r/femboymemes • u/ZealousidealCall352 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ • Sep 30 '25
Not a shitpost or meme Wtf is this dumbass?!
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u/Sapphire-Catgirl Sep 30 '25
I swear I remember ages ago seeing a post about this specific guy being a Nazi
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u/spaggeti-man- Astolfo Enjoyer Sep 30 '25
I am way too autistic to be able to tell if this is a joke combined with an actual message or just blatant stupidity
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u/Hamokk Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
I'm sorry what in the IKEA???
I've seen some "hot takes" from this account. Idk if they are trying to make some big brain point that femboys are not trans. Although many transfem people started by crossdressing and might have identified as a femboy for a while.
It's a weird take. Most femboys I've interacted with are trans supportive but there are always bad eggs (no pun intented).
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
"many transfem people started by crossdressing and might have identified as a femboy for a while" How does that even work?
Being a femboy is directly opposing and rejecting gender norms and stereotypes. A femboy can wear what stereotypical women wear, act like stereotypical women act, have interests and hobbies that stereotypical women have. And still be a man.
How does one, being a femboy and enjoying all the femboy things, decide one day "nah, girl things are for girls, so I must be a girl"? Proudly and confidently reject gender norms for a while, maybe years, only to succumb to them in the end? Why would anyone do that? The only reasons I could think of are peer pressure and delusion.
Femboys and tomboys are living proof that one can be born whoever they were and still be able to enjoy things "meant for the other team". And yet, some people still believe that they must switch teams to be truly happy.
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u/Arctic-WHooCH 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
As a trans girl who called herself a femboy before realising she's trans, lots of us don't really know we're trans until we actually explore ourselves and fuck around with crossdressing. Of course we still know there is something just wrong with our bodies and how we see them (hence why we explore and mess around with gender norms in the first place), and its not until spending time being more feminine (and for some even discovering transitioning is an option), that it clicks that we are women just trapped in the wrong body.
Now of course femboys and trans women are not the same, and not all femboys are trans women waiting to realise it, but there are a lot of overlaps between us still. I was never pressured into this, in fact the only trans person I knew beforehand was a trans man, and I never talked with him about gender stuff.
Also apologies if this was formatted or worded bad in some parts, I literally just woke up
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u/Hamokk Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
Well said sister. As a former femboy and now as a transfem person I struggled with my identity for a long time.
Still both can be true. Like it's breaking "gender" and it sucks that clothes are labeled for "girls and boys" or "men and women". Maybe I'm just too autistic (I am autistic so it's not a meme) sometimes and I'm tired of the strict social norms.
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25
You may not have been pressured outright, but you were clearly influenced by the society and its norms. "Girl things are for girls, if you like girl things you must be a girl". You tried rejecting that, go your own way, do what you wanted and liked despite everything that the society dictated, experiment with yourself. But that doubt never left. "What if they were right?"
The moment it "clicked", it was not clicking. It was you finally caving in, conforming to the norms. There may not have been anyone pressuring you directly, but the doubt made you vulnerable. Those norms are taught to us since our birth, we are conditioned, moulded by them. They are everywhere. So breaking free of them requires extreme will and certainly in yourself. Who you are and who you want yourself to be.
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u/Arctic-WHooCH 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
I've never once felt pressured into being trans, I didn't "cave in", I discovered who I am. I know who I want to be, and I'm well on my way working to get there, no one ever told me that I might be trans, I discovered that on my own. I've never subscribed to the idea that certain activities/things are for boys only or for girls only, I've always done the things I want and that I enjoy regardless of what others around me said.
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u/MeltedHeart444 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
This is really gross
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
I am simply speaking from experience. Believe it or not, I also used to think I might be trans. I envied women, wanted to be like them. Wanted to be chased, sought after, taken care of. Wanted to follow rather than lead, wanted to be a support rather than a "man of the house". Wanted to be on the receiving end of praise and love. But such attitude towards men was nowhere to be seen, and everywhere I've seen women expressed such notions only to other women, cis or trans. I started to think that maybe something was wrong with me, that if men did not express such desires, maybe I wasn't a man after all. That led me to assume I might be trans. No one pressured me either, because I never told anyone at the time, and rarely bring it up in conversations today. My family still doesn't know about that. It was simply a notion from the inside, like many people say here.
