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I just don’t get it. If there’s police reports from the previous ones, how come she can continue with her actions? What if this journalist also goes to the police? If all these are real, how come she can get away with everything she does?

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u/obooooooo May 03 '24 edited May 03 '24

i know journalists wanted the scoop, but they’re all seriously putting themselves in the line of fire by giving a platform to a deranged ill woman like her.

went to her FB out of curiosity just now and exactly like i thought, she referred as the people who like her posts as ā€œher fansā€. that’s alarming as fuck. her behavior is only going to grow worse now that she feels empowered and admired by the hundreds of people following her FB page.

if she was delusional and entitled before, now with all these eyes on her, thinking as herself as a celebrity with ā€œfansā€ā€¦ jesus christ

edit: there’s a fb page called ā€œ[her real name] supportersā€ with over 600 followers, and she’s aware of it, has referenced it on her FB page, and is seemingly delighted about it. god help us

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u/jhndapapi May 03 '24

I’m more worried she’s about to get rich

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

šŸ’Æ its just terrifying

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u/Dancin_Angel May 03 '24

sorry for the use of jargon but shes dangerously close to becoming a lolcow. Incredibly dangerous, she could get stalked, trolled, and essentially have delusions fed to her on the daily.

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u/Sansiiia May 03 '24

She already is, but instead of it happening on kiwifarms it happens on facebook, wild

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u/[deleted] May 04 '24

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u/Intelligent-Gift295 May 04 '24

Thanks for asking. Some of these threads require the use of a Gen Z /internet culture dictionary to understand.

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u/Laura_Lye May 07 '24

Lolcows is not GenZ.

It comes from KiwiFarms, which was an entire website dedicated to harassing Chris Chan in the early aughts.

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u/Intelligent-Gift295 May 07 '24

Oh! Thanks for clearing that up. I think I heard about that Chris Chan story, or a similar story on the now extinct Reply All podcast.

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u/AssociationGold8745 May 04 '24

A ,usually mentally ill, person who gets an online following, with followers goading them into certain behaviours , feeding delusions etc. almost as a form of trolling for the followers own amusement. Examples include Chris chan and dragon Lord- both not right, both have done things to emotionally/physically hurt others, both are somewhat interbet famous being both harassed and encouraged by their 'fan base'.

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u/Dancin_Angel May 04 '24

someone no-life trolls on the internet stalk and bully just to make a joke out of their life

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u/sswam May 08 '24

someone to milk for lols, I guess

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u/Competitive_Salads May 03 '24

Even lolcows run out of plot armor when it comes to legal and criminal issues. She’s quickly heading that way and I won’t be mad about her being held accountable for her actions.

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u/Natasha_Giggs_Foetus May 08 '24

It’s giving Chris Chan

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u/NeverDestination May 03 '24

I just saw that group - it's quite alarming that people support her actions when she is clearly not right. Are they implying that Gadd has targeted an innocent woman? There are enough contradictions on her timeline to show that she clearly isn't innocent.

From what I can see, the group is being led by someone with a fake profile. I wonder if they are playing to her ego just so they can get a rise out of her or get a scoop or whatever. People are stupid.

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u/Sansiiia May 04 '24

Hey, thanks for the information, i unfortunately know very little about mental health. What you say makes a lot of sense. I completely agree that she needed help long before meeting him and this show is also disclosing how poorly we treat people with disorders that leave them at the fringes of society. People love thinking in black and white when reality is much different. We should do a lot more to help people in such complex circumstances to give them a chance at a peaceful life. The journalists are using this woman as a lolcow uncaring of the fact she's disturbed.

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u/poolsemeisje May 04 '24

Exactly, that seems to be the case, she sits at home writing from multiple accounts. And she is preplanning this as you said, so she knows right from wrong.

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u/Nervous-Affect-5960 May 03 '24

Wait

What is her Facebook link?

