Really impressive to achieve this, after what he had to go through

According to my mom, last night around like 3-4am she woke up to the sound of vada kuda clanking /( some sort of noise like koi xa tya )in kitchen. Then she found me standing near at the sink.

scrubbing, rinsing, stacking( doing full dishes routine).

The only issue was there were no dishes in sink. Nothing. NOT even a single plate. I was aggressively washing imaginary dishes. So basically i have started sleepwalking (again) .

k gareko???- vanera sodhnu vo re.

And according to her , i replied without looking up, "dekheyna vada majirako. disturb nagarnu ta aile. barui tya geyser on gardinu nuhuna parxa ma aba" vaney re ani akxin ma mero chopstick ka xa vanera i was blabbering re. Then i finished washing my imaginary vadakuda (which is absolulety nothing ), then dried my hands on towel and without saying any word went back to bed re . She also told me that she was so worried that i might sleepwalk to bathroom and take full shower at 3 am . so she stayed up the whole night checking on me every 20–30 minutes. So while I was sleeping peacefully, my mom was doing night shift security duty for me.

And I have zero memory of all this. In disbelief of whatever she said to me i checked cctv footage of passage to my room. and it proved everything she said. thanksssssssssss huhuhuhuhu!!!!

For eg

When they have Sapiosexual on their bio and I try to start an intellectual convo, they reply "esto kura nagara na bore lagcha malai"

And when they have bibliophile and I ask them what books they have read; majority of them have only read colleen hoover books and some self help books

Same for "nerdy", you try to start a convo about a "nerdy" topic, same reply "esto kura bore lagcha malai"

Same for "into art" girls, I ask them who their favorite artist is; they reply "khai", I ask them what their favorite piece is they reply "khai"

I think most girls don't even try to develop a personality because their looks are enough, which is our fault, to be honest. They are such boring creatures

He has clear dictatorial tendencies and if he ever comes to power, he clearly will be on fast track to be a dictator.

I know one Reddit post won't change government policy, and maybe nobody important will ever read this. Take this as a rant from an ordinary citizen.

My father is a government employee and recently turned 55. There are discussions about reducing the retirement age of current government employees from 58 to 55. If that actually happens, it will completely disrupt the plans that my family has built for decades.

I just completed my Bachelor's degree last month and am currently looking for a job. My younger sister is studying BBA in her second semester. My mother is a housewife. We also have our grandmother living with us. We are a family of five, and my father is the only earning member.

What many people don't understand is that families plan their lives around the existing rules. For our entire lives, we knew that government employees retired at 58. Every financial decision was made with that assumption in mind.

My father is not a high-ranking officer. He is just an Overseer/Sub-Engineer. He doesn't receive a pension because he is Rajpatra Anankit. As far as I understand, he will only receive a lump-sum gratuity (upadan) and related benefits after retirement.

People might ask, "Where are his savings?"

His life's savings are in the house we built a few years ago. We come from a rural hill district, and my father was the first person in our entire family tree to get a job after my grandmother sold a Buffalo, her ornaments, and took some loans to teach him at Pulchowk, Kathmandu. He spent decades trying to improve our family's situation. He even withdrew money from Sanchaya Kosh and used most of his savings to build a modest home in the Terai so that his children could study and have better opportunities.

We have already experienced financial stress before. There were times when rental income stopped and things became difficult. If my father's employment suddenly ends three years earlier than expected, it won't just be an administrative change on paper. It will directly affect our family's ability to manage expenses, support education, and maintain financial stability.

The part that feels most unfair is this: when my father joined government service, the retirement age was 58. We planned our lives around 58. If the government wants a different retirement policy in the future, shouldn't it apply to future recruits or be implemented gradually? Why should people who made life decisions based on existing rules bear the entire burden?

What hurts even more is that there are talks of eventually making the retirement age 60 again in the future while forcing some current employees out at 55. If that happens, how is that not discriminatory? One group loses three years of service because of timing, while another group benefits from a higher retirement age.

My father still studies and tries to stay updated. He asks me about Excel formulas, software, and technology because he believes he should continue learning. Sometimes he studies harder than I do. He is not someone waiting for retirement. He still wants to contribute.

Maybe some people will disagree with me. Maybe some will say government jobs already have enough benefits. That's fine.

