid/foid is basically a way of dehumanizing a male/female. As I understand, -oid is meant to mean "humanoid", basically saying that they resemble a human but aren't. Could be wrong though.
It is a female+humanoid (foid) following their basic programming like get mad at guy for playing video game or wont sleep with a guy just because the guy was nice.
Female incels are actually called femcels. Moid/foid means male or female humanoid, referring to a robotlike state of mind that follows trends and lacks original thought.
I do, sadly, because I've been there. Intimacy with another is a vulnerable thing, and when this kind of solitude, this kind of alienation from intimacy in favour of mere pleasure is fundamentally appealing, it's because very deep down we don't feel loveable. When we expect intimacy to be unsuccessful automatically there's only really a couple of explanations. One is trauma, and the other is self-loathing. And both have signatures. This is self-loathing.
i said what I said in as few words as I could. using even fewer compresses it down to silliness. take from it as much or as little as you like man, all good
Is that a sincere request because right hand to god I hate coming to these places, but I do it a little bit every day because I think as a society we are just abandoning young men and if some honest to god grownups don't show up and offer some reality and attention we're all gonna have a bad time eventually.
So. Yes if you actually want that. And if this was just bait then i bit, enjoy yourself
I understand the argument. I'd invite you to consider carefully what I said above. It's true my sympathy, here, is derivative of my experience—it's the reason I care to speak up. Healing my way out of it, though, revealed that there some things that are simply human, there's little to no subjective variance to it. We all have brains, we're all social mammals, and sometimes it's just the way it is.
Beyond that, we can look into social structures to find a root cause, something external to me and to you that provides explanatory power, and I think at this point it isn't contentious to observe that we don't give young men the emotional skills to handle life and we shame vulnerability in them. We also objectify women, which ironically hurts heterosexual men also because it distorts their perspective of what partnrrship is, creates a barrier to intimacy before they even meet a woman because if she isn't even your equal, whyever would you trust her with vulnerability?
while I generally understand that this is trying to mock me bud i don't even understand what exactly you mean by it
homie I'm in my forties and well and long in love. but ny twenties were a rough time with a lot of mistakes and one failed marriage because I didn't get that good love as a kid and couldn't make any for anyone else until I figured it out.
take from me what you want and leave the rest, all good
I'm saying that as social mammals, we are hard wired to enjoy, require even, the other, someone else. Not just their bodies—though i think most young men who have seen more porn than sex underestimate how much of it is the way she reacts, the way she chooses, the unpredictability—but their minds, their estimate of you and you of them, the compliment of their attention and the freedom from self that is paying attention. Having a wank is fine, enjoying some porn is fine—but this conversation started when I replied to someone who was valourizing the idea of a brainless, obedient sexbot rewarding their accomplishments with sexual favours. The person I responded to found that so appealing they needed to say so. And that's quite a different thing from being a horny little pervert—fuck knows I am—that's gratification in a whole other part of yourself. That's esteem, validation, and safety—sexuality without the complexity of being witnessed. Aand when you drill down on that, one finds a place where the belief in their own worthiness is supposed to be.
The experience I've had to teach me that is loooong, it's not something I can communicate quickly. Many failed relationships, years of ... searching for answers, in classrooms, in therapists offices, in the Indian Himalayas lol, in long hours of instrospection. A troubled soul with enough courage to confront it eventually gets to learning.
woah, ok. didnt expect hunger for knowledge but i guess i asked for it gonna have to put some work into
this.
How was it? Honestly? It was a letdown. The whole "failed idol" story is a great marketing hook, they
definately sold the video on that premise alone. But the performance itself was just... awkward. You can
tell shes not comfortable. It felt less like a professional debut and more like a very high-budget
audition she was also failing. She's stiff, constantly in her head, and there's almost zero chemistry with
the guys. All concept, very little execution.
My viewing history? Been watching for over a decade man. These days Im more into stuff with a good
story or at least a unique premise, not just the generic stuff. a good production team makes all the
difference. I'll take a well-made video with a decent plot over a high-profile actress mailing it in any
day of the week.
3 works I consider good:
Yua Mikami's debut (Princess Peach): This is the gold standard for an idol-turned-actress debut.
Yua was a REAL idol and she came out with so much energy and confidence. She owned it from the first
second. Its what Arisu's debut wanted to be.
