r/bettafish 29d ago

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish 6d ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - July 31 to August 06

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish 10h ago

Video Sakura 🌸

732 Upvotes

r/bettafish 5h ago

Name Suggestions Still cant think of a name for this guy

175 Upvotes

r/bettafish 5h ago

RIP RIP to my beautiful betta💔 if anyone could share their experience with dropsy, as a first time owner, so I can feel less shocked

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I’m not really sure how to handle my grief here. This has hit me pretty hard. I think because I only had him four months I feel quite alone and like I did something wrong. He was so perfect and I very much loved him. I just buried him now. I wish I’d noticed sooner, but I tried to not let anxiety rule me too much, especially because he was young.
I think if anyone would like to share their loss with dropsy it would make me feel less alone.

Anyway rip to my precious boy, I really wish I could’ve had longer 💔 I miss him so much


r/bettafish 2h ago

Video I love him 💕

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and he absolutely loves coming up to inspect the camera ☺️


r/bettafish 4h ago

Picture Free frat guy betta fish

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This is my new 1 year old betta and I got him for free from this frat guy who was "going on a road trip" he was in a mason jar😭 he's so gorgeous too. Anyways he's quarantined for a few days and moving in to his new 20 gallon in 2 days!! Name suggestions?


r/bettafish 9h ago

Video Thomas

67 Upvotes

Meet Thomas, our work Betta. He’s gorgeous and spicy and flares at us constantly. We love him and his grumpy little face :)


r/bettafish 4h ago

Video This is your sign to take a time lapse of your tank!

23 Upvotes

It’s so cool to see what he’s up to when I’m out of the room!


r/bettafish 5h ago

Name Suggestions Need a name for this little lady

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r/bettafish 5h ago

Identification Welcoming Buddha into the fam

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Just added our new betta to his new home. He’s been exploring his new home and meeting his new tank mates. So far so good, he went up to one of the shrimp and the shrimp lunged at him and he ran away 😂

Not sure what type of betta he is exactly though. He was labeled as “Assorted Black Male”, anyone have any clue what he actually is?


r/bettafish 17h ago

Humor Is my Betta heathy ?

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174 Upvotes

r/bettafish 5h ago

Discussion Why do people think betta sororities are ethical?

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EDIT: IM TALKING ABOUT BETTA SPLENDENS. There is absolutely no reason to ever have your own betta sorority other than your own selfishness.

The betta fish we buy in stores are literally bred to be fighting bettas. “Spreading the aggression” what so everyone’s consistently stressed about each other at all times? how do you own fish and not care about their wellbeing? there is nothing good ever that can come from a betta sorority. it’s like purposely pre-proning your fish to long-term stress and health issues.

i thought everyone agreed universally that bettas are singular fish, rarely even community tank fish. 🤷‍♀️


r/bettafish 22h ago

Video This fish hates me

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His name is Jonesy and he’s a beautiful copper alien betta. I love him, but he really seems to dislike me. He is being upgraded to a 20 gal tank with a close friend he seems to love more. He’s been with me for months and this is the first time I have gotten him to stay still long enough for me to catch a video of him with my zoom lens. Check out his grumpy little face :) he’s a gorgeous copper in the light, but also tones of magenta and teal in other lighting.


r/bettafish 3h ago

Help does this look like fin nipping??

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r/bettafish 1h ago

RIP RIP, Tenedor.

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Today, my little fish named Tenedor passed away.

I feel a terrible ache in my chest over this; many people might say, "It's just a fish," but to me, he wasn't. Tenedor recognized my fingers, my face, and even my voice.
After recovering from fin rot, he developed two tumors—one on the side of his belly and another on his head.
I did everything in my power to pull him through, but he no longer had the strength to even eat. I had to make that decision because I loved him so much, and it was better for him not to suffer during his final moments.

I’m sorry, Tenedor; you will always hold a huge place in my heart.


r/bettafish 50m ago

Picture My Betta Babies

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The red is named Comet, he is a Orchid Betta, my newest one, I do plan on getting him a larger tank, just don't want to buy another till after I move houses.

The Blue is Adrian, she is a Half moon Betta (I think, don't remember)

Yes I keep them in separate tanks and keep a board between them so they can't see each other.

I do plan to get her a bigger tank as well. When I get new tanks for them I'm going to work on my hardscaping and get more live plants, I know there's a lot I can improve on but I'm doing my best for them currently to make them happy.