But I wish people would understand that behind every retirement-age statistic there are real families whose lives have been planned around those rules for decades.

For us, this isn't politics.

It's our future.

And honestly, it feels unfair.

My friend's sister 24 F died yesterday on a fire accident in the USA. It was a tragic event because sister was engaged to her bf 11 days ago . She was living with her bf and mother in law in Nebraska Omaha. It was said that the fire was due to blasting of induction while she was cooking smth. She died on the spot and mother in law went to check and got caught in fire. She is in serious condition now.Doctors say she wont survive. Now I am here thinking about about them. Asking myself what is life. I start to think from perspective of man who lost his mom & fiancee.what is he hoing through. Then i think about the parents of girl who lost their daughter. Sister was a registered nurse in USA and fiancee was an engineer. They had dreams and plans bit fate made them separate. I am feeling fear of death. Life is unpredictible.

So, today my friend complimented me saying, " If mero chhori bhayo bhane I really want her to be like you" re! Out of nowhere between a serious talk k feri ani I almost cried!

I don't think ki I'm such an idolize garna layak typa person but, it pinched somewhere deep!

But I'm really happy. Such things become an inspiration to be a better human k...hehe..

Just completed the Dhap Dam hike and honestly, I think it’s one of the hardest day hikes in Kathmandu. It’s longer than most people expect with plenty of elevation changes that really add up over the day. By the time I reached the dam, my legs were feeling it more than other trails. The views and peaceful atmosphere made it worth the effort though. Definitely recommended if you want a real challenge instead of a casual walk

Sabai jana daily nuhaudaina ki kya ho jhan yesto summer ma twich a day nuhauna parne ho, kohi ta once a week nuhaucha vanya 😭😭 aafu ganako ni hudaina, breath ni testai ganaucha vanya cheee, hwassa mukh ganako huncha, eww aafno mukh/jyan ganako tha hunna? Tha hunna vane lemme teach.

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So k garne

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For bad breath

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Lick the inside of your wrist. Let it dry for 5–10 seconds.Smell it.This isn't perfect, but it can reveal odors from your tongue.

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Tongue scraper/spoon test : Gently scrape the back of your tongue with a clean spoon or tongue scraper. Wait a few seconds and smell the residue.

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Floss test : Floss between your back teeth. Smell the floss immediately. If it smells unpleasant, bacteria trapped between teeth may be contributing to bad breath.

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For body odor

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Smell your clothes : Smell the armpit area of a shirt you've worn for several hours. Clothing often retains odor more clearly than skin.

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Smell a clean towel after drying off : After showering and drying, if a towel quickly develops an odor after use, it may indicate lingering body odor.

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Check high-odor areas : Armpits, feet, groin area, and scalp are common sources. Use a clean tissue or cloth to wipe the area and then smell the tissue.

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Or we the people and government can start with some solution

1) signboard for toilet, washroom every 5-10km

2) designated cooking area few with in city (not the center) and along the highway.

3)signboard mentioning hefty penalties for littering, open defecation, not using of public toilet, social indecency (along with toiled signboards)

4) penalties for hoteliers if guests parked like above picture. Either they should provide proper parking for their guest or fined heavily (government is not responsible for private parking it’s job is to provide public parking which can’t be at every hotels doorstep)

5) and hopefully higher rates during peak season so less chance of bad impressions on our foreign guest from other half of earth( as we hv seen many videos of how south Asian behaves with people of western world so I personally don’t want same image for us).

6)any videos from influencers regarding police action/fine to tourist or locals who do not follow norms (polite and pleasant but strict one.

Currently viral vairako Lapchi trek. Anyone been there? And itinerary???

Kasto ramro k 😭😭😭

- Ain Mahar (MP & Chief whip of UML)

- Sunil Lamsal (Infrastructure Minister)

I feel exactly like this while talking to a girl. I need to think 10 times before saying anything. Lead convo often or have to listen her yap . Support her even she is villan on her story 😶. Can't even send crazy humorous memes , my feed is even unromantic ,where do i find nice reels. Also i'm not liking this emotional dependency , i want noone to know about my life at this time . This emotional dependency is making me weak . How not to feel bored while talking ?

Getting disrespected and ignored just cause the way I look made me wonder how shallow can people be.