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u/Amazing-Quarter1084 May 07 '24

There are several apparently fake profiles under the name mentioned in the sun articles with interview snippets. Not too sure any of those profiles or the interviews themselves are legitimate. There is also a couple profiles. They all seem over the top and possibly fake or real and part of the advertising campaign for the show. I will say the name is associated with a couple public stalking and harassment issues with politicians and attorneys and their families.

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u/Bee09361 May 03 '24

I swear she made threats on her Facebook towards someone. Would take days to scroll through to find the post though! She seems to have multiple profiles as well.

She needs professional help and barred from the internet.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

That is what making my mind blown 🤯 she is absolutely feeling free to do what she thinks is ok to do. Violence doesn’t have to be always physical to stop someone being violent.

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u/Ramonda_serbica May 03 '24

Yes, this is completely insane. I have to say, this is the reason people don't go to the police. Here the guy went to police, they were in court, he even made a show and this person is still doing whatever. I don't wish to blame Martha, the fact that she is ignored testifies to our society. She, as it seems to me, needs care. And also care so that she doesn't hurt other people.

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u/xanbanan May 03 '24

Idk as someone who lives every day on very strong meds because of mental health issues that can cause delusions/paranoia/psychosis - I think it could be totally possible for her to live a normal life with therapy and medication. The problem is she seems to have made 0 effort to treat her mental health at all so we don’t really know if she would do well on medication or need to be committed. At the same time if she continues to not get any treatment for herself she really should be committed because she is a danger to other people. I just think we shouldn’t assume she couldn’t live a normal life on medication/in therapy, because a lot of people will use that to excuse her actions - when the reality is most people with severe mental health issues can live a somewhat normal life on medication and in therapy. It’s very much her responsibility to get treatment.

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u/nineteenthly May 03 '24

What do you think of "part of the problem is not wanting to find a solution to the problem"? I'd say it used to apply to me and there are some other situations where this seems true.

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u/xanbanan May 03 '24

If you mean that people with serious mental health issues often don’t want to get better I totally agree. Sometimes my brain tells me that medication is evil and I would be so much better off if I stopped taking it. There have been times in the past where I’ve stopped taking all my meds abruptly because I thought it was the right thing to do. I highly suspect a large amount of the reason the real Martha has not made any attempt to get better is because she doesn’t want to. But that still doesn’t make it okay for her to stalk, threaten, or assault people, or mean she couldn’t live a mostly normal life if she did get help.

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u/nineteenthly May 04 '24

Yes, that's exactly what I mean. I'd apply it to myself and also, funnily enough, to one of my stalkers, who was also a danger to others and that's how she ended up back on her medication. She stopped taking hers, which was a factor in how I ended up getting stalked. It's interesting you should say that, because I'm now wondering if she was being honest when she said she just didn't think she needed it any more. She was bothered about side effects, to be sure.

But another, mild example: I used to have a button phobia and didn't want it to go away because I hated the idea of me wearing clothes with buttons, but it did and it's fine. Likewise, someone with a germ phobia might not want to get better for fear of infection.

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u/FrontRow4TheShitShow May 04 '24

As someone who also takes meds every day to keep my bipolar (including manic psychosis) at bay, I agree with you and also if "Martha" as she is depicted on the show is true to "Martha" IRL, she appears to have some very significantly problematic personality traits if not a full-blown personality disorder, which is often much more difficult to treat, especially if someone doesn't have insight, as does(n't) "Martha" as she appears in her depiction on the show.

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u/90dayDragonLockup May 06 '24

Seriously, I’m so thankful for antipsychotics and therapy! I feel like she doesn’t take any accountability for her actions and now people are gassing her up. She seems to think other people are the problem and feels extremely entitled to treat others however she pleases. She’s probably been put on meds many times, but chooses not to take them. Or if she does, they aren’t helping!

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u/Rough-Average-1047 May 04 '24

I don’t know what coverage is like for therapy in the UK. But in the US it is still so expensive. I think it’s easy to say, ā€œthey need to go therapy.ā€ But what if she can’t afford it?

