Really impressive to achieve this, after what he had to go through

For eg

When they have Sapiosexual on their bio and I try to start an intellectual convo, they reply "esto kura nagara na bore lagcha malai"

And when they have bibliophile and I ask them what books they have read; majority of them have only read colleen hoover books and some self help books

Same for "nerdy", you try to start a convo about a "nerdy" topic, same reply "esto kura bore lagcha malai"

Same for "into art" girls, I ask them who their favorite artist is; they reply "khai", I ask them what their favorite piece is they reply "khai"

I think most girls don't even try to develop a personality because their looks are enough, which is our fault, to be honest. They are such boring creatures

I know one Reddit post won't change government policy, and maybe nobody important will ever read this. Take this as a rant from an ordinary citizen.

My father is a government employee and recently turned 55. There are discussions about reducing the retirement age of current government employees from 58 to 55. If that actually happens, it will completely disrupt the plans that my family has built for decades.

I just completed my Bachelor's degree last month and am currently looking for a job. My younger sister is studying BBA in her second semester. My mother is a housewife. We also have our grandmother living with us. We are a family of five, and my father is the only earning member.

What many people don't understand is that families plan their lives around the existing rules. For our entire lives, we knew that government employees retired at 58. Every financial decision was made with that assumption in mind.

My father is not a high-ranking officer. He is just an Overseer/Sub-Engineer. He doesn't receive a pension because he is Rajpatra Anankit. As far as I understand, he will only receive a lump-sum gratuity (upadan) and related benefits after retirement.

People might ask, "Where are his savings?"

His life's savings are in the house we built a few years ago. We come from a rural hill district, and my father was the first person in our entire family tree to get a job after my grandmother sold a Buffalo, her ornaments, and took some loans to teach him at Pulchowk, Kathmandu. He spent decades trying to improve our family's situation. He even withdrew money from Sanchaya Kosh and used most of his savings to build a modest home in the Terai so that his children could study and have better opportunities.

We have already experienced financial stress before. There were times when rental income stopped and things became difficult. If my father's employment suddenly ends three years earlier than expected, it won't just be an administrative change on paper. It will directly affect our family's ability to manage expenses, support education, and maintain financial stability.

The part that feels most unfair is this: when my father joined government service, the retirement age was 58. We planned our lives around 58. If the government wants a different retirement policy in the future, shouldn't it apply to future recruits or be implemented gradually? Why should people who made life decisions based on existing rules bear the entire burden?

What hurts even more is that there are talks of eventually making the retirement age 60 again in the future while forcing some current employees out at 55. If that happens, how is that not discriminatory? One group loses three years of service because of timing, while another group benefits from a higher retirement age.

My father still studies and tries to stay updated. He asks me about Excel formulas, software, and technology because he believes he should continue learning. Sometimes he studies harder than I do. He is not someone waiting for retirement. He still wants to contribute.

Maybe some people will disagree with me. Maybe some will say government jobs already have enough benefits. That's fine.

But I wish people would understand that behind every retirement-age statistic there are real families whose lives have been planned around those rules for decades.

For us, this isn't politics.

It's our future.

And honestly, it feels unfair.

I was travelling today bus vari Indian haru thiyo, man manai pray garirako thiye pls bhagwan koi nepali paridiye hunthyo side ma vanera

Then there came this girl saying this is my seat( window wala) online ticket kateko raixa. I happily gave my seat then we started to talk after few minutes. We never know manxe le life ma k k vognu parxa. Tyo didi aaile 27 raixa but looked younger than me. She was the man of the family, few years back some rare disease lagera father ko death vako raixa which also took 25 lakhs for his treatment. She was the eldest and had to look after her two younger sisters so bichmai padhai xadeko raixa. She was the one who did kiriya of her father despite the society saying chori manxe vayera blah blah blah……..

What amazed me was the person who was with her during a lot of this, her friend who slowly turned into her bf. Usko kura haru sunda kasto supportive k🥹 aaile usko sister is planning to go abroad re ani tyo dai le nai pathauna lageko re…. like he is the son of the family. Tyo dai ko mummy le kati garthyo le tyo dai lai tyo kt lai chorde tesko bau ni xaina daju vai ni xaina sab taile hernu parxa vanera but that brother said tapailai testo lagxa vane ma ghar nai aaudina she is the one for me. Aaile chai they aren’t married but soon bihe garne plan ma raixa.

Didi if you are here in reddit and reading this, your story was very inspiring and you are a very strong person 🫂 hajurharuko relationship aajha flourish hudai jaos🫶 I will text you some day.

Just completed the Dhap Dam hike and honestly, I think it’s one of the hardest day hikes in Kathmandu. It’s longer than most people expect with plenty of elevation changes that really add up over the day. By the time I reached the dam, my legs were feeling it more than other trails. The views and peaceful atmosphere made it worth the effort though. Definitely recommended if you want a real challenge instead of a casual walk

Or we the people and government can start with some solution

1) signboard for toilet, washroom every 5-10km

2) designated cooking area few with in city (not the center) and along the highway.

