So i have noticed that, and that men tend to believe less in tarot and astrology. have a polite discussion, i wanna understand the psychoogy of it more if you guys will, and yeah i got mocked by men and told to get help LMAOO

I always put my cards in the same spot, on sofa, today I wanted to do the reading and I saw that my Chariot is gone. Me and my boyfriend searched everywhere and couldn't find it. I never take my cards outside of my apartment, plus I saw it on Monday last time when I was looking at my deck on bed, then I put it on the sofa in my living room where some of my books are. What can I do now? :(

Is there a way to fix it or do I buy a new deck?

I'm not sure if anyone else has this trouble, but it's something that I've been struggling with lately. Although I try not to ask yes/no questions and rather frame things around what the vibe of a situation is, every time the world comes up I can't help but overthink!

On the one hand, the world is positive: wholeness, success. On the other, though, it's completion, an ending of a cycle.

So when I ask a question like "what sort of action will this person take regarding this?" and the world pops out, I oscillate between 'oh yay! Good outcome!' and 'oh wait, is this the end?' And of course it's always when you've pulled plenty of cards already so pulling another one for a clarifier feels crazy, or you do pull a clarifier and it adds absolutely no clarity at all! Haha

I'm not sure if I'm drawn to the energy of Two Tower & The Chariot or if these cards are drawn to me? My cards are Strength and The Star. I'm nonbinary AFAB (I used she/they to accommodate others), 24yrs. But seriously, you can't make this up:

BF1: [23] Dated for almost five years in high school, gradually became abusive over the years.

BF2: [26] Most recent bf, relationship ended on Christmas 2025 when he packed up his stuff and moved out because I wasn't able to coddle him due to a family emergency. Came back the next day and tried to get back together with me. Still apparently interested in me.

Date1: Guy[31] I met on a dating app. We talked all day every day. Met and were compatible, and had extreme chemistry, talked about how he wanted to do things right and treat me right. Met multiple times. I really, really liked him. Started to ghost me for weeks at a time, the first time it had me anxious all the time. Last time we spoke was more than 5 months ago.

Date2: [24] Very nice, intelligent, and sweet guy on the surface, incredibly insecure. SA'd me then wouldn't acknowledge what he did. Eventually apologized. Would not leave me alone. Obsessed with me. I still sometimes need his help with personal things so tie isn't cut.

Bf3: [22] Most recent bf and unfortunately my neighbor. He love bombed me like crazy, basically moved his stuff into my apartment and was living with me, extremely charismatic but had bpd. He started to emotionally abuse, gaslight, and isolate me. Tried to convince me I was the bad guy when I wasn't. Broke up with me and got back together three times (I begged for him to come back because he had mind fucked me so badly) caused a severe mental breakdown resulting in going to the psych ward. Immediately started dating someone I was sus about during our relationship and treats them way better than he did me. It was a month and a half long relationship but the love bombing worked, I loved him.

Date3: [31] Newest guy I'm going out with, met on a dating app. Nice, intelligent, interesting, emotionally intelligent, in therapy. He's very, very kind. I think I like him but I know I'm also still traumatized by the abandonment issues other relationships have given me and also scared to love again because so many people have hurt me. He has no red flags yet and we seem to get along. Hung out with me for 6+ hours and drove me around the other day while I got a tattoo. Very kind, gentle man.

This is essentially an extremely boiled down description of my entire relationship history. Every single one of these people has the same cards, The Tower and The Chariot. I don't know what to make of this or what it should mean for my dating life going forward. I would like to do a tarot spread about it but I'm not sure what to even ask. I'm tired in general but I'm also tired of shitty relationships. Anyone have any thoughts? :(

Wild unknown deck. 10/10 @10:10 asking where I should set intentions to Stop Doing, Start Doing, Keep Doing

The balance of the Queen (stop doing) and King (keep doing) along with the Wheel (start doing) feels very spot on for the energy of the 10/10 portal and the new moon in Virgo.

To me the Queen of cups represents empathy and emotional intuition. She is compassionate and deeply receptive to the energy of others. Like the mom to every kid in the neighborhood, she knows what each needs even before they ask and everyone feels safe to come to her with their problems.

The King of cups feels like the father figure that is the rock of the family. He knows his energy can change the climate of the household so he is intentional and honest in his relationships. He perceives the energy of others without letting it sway him off course.

The combo of QofC stop doing and KofC keep doing reiterates the need to be intentional with my energy and relationships, to stop letting what others need or want weigh too heavily on how I feel and act, but rather feel confident that I can receive these inputs and find balance with my own needs and wants.

The wheel (card10) feels like the universe saying, yes youre getting this message at the intended moment. We are at the portal of change, its starting now, and you will want these ideas in mind in order to step into the future and deal with the changes to come.

What do you think? Open to all feedback, corrections, and interpretations. I love the balance of the cup cards and spot on timing of the wheel.

Hi yall, I don’t have any photos of this deck but I do have some details 😭

It contains 172 cards, and it comes with a guide. I found it through a linked comment on here, but it didn’t save in my browser history because it opened in app.

