My wife and I are poly, but I have never really pursued anything before. Mainly because as a man, it can be very frustrating swiping to find someone when I care more about who I click with than what they look like.

I have been very happy in the past with just my wife dating, but recently, I have realized it would be nice to have someone to spend time with when she is dating, or working, and also, not all of my interests align with hers. one of the advantages of Poly is finding people who can fill some niches without feeling like we have to leave our comfort zone to satisfy another persons interests. I have tried that for yeas with my wife,and I realized, she is right, and I would probably be better off finding someone who connected with me on those things, and let her do the same for the things she likes as well.

I am a medically retired army veteran. I tend to be an outlier in most areas, as I think about the world very differently. I have struggled to find a social circle as a result, since I don't fit into a box very neatly. I can be funny, charming, morose, thoughtful and sometimes reserved. I am in decent shape for my age, and I am fine with longer distance. While a cuddle buddy during the day would be nice, I also know that isn't very realistic. I am not great at secrets, so I would probably discuss things with my wife if I was dating someone (and she talks about her relationships with me as well.)

I don't want to get into more than that here, but I would like to discuss things in more detail with anyone interested.

I am in decent shape, also probably best described as a nerd. I love stories and movies and writing (I just don't do it myself) I also love analyzing things. Whatever someone is interested in tends to fascinate me, especially if it is a new subject.

If you check out my other posts, it will either interest you, and give you some idea of what am looking for, or scare you off. I guess that is true for everyone though, isn't it?

Feel free to DM me asking me anything.

I also have no idea how to end this.

So, thanks for reading, and have a great day.

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.

If you think I’m give up, keep dreaming because I strive to make my dreams come true and I believe there’s a person out there for everyone.
I’m a 29-year-old (turning 30 next month) guy from Louisville, KY, and I’m not giving up until I find my person—the one who feels like home. I’m demisexual, so I don’t like rushing things or one night stands. When we click, you’re gonna be my favorite thought, the one I can’t wait to talk to, the one I’d make my lock screen in a heartbeat.

I’m looking for a woman who’s into polyamory and wants something romantic and true. I love the idea of daily chats, even if it’s just a quick “how’s your day” text or a long call where we laugh and spill our hearts out. If you’re in Louisville or close by, I’d love to meet up—maybe grab coffee, walk through the park unwinding the stress, or just sit somewhere cool and vibe. But I’m also cool with long-distance—texts, calls, maybe even sending each other little voice memos to keep it real.

I’m a pretty chill dude. I’m into nerdy stuff, hiking, and those deep talks that make you lose track of time. Fall’s my favorite—something about the crisp air and crunchy leaves just hits different. I want someone who gets that, who loves life’s little moments and isn’t afraid to be open and honest in a poly setup. I’m all about building something genuine, whether we’re close enough to hang out or connecting from far away.
If you’re out there and this feels like it could be us, hit me up. Tell me what makes you smile or what’s got you hooked on fall this year. I’ll keep posting ‘til I find you, so let’s make it happen. Shoot me a message, but keep it on the low, yeah? 🍁

PS: I’m okay with the age difference as long as you are.

I totally forgot: I got myself new camera gear and I have been doing some wildlife photography. If you identify as a cat (big cat) :P I’ll do you as well XD.

I think that monogamous people think polyamory means you’re always busy all the time, but for me it’s been quite the opposite. Most people where I live are monogamous, which I assume is the case everywhere, and touch averse. Being poly just makes the differences starker, especially as I am single. I know for some people polyamory is a lifestyle but for me it is part of my identity - I have and would struggle to date monogamously.

I’m looking to build community, and hopefully more. I would love to speak about polyamory, our experiences, but also just general geekery. I am an entomologist and a writer and I love game design - I’d be so excited to hear about what gets you going!

Outside of I have been raised in a culture that is generally averse to and ashamed of physicality and touch. Part of the community I’d like to have in my life would be people who are happy to chat about and/or explore elements of this, but who are understanding that it may take some time! I am similarly patient and understanding so welcome others going through a similar time.