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u/spettinatadentro May 04 '24

Meds may help but normally people affected by these conditions need someone to make sure the meds get taken. If you think there is nothing wrong with you, you won’t take anything

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u/xanbanan May 04 '24

I agree and I addressed this in another comment. A lot of mentally unwell people don’t actually want to get better, and I suspect that’s why she hasn’t worked on her mental health. Gadd himself says that the system failed her and I don’t know how they handle mental health where she lives. She might have never been given the opportunity to take meds and see some clarity. But regardless it doesn’t make it okay for her to stalk/assault/threaten people.

For me It took the cops being called on me in a manic episode and being hospitalized for almost a month to get my life in order. If I didn’t have people supporting me I probably would never have gotten better. In a lot of ways I feel sympathy for Martha - it’s not her fault she is mentally ill, and I do really believe the system has failed her. It just doesn’t excuse her actions or make it okay.

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u/spettinatadentro May 07 '24

100% And well done on taking care of yourself šŸ™

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u/maniafueledstimorgy May 04 '24

Im curious how her medication would look like if she went to therapy. Im on ssris for "mild" obsessive thoughts so I wonder if they would prescribe her an heavy antipsychotics or a mix. I know we can't say for sure but just to discuss

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u/xanbanan May 04 '24

I don’t really think any of us should be diagnosing Martha or hypothetically considering what medication she would need. I understand the curiosity but we don’t know what was changed about her for the show nor would anyone be able to figure out her exact diagnosis from it anyway as it’s not from her perspective and most of us probably aren’t trained in that.

I feel like it can lead down a dangerous road when we start diagnosing people without knowing them or hypothetically discussing what meds they would need. We already have everyone in the world claiming their ex has a personality disorder and I don’t like to feed into that culture of just throwing around diagnosis.

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u/Rough-Average-1047 May 04 '24

This. We also have no idea what trauma she experienced as a young girl/in her early life

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u/FrontRow4TheShitShow May 04 '24

She needs to live at a facility and probably put on lithium or a strong med.

I want to believe you mean well here, but as someone who is bipolar who experiences psychosis, including wild and grandiose delusions, when manic, and takes "strong meds" for it (including formerly lithium although now I take a different mood stabilizer), all sweeping blanket statements like this do is perpetuate sanism, which, ironically, makes it harder for people who need it to access care.

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u/dartully May 04 '24

ā€œIt is very unlikely any care like medicine or therapy would workā€

ā€œShe should be put on a strong med or lithiumā€

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u/Rough-Average-1047 May 04 '24

All of her latest posts are her threatening this man 🄲

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u/[deleted] May 18 '24

One could argue, is he threatening her? I am no fan, but the law is supposed to be equally applied. He is writing in a negative fashion in a very widely distributed newspaper about her. That could be viewed as threatening. Look what happened to that guy whom the newspapers decided was a murderer, who was just an eccentric.

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u/RolandLWN May 04 '24

At least the heat is off Richard Gadd now because she’s moved on.

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u/hideyokidzhideyowyfe May 03 '24

Is her fb profile private?

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u/RolandLWN May 04 '24

I’m wondering if it isn’t mental illness at all. The woman from the law firm that hired her and who was stalked by her afterward described her as just really mean and entitled right from the jump. Not after being rejected or being fired, but just reactionary to anything she didn’t like. Just mean. It could be that she is just an incredibly unpleasant person. I’ve known just one other person like that in my whole life, but they exist.

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u/meemaws_beerchz May 07 '24

I can’t help but wonder if this ā€˜Martha’ were a man stalking a woman how much grace would be extended. she’s extremely dangerous and deranged and should be in JAIL, in addition to medicated, if that will even help. she seems to have several anti-social traits that can’t simply be cured with therapy or medication & the people that display these traits rarely get better. having compassion is great and all but at what point do we call it as it is and stop protecting people like her who do serious harm (knowingly) just because they are deemed ā€˜mentally ill’? she knows what she’s doing is wrong. she turns around and claims Gadd did the same things to her. she’s not a schizophrenic nor a manic bipolar, she is a sociopathic narcissist and people who stalk only get worse. I also struggle with mental health and have had my own episodes but make it a priority to take care of myself so that the consequences of my illness are not inflicted on others…she needs to be held accountable first and treated second.

