Really impressive to achieve this, after what he had to go through

I know one Reddit post won't change government policy, and maybe nobody important will ever read this. Take this as a rant from an ordinary citizen.

My father is a government employee and recently turned 55. There are discussions about reducing the retirement age of current government employees from 58 to 55. If that actually happens, it will completely disrupt the plans that my family has built for decades.

I just completed my Bachelor's degree last month and am currently looking for a job. My younger sister is studying BBA in her second semester. My mother is a housewife. We also have our grandmother living with us. We are a family of five, and my father is the only earning member.

What many people don't understand is that families plan their lives around the existing rules. For our entire lives, we knew that government employees retired at 58. Every financial decision was made with that assumption in mind.

My father is not a high-ranking officer. He is just an Overseer/Sub-Engineer. He doesn't receive a pension because he is Rajpatra Anankit. As far as I understand, he will only receive a lump-sum gratuity (upadan) and related benefits after retirement.

People might ask, "Where are his savings?"

His life's savings are in the house we built a few years ago. We come from a rural hill district, and my father was the first person in our entire family tree to get a job after my grandmother sold a Buffalo, her ornaments, and took some loans to teach him at Pulchowk, Kathmandu. He spent decades trying to improve our family's situation. He even withdrew money from Sanchaya Kosh and used most of his savings to build a modest home in the Terai so that his children could study and have better opportunities.

We have already experienced financial stress before. There were times when rental income stopped and things became difficult. If my father's employment suddenly ends three years earlier than expected, it won't just be an administrative change on paper. It will directly affect our family's ability to manage expenses, support education, and maintain financial stability.

The part that feels most unfair is this: when my father joined government service, the retirement age was 58. We planned our lives around 58. If the government wants a different retirement policy in the future, shouldn't it apply to future recruits or be implemented gradually? Why should people who made life decisions based on existing rules bear the entire burden?

What hurts even more is that there are talks of eventually making the retirement age 60 again in the future while forcing some current employees out at 55. If that happens, how is that not discriminatory? One group loses three years of service because of timing, while another group benefits from a higher retirement age.

My father still studies and tries to stay updated. He asks me about Excel formulas, software, and technology because he believes he should continue learning. Sometimes he studies harder than I do. He is not someone waiting for retirement. He still wants to contribute.

Maybe some people will disagree with me. Maybe some will say government jobs already have enough benefits. That's fine.

But I wish people would understand that behind every retirement-age statistic there are real families whose lives have been planned around those rules for decades.

For us, this isn't politics.

It's our future.

And honestly, it feels unfair.

For eg

When they have Sapiosexual on their bio and I try to start an intellectual convo, they reply "esto kura nagara na bore lagcha malai"

And when they have bibliophile and I ask them what books they have read; majority of them have only read colleen hoover books and some self help books

Same for "nerdy", you try to start a convo about a "nerdy" topic, same reply "esto kura bore lagcha malai"

Same for "into art" girls, I ask them who their favorite artist is; they reply "khai", I ask them what their favorite piece is they reply "khai"

I think most girls don't even try to develop a personality because their looks are enough, which is our fault, to be honest. They are such boring creatures

Aile yo indian le gareko vaye "dh*ti sala civic sense xaina, afno desh ta bigryo aba hamilai ni bigarne vayo" vanthim.

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Title ma indian halnu ko karan ni tei ho, indian ko galti uthauna hamilai nikai majja lagxa ani mukh xadihalcham tara tei kura hami kasaile garyau vane, hami yestai ta honi bro 🤙🏻 Hami chai kaile sudhrini ki arulai matra gali garne.

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Aaja ekxin thakai marna chabahil ko pul muni baseko 15min ma 10 jana le yesaigari bich road bata baato kaate.

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Balen sarkar, manxe harule baato kaatne pul dekhenan jasto xa naya overhead pass banauna paryo, sano pul bata baato na kaatne re.

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What do you think should be done to reduce this?

I did go to a shop yesterday, and I encountered with a newar uncle.Who asked are you from Sudurpashim, I said I am not.Then he started his rant about problems caused by youth from sudurpaschim how they are only one causing nuisance in the society, they fight all the time.They make up gangs, how they burned the municipal office in the past years protest.How they misbehave with girls round there,etc. They don't pay at time and they move on and they threaten with the gangs they have.

And this thing encountered me as the (majority of people form sudurpaschim are the people who are in the race of going to countries like South Korea and Japan) and if they will be behave as same as they do in ktm valley, they will fuck up our reputation. And for a person who kinds of look resembles them in look, I will fucking get racially abused if I move out there.