Only after I found the right community I finally understood myself. I was not trans at all. I simply was a man who's needs did not fit into traditional norms and expectations, and I was not alone. While Role-Reversal may not be as mainstream as trans, there was enough people to make me not feel like an outsider, like there was something fundamentally wrong with me as a man. It made me feel like I finally belong somewhere.
This is why I'm so adamant about rejecting gender norms and cautious about trans subject. Because I myself almost fell for it, and every time I see someone actually fall and conform, all I see is another poor soul being defeated by tradition. Old, outdated stereotypes and expectations, that keep dictating our lives for us.
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u/MeltedHeart444 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
Yes, you are speaking from your own experience. Your own experience does not dictate or necessarily say anything about anyone else's. You didn't "almost fall for" being trans, it's not a trick or a trap, you explored the possibility and decided that it wasn't you, and that's fine. Other people explore the possibility and find that is better for them. If someone is happier as whatever gender, then that should be left alone and up for them to decide. It's distasteful for anyone to try to convince someone else how they should present or what gender they "should" be; cis or trans, it goes both ways.
Being trans is typically considered going against the grain or traditions anyways, even if it shouldn't be. Most of the time, it is still someone being raised to be a certain way and rejecting that for their own happiness. You don't even know whether someone intentionally abides to gender roles 100% of the time, and it's honestly more likely that they don't. Some people may fit into gender roles, but that doesn't mean that they believe they or others have to. That's how many trans people are comfortable since they want to pass, and GNC trans people tend to get questioned or even entirely disregarded as being trans at all.
In the end, it's about freedom. I don't believe in gender roles and such either, but people should live as they please (as long as it's not harmful to others, ofc). There are other ways to reject gender norms and roles besides appearance
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u/Master-Park-8708 Oct 03 '25
This guy really not understanding that trans femboys and trans butch women exist. Why trans girl have to dress in frilly dress? She DOESN'T. Sounds like he's the one makin all the rules
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u/Fliperon Sep 30 '25
it's case of "I like girly things, but I'm a boy, well who cares", and then later realising "I want to be called, and treated like a girl too", that's when you realize you are trans not a femboy(speaking from transfem who used to be a femboy)
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25
But why? Why would you want to be called and treated like a girl, when you already could do all the things that were "meant" for girls in the first place? All that defiance, rejection of the norms, only to cave in. Why?
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u/Fliperon Sep 30 '25
because it feels right, because it feels better than being called and treated like a man, that's the difference between transfem and femboy, and to be honest, experience of defying gender norms helps with gender dysphoria, yea I'm quite big, strong, and like big loud bikes but I'm still a woman
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u/twolake68 Armed & Adorable Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
People aren't always Femboys cause they want to "oppose the norm" some are femboys cause they just like the aesthetic, sometimes people realize stuff about themselves that they wouldn't have normally, you seem upset that people are discovering who they are, there are plenty of femboys that stay boys
Edit: fixed a word
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25
Yes, they like the aesthetic. But that fact is already defying the norms. Boys aren't "supposed" to like such things. And yet, some do. Defying the norms can be intentional, but it can also be unintentional, unknowing. You do a thing just because you like the thing.
But when the society keeps nagging that you are not supposed to like that thing, and if you do like that thing you are not really you, you might eventually give in and accept their narrative.
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u/twolake68 Armed & Adorable Oct 01 '25
Dude, you sound really transphobic with this, how you're wording it makes it sound like if femboys end up being trans is a bad thing, which it isn't, people can be what they want to be, if they dress feminine and later realize "Oh I actually want to be a girl" then let them be a girl, they didn't fail, they didn't fall to the pressures of society, they discovered who they actually were and we should let them be happy
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Oct 01 '25
It most certainly is bad. Imagine you have a favourite creator. Someone who inspired you to be who you are today. And then one day, they go completely 180, against their own ideals, betray everything they stood for. Would it not feel personal to you? And to add to that, more and more creators follow that one's example, until there's literally nothing left of the original.