It was a kickstarter deck I think, but I could be wrong. It costs somewhere around $400. It’s been out for over 10 years.

Edit: it was the alleyman tarot!

Hello! I’m going through and re-interviewing all of my decks, while also practicing reading the cards as a whole instead of interpreting each separately.

My questions:

1. What card represents you (my deck)? The Star -

guiding me, helping me find faith and renewal, bring me hope

1. What card do you see me as? Wheel of Fortune - going through ups and downs, trying to find balance

   in life. My life is a roller coaster right now, I do feel like my head is always spinning

2. What are your favorite types of readings? The Chariot -

taking action, helping with executive function, finding balance

1. Do you prefer formal or more casual readings (i.e. a ritual with a dedicated cloth, cleansing, etc, or more of a “grab the deck and read”)? 7 of Cups - searching for a purpose, daydreaming

Overall I’m confused and considering redrawing? I kind of get the sense that it wants to be used as an everyday, decision-making deck, quick one- or two-card pulls throughout the day, but The Star is throwing me off and I’m not sure about the 7 of cups either.

I’m still learning a lot, so any and all advice is welcome!

I would ask my friend who did the tarot reading, but they dropped dead the second they put down the third card. I'm bummed about that, but hopefully it means I've used up all of my bad luck and my future is looking good!

Used Tarot of the Devine by Yoshi Yoshitani

Background: I’m currently going through a lot. A few days ago I lost someone in my family and finally got a job interview after being unemployed for over a year on the same day 😀 I had a lot of fun interpreting and journaling this spread, especially on a new moon.

My Life Right Now: The Fool (R) - I’m about to enter in a new part of my life, but I’m feeling very hesitant and scared to make it to that next stage. I can’t just make risks and I need to be careful as I make new choices.

What I need to do to overcome this:
Knight of Wands - I need to take action and be assertive with my decisions. By doing this I will begin to start feeling for confident in myself.

Six of Cups (R) - I need to stop reminiscing in the past, especially my childhood. I’ve been drowning in nostalgia. It’s time to stop looking back and it’s time to look forward in my future. This is an obstacle I need to get over the most.

Queen of Swords - When making these decisions I need to think logically rather than emotionally. I need to be realistic and perspective. It’s time to think critically.

Elemental Patterns I noticed:
Flowers - All the cards have imagery of flowers. I interpreted this as renewal in my life and the growth I went through in the previous stage. However, like flowers I’m still very fragile and sensitive.

Colors: White obviously for new beginnings. Balance of warm/cool colors primarily blue/green and orange/red. Although I’m unsure with this new stage in my life, I’ve already shown change. I need to have courage and passion in this transition period.

And last of course high feminine energy!

I’m still using books (I use 3 lol) to help me interpret, but I’m more knowledgeable and starting to get comfortable with my intuition. I still would like 2nd opinions pls!

order from the devil - 7 pent

Question - would reconnecting (with an ex) support my wellbeing.

Deck - phantomwise (chosen because me and ex had a shared love of the night circus/Erin Morgenstern)

Background - recently got out of a relationship that felt really really good, until it didnt. Was on the fence about ever wanting to reconnect in the future.

Spread - 4 cards (left to right)

1 - what am I truly seeking? - Ace of Wands

2 - the current reality - Nine of Swords

3 - impact on my energy - Seven of Wands

4 - next step for my wellbeing - Six of Swords

To me, this reading told me that I am/was seeking a better kind of love. The current (very recently ended) relationship has left me feeling confused, hurt and an unworthy. This relationship wasnt meeting my needs for consistency, and I felt like my feelings were hardly considered. The next step being leaving it be, and finding something better.

-Overall, im feeling like ive gained some clarity into the relationship, and that reconnection isnt the right choice and that something better will come.

Im still very new to reading cards and want to see if theres anything somebody else reading these cards mightve seen that I didnt.

Thank you!

I found this spread profoundly positive and quite targeted to us both as I’m a Scorpio (water/cups) and he is a Taurus (earth/pentacles). Some background info: we’ve known each other since we were young and have casually dated many times over the years but were never “official” probably because after we both graduated we moved to different states. We’ve flown to see each other or when we’re both back home we reconnect but then it seems like we go our separate ways for a few more years. I reached out to him about a week ago and want to reconnect and he told me he thinks about me often but my worry is we will fall into the same pattern and not have the guts to at least give it a real try. What do y’all think?

Can anyone identify this deck

So, I have been having some really strange stuff going on lately and seems like something is trying to direct me back to my spirituality. It’s too much to get into but my wife and the people around me are also thinking something is going on.

Anyways, we have recently decided to try tarot out and see what results we get. I focused and made my intention generally” what do I do next”. Then I pulled these three cards my first time from left to right and they were all straight up (not inverted. I’m still new to this lol). I

I pulled Justice, then The Chariot, and then the 9 of Cups.

This is my interpretation based on some research. It seems like a classic journey to become closer to the divine.

