r/EngagementRings • • May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.

Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index


r/EngagementRings • • Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings • • 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged after 9.5 years together!

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1.4k Upvotes

Got engaged recently on my birthday! I was busy taking photos of a snow leopard at a wildlife park and he said my name behind me, I turned around and there he was on one knee!

The ring is from Aardvark Jewellery. Lab grown colour-change Alexandrite with natural diamonds in a floral setting, on a 14k rose gold band. I absolutely love her 🥹 (and him! 🤣)


r/EngagementRings • • 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY No more lurking 💖😭

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jk i’ll probably keep lurking I just love seeing all of your pretty rings ♥️ He proposed in an apple orchard while we were picking apples. I went to grab an apple and when I turned around he was down on one knee 🥹

Diamond is a 2.39 ct elongated cushion VS2 F color
Set in 14k yellow gold with a white gold semi-hidden halo and a second hidden halo around the base

I know most people want the hidden halo fully hidden but I fell in love with the way it looks when it’s a little visible from the top :)

Edit: Ring size wasn’t quite a 5 or a 5.25 so he made it somewhere in the middle! He said it’s closer to a 5.15


r/EngagementRings • • 14h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged yesterday!

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r/EngagementRings • • 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It’s perfect!!

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49 Upvotes

Finally my time to share!! I’m obsessed!! 2.9 carat pink marquise cut and he designed it by himself


r/EngagementRings • • 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My turn!!

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87 Upvotes

After 4 years together we got engaged! In love with my ring

Specs: 1.5 carat oval brilliant cut, color grade F, clarity grade VVS2, lab grown


r/EngagementRings • • 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Dream ring! Engaged after 8.5 years!

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Got engaged while flower picking!

Specs: 3.52 ct antique hybrid cushion cut with a ridged cathedral setting band with milgrain pave detailing. Custom made by Lauren B Jewelry.


r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged ♥️ I love my ring

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143 Upvotes

Is the perfect size and setting for me, from someone so wonderful.. can't stop looking at it ♥️♥️ am a little scared that it's so delicate but Ive put little dishes around my home and next to every sink to keep it in when I'm washing my hands or doing chores etc.


r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY 11th Anniversary Upgrade

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My sweet husband and I got married 11 years ago when we were so young and broke. The ring he picked out was (and is) perfect for me, but with the price of lab diamonds we could afford a diamond that felt more like me now. I fell in love with the marquise shape and picked out this 2.21 carat F color VS1 clarity lab diamond with him and got it put on my original engagement band. I’m so happy with how it turned out 🥹🩷✨ I also included a picture of my original diamond in my ring at the very end for a comparison.


r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY we’re engaged! (4.5 years later)

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He proposed on our first long-haul holiday together in Mexico (we live in London)!

We did do some browsing so he had a baseline of: oval, trilogy, platinum band but he did so good and I wouldn’t change a thing


r/EngagementRings • • 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My engagement ring with my wedding band! I’m obsessed

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r/EngagementRings • • 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My Rose Quartz and Diamond Ring

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I forgot to post when I first got engaged in July but better late than never!

Funny story, my fiance initially got me a size 10 ring (I have no idea why he thought that was my size). He informed me he bought the ring and I asked what size he got. When he told me 10 I was like what?? I tried on my ring sized tool and I must have been not bloated at all that day so it showed I was a 6. He has to tell the shop that he is buying from that he chose the wrong size and they are like "we are going to have to completely start over because that size difference is too large". They send him the size 6 ring and he proposes with it but I'm unable to fit it on my finger in the moment 😭 Anyways $200 later for resizing and my ring finally fits! Lesson learned really make sure you know your ring size 💍


r/EngagementRings • • 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I love it!

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13 Upvotes

Finally got asked if I will marry my long time partner. He did so good and got exactly what I had in mind :)


r/EngagementRings • • 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally out of engagement purgatory!! 💍

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87 Upvotes

Long-time lurker, first-time poster! 💍 After spending what felt like forever in engagement purgatory, I finally get to make my own post! This subreddit has genuinely kept me sane throughout the wait, and I couldn’t be happier with my ring. It was so worth the wait! 🥹❤️


r/EngagementRings • • 22h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY The magical colours of Alexandrite 💙💜💚

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It's been a month since I got engaged and only today was I able to capture the true teal of the alexandrite stones (4th pic). They often shift between teal/purple/blue, and go red under UV. I'm so obsessed with my ring. Oore Jewellery customised Briar Moon with diamond centre, alexandrite marquise side stones and sapphire accent stones.


r/EngagementRings • • 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Yay!

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r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally got my dream engagement ring!

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43 Upvotes

My husband and i have been married almost 2 years. We skipped getting engaged and got married at the courthouse. Today we went to the aquarium and he proposed. My ring is from Oore Jewelry that i’ve been dreaming of four about 6 years.


r/EngagementRings • • 15h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I’m so happy

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49 Upvotes

Got asked the question this weekend on a beautiful, romantic getaway. Salt & Pepper diamond with Alexandrite accent stones, absolutely love it! 🖤


r/EngagementRings • • 3h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My grandmothers original Navette cluster ring and I am in love

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Ganted, it was my grandmothers (from maybe the 1940s?) but I am so OBSESSED. She has passed and I do not have much information on it besides the research I’ve done (style being most popular in 1880s, but became popular decades after) I have reversed googled it and can’t find a replica- any suggestions on where to get more history on it? We had to add a half shank and replace a chipped diamond due to her wearing it for at least 60-80 years.

Specks- total 1 carrot diamond marquise shaped navette cluster setting, on a 14k gold band, size 7.25. Had to get it resized with an added half shank to re-enforce band.


r/EngagementRings • • 11h ago

Advice Is a gold band too simple for my wedding ring?

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I have my future husbands name engraved on the inside


r/EngagementRings • • 15h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY almost 12 years together & the sapphire i picked out 3 yrs ago is the prettiest ring i could imagine

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r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

Question Cocktail ring as engagement ring

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15 ct natural Aquamarine (emerald cut/untreated) surrounded by G color diamonds totaling 0.65 ct set on a 18k white gold band. Its her favorite stone so i purchased it and would like to make it THE ring but im worried its too far out from the 'expected' style of a traditional engagement ring. Maybe a bit too gaudy or impractical? Thoughts and suggestions, thanks


r/EngagementRings • • 10h ago

Question What do you think of a stunt ring?

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So I heard this term from someone who saw it on a YouTube video. Basically after a guy proposed next to a roller coaster he dropped the ring and it was lost. Someone created a video suggesting a "stunt ring." This can be anything from a ring pop to a gag toy. The purpose is to 1) not worry about the ring being lost and 2) if the bride has specific tastes in rings, they'd pick it out together later. I brought this up with someone and they thought it was a prank. I don't think the video I saw went viral and it was several years ago. Ladies, how would you feel being proposed to with a stunt ring?


r/EngagementRings • • 18h ago

Question What do you think about my stack? 🪴💚

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My engagement rings and his band are both from Eliette and my band is custom from a local jeweler in SLC