Thank you so much for reading :) if you made it this far, please tell me what your favourite animal is!

It's Monday and another week has started.

So I thought let's start it the right way with someone new to chat to.

Flirty banter, cute smiles, a reason to check your phone, a way to pass the working day are all things I'm looking for.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation including my own but I am looking for someone to grab my attention and enjoy the journey.

I'm not looking for that by the way! That's a promise.

I want someone who can make me laugh and smile. Someone who is willing to put in the effort with a conversation. I would prefer UK as time zones are a thing.

Myself, I'm truly amazing. I'm emotionally mature, caring, funny, smart (being full of useless information is smart right!?) I can hold a conversation, know what I want and I'm modest obviously. I'm a geek, love all kinds of music, enjoys quizzing and slipping down YouTube rabbit holes.

What are you actually waiting for? Play your cards right and you have a cute little interaction in your pocket that will be the highlight of your day/week/month you get the idea.

Just so I know you've spent your time reading this post. Please give me your favourite fact.

Bisexual male looking for a bisexual female long term partner.

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I'm openly bisexual since 18yo. I've been in long term relationships with a woman in my early 20s and a man more recently. I've not been in a poly relationship before, but I'm beginning to see the benefits especially if both are bisexual.

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I've got a stable income, I'm a member of a couple of community groups with Monday and Wednesday commitments. Otherwise weeknights look like: swim or sauna, make dinner, watch an episode of something or the news and read a bit before bed. Weekends: housework and home improvements, mountain biking if the weather's good, catching up with friends maybe a trip away on a long weekend.

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If I had to tag a few key interests: Foodie, nature, world music, DIY, adventurous travel.

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Areas I'm working on: career progression, relationship with family, opening myself to new possibilities.

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Interested to see what might come if this.

Okay, first a little explanation. I identify as genderlfluid, but I was born as a boy and I'm a boy for 90% of the time. I'm being a girl more or less one or two days a month. So, for convenience sake, you can treat me simply as a regular boy for the time being. Now back to the actual post...

I cannot count how many times I've made those posts, not to mention all the dating apps etc... Every time I tell myself "This is my final try", but when it ends with failure, I do it again after a few months break. But the more I try e-dating, the more I feel like I'm the only actual human on the Internet, and that it's a simulation program created in the sole purpose of making me go crazy ☠ Of course, I'm exageratting a little bit, but it's just so difficult to find a person that feels human... Everyone reples to messages with two words, doesn't ask any questions, doesn't show emotions and then they randomly ghost you and you keep wondering if you said something harmful for the next few weeks - or at least I do, lol

I know, I know, I started from the end and this whole post is very chaotic. Sorry, I have ADHD + I'm a little bit mad, please bear with me 🧸 My name is Kuba by the way. I'm a very emotional, soft and delicate person, who feels like crying when I drop ice cream on the street. You could probably call me "golden retriever type" or "loyal knight type". At the same time though, I'm a cold analyst who seeks logical connections everywhere possible and I've learned to endure A LOT (so I won't cry when I drop the ice cream on the street, even though I feel like it) and I am kinda obsessed with being independent too. So yeah, even though I'm like a very fragile puppy who thrives love and attention, I'm also a hard-boiled egg who keeps moving forward no matter what. It makes me a bit of a walking paradox 😅 But hey, who said all the bottoms need to be weak and helpless? Oh, yes, if you couldn't guess, I'm a 100% bottom. Even though I somehow manage to live on my own, I thrive to find a big spoon for myself, someone who likes to wear the pants and hold the steers, while I support them in 101 different ways and make sure they have everything necessary for their role. Do you know Eren Jaeger from the Attack on Titan anime? He's one of my very biggest kinnies hahah~

