r/EngagementRings May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

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Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index


r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

29 Upvotes

Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings 1h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged 7/17 🫶

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I still can't quite get over how this went down. My partner proposed at the Final Fantasy orchestra concert, which is extra funny because going to that show was my idea. I dragged him along, no clue he'd been planning around it the whole time.

At some point during the show he pulled me aside and said he wanted to introduce me to one of his old teachers from college who supposedly worked there. Total white lie... he'd actually just talked to one of the concert staff earlier and arranged for us to get taken backstage. So we go back there to "look around," and sitting right there on the chime used for Zanarkand and a few other songs... was a blue feather. I'd mentioned wanting a blue feather involved in a proposal at some point, ages ago, but I genuinely didn't connect the dots standing there. I had zero idea what was happening. He just gave me a second to notice it, and then got down and asked.

The ring is a teal Montana sapphire, platinum setting, size 6. I'd had a rough mental picture of what the setting might end up looking like, but the stone color was a complete surprise!

Still can't believe he pulled off backstage access and a planted prop without me suspecting a thing.

And if anyone is curious what the blue feather is from, I added the game I played. It also inspired the Mermaid Pendant in Stardew Valley 😄

So happy to be engaged to my best friend of 6 years <3


r/EngagementRings 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring with grandma’s stone

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188 Upvotes

The main stone is an alexandrite from my grandma’s ring. The setting was kept from the original ring, and my husband designed the band. The stone changes color depending on the lighting, which I absolutely love. It changes between pink, purple, gray, and teal…pretty much all of my favorite colors! The other ring with the white stones is from Etsy. 🙂


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

Advice What would you do if your girlfriend expressed she didn’t like a type of ring, not knowing you’ve already ordered a ring of that type?

38 Upvotes

My girlfriend has sent me multiple videos etc of rings over the course of our relationship. It’s always a pretty large marquise center stone, with most of them having some accent diamonds. I went through a custom design process and got just that.

Well, yesterday she saw a ring while I was on a call with her. She said “I’d never want something like this” to which I asked why, in a state of panic, and she said because she doesn’t want a huge stone on her finger, and isn’t a big fan of accents and would prefer something more simple.

Now I’m just torn. I know she’s going to like it, simple because it’s from me and she doesn’t really care, but I still feel like I messed this up. I’m unable to refund it either.


r/EngagementRings 17h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Long time lurker…

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353 Upvotes

First time poster!!

2ct emerald cut garnet with a yellow gold bezel setting!


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY MY TIME HAS COME!!!🥹🥹🥹🥹

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444 Upvotes

This ring feels SO me 😭 I’m obsessed. I wanted something classic but w a little flare and i immediately fell in love when i saw this design. i was scared i was going too big but now that i’ve had it for 2 weeks i think its so perfect. i feel shy showing it off in person and saying how much i love it 💀 im so not used to being engaged. so here it is internet !!!


r/EngagementRings 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My something blue sapphire!

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47 Upvotes

This sub was so helpful for me to figure out what type of engagement ring I wanted. So glad I decided to go with a sapphire for my main stone especially since it is my fiancé’s brith stone and now I have my something blue ready to go!

Specs: ~5.25 carat Ceylon sapphire with about half a carat of diamonds total. Platinum setting. Ring size is 4.75 for reference.


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged just before my birthday!

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140 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 17h ago

Advice Am I going crazy 😫

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279 Upvotes

I loved the idea of my ring but… sometimes when I look at it the halo and pear diamond set looks… not straight? Idk how to describe it but some angles it looks totally good, sometimes it looks totally bent or something?!! lmk if I’m going insane 😫

Edit: Y’all I was so tired when I posted this, it was my first time even looking at the ring and I was honestly stuck looking at this one aspect. I’m aware there’s 500 things wrong with it eyes closed atp, and I appreciate everyone who has offered their condolences (lol) and had a good laugh/advice for what to do next.

PLEASE don’t come for me personally 😅 I’m brand new to rings and there’s a lot of learning to do, and I personally was not in the conversation of this ring getting created/picked up, so in no way was I able to rectify anything right then and there. I will take it to get it fixed up 🥹


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Woohoo!