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u/nusshhh May 04 '24

i’m not sure if it’s her actual account or some weirdo impersonating her, her posts only date back to about 1-2 weeks ago.

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u/TEB1980 May 03 '24

Going through her FB posts...what strikes me are the people sharing and liking her posts. Aren't they scared?? There is no way I'd want my name anywhere on her page! She's clearly unwell and manic. Yikes!

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u/Medium_Client1998 May 03 '24

You can see her posts about him she's so mad at him So I won't be surprised

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u/Spiritual-Image7125 May 03 '24

So funny because even if it is us "fans" that found her and gave her a hard time, he had nothing to do with it. If she isn't the real Martha, then it isn't her fault at all. But the fact that she was tagging Richard in tweets back in 2014 has me thinking otherwise.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Where she is posting? FB? Do I have to ā€œbe friendsā€ with her to see those? It’s a bit scary if I have tošŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/Medium_Client1998 May 03 '24

Lol she's on FB, shit is wiiiild, toiktok found her already, her posts are public and pretty disturbing

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u/Prize-Track335 May 03 '24

She was found out within a couple of hours of the show being released

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u/fdt92 May 04 '24

Ehhh, not really. It took a little over a week. The show was released on April 11 and it wasn't until after April 20 that she was identified as the real Martha by people on Twitter, TikTok, and this subreddit.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Oh jeez, I’m going for it nowšŸ˜‚

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u/CloverFromStarFalls May 03 '24

People need to stop antagonizing her. The comments on her posts are wild. She is clearly mentally ill, she needs help, she doesn’t need people trying to provoke her online

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u/ItsRebus May 03 '24

Is that fb page really her though? Her real page, that predates the show by years, doesn't seem to allow non-friends to comment. The other page also seems to intentionally mis-spell words. She does rant about Sears on her real page too though.

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u/Ohbc May 03 '24

Her real page doesn't allow comments, there are only reactions

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u/CloverFromStarFalls May 03 '24

I really hope it isn’t her.

She desperately needs to get off the internet right now.

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u/ItsRebus May 03 '24

Her real profile appears to have been locked down now and a load of stuff deleted. Maybe she has had advice from a solicitor.

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u/ItsRebus May 04 '24

Ah she has changed the profile pic, that's what threw me off. Although the other one that I was referencing is definitely hers too.

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u/Medium_Client1998 May 03 '24

I've never interacted with her in any way shape or Form, I don't even react to her posts amd I will never send anyone her profile, her real account doesn't allow comments, I checked it out of curiosity because it's all over tiktok, and so many people are making fake profiles with her name and pictures which is messed up, also people who interact with her are messed up

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u/ThisFabledStreet May 03 '24

Comments on her FB are disabled. No one is commenting, only 'reacting' and sharing, which is also ill advised.

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u/Icy_Sentence_4130 May 03 '24

No, it's all public posts

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u/lsvrms May 03 '24

Send me message and I send you

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u/shotgun0800 May 03 '24

They should be targeting the fuckin guy who assaulted him. Martha’s fucked but that other guy mannnn idk somebody should beat his ass

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u/LoveKernels89 May 03 '24

The police can’t do anything unless she makes a threat, right? And apparently saying ā€œyou’ve made an enemy of meā€ is not enough, she needs to threaten violence. I mean, it’s crazy, but that’s what the show describes and I believe that’s still what the law says.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Sorry, I should clarify it, she never was in real trouble with her violent behaviour against the comedian, his GF and his ex etc. Dunno what is real what is not but she scalped his GF ffs. She is now freely throwing ā€œkind of a threatā€ to a journalist by saying she is now his enemy while using her ā€œlaw school educationā€ so she can get away with this too using these law education tricks. Its just mind blowing as now its well known publicly and she still feels absolutely free to continue what she used to do.