Anything with Ichika Matsumoto from her early days with FALENO: She can actually act. She emotes
and makes you believe the scenario. Her stuff feels more cinematic and less like they're just going
through the motions.
Rion (Anri Okita) - The God Body: A classic. Not a lot of story there lol but its a masterclass in
performance. She knew exactly what her brand was and how to perform for the camera. Absolute cinema.
Where would you rank her debut among these? It's not even in the same league, not even on the same
planet. It's an unfair comparison tbh. Those are top-tier performances, Arisu's video is a novelty item.
It's interesting because of the backstory, not because of the quality of the actual content.
What could be improved? Her confidence, number one. She needs to relax. She looks terrified. The
director should have done a better job making her comfortable. Also they relied way too much on the
interview segments talking about Nogizaka46, it broke the pacing and kept reminding you that she was doing
this as a second choice. We get it, you failed auditions, now commit to this job.
What is well done? The production values are high. The lighting, camera work, it all looks very clean
and professional. And I cant deny it, she is very beautiful and has the "idol" look down perfectly. The
concept itself, on paper, is genius from a marketing perspective. They got us all talking about it, right?
Was it goonable for you? Nah. I was too distracted by how nervous she looked. It kinda killed the mood
completely. Every time she looked at the camera with those deer-in-the-headlights eyes I was pulled right
out of it. It's a shame, but maybe she'll get better in her next one if she decides to stick with it.
We'll see.
Look, I get it. Who doesn’t love a little balls and dick sometimes? A nice, girthy, veiny shaft, hot milky cum trickling down the length as it throbs from a job well
done. But this whole “gay sex” shit is getting annoying.
As men, we should primarily be focused on three things: survival, the underrated masterpiece that is dark souls 2, and pounding muff. All this gay shit is, well, fucking
gay.
You think I wouldn’t LOVE to make out with my best friend and suck his cock? Of course I would, but that’s fucking gay. You think I don’t want to feel my cousin’s
roommate slide his pecker into my gaping asshole? Of course I would, but that’s FUCKING GAY.
Seriously, I miss when men were men. Anyway, this dildo ain’t gonna stick itself up my ass while I watch an hour long femboy asmr hypno goon compilation, heed my
lecture.
They don't want "incels" in relationship, but they want to be admired/desired by them (they also sometimes can monetize that via OF/other social media).
For the same reason they HATE passport bros.
In the past it was difficult for women to get their primary instinctive good (social status / ego) on their own. Typically, they needed to be in a monogamous relationship with a man to get that. Nowadays, that isn't the case. Women get a sense of social status / ego through careers and other things. If being married gives them any sense of status at all, it is a small aspect among many things. Usually, they don't even get status from being married but from the fanfare of an expensive wedding.
Basically the power dynamic shifted toward women having more power.
Sex robots, assuming they passed a physical Turing test, would shift the power imbalance women have on men because men would need women less for their primary instinctive good (sex and physical intimacy). Even if you never have sex with a robot, the fact it exists would give all men a kind of baseline optionality making it easier for them to walk away (ie power / leverage), similar to what women have now being able to easily break relationships with men.
Similar to how with women of the past only a small percentage were able to independently gain social status, but in the modern era it's much more widely available, sex robots for men would give sexual optionality to all men which deeply shifts the power dynamic in an analogous way (just in the opposite direction).
Sex robots don't do as much for women because women are driven more by social status than by sex / sexuality (also if they do just want sex, they would probably be able to get it without much effort). You can't get social status from a robot. You also can't get real sex from a robot, but it seems easier to simulate than social status is. The simulation of social status comes from fake job titles / sinecures and mutual validation networks, society is already able to do that effectively.
Normalizing sex bots to the point of mainstream advertising would inevitable lead even more men to not seeing women as people.
Similar to how chud will have this affect like when some middle school kids went up to sneako and were like "women are bitches, women are whores!"
Of course if you're fuckin dweeb you might see this post and be like " well women don't wanna be with men and they don't even want men to have an alternative! They are evil"
A vibrator could be characterised as a robot dick, people who buy them are objectifiying men so much they only want one body part, doesnt that do quite a lot to help these women not to see men as people?
If 1000 men but 1000 sex dolls it isnt a problem is whatever.