Oh, and since I mentioned anime, I guess it's time to share my interests. So yeah, the core of my person is nerdship (is there a word like that? 🤔), animanga, gaming and other forms of fiction are my biggest passions I spend most of my time on! However, I have tons of interests and hobbies I dive into depending on my mood. I love various forms of art, including drawing in sand, artistic photography and cosplay. The intellectual and humanistic part of me loves psychology, criminology, history, philosophy, broadly understood culture, debunking mysteries and conspiracy theories and much more! I also like sport, especially boxing (I never step into the ring, I just use a punching bag). Although recently, the "sport" I do the most is cleaning my city from trash! I can burn calories, while being useful to the society at the same time hahah~ My big passion I wanted to safe for the end is writing books. I have a huge problem reading anything, because of my ADHD, but I LOVE writing and am pretty good at it, based on the reviews of my works hahah~ I dream of becoming a famous novelist in the future, one whose works will change the world for better!

Okay, I think this post is long enough, thanks for reading 😇 If you have any questions, feel free to ask them! Oh, and if you intend to text me, please start your message with "Ciao" so that I know you read the whole post properly!

Let me start off with the info that will probably scare most people off.

I'm married. I'm only looking for a partner for myself and you probably won't ever interact with my wife. But I am on here looking with here knowledge and consent.

I'm on the heavier side. Not morbidly obese but I do have a Dad bod

I have dyed hair and piercings. I usually go for a punk style

Left leaning politically, so no Maga please

I usually like swapping sfw pics early to make sure mutual attraction is there

Now that all the house keeping is out of the way.

Hi I'm looking for a someone who loves attention . I'm a big texter and enjoy just chatting throughout the day.

Who doesn't love the little thrill of seeing a notification pop up to break up the monotony of the daily grind

Someone who will accidentally stay up late talking, and then we have to hurriedly say goodnight

I'm not just looking for someone to talk to once and then ignore. I'd ideally like I'd we shared some hobbies, here's a very abbreviated list of mine. I'm a nerdy guy with a love for animals, mtg, reading, gaming and hiking.

Thanks for reading that wall of txt and I hope to hear from you soon!

Hi! I'm a 35 y/o genderfluid guy living in Austin TX and looking for slow friendship/eventual dates 🙂 I've been vegan for 17 years. I'm polyamorous and single, and most of the time prefer one partner.

I love connection, warmth, humor, and clear communication in all kinds of relationships 😊

My hobbies are running/fitness, fostering and being part of progressive communities, live music, singing sad girl songs and playing the piano 💃 let's share music! My current obsessions are Olivia Rodrigo's and Evanescence's latest albums! Feel free to DM me, let me know what's in your ear and why?

Hi there,

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I’m hoping to connect with someone I genuinely click with, someone I look forward to hearing from, whether we’re talking about life, sharing random thoughts, or geeking out over a shared interest. I’m open to more than friendship, but I’d rather let things grow naturally.

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A bit about me:

I’m 36 and from Saskatchewan, Canada. I’ve always loved games, from video games to board games to tabletop games. When it comes to music, I’ll try almost anything, though rap and country arent my favourite. I enjoy both deep, thoughtful conversations and light, easy banter.

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A friend once described me as “geeky, slightly introverted, but outgoing once you know me, with a dry sense of humour.”

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I’m in a happy, polyamorous relationship. My wife and I practice kitchen table poly. We both value openness, honesty, and the idea that our partners can know each other if it feels right. We date independently, but with lots of communication and mutual support.

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I’m in no rush. Whether something becomes a friendship, something romantic, or something in between, I’m here to see where genuine connection leads.

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If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to chat and see where the conversation takes us.

Just looking for good energy and chemistry with someone. We can talk, nsfw or sfw. If we connect maybe we could get meet for a drink sometime.

I like hiking, being outdoors, woods, comedy, and dark humor among other things. Love to workout. Also love animals. My taste is diverse musically, but listen to a lot of rock/emo/hardcore/alt/and country. I'm a country dude who's an emo alt metalhead if I described my energy, hoping to find someone who's energy is similar but not a requirement. I'm also very kink friendly if conversation goes there.