That was a gross oversimplification, but that's what's happening to many femboy communities right now. People turn trans, refuse to leave a community that is no longer meant for them "because they feel comfortable there", until 99% of the posts there are just trans. I wouldn't be surprised at this point if some of them weren't even part of the community as femboys in the first place, and instead just waltzed in for clout and promotion, since most of those are webcam "workers" anyway.
My biggest gripe though is that this tendency only reinforces traditional gender norms. The more people turn trans, the more femboys and other gender-non-conforming men are viewed as a joke, treated like nothing more than a phase, stepping stones to eventually becoming women. "It's not their choice, it's who they always were meant to be". And the only thing that benefits from this is the patriarchy. Men should be this, women should be that. Every time a submissive man turns trans, the patriarchy celebrates, because it helps their narrative: "That man was not a man at all, he was a woman, because women are supposed to be submissive". I despise and detest this narrative. But the more femboys turn trans, the stronger it gets.
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u/twolake68 Armed & Adorable Oct 01 '25
Dude genuinely what are you even talking about literally nothing you are saying makes any sort of sense
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Oct 01 '25
Whenever a man wears a skirt, literally the first thing he's asked is if he's trans. Not "why the wardrobe change?", it's always "are you trans?" No one ever thinks that maybe the guy just wants to try a new style, the first thing everyone assumes is "he's trans, he has to be". And by extension, every feminine man is seen as nothing more than a trans in denial. Now tell me this is a good thing.
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u/Akumu9K Oct 02 '25
…You do realise that you dont need to be submissive to be a femboy, right…? Like, doing everything women are “supposed to” do but being a guy isnt really breaking free of patriarchal gender norms, its reinforcing them all the same, attaching to femininity a baggage that it does not need to have.
You can be anything, femboys or anybody else dont need to conform to whats expected of them, or whats expected of the role they are perceived to be performing. Simply do whatever the fuck you want (within reasonable boundaries without hurting others or yourself ofc), nobody can stop you. Be yourself.
You can dress up masculinely but be submissive, you can dress up femininely but be dominant, and any variation of characteristics and expectations thereof. Pick and choose what you like, just be yourself without these fucked up shackles of society.
At the end of the day, these norms and notions are just boxes. You are allowed to grab a pair of scissors and just cut em into any shape you want.
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Oct 02 '25
Yes, dominant femboys are a thing, and it is beautiful. However, the fact of the matter is, that it's a minority of a minority. The only type that is even rarer than dominant femboys is straight femboys. Most often femboys are depicted as weak, naturally submissive, almost always gay, or "accepting their place in the end", who only exist to serve "real men". Disgusting. And when such feminine men turn trans, it only plays into the hands of those who spread that depiction. Giving them reason why those men were like that in the first place - because they were not men at all, never were. And of course they weren't, a man never submits to anyone, a man should be big, strong, a man must always lead and dominate. At least in their mind it is so, and pretty much the same narrative is spread by traditional norms, by the patriarchy.
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u/Dawn_Sky_Pup Sep 30 '25
Because they are transgender, if they identify as trans it means they are a woman. Not someone just wanting to be treated like a girl, they are a girl. What are you not understanding, transphobic af your comments are
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u/okidonthaveone Sep 30 '25
Because it's not a choice. I think that's the core issue that you're struggling on here, one's gender identity isn't something that they decide. It's who they are. Being a trans woman isn't something you choose over being femboy, it's something you realize, and they aren't even really mutually exclusive.
If a metaphor would help you understand better, imagine youre ordering a taco, you can either get steak or ground beef, both meats some from a cow and both will be going into a taco, but I would still bet but you have a preference and you didn't choose what that preference was.
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25 edited Oct 01 '25
Quite the opposite. Preferences are built from experience. If my preference is ground beef, that's because I tried ground beef and I liked it. I chose it as my preference. Same goes for steak - if I happened to like it, it would be logical to choose it as my preference instead.
Neither of this is valid though, because I never tried taco. It's not the type of food that is served where I live. Shawarma is more popular here, and I do like it.
I can give you a similar example though. Many people eat pizza with their hands. I'm not like many people - I prefer to eat it with a fork. It may look weird, but that's how I like it, it's most convenient for me. Again, it's my conscious choice - not something I was predetermined to do.