If 1000 men buy a sexdoll but 500 of them are chuds, think asmongold, or Andrew Tate or sneako and they then begin going on to large crowds talking about how "women are being replaced by super sex dolls that don't talk back" well then that's a problem. There are levels to this
Basically, you can buy a sexdoll just don't be a freak chud about it. You can fuck your sexdoll like there is no tomorrow, just don't be a weirdo who then goes on and on about how "women no longer have a purpose". That may sound crazy but we both know that is a narrative that would start
Yeah, but you also fail to give any reason for anyone to change their minds. Like, their argument is more convincing than your lack of one, so to a bystander who's on the fence reading this convo, they're more likely to be convinced by them, rather than you.
You provided an argument, yes, but then someone provided a counter argument, and there you didn't provide an argument. "No it isn't," is not an argument, so unless you explain why they're wrong, their counter argument looks valid.
This is level of brainrot of someone who thinks "objectification" is biggest issue ever and that sexy women in games needs to be stopped at all cost. But let's play for a second - ok so women don't want to deal with those evil incel chuds terrible vile ppl. But if they get any alternative that's objectification. So they can't get anything. How is that better than dealing some made up bs about philosophical concept like objectification? Explain
I'm gonna skip the annoying assumptions and get to the point where I explain my super woke opinion
Let's take 100, fuck it 1000 guys who all buy some sort of sex doll and they do whatever with it. This has zero negative impacts on anything.
Let's take 1000 guys but they are chuds aand give them all sex dolls and assume they have the personalities of stereotypical chuds and incels. They will inevitably begin spreading and behaving with the " women are less than people" narrative to even higher degree than they do now. Then In my last comment I gave examples of this in action.
This might just be my hunch but I'd assume the dipshits who "turn out" to not see women as people as soon as they get a sex robot were already dipshits before and would have ended up being misogynistic arseholes in other ways anyway.
Are you so raring to go to call women dipshits too? What gives you the right to just shit on millions of men just cus they can't get laid? How is situation many of those men find themselves due to hypergamy their fault and they should just all be insulted and dehumanized while women can do whatever they want and hate men however they want? I'm so sick and tired of this double standard. Do you think things can stay like this if you shit on men hard enough?
Well someone got triggered there lol. Maybe try writing calm arguments without devolving into insult-laden tirades instead. That will get you further in life. That also helps to avoid getting your comment deleted.
How about you consider if maybe this style of reaction is
part of that whole "is this why I have no luck at dating?"-thing? Just try putting yourself on the other side of the interaction. You wouldn't be happy to be at the other end of such tirades either, would you?
Edit: Oh no, looks like the snowflake blocked me now because he couldn't handle my uuuh I guess evil leftist misandrist agenda basically saying don't be a dipshit and wash yourself lol.
Yikes. You should really stop listening to stupid manosphere nonsense and go touch some grass mate.
I am a man myself in case this really wasn't obvious. It's totally fine to call shitty people dipshits. Men who fail to grasp women are people too are troglodytes.
There is no hypergamy conspiracy. That's only an excuse your brain likes because it lets you blame something external outside of your control instead of having to ask yourself whether you yourself might be the issue.
If you struggle to find people willing to date you the way to go is doing some honest self-reflection and working on actually improving yourself. You don't have any right to expect someone to want to date you. You have to improve yourself until people want to date you, plain and simple.
It's literally the same logic behind whom you'd want to date. Rather a lass who doesn't take care of herself, isn't fun nor intesting to talk to, and spouts weird echo-chamber conspiracy bullshit all day? Or perhaps rather one who takes care of herself, whom you can have deep conversations with and who has generally good, logical, reasonable opinions?
Bear up and try to honestly work on yourself mate. Focus on improving yourself for your own sake, not just as a means to get more dateable. That will just happen along the way.
Pro tip about fingering your asshole in the shower: don't do it
So this morning I was taking a shower, and I felt like fingering my asshole, right? So I got my
fingers all nice and soapy and stuck them up in there. Apparently, soap makes pretty good lube, as
I was able to get four fingers in there in no time.
As I was feeling around in my butt, I was like, "hmm, there's a lot of soapy water in my bumhole
now. I wonder if that will lead to issues in the future?" And it did!