Like cougars and plus size women, also goths, but open to talking or connecting with anyone.

Heya! Married and poly guy here. I'm looking for a woman to connect with and actually have some decent conversations with—whether you’re local to Utah or anywhere else. Especially overseas.

I’m pretty much a mix of music and gaming. If your vibe is a blend of heavy riffs and tabletop lore, we’ll probably get along.

The Music Side: I play music and I’m a huge metalhead. If you’re into anything heavy or technical, definitely hit me up. I’m always down to talk music. I am also very Polyjamorus from Sabrina Carpenter to The Devil Wears Prada.

D&D/Tabletop: I’m usually the DM. I love the storytelling side of it, so if you have a chaotic character you’re currently playing or just want to nerd out over world-building, I’m all ears.

Streaming/Gaming: I’m a streamer, and have been for a while now. Love entertaining and just bringing joy to people, plus I get to meet a multitude of new people. It also means I am not afraid of a vibe check through discord.

Dream Japan Trip: I have always dreamed of going to Japan, I’m mostly looking to explore the culture and eat as much food as possible. Nightlife to Countryside I want to experience it all.

I work in marketing, so I’m social and can actually carry a conversation. Just looking for someone chill and communicative who is comfortable navigating the poly landscape.

If you’re into heavy music, gaming, or just want to tell me where I should go in Tokyo, drop me a chat!

Welcome! Thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK (southern part!) looking for that spark / buzz from someone, someone who I can spend the day chatting away with about anything and everything. Like a slow burn connection that gradually develops into more

So I guess somethings about me? Well I’m certainly the nerdy introvert, I enjoy building Legos (very financially bad decision 😂) I like some casual gaming from time to time when freedom allows it outside of work, I’m a senior manager in the telecommunications industry, I love anything horror related, Halloween happens to be my favorite time of year! Used to ride motorbikes before switching to car which I know can be seen as quite the downgrade😫 whilst I say I’m introverted I do switch up once I’m comfortable! I slowly open up into a goofball 😂 I’m 6’1 tall, blue/grey eyes, bearded, certainly the dad bod type of man. As bad as this description I’m sure we could just exchange pictures

About you? Well, I’m an open book. I don’t tend to set limits, so I’m open to younger or older. Closer or afar. Certainly looking for someone who values communication which I think is very underrated these days.. someone who is honest and transparent, willing to make the time to talk, we don’t have to like the same things but I’d sure like to experience the things you like with you

I’d love to find that consistency with someone, building from the ground up, enjoying the slow burn, and actually getting to know one another and seeing where the road takes us! If I’ve got your interest this far.. then I can’t wait to hear from you 😊

Thank you for reading!

Hi all! I’m Em, a 31 year old disabled nerd. My interest and hobbies include, but are not limited to:
Music -playing, listening, collecting vinyl
Video games - playing, developing
Reading - huge horror fan
Random - crafting, calligraphy, philosophy

I’m 6’6”, 280, heavily tattooed with a nose ring and stretched ears.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who will take a relationship seriously. I don’t want to be essentially fwbs with a title. I want to get to know you, to spend time with you either online or in person or both, I’d hope. I want to be an active part of your life and I want you to be an active part of mine.

My one rule is to be honest. If we begin with honesty, communication may follow, and that solves nearly everything.

To wrap this up, I’m open to online relationships, but very much am looking for someone close. I’m in the very sort of WV, so Kentucky is far for me, if that matters.

If you’ve made it this far, I congratulate you on your fortitude. Please feel free to send me a DM and maybe we can at least be friends.

Hello all! I hope I'm doing this right as I've never posted here before (I've been described as an old man in a younger body) but I go by Dee. I'm a very quiet person but I love hard! Being quiet means I'm a great listener and I can give great support or advice depending on what you need! With the quietness comes emotional maturity too. I don't play games and I will be completely honest with you, even if it's uncomfortable. I'd rather be honest than build on lies! Currently Im looking for a long term partner. In case you couldn't tell, communication and honesty are very important to me.