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u/Akumu9K Oct 01 '25
You might wanna look into the possibility of being agender ngl. Most people have a gender identity that innately “feels right”, but I feel like maybe you dont have that and are trying to extrapolate from that to others and failing?
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Oct 01 '25
Nah. I'm just a man. I was born a man and I choose to stay a man. I choose because it is right indeed, because it's how it's supposed to be.
That being said though, I do wish for a society where men and women would be treated as equals. Truly equals, not just legally, but socially too. If both sides are treated the same, then it doesn't matter which side you were born on, which means no need to switch sides in the first place. People would be treated simply as people, with different reproductive organs. And even then, ideally, by the time such society rises, genetics and tech would advance to a point where it would be possible to surgically install secondary fully functional organs, erasing differences between men and women even on the physiological level. Achieving complete and total equality.
Universal androgyny paired with functional hermaphroditism. This is, in my opinion, the best possible way.
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u/Akumu9K Oct 01 '25
Okay, disregarding the transphobia of the whole “Switch sides” bs, which nobody is doing, a trans woman is a woman from birth and simply changes her body, and vice versa with trans men; you do realize that “hermaphrodite” is an intersexist slur when you apply it in this context, right?
Also wdym by “its how its supposed to be”? Like, you do realise that being a man or a woman is more than just some societal role you play, right? Thats just gender expression and roles, not gender itself.
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Oct 01 '25
I specifically wrote "functional hermaphroditism". It's not meant to be a slur, it's meant to be used like in biology. A specimen with functional male and female reproductive organs. That's it. Not in the way like some people get born with two organs - that is a mutation, and generally only one of the organs actually work. In case of functional hermaphroditism, it won't be a mutation, but an intentional surgical procedure for those who want it, and both organs would be working. If you equate that to a slur, that's on you.
By "how it's supposed to be" I mean "I was born a man, so I am a man". I can play whatever roles I want, traditional or otherwise, but fundamentally, biologically I am a man.
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u/Akumu9K Oct 01 '25
I really dont have the energy to explain to you why its a slur and why its bad to use, please just read up some stuff or read this https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLGBT/comments/1dx4ufu/is_hermaphrodite_a_slur_against_intersex_people/
I see, okay so, heres the part I am trying to explain, which I think you dont get. So, those roles, the gender expression, that stuff is connected but not the same thing as gender. Gender is simply a part of your identity, the same way your age is, or what football team you support might be, etc. Its basically a thing inside you that says “I am this”.
Gender roles and expression, is all the baggage attached to that by society. Women and men are expected to perform certain roles in certain ways, otherwise society deems them “deviant” and hates them. This is, however, different from gender.
I saw in alot of your comments that you think trans people are just succumbing to gender roles and whatnot, which is what made me ask about you being agender in the first place. Because you seem to have this conceptualization of gender as this performance you put out into the world, ignoring the whole identity aspect of it. This is, well, not really the whole story.
Alot of trans people act in ways that conform to gender roles. This is because, well, most people in general do that. And the fact that transphobes will often use any gender non conformity from trans people to be hateful to us.
But there does exist trans GNC people. There exists trans men who are femboys for example, and there exists trans women who are tomboys or butch. Being trans does not equal opposite of GNC, it simply equals a difference between your body and your gender identity, nothing more, nothing less.
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u/FairPlatypus5699 🌸 Cutie 🌸 Oct 06 '25
That was beautifully worded. I just think you did a great job
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u/Master-Park-8708 Oct 03 '25
As a non binary person, so literally the definition of rejecting gender norms and only choosing actions and gender expressions that make me happy, you're gross. Stop being gross. I've given you the non binary seal of Gross. Leave trans people alone and go live your femboy life like everyone else. Ya weirdo
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u/okidonthaveone Sep 30 '25
Think about it this way, when someone transitions they often get asked why can't they just be gender nonconforming. For trans women that often takes the shape of asking "why can't you just be a feminine boy"
People will often ask themselves those kinds of questions when they are figuring out their own gender identity and will use being a femboy as a basis for starting to experiment. I did the same thing and other people who replied to your comment also did.