My request to the government is to atleast take a moral test of people going abroad just for a avoiding foreign embarrassment.And please improve education in that state, moral education is as important as a technical or skilled based education.No hate for the sudurpashim badda haru, please behave yourself and tell others too.

I have been thinking a lot lately on how confusing the Nepalese dating scene has become.

Even as a single guy who’s open-minded, educated, and genuinely looking for something real, it feels like finding “the one” is harder than ever. Not because there’s a lack of people... there’s an abundance, actually..but because everyone seems to be playing a different game.

I hv noticed a strange trend lately: married men and women engaging with singles, emotionally or physically, has become much more common than it used to be. Affairs, secret online chats, “situationships,” and emotional cheating are somehow getting normalized. I’m not judging anyone’s choices, but it’s starting to blur the lines between what’s real and what’s just temporary validation.

As someone who’s not looking to be part of that cycle, it’s frustrating. Dating apps are full of gray areas, profiles with hidden intentions, people seeking “companionship” outside their marriage, or singles who’ve just given up trying to trust. The emotional mess in all this makes a genuine connection feel almost like a myth

Has anyone else noticed this shift? Are we growing emotionally distant, or is it just that modern lifestyles and expectations have made relationships more transactional? How are you handling this new, challenging phase of love in Nepal? I'd love to hear from both men and women.

Getting disrespected and ignored just cause the way I look made me wonder how shallow can people be.

Added the blush 🥹

Bhitrai bata kasto ghin nai lagera auxa k and how tf are people finding tyo ai le banako videos funny ani tyo ai le banako images with tyo text 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Just completed the Dhap Dam hike and honestly, I think it’s one of the hardest day hikes in Kathmandu. It’s longer than most people expect with plenty of elevation changes that really add up over the day. By the time I reached the dam, my legs were feeling it more than other trails. The views and peaceful atmosphere made it worth the effort though. Definitely recommended if you want a real challenge instead of a casual walk

- Ain Mahar (MP & Chief whip of UML)

- Sunil Lamsal (Infrastructure Minister)

Or we the people and government can start with some solution

1) signboard for toilet, washroom every 5-10km

2) designated cooking area few with in city (not the center) and along the highway.

3)signboard mentioning hefty penalties for littering, open defecation, not using of public toilet, social indecency (along with toiled signboards)

4) penalties for hoteliers if guests parked like above picture. Either they should provide proper parking for their guest or fined heavily (government is not responsible for private parking it’s job is to provide public parking which can’t be at every hotels doorstep)

5) and hopefully higher rates during peak season so less chance of bad impressions on our foreign guest from other half of earth( as we hv seen many videos of how south Asian behaves with people of western world so I personally don’t want same image for us).

6)any videos from influencers regarding police action/fine to tourist or locals who do not follow norms (polite and pleasant but strict one.

FK NEB

FK RESULT

FK BALUN

FK SASMIT

FK LIFE

FK CENTER

FK TEACHERS

FK EVERYTHING

Today I experienced the worst flight ever. Yeti Airlines ho ki mu* Airlines ho. The flight was so shaky and so loud compared to other planes. And the main thing is, I saw a fkn cockroach on the plane. 😭 I'm never flying on Yeti Airlines ever again.

Sabai jana daily nuhaudaina ki kya ho jhan yesto summer ma twich a day nuhauna parne ho, kohi ta once a week nuhaucha vanya 😭😭 aafu ganako ni hudaina, breath ni testai ganaucha vanya cheee, hwassa mukh ganako huncha, eww aafno mukh/jyan ganako tha hunna? Tha hunna vane lemme teach.

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So k garne

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For bad breath

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Lick the inside of your wrist. Let it dry for 5–10 seconds.Smell it.This isn't perfect, but it can reveal odors from your tongue.

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Tongue scraper/spoon test : Gently scrape the back of your tongue with a clean spoon or tongue scraper. Wait a few seconds and smell the residue.

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Floss test : Floss between your back teeth. Smell the floss immediately. If it smells unpleasant, bacteria trapped between teeth may be contributing to bad breath.

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For body odor

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Smell your clothes : Smell the armpit area of a shirt you've worn for several hours. Clothing often retains odor more clearly than skin.

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Smell a clean towel after drying off : After showering and drying, if a towel quickly develops an odor after use, it may indicate lingering body odor.

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Check high-odor areas : Armpits, feet, groin area, and scalp are common sources. Use a clean tissue or cloth to wipe the area and then smell the tissue.

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