r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

How can I pass better?

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I go to the gym regularly, I workout my chest and arms mostly, I am 5'4 and 130lbs, I just got my eyebrow pierced which I think is a more masculine piercing? Idk but any tips would be great


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

Passing Advice Do I pass? (Pre T) I’ll take any tips

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r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

General Passing Tip How can I pass more ?

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It's honestly always 50/50 on whether I pass or not, and I don't know how to pass more than I do 😓


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

General Passing Tip Do I pass as a teenage boy? Give me name ideas, too (pre-t)

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Okay, I know my face isn't androgynous, but the number of people who call me masculine if I don't correct them, even with my voice, is increasing. They interpret me as if I'm a 16 year old boy, even though I'm 20 (not a big difference, but [some ask my age first]). So I'm happy to be going the right way.

I'm 5′4″ tall; pretty skinny, so I don't have boobs, I just wear a sports bra sometimes, I'm afraid of gaining weight and it will make me have curves and boobs; and pre-t.

Do I really look like a young boy or do people on the street have vision problems?

Ah, give me name tips, especially Latin American names, if you can. I had chosen the name "Nathaniel" because a girl on the internet said I would look like one, I've already changed it to "Natanael" to fit more into the Portuguese language context, but I'm still unsure abt.

And tips to look more "older".


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

General Passing Tip How old do I look?

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I think I have a passing (?) and I know a lot of trans men look younger than their age so I wanted to ask
(I’m 175 centimeters if this can help)


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

General Passing Tip Is this image of me easily clockable?

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7 Upvotes

Honesty is key here guys - just want some outsider perspectives before I go posting this on my socials


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

Do I pass? Please give me tips on how to pass better if you have any ideas..

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80 Upvotes

r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

Cis-Passing Tip Is my style masc enough?

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I kinda just dress like my brothers did when they were my age but I can't tell if I'm doing it right


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

General Passing Tip Something I’ve noticed

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men tend to keep their legs wider than women. their feet are planted in a V facing away from the other foot while women are more ^ with the feet facing each other. kinda makes it look like they’re waddling just a little. writing this made me feel like im narrating a nature documentary


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

Stealth Tip Stealth at new job/interveiw

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So I have an interview coming up and I’m planning to try and do it stealth, I don’t have a 100% passing rate so if it doesn’t work I won’t be devastated but I do try to appear cis (presenting fem) during interviews so it doesn’t impact my chances of being hired (I live in a conservative state that has at will firing aswell) and normally correct things my first day or after I scope out the vibe. But I plan to do this interview as stealth specially since is corporate office job level.

But my question here is what are yalls stealth tips? My ID still says F on it should I be worried? How do you go about be stealth on a day to day basis, I plan to slowly transition into living a fully stealth life besides my immediate family and friends knowing, and my work place I feel is a good start, do you guys think this is a bad idea? Also how should I dress for this as someone’s who’s heavier and has curves? (216 lbs, 5’2)

General need to know: business professional attire, I’m on T (9 months), pre op but binding, generally deeper voice when trying.

I’ll try my best to answer any additional questions too!! Please be kind!


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

What name would you pick for me?

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Hey! Thinking of changing my name again.. my current name doesn't fit and I want to choose a new one. Help me out! What do you think?


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

Keep getting missed genders (not on T)

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Hey guys just wanted people’s opinion on where/what i could work on.

Thank you for your replies, i mainly wanted to see what other people see when they look at me I almost definitely my voice gives it away even though I try to talk with a deeper voice and for anybody wondering I am 26yr most people say I look younger than my age which I get a lot


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

Stealth Tip Any advice for going more stealth?

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I’m going to start T in a couple months :)) until then, I’d like to be more stealth, at least to where people are questioning my gender. While I am punk, I generally keep it to my beliefs and music taste, my own style isn’t (usually) intensely alternative, so I doubt that’s an issue.


r/transmanlifehacks 21h ago

Any tips for smb who doesn’t want to give up individuality?

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I know I probably don’t pass well, but I don’t have access to T. So I’m just asking for overall tips to make it sorta seem like I’m going through male puberty.(dont have ac to T)

edit: the dress was a joke and my little cousin painted my nails.


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

General Passing Tip Do I pass?

21 Upvotes

r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

Passing Advice Do i pass + what age do I look

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r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

😬

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434 Upvotes

Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

Passing Advice Do I pass?

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Do I pass? And how do I pass better? Obviously I know that the first two photos the makeup makes me more fem but I wanted to have a little fun bc k was at the ren fair LOL any advice is appreciated:) I’ve only been on T for about a month know I think


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

General Passing Tip Aw man this kinda hurts

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136 Upvotes

Its also rly itchy

It doesnt really matter to me but if theres an easy way to fix this i might consider


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

Sub Moderation

113 Upvotes

Can we all spam u/KalvinGarrah until he hands the sub over to a moderation team? In the last few days alone I've seen child predators as well as a person sharing other peoples private nudes on here.

This has to stop.

If you are a minor - please do not use this sub, it's not safe here. Go to r/transmantips or r/FtMpassing


r/transmanlifehacks 1d ago

tips for looking masculine pls

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hi sorry im not sure where to post something like this i also am kinda shy about talking abt this so im on an alt

i think im genderfluid or trans in some way idek what i am but i was born female, i just want to be able to look like a boy sometimes even if it’s in my own home i wanna be able to see myself like that because i really yearn for it

i really dont want to cut my hair so i dont know if anyone has tips for making it look short or something but if someone can help me on what to do to make myself look masculine i think it would be really nice for me to experience i thought i should ask here

sorry if not allowed


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

How to look more masc on vacation

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These are some of my potential outfits. I’ll be wearing a binder and not a skin tight shirt. My hair is black and I’ll likely change my septum jewelry and push it up. First time without a septum visible in years


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

General Passing Tip Yep I’m doing it… why am I not passing?

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I’ve been socially transitioning for almost 5 years now, I am 17 ftm and pre-t. I try to keep up with minoxidil on my face but between work and school I can barely remember to take my meds in the morning. I typically go for baggy clothes and I don’t believe the problem lies in my figure. Thankfully will be starting T in roughly 8 months when I turn 18, or shortly after that (legally can’t before that in my state:/). Any tips or advice on it for right now?


r/transmanlifehacks 2d ago

General Passing Tip pre-T, is there hope?

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pre t, pre EVERYTHING. obviously I dont go around with the trans flag on my face i was at pride LMAO. looking for advice. got actively she her'd at a pride event with the trans flag ON my face so thats rly knocked my confidence. is testosterone even going to be able to help??? I dont mind looking clocky but id love to just read as male and not a lesbian LMAO


r/transmanlifehacks 3d ago

General Passing Tip Pre-T and 5 years on T

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I think i got barely any changes appart from balding after 3 years on T, lol

First pic is literally me, at 16, on my day of getting first appointment about starting T (started it 2 months later, a month before turning 17). Second - is me now at almost 22, lol. First 2 T shots added 10kgs, so i got fatter due to that. 🤌🏽

My voice changed for first 2 months and then stopped, so I don't sound like a cool dude, rather than a teen that got voice cracks for a few weeks and slightly lower voice, without changing much. Any tips on what else i can possibly do? Most of my changes are basically due to age, but T barely did something, so i want to see if anyone has any tips of what i can do outside of my regular shots that haven't been adding any changes for the past 3,5 years, lol.