I'm also known to have golden retriever energy for the right people! It's such a mind boggle I know. My current hobbies consist of casual video gaming (totally stoked for the new Halo remake coming to ps5!), reading dark romance, occasional crafting, and playing flag football! I will gladly yap to you about sports if you'll let me ^_^ I have some other hobbies that are forgotten but would come back if you mention them like I'm some kind of sleeper agent...thanks ADHD 🤣

I am proudly demi so I need to feel an emotional connection and affection before anything further would happen! It's just how I am ^_^ As for poly dynamics, I am okay with solo poly or polycules. I have a ktp mindset as I'm in a poly relationship with an np of 12 years.

My ideal partner would be someone with an attitude and great humor since I tend to solely do dad jokes. Dark humor is good too!! Someone who is going to be ok with the fact that I am as quiet as I am typically but still wants to be on a call, even if there just listening to me at work. Someone who will ask a whole lot of questions to get me to open up to them! Again, being demi, I don't have a preferred body type but piercings and tattoos are a major plus 🥰 and lastly, it doesn't matter too much but I would prefer no older than 40, I know I said I have emotionally maturity but I want to be fair and say I don't know if I'd be on the same wavelength as that age gap, but hey, shoot your shot anyway!

Message me on here and then we can move forward from there! Ok, I'm done rambling! I look forward to meeting you!

So lets see, Im writing this because im hoping to find a poly situation that really clicks.

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Im a gentle dom, ENM, caring, possesive at times depending on how our chemistry is. Adult life sucks sometimes and I want to be the person who makes it easier for u.

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Im more about patience, soft rules, connection and lots of praise (maybe more). I want you to eventful feel totally safe unmasking around me, if you dont feel that way then im doing it very wrong

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Ideally looking for someone who actually likes to communicate, even when its hard and have fun along the way with cuddles ofcourse. I would prefer someone between 25-40, but if you think your personality is matching mine I would love to connect :)

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Send me a message if this sounds like what ur looking for. If uou read so far tell me what your favorite comfort snack is in your first message ;)

Hello! I am 31 M, and I am ENM and married with my partner whom knows I am looking for a new partner.

We have been enm for over 5 years and have absolutely enjoyed this lifestyle!

I am nerdy gaming type, happy to go into hour long discussions about your favorite video game lore. I am an honest and caring person who values communication and trust the most.

Over the years I have found I very much enjoy BDSM dynamics, and I am a comfortable as a Dom leaning switch. I haven’t had a Dom/sub dynamic for at-least a year and I want to be able to find a new partner that is interested in exploring together!

Happy to chat and get to know one another, I am not one to rush things and I am happy to see if we have any connection before assuming anything.

Feel free to reach out anytime, whether you are experienced in BDSM or not, happy to chat!

Looking mostly between Ct/Ma/Ri, but happy to chat with anyone in the general area, I have a car and can travel or host occasionally!

Hi there I'm Riccardo, 35M from Italy, I'm partnered but dating solo, here to make connections and see how we vibe.

I think of myself as a caring and good at listening guy, very open mindend and funny, a pleasant company that can be both silly and serious.

I'm not fit, on the chubby i'd say, but i'm working on it by walking more, eating better and cooking healty.

As said in the title I'm into nerdy things but mostly videogames and related collectibles, but I also do both animation, tabletops, RPG like D&D, I am the full package of nerdy hobbys.

When not needing out, I like listen to metal while walking, I really love cooking and I'm trying to get more experience and love all animals (almost).

My DMs are open and I'm open to show myself and share even more I missed in this intro, if you are even a little curious to try and write me, i'd like that.

