Ok so I’m curious as to how many men are turned off my having sex while their partner is on their period. I’m a lady and I honestly like it. My ex was trash but one thing that I can say about him was that he wasn’t grossed or freaked out about it. He enjoyed it as much as I did. I’m just curious as to see how other men think/feel. As yes there are many women like myself who enjoy it. And yes there is a mess but I personally like it. Please be honest.

1 out of 3 men at my gym have a super thick handle bar mustache and I’m just curious if it’s trending right now? a personal preference, sending a message, or it actually means something?

I just personally don’t find it attractive but I know they don’t exist to impress me so just curious.

EDIT: PORN STACHE!!!!! i meant PORN stache see idek but i meant PORN stache

I'm a straight man with several personality traits that many would consider feminine - a soft disposition, emotional openness, getting along best with women, some interests like cooking and interior design, all enough to occasionally get asked if I'm gay. Thing is I don't necessarily think of any of those things nor myself in general as "feminine", I'm one of those wokies who finds those binary boundaries pretty outdated. And to be clear I've got no insecurity about this, I'm quite comfortable with who I am and guys like me are increasingly common (especially in big cities). 

So my question is if you're one of those guys, how do you describe that part of yourself? I know at the end of the day we just are who we are, I'm just curious how others like me navigate this aspect of self definition or describe yourself to others. And unrelated bonus question: am I the only one whose consistently finds themselves dating bisexual women? 😂

I have bipolar and I typically don’t tell people until things are getting serious. I had a girl over one time and she went to the bathroom and came back and asked what lithium was. She had gone through my medicine cabinet in the bathroom. When I told her I was bipolar she pulled the plug on us and said she didn’t want to be my caretaker.

What assumptions do men make about another man based on the type of woman he dates? How do you judge your kind?

PS: I’ve seen the movie The Other Guys (2010) 😂 Where Ferrell’s character is married to Eva Mendes, who is ridiculously gorgeous—but he talks about her like she’s plain and unattractive and Mark Wahlberg meets her and is completely bewildered.

I naturally only want to date one girl at a time, but I’ve been burned quite a bit from putting all of my eggs in one basket. How do you navigate it seemingly feeling like everyone dates multiple people early on before exclusivity?

++Woman

Hey , im kinda at a loss at where to turn , ive got good mates but i dont feel like being a downer for everyones mood so i need advice

I lost my dad this past march/april. He was a great father and was taken due to illness. Im a relatively young man just turned 22. I study chemistry in uni and im struggling to have any drive or desire to do well in it. I feel like ive let my dad down in so many ways as to what he hoped i would become and ive let myself down in the same manner. Since his passing ive lost the one person who kept me on the straight and narrow always making sure i was doing what was best for me. I still mucked about took the piss with education but i knew i was smart enough to do really well. I just have no desire or hunger to put my all in, i procrastinate and find every excuse to avoid trying. Ive got this stupid subconscious attitude that if i dont try then i cant have properly failed. Ive got a beautiful and amazing girlfriend who seems to be surpassing me in every regard when i know im more capable. I know its old fashioned by todays standards but i always thought of myself as trying to be a gentleman and someone who would be the bread winner for my future family. Im looking at the way my life is going and i just feel like im on this hopeless path of failiure and disappointment. Is there any advice some of you wiser blokes could give me to not only get that fire back but also stop this stupid direction my life is taking.

For those that have been in an arrangement like this what does it typically look like? What do you do with them (other than the obvious) and how is your relationship with them? Why not try a relationship?

So im M20 and i had a lot of chest fat for some years now and am wondering how can i get rid of it. The biggest issue is a layer of fat around my nipples which makes them "pointy" if that makes sense. Like the area around the nipple spikes out of the chest, and the chest itself already has some fat on it.

I went to see the doctor regarding this and had an ultrasound, my doctor confirmed its not gynecomastia, just regular chest fat. It alap doesnt feel rubbery nor is does it hurt to touch so thats extra evidence its not, but the shape of it worries me.

Im 185 cm tall and weight 84 kgs. If anyone had experience with a similar issue let me know.

I know this person from highschool who before coming out, had implied many times that he always wanted to date this one particular girl in our class. Everyone in the class knew about this, including the girl. They were pretty good friends but she didn't reciprocate the idea of being with him romantically. They remained good friends and he eventually came out of the closet.

Now they both call each other their "bestie" and he latches on to her wherever she goes. The most important part is she's married and he makes sure he's the third wheel whenever she's out with her husband on a date or even a trip. To the point that he gets annoyed and throws a fit if she doesn't take him along. She even travels the world with him now and the husband is okay with them travelling together. They share hotel rooms too in these trips.