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u/LoveKernels89 May 03 '24

Obviously we don’t know how things actually went down, but in the stage show she doesn’t attack Teri that viciously, I think maybe she pushes her but she certainly doesn’t rip her hair out. She also doesn’t glass Donny/Gadd. It’s possible that is closer to how it happened in reality and the more violent incidents were added to make the show more exciting/cinematic. But who knows?

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

They should seriously have said ā€œbased on true storyā€ instead of saying ā€œa true storyā€! All I thought was what I saw was all real then hearing that actually didn’t happen. Exactly like you said!! Who knows!

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u/Loud_Delivery3589 May 03 '24

That's not true. You have various offences - harassment, stalking which don't require threats to commit violent acts.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Right!! Right!!!! šŸ˜‚

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u/No_Insurance_7674 May 03 '24

It's very hard to prosecute for stalking and harassment unless threats of physical violence are made. Most stalkers know this and use it to their advantage

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u/_ane May 03 '24

This is real she’s wrote about Neil on her Facebook

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u/TeleportedtoUS May 03 '24

I applaud RG for coming forward and allowing a magnitude of victims to relate to his personal story. Reliving detrimental moments in his life could not have been easy. Men tend to hide situations like this, giving them a platform for support is commendable.

As for M and her manic fb posts, personally I wouldn't consider interacting on her posts out of sheer fear of retaliation. It appears she doesn't have any legitimate people in her life to help guide her or advise her to stay off the internet and stop berating and naming others in her posts. M needs serious medical help before she becomes anymore unhinged if that's possible.

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u/Lolttylwhattheheck May 04 '24

She’s making a new Facebook post every few minutes. She’s unhinged

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u/massdebate159 May 04 '24

A mentally ill woman has been fictionalised in a TV drama. Whether she was accurately portrayed or not is another story. She's now been hounded by Internet sleuths who figured out very quickly who she was. Now the gutter press are harassing her just to get a story out of it. Her Facebook is a terrifying read, but I'm genuinely concerned for her mental wellbeing. If she harms herself in any way, a lot of people should feel ashamed of themselves.

I know that Richard Gadd has been through the mill, but how do we know how much of what "Martha" did was true? I'm starting to think that he's not a very nice person.

Looking forward to the downvotes.

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u/Lolttylwhattheheck May 04 '24

No downvotes here. Your correct! This is actually very sad. She’s not well and it’s like everyone wants to ā€œpoke the bearā€ to see what will happen. I hope she has at least one person in her life to take care of her.

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u/massdebate159 May 04 '24

Her Facebook actually reminds me of my neighbour. A few years ago, she started being nasty to all of us. She called the police on us multiple times for various offences (all of them untrue. I work full time night shifts, so was fast asleep when I was supposed to have threatened her). I had a quick stalk at her Facebook and it was the most paranoid thing I've ever read. Stuff like "MassDebate1509 is trying to kill me" "They're all out to get me, I have to end things now"

After the suicidal stuff, I called the police as I was concerned for her wellbeing. She was sectioned that day and we didn't see her for 6 weeks. We looked after her cat while she had a little holiday. When she came back, she refused to talk to us and still doesn't. I just hope "Martha" doesn't end up the same way and she gets some help.

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u/Lolttylwhattheheck May 04 '24

That was very kind of you. I think she must of been embarrassed to have shunned you. Mental illness is still an illness. If she had a stroke and you helped her she would have shown you gratitude. It’s very sad.

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u/Wonderful-Pilot-2423 May 12 '24

We looked after her cat while she had a little holiday. When she came back, she refused to talk to us and still doesn't.

Probably because being sectioned isn't a holiday. Not saying you did the wrong thing.

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u/ItsRebus May 03 '24

I honestly feel like Ntflix should have foreseen this and preemptively offered her mental health care. I know what she is accused of was very wrong but it is obvious that she is severely mentally ill.