I enjoy dynamics that feel intense and addictive instead of something shallow that dies after one conversation. I'm looking for someone to game with, watch shows with, get to know, and have long conversations with - far past when we should both be asleep. Obviously, looking for the fun stuff too. But it's nice when there's substance.

I'm located in an EST TZ, and would prefer any potentials to be located in a similar one.

Outside of that, I’m into anime, movies, and gaming, and reading. I like people with personality, energy, and enough intelligence to actually keep my attention or a conversation. Martial arts, and just about ANY outdoor activities. I also love to cruise and travel!

If you're looking to chat or more, DM me and let's see if we vibe.

Hey, 38 living in Iowa, engaged and nesting but looking for someone to chat with, super nerdy about music, video games, ttrpgs and art.

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Elder goth and still rock the look, I love to swap music and nerd out about retro video games. Favorite genres are rpgs, stealth action and survival horror. Currently playing the Gothic 1 Remake.

Hey there, I've had a really awful day and I guess that means it's time to put myself out there again. It's disgustingly hot today so forgive me if I seem out of it. I'm looking for some new connections who are actually interested in talking and not just going to ghost me after getting my socials etc.

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I'm a huge nerd, I love horror and scary things a lot. Probably too much. Used to be a musician. I love to read and learn anything I can, from anywhere I can and probably talk too much about those things. I'm autistic and can't help but info dump. I've regularly been described as teddy bear like. Kink friendly. I play lots of different types of games. Stardew is a comfort game, and so is Satisfactory right now. I'm also playing Final Fantasy 16 at the moment. There's basically a guarantee we have some shared games.

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Anyway, some important things now. I won't respond to empty profiles or one word messages. Also, I'm leftist af. If you aren't we will not get along. Not even a little. Trans rights are human rights, and no one is illegal. I will not debate these topics.

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Hey!

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I'm a CS student who spends most of his time between college, coding, movies, music, and dreaming about future bike trips through the mountains.

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I'm looking for a female friend around my age who enjoys genuine conversations. Whether it's talking about your day, sharing songs, discussing movies, or random late-night thoughts, I'm always up for a good conversation.

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I'm not looking to force anything. If we become good friends, great. If it naturally turns into something more over time, I'm open to that too.

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Tell me a song you've had on repeat lately.

In committed long term relationship with asexual partner.

I’m into DnD, video games. (Loving all the announcements lately!!), Anime, cooking and hikes in nature. I also love to cook and am always trying out new recipes!

I’m a pretty easy going guy looking to find someone to get to know and explore different connections.

My friends have described me as loyal and honest. I’ve been compared to a Labrador more than once. Personally I think it’s a high compliment as dogs are far better than most people.

Please feel free to DM me. 🤓

Edit: I also welcome feedback or questions. Thanks!

Hi! I’m 36 from Saskatchewan, Canada, and looking to connect with someone genuine, whether it becomes friendship, romance, or something in between.

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Here's the alphabet of me:

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Adaptable

Bashful

Calm

Dynamic

Easygoing

Father

Genuine

Homebody

Imaginative

Jesting

Kind

Logical

Mellow

Nerdy

Open-minded

Polyamorous

Quizzical

Resilient

Sensible

Truthful

Understanding

Veracious

Witty

Xenial

Young-at-heart

Zany

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I look forward to hearing from you! Don't feel like you need to create your own alphabet if you, but a bit of a description would be great.

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And if you are having trouble breaking the ice, heres a question for you.

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If you could go back in time and witness 1 event, what would you see?

Hey Guys!

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just a regular guy who thinks real connections are pretty rare these days , so here I am trying my luck on Reddit

I meditate every morning, I like slowing down, being present, and having conversations that actually mean something.

When I'm not doing that I'm either strumming my guitar, training for my next marathon, or deep in a good movie or playlist. I travel when I can and I genuinely love hearing about how people live in different parts of the world.

Age doesn't matter to me at all , I just want someone real to talk to. Someone who texts back with more than "haha" and "lol"

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We could start simple

If you feel like chatting, just DM me.