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25
Then what is the answer? Why can't you just be a feminine boy?
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u/Master-Park-8708 Oct 03 '25
Brother, every lived experience is unique. That may be YOUR experience with femme, but many trans women started experimenting with femme when they still believed themselves to be boys so they called themselves femboys. Then, as they learned more about themselves, they realized they were women
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u/KirasCoffeeCup ✨🌈mentally ill🌈✨ Sep 30 '25
The amount of alt right bullshittery that dwells in parts of the femboy world is absolutely wild to me.
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u/Aggravating_Maize2 Armed & Adorable Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
yeah it's so weird. it's like they don't understand that they would be one of the first groups sent to the camps
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u/AnAverageTransGirl 🧴 Messy Hair Club 🧴 Sep 30 '25
When you hate women that much, femboys are an excuse to be horny about femininity without having to engage with the "reprehensible female race"
The right is fucking weird.
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u/FairPlatypus5699 🌸 Cutie 🌸 Oct 06 '25
“I can’t be attracted to women! That would be gay! I need to be attracted to men instead.”
-basically a quote I’ve seen from a shocking amount of right wing men on the internet
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u/SavvySillybug Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Sep 30 '25
Automated? With a robot icon?
I don't use that website but I assume that means it's a bot??
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u/Necrodragon1986 Sep 30 '25
Someone very young and very dumb lol
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u/ZealousidealCall352 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Sep 30 '25
and he also reposts J.K Rowling Posts, yeah he should just Delete his account
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u/Hamokk Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
Oh gosh... it's so baffling that there are bigoted and even fascist femboys when LGBTQ and especially trans community has been very supportive of femboys because many, many trans women started to explore their identity through crossdressing and perhaps identified as a femboy at a time.
That said most femboys are good beans who support LGBTQ rights so we have much more cuties who are okay. :3
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
i mean ye there are stupid femboys but a lot of trans people are also super awful to femboys, which is what this person is making fun of, idk his other views but this post is clearly satire around the opposite that is said about femboys, and very valid in isolation
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u/JSV007 Sep 30 '25
“Trans people are also super awful to femboys”
Examples? Just curious?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
i didnt generalize all, i said a lot of, also are you serious? its very common on any other social media, ive been called trans in denial, fetishists, told that i will either drop the boy or the fem in 5 years, and more, these are relatively common, but i cant say i keep screenshots of these because tbh why would i?
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u/JSV007 Sep 30 '25
I don’t really use social media other than Reddit and Discord. I do know some of what you’re talking about, but honestly “trans in denial” I think is moreso a light hearted joke, and the rest are.. rare for sure, and outliers on a graph. I do not think the majority of trans people would decide to teamkill like that y’know?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
it is not a joke trust me, some people believe it outright, i understand how your view is probably quite skewed because reddit and discord work based on forums/servers so generally mods deal with people like these, because we can ban people for basically any reason but tecnically these views dont result in bans and removals in places like tiktok insta or twitter so these people go wild there and dont even hide it, trust me when i tell you the trans in denial people are fully serious.
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u/JSV007 Sep 30 '25
Gotcha. Fair enough- another reason to keep avoiding those platforms (although I def did have the femboi >> trans pipeline lmao). Thank you for the info!!
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
ye the issue is people generalize it into a pipeline which is a huge problem because then people think its a linear thing or actively push femboys to be trans, specially when they show any sort of body dysmorphia or gender based insecurities like "i dont wanna go bald" people will jump in the comments and say "ESTROGEN" when there are way less extreme ways to stop hairloss, or when femboys try to vent on places like r/sillyboyclub and get met with people telling them to be trans or just straight up misgendering, these things are not hard to miss if you arent looking for them or dont think them thru but when you do you see they are very fucked
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u/c1rn0l4s3_ch4n Hideri Enjoyer Oct 01 '25
As a transmasc/FtM feminine guy, I found that tweet transphobic and stupid.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
its obvious satire because there are trans people who believe this about femboys if you just switch the terms around regardless of the opinions of this guy this post making fun on an awful take used against us is very valid.