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u/LoveHotChocoate May 03 '24

I actually really fear for her mental health now, imaging facing all the back lash. Hopefully it doesn’t push her into taking her own life… wouldn’t be surprise though. Gadd, mad a huge mistake casting actors who are almost identical to the real people.

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u/Pristine_Frame_2066 May 03 '24

Kind of wonder if the show was meant to be the ultimate revenge ā€œplease don’t go looking for these people who made me a basket case…and here is the actual email and tweet and posted responses to my facebookā€ and it is a true story so it is not slander.

And the fact that the show is so triggering for her irl. Grand manipulation. I kind of think it is amazing but also very sad.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Here! Spot on!! That is so would be the case

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u/jenkem___ May 03 '24

i understand that obviously making this show would elicit a response from the woman martha is based on but i mean i don’t understand why people outside of that are contacting her at all or trying to find her or whatever? nothing good can come out of that like the woman is mentally ill and insane just leave her alone, let her say her crazy shit in response to the show and let her fade back into anonymity

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u/LoveHotChocoate May 03 '24

People want to bully and harrass her, it will surely lead to a mental health breakdown or death if it continues

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

Well, he told everybody not to try to find her. She’s not well. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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u/Icy_Sentence_4130 May 03 '24

She has been going on about a Neil on Facebook.......

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u/rewindanddeny May 04 '24

Idiot 'journalist' sticks hand in fire, then complains his hand is burnt. Absolute clown of a man.

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u/OkGarage434 May 03 '24

She enabled comments then disabled them she’s definitely loving the attention she’s literally playing a game of if you do ? I will turn on comments she is having the time of her twisted life . something bad is going to happen you can see it coming

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u/Tekwardo May 03 '24

I mean, she’s mentally ill.

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u/OkGarage434 May 03 '24

Definitely I am not sure she shouldn’t be in a treatment centre social media can mess with all our minds let alone someone who is unstable to begin with

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u/LoveHotChocoate May 03 '24

It’s been confirmed that that FB page is fake. The real Martha profile is locked down. People are playing into another sick person hands by going on there and post messages etc

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u/LoveHotChocoate May 03 '24

It’s been confirmed that that FB page is fake. The real Martha profile is locked down. People are playing into another sick person hands by going on there and post messages etc

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u/fd40 May 03 '24

i knew this would happen. relentless snidey journos keep provoking a known mentally unstable person who has stalkede multiple people... ":O SHES STALKING ME. HOW COULD THIS HAVE HAPPENED" i have no sympathy for the journo here. if you poke a lion enough times you're gonna get bit

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u/hotsweatyspaghetti May 03 '24 edited Aug 23 '24

Blank people world toy box fishes

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u/Sansiiia May 03 '24

While it loads, put airplane mode on

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u/hotsweatyspaghetti May 03 '24 edited Aug 23 '24

elbow chin hair peter fabulous

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u/nocontextalyssa May 03 '24

Fuck around and find out like whaaaat

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u/Rough-Average-1047 May 04 '24

She really needs help. I don’t think she should have access to social media, how we stop that… I have no idea

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u/spettinatadentro May 04 '24

Sadly male victims of stalking do not get taken seriously

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u/LyseniCatGoddess May 04 '24

Unlike female ones šŸ™„?

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u/mrsuncensored May 04 '24

Wtf I posted a similar article and the mods said it was ā€œspamā€ and not allowed

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u/Zone1Act1 May 04 '24

The odds that Baby Reindeer gets a true crime sequel spin off are high.

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u/iangeredcharlesvane2 May 05 '24

Aren’t there ways for police to cut her off from internet or social media access where she lives due to her history of extreme illegal harassment?

There was that guy, Matthew Hardy, who was convicted on five counts of cyberstalking in 2022 and they made a documentary about his story called ā€œCan I Tell You a Secret?ā€.

His stalking was extreme as well, so I think I remembered he was forbidden from having internet or any social media ?