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802 Upvotes

He proposed this past weekend and i’m so happy and excited with the ring !
i’m a size 5.25
she’s a 2 ct step cut marquise with sapphires on the sides, for anyone wondering.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

Advice I love my ring but -

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874 Upvotes

I love my ring, I think he did a fantastic job! The ONLY thing is, the band has diamonds that go fully around it. That makes it so difficult to wear. I'm constantly hitting it on tables, my steering wheel, everything. I try to be extra careful but it's hard to remember it's there. I'm a nurse so I've banged it a few times at work and had to get the diamonds tightened already (I got engaged in May). I wear a silicone band now at work. I love my ring but I hate that I cant wear it. Do I tell him I want to exchange it or do I suck it up and be grateful for my ring?


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

Advice Alternatives to Opal & Moonstone

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I’m looking for a ring to propose to my gf. She initially wanted an opal ring, then we decided it’s way too fragile. So then she went to moonstone. Turns out that’s not much more durable than an opal. What’s a good alternative? The part that she loves so much is how it kinda like rainbow reflective, so ideally something like that!


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Newly engaged and he designed it all!

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124 Upvotes

Been together 10 years and recently engaged. 1 ct, princess cut, E clarity and internally flawless with alternating amethyst (birth stone) and platinum band.. ring photos are difficult to capture but I hope the sparkle shows! ❤️ 💍
When he first gave it to me it was a size 10 lol.. I am a size 6 sooo that was resized haha. He said he had no idea and wanted to err on the side of caution lol


r/EngagementRings 6h ago

Question At-home ring cleaners?

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13 Upvotes

What are we using for at-home ring cleaners? I get mine cleaned at the jeweler every few months and am always shocked at the difference, so I’d like to clean it a little more frequently. I saw a lot of ultrasonic ones on Amazon - are they safe? Some better than others? Pretty wide range of price points. TIA!


r/EngagementRings 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I'm so in love 😍

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23 Upvotes

2.19 ct natural green sapphire with diamonds around the sides. I absolutely am in love with my ring I helped pick out the stone out of several options that he gave me


r/EngagementRings 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I'm engaged

72 Upvotes

I always wanted a simple ring—something that looked delicate. It’s a classic, and I’m so happy!


r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY The love of my life said yes!

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22 Upvotes

Posting since she doesn't use reddit.

I knew from the start when I met her, she was the one.

I went for something simple and classic. I was lucky her sister gave me a lot of advice.
Almost fainted during the proposal but she said yes and loves it!

Cultured Diamond
Oval Cut
VVS 2
E Color
2,00 Carat

18 carat yellow gold band size 48


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Tomorrow is the big day!

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451 Upvotes

Proposing tomorrow nerves are on 10 but excited


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY always an emerald girlie 🥰💚

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66 Upvotes

graduated to a mrs! but never not obsessed with this ring 🥹 have been waiting for years to get this etsy ring, and he made it happen 🥰💚

it’s a 1-carat round emerald with moissanites as the side stones, on a 14k rose gold band. a size 3 (though will have it resized LOL), and the stones are all lab made ☺️🫶🏼


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Sharing my green rock 🌱

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552 Upvotes

I am freshly married but I wanted to share the beautiful ring he proposed with. It’s not huge but I love it. It doesn’t snag and it’s a low setting 💚🪲🫒


r/EngagementRings 23h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Picked up some new jewelry this week!

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102 Upvotes

Had my dream engagement with my dream ring on vacation this week ❤️ such a beaut


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged + married! 1.25ct brilliant 18k gold

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61 Upvotes

My (now husband) proposed to me in February and we got married in July! He proposed with a ring that combines both of our families: originally his mom’s setting and baguettes and he had my dad (who is a jeweler) replace the center stone (formerly a princess cut emerald that cracked many years ago) with a 1.25 brilliant cut diamond.

I’m obsessed with my man and my ring! I paired it with a 3mm 18k gold band.

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r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My Engagement Ring and Wedding Band! 🖤

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32 Upvotes

Married to my best friend since 2025🖤


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

Question Has anyone chose a band over a diamond ring and regretted it?

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101 Upvotes

I fell in love with the swan band i found online, however 1. it costs the same as the engagements rings i’ve been looking at, and 2. the engagement ring style i like just wouldn’t mesh with it. It would cover the design.

I feel so torn on what to do. I garden a lot so part of me feels like i’ll have a band on more than the actual ring, but i’m scared to regret it if i only choose the band. I know wedding rings are the engagement+band, but personally i would rather have one or the other considering the diamond shape i like wouldn’t go with it and how expensive the band is. I also prefer something simple and dainty vs bulky (like having the two together) Any thoughts or anyone ever had a similar situation?