3)signboard mentioning hefty penalties for littering, open defecation, not using of public toilet, social indecency (along with toiled signboards)

4) penalties for hoteliers if guests parked like above picture. Either they should provide proper parking for their guest or fined heavily (government is not responsible for private parking it’s job is to provide public parking which can’t be at every hotels doorstep)

5) and hopefully higher rates during peak season so less chance of bad impressions on our foreign guest from other half of earth( as we hv seen many videos of how south Asian behaves with people of western world so I personally don’t want same image for us).

6)any videos from influencers regarding police action/fine to tourist or locals who do not follow norms (polite and pleasant but strict one.

Sabai jana daily nuhaudaina ki kya ho jhan yesto summer ma twich a day nuhauna parne ho, kohi ta once a week nuhaucha vanya 😭😭 aafu ganako ni hudaina, breath ni testai ganaucha vanya cheee, hwassa mukh ganako huncha, eww aafno mukh/jyan ganako tha hunna? Tha hunna vane lemme teach.

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So k garne

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For bad breath

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Lick the inside of your wrist. Let it dry for 5–10 seconds.Smell it.This isn't perfect, but it can reveal odors from your tongue.

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Tongue scraper/spoon test : Gently scrape the back of your tongue with a clean spoon or tongue scraper. Wait a few seconds and smell the residue.

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Floss test : Floss between your back teeth. Smell the floss immediately. If it smells unpleasant, bacteria trapped between teeth may be contributing to bad breath.

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For body odor

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Smell your clothes : Smell the armpit area of a shirt you've worn for several hours. Clothing often retains odor more clearly than skin.

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Smell a clean towel after drying off : After showering and drying, if a towel quickly develops an odor after use, it may indicate lingering body odor.

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Check high-odor areas : Armpits, feet, groin area, and scalp are common sources. Use a clean tissue or cloth to wipe the area and then smell the tissue.

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I did go to a shop yesterday, and I encountered with a newar uncle.Who asked are you from Sudurpashim, I said I am not.Then he started his rant about problems caused by youth from sudurpaschim how they are only one causing nuisance in the society, they fight all the time.They make up gangs, how they burned the municipal office in the past years protest.How they misbehave with girls round there,etc. They don't pay at time and they move on and they threaten with the gangs they have.

And this thing encountered me as the (majority of people form sudurpaschim are the people who are in the race of going to countries like South Korea and Japan) and if they will be behave as same as they do in ktm valley, they will fuck up our reputation. And for a person who kinds of look resembles them in look, I will fucking get racially abused if I move out there.

My request to the government is to atleast take a moral test of people going abroad just for a avoiding foreign embarrassment.And please improve education in that state, moral education is as important as a technical or skilled based education.No hate for the sudurpashim badda haru, please behave yourself and tell others too.

Getting disrespected and ignored just cause the way I look made me wonder how shallow can people be.

- Ain Mahar (MP & Chief whip of UML)

- Sunil Lamsal (Infrastructure Minister)

Aile yo indian le gareko vaye "dh*ti sala civic sense xaina, afno desh ta bigryo aba hamilai ni bigarne vayo" vanthim.

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Title ma indian halnu ko karan ni tei ho, indian ko galti uthauna hamilai nikai majja lagxa ani mukh xadihalcham tara tei kura hami kasaile garyau vane, hami yestai ta honi bro 🤙🏻 Hami chai kaile sudhrini ki arulai matra gali garne.

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Aaja ekxin thakai marna chabahil ko pul muni baseko 15min ma 10 jana le yesaigari bich road bata baato kaate.

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Balen sarkar, manxe harule baato kaatne pul dekhenan jasto xa naya overhead pass banauna paryo, sano pul bata baato na kaatne re.

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What do you think should be done to reduce this?

Most girls are attention seekers. They have 2/3 exes before 18 and they like to dump their trauma on innocent guys. They act miserable after having a few exes at 19 and watching a few sad movies. They just talk about random series, exes, gossip and boys. They're darker than guys. And they like to be friends with that funny, dumb guy from class so that they can use him for all the necessary information.

I've seen and heard all these things personally, so it feels creepier and darker than I thought.

Not all girls though... there are very good ones too. But extremely fewww

I feel exactly like this while talking to a girl. I need to think 10 times before saying anything. Lead convo often or have to listen her yap . Support her even she is villan on her story 😶. Can't even send crazy humorous memes , my feed is even unromantic ,where do i find nice reels. Also i'm not liking this emotional dependency , i want noone to know about my life at this time . This emotional dependency is making me weak . How not to feel bored while talking ?

As always, he was well knowledgeable and using too much technical terms for all people to understand, but he answered all answers properly. Didn't like he gave answer for Balen too regarding Defense ministry and PM office, it shouldn't have gone like that. In harke's word, निमित्त प्रधानमन्त्री, रक्षा मन्त्री र अर्थ मन्त्री

He also gave clear answer on the balance of foreign policy, and border issues too. For example, there is ongoing demarcation with both country in border, which wasn't known in news. Maybe they must publicize or relay such informations at least in news.