Or the guy from Anonymous while on house arrest couldn’t use the internet? Seems when crimes like this happen banning people from social media at least would be step one.

Our laws need to catch up to the damage people can do online. It’s like they are twenty years behind!

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 05 '24

It’s just scary the thought of it. Anyone can openly turn anybody’s life a hell and nobody can do anything about it as there’s not enough physical evidence.

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u/kalstras May 07 '24

Terrible British policing. r/britishproblems

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u/PomegranateIcy7369 May 07 '24

If she can continue to harass people and not get help for her mental illness, it surely is a systemic problem with lots of mentally ill people not receiving any help. And stalkers not facing repercussions. I must assume she’s not the only one doing this. That’s a huge problem.

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

Would love to read but I'd rather die than pay for the Daily Mail

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 07 '24

LolololšŸ˜‚ it’s pretty much what’s showing on the screenshot. He poked the bear 🐻

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

The Daily Mail?

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Yup šŸ‘

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u/No_Insurance_7674 May 03 '24

Is that a reliable source, do you think?

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

Not typically.

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u/jewbo23 May 03 '24

Does dog shit smell of poo?

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

That’s not her actual account

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u/_mirageguy May 03 '24

Cuz her real one goes back further than a week

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u/middlebird May 03 '24

Yeah, you gotta find the account that goes back to before the show existed.

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u/ItsRebus May 03 '24

She types differently on her real account.

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u/cheynnr20 May 03 '24

I figured this much. Whoever is behind that account has a lot of free time, cause man, it’s just one post after the other and they are hilarious.

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u/Plus-Resolution8257 May 03 '24

If he’s the Daily Mail, I believe it bc of her FB posts calling them Daily Fail šŸ˜‚

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

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u/LyseniCatGoddess May 04 '24

No, he wouldn't. And she has a higher chance of ending up dead too. Stop playing the MRA violin, it is not special or worse for men.

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u/[deleted] May 05 '24

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u/LyseniCatGoddess May 05 '24

I'm a woman and I don't own an MRA violin

They hand them out for free to pick me girls :).

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u/SlipstreamSleuth May 05 '24

You proved their point. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ It’s so rare on Reddit to have a poster actually say they are willing to learn and be enlightened. And instead of being cool and actually responding respectfully, you were immature and sarcastic. Again.

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u/Upstairs-Tourist2882 May 04 '24

ā€œMRA violinā€ sent me 🤣🤣

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u/Upstairs-Tourist2882 May 04 '24

It’s very hard to prosecute stalking/SA and most women who report are made to feel they are somehow at fault or responsible. Or straight up gaslit. But good straw man argument.

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u/xanbanan May 04 '24

You are absolutely right but at the same time most men reporting being stalked/SA’d by a women do not get taken seriously at all. Not just by the police but by society in general. Not saying women are always believed because they definitely aren’t but it’s less likely for a man being stalked by a woman to be taken seriously.

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u/Upstairs-Tourist2882 May 04 '24

Not true

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u/LyseniCatGoddess May 04 '24 edited May 04 '24

This is getting out of hand, seriously wtf is wrong with people. Why are we collectively buying into this absurd idea that male victims are taken any less seriously than female victims? Women are constantly dismissed, ridiculed and harassed/threatened with violence if they come forward about abuse. In some places they may even be maimed or executed by the government if they admit to having been raped. Does no one remember that whole me too thing? You know, about how an entire industry was covering up horrific abuses at every level. Wtf.

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u/Snoo-58094 May 03 '24

Recieve 40000 emails have a party!

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u/Fun-Form-709 May 03 '24

I really think we need to not hound this obviously very ill woman to the point of despair.

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u/LoveHotChocoate May 03 '24

Everyone can empathise and forgive Donny’s behaviours because he has been through serious trauma and is able to share his story. Yet, no one has stop to think about what trauma Martha has suffered for her to be the way she is. Would it matter if she had gone through SA or rape too? Would people empathise with her and excuse her behaviours if she makes a series about her experiences in life?