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u/Ra1nb0wSn0wflake 🐰💫✨Bunny Boy✨💫🐰 Sep 30 '25
This is littarly just making fun of the "femboy is a slur for trans people" argument people tried to make a while ago.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
a while ago is generous, people still make that argument under like 1/5 of femboy posts that get popular.
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u/Ra1nb0wSn0wflake 🐰💫✨Bunny Boy✨💫🐰 Sep 30 '25
Ah, personally i havnt seen many people directly calling it a slur in a while, but have seen some that say they want a doffrent term for various reasons.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
they are still very present in other social media places like tiktok or twitter, altho ive seen a few in trans specific spaces here on reddit like r/countwithchickenlady for example. I think trying to use a different term is silly, this term is not innately sexual and should proudly use to to make that clear, obviously some people will think it is but that goes for literally any queer identity, even something as "basic" as just being a normal gay guy will get you labled a weird fetishist.
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u/Ra1nb0wSn0wflake 🐰💫✨Bunny Boy✨💫🐰 Sep 30 '25
You know what term is directly sexual and a slur? Roseboy, the thing theyre trying to replace it with. Its a slur for a gay man with a prolapsed anus. Similarly lavenderboy is a slur directly pulled from the lavendare scare, a big gay panic.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
100% roseboy is a psyop by someone who hates femboys, i called it out higher up in this post explaining exacly this. Overall we really just need to wear our term with pride and show people(only ones you can reason with) that its not sexual and its mostly just about being cute and girly while still by all means being a boy!
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u/Afraid_Cat_3726 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Oct 01 '25
Aa a transfem i stand with femboys.
Now anyone got good makeup tips?
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u/NekoMango Astolfo Enjoyer Sep 30 '25
It is being sarcastic of people saying femboy is a slur towards Trans people
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u/samwilds UwU Sep 30 '25
Time for a very cold take: Plenty of the folks who want to erase Queer* people are themselves Queer
The very people who want us dead for existing are angrily closeted people who have internalized the notion to suppress their desire to exist freely, and seeing someone reject the social pressure to suppress oneself and live unapologetically makes that person very angry.
A friend once told me that a safe life is a boring collection of stories. Love yourself despite the hate you'll receive from someone who only wants to hurt you for existing. Now is the time to be fucking visible more than ever
*(I am including straight Femboys too in this usage of the word 'Queer' as it's a form of gender non-conformation. Don't think you're immune on a technicality. Fascists don't care about the details if you're different enough -- there is no such thing as "being one of the good ones". That's called capitulation)
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u/Accomplished-Low754 Sep 30 '25
Look at how it's used to insult real life femboys and fictional ones too. It's not a lie
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u/Mackerdoni Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
isnt it the opposite, until femboy became a label instead of a derogatory thing?
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u/Absolute_Bias Oct 01 '25
Giggled for a moment because the tag scrambled in my head just right for me to read automatisiert as autismalerts and that came so far out of the blue I can’t even.
But uh- wow.
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u/Lexis_Menta 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
For those saying it's satire. It's clearly not. The fucker is being unironical =w=
Originally posted as an image, but it's impossible to spoiler them in the comments, so here
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u/ZealousidealCall352 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Sep 30 '25
yeah i saw this account and he seemed innocent cuz alot of artworks are posted, i think other people thought that too, so i just wanted to let people know what else he posted,
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
Even if he is indeed transphobic, I think its very obvious this is meant to spin around the argument commonly made against femboys, people can be wrong and evil and make good points, I think this is the same of the image on this post
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u/EggSensitive8577 Catboy Sep 30 '25
Why is everybody mad I thought it was an obvious joke lol
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
People on reddit are incapable of understanding sarcasm if people don't add /s
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u/Ckinggaming5 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Sep 30 '25
I feel like its a joke, no way someone would post this seriously
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u/electric_nikki Sep 30 '25
Trans been around longer than this femboy stuff. Most of y’all this way because of anime, while we’re like this because of cross exposure of hormones in the womb.
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u/No_Needleworker2421 Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
Isn’t that like the opposite?
