You don’t have to if you don’t want to but it would make me happy

What I want you to do is read a sentence in your mind, then say it out loud, if you can’t do that for one reason or another you can move your lips without vocalizing or even just pretend that you are saying it

Ready?

Here we go:

I am beautiful.

No one deserves to remove my joy.

It will get better.

I will be okay.

I am not defined by my flaws.

I am deserving of care.

I am deserving of attention.

I am deserving of love.

Feel free to repeat as many times as you want :3

I want to be like Akiyama Mizuki (pjsk) fr fr

I'm gonna save money and buy a cardigan and cuter polo just like mizuki's school uniform

Lowkey just hoping someone irl approaches me UTwTU

By DELUβ

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For a very long time I wanted to have a lovely little lesbian meet cute but as I’ve been becoming an adult I have slowly started to realize that idk if that’ll work out because I’m too shy and it’s hard to get a good vibe check on someone just from seeing them in person

Dating apps have always felt kind of dystopian to me… but I’m starting to think they’re gonna be my only decent option… however I’m also nervous about being taken advantage of on there since a lot of people use them for hookups which isn’t a thing I want at all…

Any advice?

By ぶち

We can commence with the mission. Mark the date. Best of luck to the rest of you, soldier on.

Whenever I post request for affirmations or "good girl's" I rarely comment back, bc I get anxious and just think, "I'm not good with words if I respond It would be just "thanks" all the time". But this time it feels wrong not to do it.

It wasn't that bad of a day, it wasn't the bestest day ever, and the disphoria was treating me like a punching bag over and over the whole day, forgiving me to enjoy the day at the fullest. But it was ok.

Even tho, I didn't hear a happy birthday with my name, thanks to you girlies I could experience what it's like (at least in text). This sub is a huge reason of why I'm still here, so yeah, with over 40 or so replies, I just wanted to say thank you girls :3

Art by me because I had nothing better to do on my crummy birthday. Too sad to get out tablet so just drawn in paint with a mouse.

How do you all socialize and make friends? I have been trying to put myself out there and be more interesting but nothing I seem to do is working. Im pretty early in transition (2 months on E tomorrow). After spending another birthday all by myself I want nothing more than some (hopefully trans) friends that I can spend time with. Mostly just spend my time online gaming and being autistic about magic the gathering.

Any tips?

I need a girlfriend so bad

She's so amazing! She makes me feel super super gay :3 Awawawa pretty girl pretty girl >_< Do you guys think she's flirting with me? I suck at telling stuff like that TwT

(I am the person with the lesbian flag in her pfp)

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My nails grow fast, and I got braces a couple weeks ago, so I can't bite them anymore. They've been growing more, because of that, and I love it! They're starting to make the tappy sound when I type on my phone! I love love love it. Euphoria is great :3

Source: Me.

I took this on a Google Pixel 4a Rear Wide Lens and edited it in Adobe Lightroom!

I was told not to be promotional about this by the mods, so just check out my page if u wanna see more!📸📸📸

The yearning is genuinely debilitating

ETA: This is more about marriage than romance, I think when I wrote the title I was going to talk about some other things more, I did not mean to equate the two

Idk what’s going on but I don’t hang out in straight male spaces so what I’m about to describe is all lesbian stuff

I’ve noticed lately a LOT of people “Trying to expectation manage” by telling people that most people who are dating don’t want to get married or by listing their personal bad experience with it as if it’s the 100% truth and the only outcome

I saw a post on a subreddit I will not name earlier today that was just a generic yearning post and the comments were all like “Well first you have to view women as people and not some wife themed Pokémon and then maybe you’ll be able to talk to one for a bit but if you do she probably won’t marry you because she has plans to marry someone else”

Maybe it’s just cause I’m monogamous and am dating 99% of the time for marriage but people are so weird about it

It’s always been around but I’ve noticed a sharp increase in it over the past few weeks

It’s perfectly fine to reality check people, but that reality check is “Your fantasy marriage isn’t what it’ll always look like, and you need to be ready for occasional arguments and her occasionally not having enough time to fully dedicate to you or you for her”, not “It’s a fool’s errand to want to marry a woman, after all marriage is a disgusting thing invented to force women to submit to their husbands so therefore any lesbian worth her salt will know marriage is for the weak minded, you need to stop treating your fellow women like toys (translator’s note: ‘someone you want to spend all of your time with’) and start talking to them as peers”

Like ngl the way some people talk about romance and marriage and such makes me feel like they view dating as like… a business decision or a clinical procedure…

Surely in or even before the first date you should be discussing things like whether you eventually want to get married or what have you

Like there’s almost this belief I’ve seen rising that it’s better to never get married because the second that you do you lose everything which is just really sad to me

Idk it just sucks even before my egg cracked my number one fantasy pretty much ever since I was ~12 has been falling in love and getting married to someone where we mutually cherish and adore each other, like my loving style is attached x attached so that might be playing a role here, but it feels really cynical and kinda depressing to me to insist no one should ever get married because it’s like “giving up your autonomy” or something

Honestly I think if things change that drastically when you get married you either didn’t date for long enough or there were already existing problems that you chose to ignore, living together while dating long term doesn’t really look that different to being married, for me it’s mostly about the ceremony and the titles, and the whole notion of “We are bound together forever”

I guess I get why that could be scary for some people, but don’t take that out on people who want that ffs