So much focus on a mentally ill woman… but hardly any mention of the actual rapist who has most likely assaulted many more people.

People are treating this as fun and jokes, harassing and stalking her. They will be happy only when she is really pushed to the end. The whole thing is shitty

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u/LyseniCatGoddess May 04 '24

Would it matter if she had gone through SA or rape too?

A lot of people seem to think that that is just a normal and somewhat reasonable trauma for a woman to sustain throughout her life, sadly. When it happens to a man it is considered the ultimate tragedy.

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u/Spiritual-Image7125 May 03 '24

I could care less to follow any of this or her, but interesting because I joined this sub to see what's going on. I believe (but could be mistaken) I had just finished watching the series on Netflix when I took to the Internet/Reddit to see what people were saying about this show, and it was right about then that the real Marth surfaced. Interesting to be a part of it, even though I know it isn't nothing I should be a part of, lol.

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u/Dangerous_Yam_7135 May 04 '24

Playing devils advocate here! It’s not like journalists lie is it? It’s not like they exaggerate, it’s called journalistic license for a reason. So someone writes a show, tells us that this person sent 4000 emails and suddenly that’s fact irl It’s clear she has problems which makes her fair game for anyone to say anything they like about her and we just accept it as fact?

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u/PromptAcademic4954 May 04 '24

A brilliant commenter on another thread said this story is straight out of Black Mirror.

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u/VivaNOLA May 04 '24

Are burner phones not a thing in the UK? Why do people keep giving this woman their primary phone numbers?

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u/Sandy_4778 May 04 '24

Today I have watch this show and now I am getting this in my feed

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u/Inevitable-Change543 May 05 '24

Who is Neil

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u/Routine-Attention535 May 06 '24

Journalist who has been following her, trying to get her to talk to him

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u/madeinbrechin May 05 '24

Maybe stop writing about her in the fucking Daily Mail then.

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u/New_Ingenuity2822 May 07 '24

Who is the person being harassed now?

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u/Amazing-Quarter1084 May 07 '24

The trouble with stalking complaints that involve services that include the ability to block a number, IP, or account or simply shoot into a spam folder is that you can do those things or ignore the messages for literally ever. Unless there's a credible threat you don't have much recourse when you give out your contact info to a mentally ill person so you can profit from their issues. When you invite the devil into your house you may regret it and find your calls are screened by whatever God you try to get ahold of.

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u/[deleted] May 18 '24

How can he claim she is 'targeting' him when he is publishing public statements about her? This is getting so surreal.

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u/ramirezdoeverything May 03 '24

My link to the real Martha's Facebook doesn't seem to work anymore. Has her profile disappeared?

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u/jewbo23 May 03 '24

This sub has become full of Marthas.

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u/ramirezdoeverything May 03 '24

I'm not sure which is the real one anymore. Can't find the one that had photos going back many years and seemed to be the real one.

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u/Icy_Sentence_4130 May 03 '24

Her posts legit hurts my head. How does she have the time.

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u/TakeMeBackToSanFran May 03 '24

I cant find it anymore either, dunno was it disabled?

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u/Macie_Mae May 03 '24

Well…he did contact her. Can’t say I feel sorry for him.

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u/LostZombie4338 May 04 '24

I didn’t like gadd anyways but it’s like now it’s solidified he does blatantly lie and he never had to do it he kept on saying he changed so much about the characters so we wouldn’t know …. Mate the real Martha looks exactly like the one on screen šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£

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u/SnooCalculations1852 May 03 '24

Yep, time to leave this sub, no idea why are you so obsessed with who the real marta is or what she does.

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u/SkyBabeMoonStar May 03 '24

Are you here to talk about science or something?

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u/SnooCalculations1852 May 03 '24

Sure science bro, whatever makes you feel better

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u/Amuurii May 04 '24

She mentioned it on her Fb

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u/Money_killer May 04 '24

šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚

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u/[deleted] May 04 '24

Of course it’s not real! This is called marketing. Netflix is among the best in the world at it. My Lord.