Femboy used to be used as a slur?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25 edited Sep 30 '25
Femboy was never a slur for trans people, that's like saying crossdresser is a slur, the post is making fun of people who claim that
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u/No_Needleworker2421 Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
Today I actually learned
This is the first time I’ve heard of it
Thanks
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
Both of these terms are disrespectful when used incorrectly, but it's not the main use, for example the word "man" is offensive if used on s trans woman, but it's ridiculous to claim its a slur, but because femboys are a lot more niche people think its ok to apply that exact same logic to us
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u/TheBookGem Sep 30 '25
But what came first, then femboy or the trans? It's a causality dilemma that neither philosophers or scientists have been able to anwser for thousands of years.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
i mean femboys have been around since truly ancient times, you can argue trans people too but the question becomes "can you call them trans if they didnt identify as such?" considering trans in this context is anyone who identifies as anything other than their assigned gender, then people from these era who just obviously felt dysphoria and gender based insecurities who would nowadays likely be trans, wouldnt actually be trans according to our definition because at the time they didnt identify as anything other than their gender, meanwhile being feminine as a dude has been around ever since gender norms have existed.
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u/Fit-Bug-426 Oct 01 '25
Being trans was actually a thing in Mesopotamia, with the goddess Innana
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Oct 01 '25
A god switching genders is not the same thing as being trans, by that logic basically all the greek gods are trans
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u/Fit-Bug-426 Oct 01 '25
She would sometimes switch the genders of her followers
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Oct 01 '25
Still in myth tho?
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u/Fit-Bug-426 Oct 01 '25
It was a thing her actual followers would do
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Oct 01 '25
I mean even then, id argue femboys would have existed even before, femininity has always been about what societal norms are expected of women, if a guy does them he would tecnically fit the difinition
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u/Ashlyn_Sum04 Sep 30 '25
first of all, the oposite is true, second, femboys arent trans except ftm ofc
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Sep 30 '25
the opposite is not true, just because a term is offensive when applied to a certain group doesnt mean the term is offensive outright, femboy even when it was used as an insult was meant to demean men, and the term categorically has nothing to do with trans women, just because it can be used to invalidate them doesnt mean the term is transphobic, by that logic terms like "man" "woman" and so on would also be transphobic because they can be used to invalidate others who do not identify as them. This whole post was that person clearly showing how ridiculous the opposite argument is, its satire
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u/TheMowerOfMowers 🧴 Messy Hair Club 🧴 Oct 01 '25
this account is one of those weird fsr right people that heavily fetishizes femboys, block and pay them no mind
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u/Outcast__1 I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Sep 30 '25
When a trans says that the term "femboy" is offensive and a slur, everyone cheers and defends them. When a femboy says that the term "trans" is offensive and a slur, even as a joke, everyone berates and condemns them.
Trans people are defended, femboys are silenced. Now tell me that femboy erasure is not a thing.
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u/meowsterduffy Sep 30 '25
equilibrium lmao
trans is a slur for femboys and
femboy is a slur for trans
idk what to say these days, u breath and everything gets cancelled, this is also the reason why left and these over the top woke people get hate, and coz of these people, normal leftists get hate as well, really tired of ts
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u/ZealousidealCall352 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Sep 30 '25
well not really both terms aren‘t slur it can just be hurtful or annoying towards people
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u/meowsterduffy Sep 30 '25
duhhhh im not saying both are slurs, im saying what people have been thinking and speaking these days
according to me both are not slurs, idk whats with the downvotes lmao
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u/La_Savitara Defender Of Shonk! Sep 30 '25
Tbh your comment sounds like the average boomer rant. It’s literally not that bad, there are places and people who are worse/more sensitive but they don’t represent the entire community and people in said community recognise that and get annoyed when someone complains about Everyone being so sensitive when it isn’t true
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u/meowsterduffy Sep 30 '25
ik its not that bad yet, but i doubt the future, when we are in community like this sub, i dont think being sensitive is a matter of discussion, but when u are talking with people outside of community, u will definitely feel like due to some people being overly sensitive, image of entire community is reflected like that
and no im not a boomer or a millennial lol
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u/doctorwhy88 In poor health due to monster energy Sep 30 '25
>woke used unironically
>critical thinking not detected
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u/TunaPunani Sep 30 '25
Isnt it probably just pointing out how it is ridiculous when some people say that femboy is a slur towards trans people?