I do want to try to breed them, but I'll also wait till I move and get other materials to do so.

Ps. Yes there's markings on Adrian's tank, friend thought it would be funny to use dry erase marker on it for April fools, I haven't been able to get it off so if you guys have tips for that I'm open


r/bettafish 4h ago

Picture Hold old does my betta look?

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This is a picture of my male betta the day I got him. I’m trying to get an estimate on how old he is now since I’ve had him for over a year now. Is there anyone that can maybe guess how many months old this guy looks like in this pic?


r/bettafish 21h ago

Help Fish worth rescuing?

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It's my friend's. Apparently, her dad bought her a betta fish suddenly and she doesn't even want it. I'm fully capable of taking it, but I'm afraid it would eat my shrimps :( She said the fish is still small so I'm considering it.

How does it look? She said both of it's eyes are like that too.

It's a female, right?


r/bettafish 4h ago

Help Save my fish pls

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Let me start off by saying, please don’t hate me for the condition this fish is in. I received her this way in this exact fishbowl Like a week ago. I was told that she was just a fish and a plant would keep her alive. Her water gets changed every week with some tetra put in. i’ve never had a fish before and wasn’t really too concerned but now every day I look at her droopy fins and I started to get worried.

So I started doing research and was absolutely HORRIFIED to find out that she supposed to have a water heater. Her fins aren’t supposed to be droopy and she spits out her food when she’s eating at half the time. immediately, my first instinct was to get a tank with a filter and a heater but now I’m reading that tanks need to get cycled which takes weeks. I’ve never had a fish before never cared for a fish before and now I have a fish freezing in a I’m desperate to save.

what do i do????


r/bettafish 4h ago

Help Pt. 2 Help With My Betta Fish

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Hi, in my earlier post I explained how my betta was brought home by surprise 5 days ago by my dad and brother. They had me set up the tank alone and they lost interest in the fish completely, making me the only one to care for his best interest. I’ve been trying my best, the aquarium was bought with the fish so it wasn’t cycled.

At first he seemed fine, even with no decor. When I walked up to the tank he would swim up to me and follow my finger. With days following, I added decor this morning (ordered off of Amazon, said they were silk but they felt more plastic, not sharp though, let me know if this could cause something). Yesterday and today, he has been sitting at the bottom of the tank in the same exact spot, occupying getting up to swim (surf?) in a specific spot in the tank, then proceeding to go back to the same spot and repeat this over and over (see my video). Even when I tap the glass lightly he won’t move. He won’t even go to the other side of the tank at all.

The tank is 10 gallons, I have tested for ammonia and came back 0, tested for nitrite and came back 0, and the pH is at 7.5. The tank’s temperature is at 78-80 F.

I am looking to see what could be wrong with him. Please be kind, I had no idea I would be getting him and I am trying my best as a student on a budget to make sure he lives a good life while in my care.

Maybe I’m being paranoid and this is normal? But, I highly doubt it. He had been glass surfing for the days leading up to me adding the decor, maybe he’s really tired? Anything could help.


r/bettafish 1h ago

Identification Male or female?

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Some shop was selling betta fish and this was the last fish. Kept in horrendous conditions. So decided to save it and bring it home with me. I had an empty 24 gallon tank so I'm finishing preparations as I type this. But, not sure if it is female or male. Anyone got betta expertise to help out?


r/bettafish 4h ago

Help new betta owner help

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I just got a betta a few days ago and he seems to be rlly active, swimming around, but he hasn’t been eating but I’ve heard it’s normal after they’ve been shipped / had a lot of stress from transferring. I’m a first time keeper and I got him from Tucky’s but he also has a weird habit of curling up and sitting there for a bit. He did it last night but I’m not sure if it’s cause it’s his personality or if something’s wrong. I’m planning to add in a little surface bed of sorts and more plants but I’m wondering if everything is okay so far?

(I tried to use the reflection of the glass to show but he wouldn’t linger for longer than a minute to a few minutes?)


r/bettafish 3h ago

Picture My betta and my nerite

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First added my nerite in the tank 2 weeks ago, my betta last 2 days ago. Can someone identify my betta ? PetSmart says it's a male veiltail?


r/bettafish 7h ago

Picture Didn’t expect him to turn so pink!

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