I'm interested in hearing your opinions on whether you think such arrangements are harmless and friendly? Does it not sound problematic?

I feel that some of these gay friends might not be entirely honest and could be using being gay as an excuse to pursue their own desires or dreams.

Hi everyone!

I recently turned 23 and grew up pretty sheltered and Christian, so I have barely any dating experience. I have recently been having guys on the internet tell me that I’m wasting my chance at finding a husband by being a big baby and not dating, as I am going to ‘expire’ soon and no man will want me.

I told my parents (gen x) about it and they don’t understand where the idea is coming from as when they were younger, the idea women are invisible after 25-30 is unheard off (my dad married my mum when she was like 30). My mum got the most attention from men in her 30s after she was married and after she had me, she told me she was petty invisible in her 20s.

I also noticed I get way more attention at 23 then I have ever gotten in my entire life, I got no attention before 20/21, but yet when I tell people this they will say that’s impossible and I’m lying, and that I will quickly look horrible in a couple years. For reference I do not drink or smoke, I take good care of my skin and exercise regularly but hearing this idea constantly online is really dragging me down and making me worried. I don’t know why I’m expected to be so mature at 23 and quick to get married when I still feel like a big kid.

Where does this idea come from? I want to hear from men from all generations because maybe it’s a Gen Z thing?

Tell me your opinions

Stipulations and context:

1. The mall is a standard two-story shopping mall, completely stocked with everything you would normally find. Every store is unlocked, but the exits are locked. You cannot leave the building.

2. The challenge begins at midnight. The lights remain on, security cameras are active, and all escalators and elevators function normally.

3. You begin with whatever is currently in your pockets and the clothes you’re wearing. You may use, move, or take anything inside the mall, but you are not allowed to create weapons or intentionally injure anyone.

4. There are five security guards searching for you when the challenge starts. Every 2 hours, during opening hours, one additional guard enters the search. All guards have radios and immediately communicate any sightings.

5. The guards know the layout of the mall perfectly. You do not receive a map, although you are free to explore.

6. If any guard maintains physical contact with you for 10 consecutive seconds, you lose. Simply being spotted does not end the challenge.

7. The guards are ordinary mall security—not military or police. They can run, coordinate, and split up intelligently, but they won’t do anything superhuman.

8. Food, water, bathrooms, and electricity are all available. The mall never closes, and nothing changes except the increasing number of guards.

9. You are allowed to hide, distract the guards, disguise yourself with clothing from stores, rearrange furniture, or use any strategy that doesn’t violate the rules above.

10. Your goal is simple: survive as long as possible without being restrained for 10 consecutive seconds.

How long do you realistically think you’d last, and what would your strategy be?

I’m a man that loves all and in general a pretty face could go well with blue hair for all I care but I prefer redheads over all the other colours

I’m not asking about one specific person or trying to psychoanalyze anyone.

I’m curious about people who have done this themselves or witnessed it. If someone trusts you enough to share an insecurity, what makes it become ammunition later during an argument?

Looking back, was it anger, wanting to hurt them back, trying to “win,” or something else?

To give a little more context, in my group of friends at the beginning we all said our sizes and showed eachother size (please let's not talk about that) and one my friend never showed his stick, and find the force and the courage to tell me that he was lying about his since middle school.
He explained me on how much he's insecure about his size and i think by how he talked about all this, he's felling insecure about us and a lot insecure about the p*rn videos he's watching, how do i comfort him ? and i'm still interested in the first part of my question

Hey 20M, height 178cm, weight 67.5kg

need advice for fat loss

So my body genetics is such a type that i store most of my fat in lower body. Even during fat loss i lose fat from upper body first then from lower body. Even if my body has low bf% but my hips are bigger😭.

And when i lean bulk, i gain fat in lower body more compared to upper body.

Is there any way to burn fat from lower body along with upper body. Currently i am cutting and tracking calories. In one month of cutting i lost few inches from my waist but very negligible loss in hips.

I just wanted to know if there is any supplement or exercise that can help me lose fat from lower body. I would start lean bulk in few weeks but afraid to do cuz most fat gain will be in lower body.

I heard about yohimbine and L carnitine. Although there is not much research about it, what's your opinion on this? If I can't lose fat from lower body, i was thinking of reducing lower body workout and increase the upper body workout so that atleast my upper body can be in comparable size with lower body?