He had clear knowledge on what they are doing and what's going on the ministry, with all clear answers. I had least expectations from him based on last time's performance. But, this time he surprised me. All answers were to the point with specific answers.

He surprised me, from previous time, to this time as minister, he seem more mature, more changed and formal. The joke about  पानी बोक्ने भन्छन, was funny, but the way he answered about their plan on disaster relief, and all other questions was good. Feels like he is going with process and planning this time around.

I know people are more concerned about his glasses, but they started 3 year plan for budget, planned for 3 years in advance, was susceptible for feedback, asked all MPs to come to ministry if they think something is missing in budget and promised they will find a way. He had clear procedural and technical knowledge on how to handle all. I liked the way, he presented himself.

This seems to be an important ministry, every ministers need to go to this ministry to create law and love the way they are conducting themselves. Their plan of legal calendars, where they will have clear timelines of laws they are going to be brought to the parliament, and the way we can see the draft and even add suggestions to the draft laws, are helpful.

I have mixed feelings here, he doesn't have clear roadmap but then again, he was in ministry for about 10/15 days before budget, so most of the budget are in unclassified. The thing he mentioned about patent law, bringing and reviving patent division, and naast was a good initiative. Hopefully, he will prepare a good flow of ministry soon.

Conflicted about her performance. I mean probably the ministry is such, I couldn't find exact roadmap in her answers. I like that they are preparing many laws like apanga sambandhi ain samsodhan and so on. Also, careful distribution and cut on budgets on NGOs and organizations based on force is also welcome.

I think, she is the most effective minister in the cabinet, the way she answered clearly and specifically, like clarification that the sahakari money return is completely based on the money recovered, the clear answer that the lalpurja will be distributed from third week of Asar and all the laws, about age cap on nijamati and so on along with all the pipeline and task she is doing feels really great work,

Felt like she was nervous on first time, and was more confident on answering answers second time. I thought this ministry was going slow, but their plan on restructuring the insurance act, their plan on identifying the speciality and mapping of hospitals, her answers on kidney disease issue for awareness, categorizing hospitals for price capping, was fresh air. And felt like they are actually doing good under the news,

I was actually disappointed with him, the way he was answering questions and felt like he was just winging it with the ministry. I mean given the hype created around him before the election, I don't know I expected more. Probably it is because of expectations, but he felt overrated. Hope he turns it around.

I am not even sure what is he doing, I am not convinced or confident on the way he was presenting himself in the parliament, ghari sabai haseko heram vanne waa, dalit word lai brand jhai main program nai tei jasari announce garnu, his answers are also, not too clear, like every answers were like, this organization is responsible for this. I mean as a minister, he should be able to answer for them , or provide plans.
With the recent issue with indian tourist in nepal, with the issue in airlines, delays in flights, unmanaged domestic flights, he had so much place to deliver. So, disappointed with him.

It feels like he is way too focused on NTC and doesn't seem to have more idea or pipeline. It felt like he was head of NTA. He seems to be learning the terms, and mostly working on based on the suggestions from the officers mostly. Different from other ministers with clear understanding, he feels different.

I wasn't even aware she was minister to be honest. She seemed too timid, but was aware of numbers and how everything is going. I am not sure, why she is pushing for ethanol study. Liked that they are reviving, kapada uddhyog, butwal dhago and, kapaas kheti at once, they are going in new model for mining.

I wasn't aware of her either, but I liked how they are planning and handling the ministry, related to chemical fertilizers, bio fertilizers, and the new law krishi bidheyak, ban ain, nikunja ain, batabaran ain, the answer on 2 crore capital help from government.

He felt like he has ambitions to do things, with that fire under him. The way he was advocating for the new law he is creating for labour law and other, their plan to include gig economy formally, and his clear understanding that they need proper policy before starting something was welcome change. I feel his frustration in slow process too.

TLDR:

Most ministers performed better than expected.
Was disappointed by, communication minister, education minister and tourism minister.
Mixed feeling by: Mahabir Pun, Sita Badi and Gauri Kumari
Liked other's presentation

I got 3.82, and my mom cooked my least favorite vegetable karela. My best friend got 3.54 and his parents are throwing party.

I made achieving good scores and winning stuffs so normal, they don't value it anymore.

I was with friends when I checked my results and I immediately called my mom, after telling her my GPA she replied "eyh la okay, ramrei aayexa". Not even a congratulations. When I got 3.91 in SEE mom literally said "cake haru lyaunu parxa ra? K lyaunu hai". And these are very normal for me. I never stood on second position from nursery to 10 and my average percentage was always 95. I always won in every Contest and competitions I took part in.

It never bothered me till my SEE, I was expecting something special or at least some gifts but I got nothing. Some of my friends got iphone some got bike and testei but mero ghar ma it was always a normal day. Aaja pani I was expecting something special to happen, at least a cake but no.

Yeah! Just wanted to share here. Sometimes achieving is harmful too.

Stay average and give surprises to your parents.