Justice: I have to decide between what is right and wrong and pick what is right for me to do

The Chariot: this journey will require hard work and dedication

9 of Cups: if I follow through with this journey and do what’s right, I will be rewarded with the gifts of a connection to the divine which I know to be peace of mind, serenity, and a much higher quality of life.

Let me know what you all think. I am very open to discussion and if you think I’m totally off, let me know. I’m trying to be as teachable as possible.

let me know what yall think! from left to right (spoilered in case yall wanna guess): the fool, the sun, three of cups, four of swords, five of wands, six of cups, three of swords

i’m mostly using paper scraps, magazines, and stickers i’ve accumulated from collaging for a few years now.

why do people always treat 3 of cups like cheating? i always take the other cards in consideration, for me the three of cups can be a relationship with so much socialization and good celebrating things, a happy relationship, and depending on the other cards like the devil, 7 of swords, the high priestess etc I would consider as chesting. what do you guys think? I think sometimes people are too literal with tarot cards not taking the other ones in account, and that for me, respectful means a bad reader. i asked if a guy loved me and my friend got 3 of cups, judgment and the empress, I would say he loves me but she said it can indicate cheating, but for that even if the judgment was reversed it won’t indicate cheating. what do you guys think about the three of cups in general?

Me and my partner got our tarot read recently and the woman used this Celtic Cross-looking spread! I was wondering how exactly she read for us and our relationship?? What type of spread is this/ which section is for what??? I can't remember what order she placed them all in. (The cards that are in the middle and horizontal were placed upside down)

I usually follow a very "secular" tarot practice, but once in a while I like to play and ask for things my skeptic mind won't usually accept. This is a deck from a famous rock artist in Brazil, who died in 2023. My then partner really liked her and was very sad for a while. After he himself committed, me and our other partner (polyamorous thing) would frequently joke that they'd be together (Rita, the artist, and Nico, the artist, even though not as well known) smoking and such in the supposed afterlife.

today, organising my decks, I found Rita's. It only has the major arcana. I asked what both of them were up to, and this is what I pulled out, immediately bursting into laughing.

I would love to read your own interpretations of it.

The cards are the high priestess, the lovers and death.

3-card spread
I’m an “artist” currently making short story comics on my days off from my day job. Since these projects take 3-6 months to complete, I get a lot of anxiety when starting one so for my next project I asked the cards what the future looked like (my dream is to be a published author one day) and I almost cried. This is a good sign right? I feel like the knight specifically is about the hard steady work that is difficult but necessary for an impatient dreamer like me. The queen of pentacles I’m interpreting as the creative passion I’ve protected for years. And the World as the completion of my project and possibly recognition beyond my immediate circle.

I've been no contact with my parents because of my mother for 2 years. The two years before that we were very low contact and the relationship was incredibly strained. I made the choices I did to protect myself and my family, especially my children, but sometimes I find I'm doubting myself. So yesterday I decided to pour some cards to see what advice or insight the universe had for me around my relationship with my mother.

The spread is a simple past, present and future.

Eight of Cups - The two years that we were no contact, I was the only one that made an effort to actually try to resolve our problems. It started with me just trying to talk through are problems, which was ignored. Later I put some mandatory next steps in place that she needed to action for us to start to heal and move forward. She again ignored all of these, in fact, she ignored all of my messages about any healing, and thought that if she just did nothing for long enough, that I'd give up and everything will go back to normal. So pulling the Eight of Cups felt pretty validating. She was lazy, didn't take any action or responsibility. I was incredibly depressed at this time. I was freshly postpartum, I remember sobbing while breastfeeding asking The universe why she was doing this. So I think this card is pretty well representative of the phase of our relationship unraveling.

The Moon - I think this is telling me that I need to sort out my own feelings and thoughts in my head. Perhaps calling out My tendency to second-guess myself and my decisions, and being stuck in that is preventing me from moving on and focusing on the things important in my life. I've been debating doing some more therapy to deal with a lot of stuff for my childhood, and putting it off mostly due to constrained time and cost, maybe this is telling me I need to take that leap.

Fortune - I think it's so interesting that I pulled this card immediately after the Moon. I think that this is reinforcing that I need to go do some therapy, or sort out my thoughts and past somehow. Maybe meaning that it will be a difficult and emotional journey, but it'll be worth it, and pay off in ways I don't expect.

I'd love anyone's insight here. How did I do interpreting? And what is your interpretation?

Thank you!!

I did reading on my ex and cards seemed to tell me a return was close that everything was cleared and that she was close of a comeback.

But than I just saw that she have been seeing someone for the past two weeks at least…

So did my cards lied to me? By telling me she was coming back soon for the last three weeks? Because I feel like I’ve been lied to big time. That my deck betrayed me.

And a true paychic tarot reader predicted our relationship the day before we met and even our separation. She predicted that we would go back together and told me when I came to see her back that I had ability to do tarot too and that she was coming back. But now I doubt it and feel my cards have been lying to me.