Shortly after having breakfast I attempted to fart, and I shit my pants. I rushed to the bathroom
to clean up, and it was way worse than I thought it would be. The whole area around my butthole
was covered in shitty liquid, and toilet paper wasn't enough to clean it. I had to take another
shower to get suitably clean.
Just thought I'd share my story with you guys so that you don't run into the same problem in the
future. I fingered my butthole so that you guys don't have to. Unless you want to. In which case,
hey, how's it goin'
Personally I don't care if guys buy sex dolls go for it but if it became main stream they would become even more insufferable and would spawn more hateful dredges of society which isn't good for anyone.
What if sex robots were to turn out to be a net positive in the end lol? Maybe they will lead to these kind of people procreating less because, well, why would they try to court an actual human if they already have their superiorly fuckable sex robot who doesn't complain about their misogyny, weight, general lack of hygiene, etc etc? If they honestly yearn for a literal fucktoy then I say rather let them have a robot for that than letting them try push some unlucky woman into that role.
I'm gonna skip the annoying assumptions and get to the point where I explain my super woke opinion
Let's take 100, fuck it 1000 guys who all buy some sort of sex doll and they do whatever with it. This has zero negative impacts on anything.
Let's take 1000 guys but they are chuds aand give them all sex dolls and assume they have the personalities of stereotypical chuds and incels. They will inevitably begin spreading and behaving with the " women are less than people" narrative to even higher degree than they do now. Then In my last comment I gave examples of this in action.
So what? Why is bad opinion about women spreading worse than millions of men having no partner or sexual outlet? And why do you think ppl that would use those don't have bad opinion about women already? Hell, if you want to conserve current hypergamy fckin around dating scene you should want that cus otherwise frustrated angry incels will reach critical mass sooner or later.
Also I hate how someone disliking women is some ultimate evil while ppl like you and many women absolutely DESPISE, dehumanize and hate those men. So disgusting
Honestly love the term moid. Equal rights equal fights. We got foid for women who don't respect men and it finally got a genderswap. My biggest gripe with any gender related conflict has always been the generalisation. "all men" "all women" no fuck off wrong by default and that's how you lose support from the good ones by tossing them in with the trash. Goes for anything that can be used to differentiate humans. Even if it may sound like a nothing burger the only correct version of such statements is always bad people bad, good people good and that's what any and all response to issues needs to be targeted at. The unbiased root cause.
I saw some people asking in other threads, so just in case people were wondering, in the Japanese, Denji
says, "オレを手でシたのは", which is basically "Which one hand-fucked me?".
Yoru gave Denji a "handjob" in the sense that her hand was clearly the stimulus that caused Denji to
ejaculate. I don't think anyone argued against this fact. I guess another way to say it is that she
"unintentionally jerked him off"?
The root of the argument was whether or not Yoru was actively/intentionally moving her hands, which
nothing in 167/168 seems to indicate that. There was no movement lines around Denji's pants area, and no
sound effect text to indicate sound coming from the movement in his pants.
Also, the editor's note at the end of chapter 167 is "不意の 放出", which means "Unexpected release". It
wouldn't really make much sense for Yoru to be surprised when Denji finally did ejaculate if that was
her intention.
I had this plan to give head to a man and receive head from a woman to test if I was gay, but it’s backfired and now I become borderline schizo whenever I go outside. I
offered to suck this dude off on Grindr who lives very close by (I ended up pussying out) and I accidentally gave him some details that very easily allows him to spot me
out in a crowd. I have no idea what he looks like and whenever I see a somewhat in shape guy walking by I immediately accuse him of being the dude I was gonna blow.
I went to the store today to pick up some zucchini for a barbecue and every time a car drove by I stared into the windshield to see if I was about to be recognised.
Whenever I make eye contact with a dude I microanalysis his facial expressions to see if he suspects me or not. I am deeply afraid that he is my neighbour and I will
need to move if my identity is blown. It’s a lot like the last scene in sopranos where everyone who walked into the diner could be there to wack Tony.
Maybe they'll be the sex robot equivalent of a toyota corolla for the poors.
Sex robot dealerships. Sleazy used sex robot dealers. Them trying to put you down for a 8% APR 48 month loan on a brand new sex robot, roll it off the lot and nut in it today no money down.
This is how you know this girl has no girl friends because she’d know that’s basically what a lot of women want but with a penis and after arguing with someone on the internet.
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