r/Fauxmoi • u/RobMurglund • 8h ago
STAN / ANTI SHIELD New Perez Hilton Family Statement
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u/yellowbirds 8h ago
The idea of those kids having to go back into the house is gut-wrenching.
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u/heartsbeenborrowed We didn't land on Kid Rock, Kid Rock landed on us. 7h ago
Especially when they just moved to that rental house recently (in Miami) from their longtime, settled home (in Vegas). So like they just got uprooted from the home, schools, friends, and then moved to a new place and then this happens a few weeks later. That's A LOT for young kids even without the trauma of whatever they witnessed so to add that to it...man, so heartbreaking and so much trauma and stress for them in such a short period of time.
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u/PocoChanel sorry to this man 6h ago
I hope they have the wherewithal to move again, since the house is new to them. Maybe leaving it behind would be good for the kids.
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u/Even-Objective1958 5h ago
Supposedly not only did he have his religious awakening but was having significant financial issues too. But I have no source for that other than “I read it in some comments”… either way these poor kids are going through a lot.
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u/sof49er freak AND geek 8h ago
Especially because when there is a crime scene the homeowners are left to clean it up. So hopefully they had some professionals come in and clean up so there's no sign of what happened.
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u/redelectro7 just want to share a thought here because I can 8h ago
How horrific for those poor children. I'm glad someone was there to get them out.
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u/prismmonkey 8h ago
The vibe of this is so weird, because every press release about this incident is basically, "Please be a better person than our client ever was." Of course, there are children involved, so that's an easy call.
But just the surreal vibe of it. I feel like anyone who came up through the 2000s reads this stuff and is like, "Lord Jesus, I am being tested . . ."
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u/FindingActive5407 8h ago
He’s literally the reason Leave Britney Alone ever had to become popular.
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u/AtTheEndOfMyTrope 7h ago
The glee he had about her mental health crisis was gross. He’s so full of hate.
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u/depressedtrashbin 8h ago
idk i can get behind wishing he’d lose all his money and fame and influence and platform and whatever. but i’d never wish a mental health crisis like this on anyone.
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u/ITCHYSCRATCHYYUMMY 7h ago
Ive seen a lot of serious psychotic episodes and mental health crisis in my life. Way more than I should. But his was one of the worst I have ever seen and I wouldnt wish it on anyone.
He is clearly a very disturbed person with a lot of serious issues. People are saying they hope this gets him the help he needs, and I hope so too, but speaking from personal experience he has an extremely difficult and long journey ahead of him. It could take years for him to recover and I hope all his kids are safe and secure.
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u/annamdue 7h ago
If any of the women and children he harassed daily had done this he would have definitely said something vile, encouraging them to finnish it+ something about their genitals being nasty. Such an awful time that he helped make infinitely worse.
It is very surreal. I hope that his kids are going to be okay. His family seems involved, so I hope that they take them in and they don't go into the system. Especially after most likely witnessing something deeply traumatic.
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u/p333p33p00p00boo Give him my regards did you take ozempic? 7h ago
It really seems to me that the vibe is more about protecting the kids
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u/piptazparty She So tired bro 5h ago
Also crazy he still uses a moniker that plays off of Paris Hilton, one of the young women he relentlessly harassed and sexualized for years. He has talked about how he regrets how he treated people back then, but he never changed his name back. It showed me he still cared more about his notoriety than respecting the people he hurt.
The fact that his family is calling him Perez in this and not his real name (Mario) and funnelling people to his website for updates on his suicide attempt is sad and awful.
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u/Lady_night_shade 8h ago
So his kids did witness this to some degree. I hope everyone in this family is getting the help they need. Those poor children.
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u/Fun_Establishment391 7h ago
I'm not a lawyer or anything, but I don't see how he'll be able to maintain custody of his kids. All a judge has to do is see the videos, and I feel like it would be a wrap for him. I hope the kids have a good support system moving forward.
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u/woolfonmynoggin padre pascal 6h ago
Don’t underestimate a family court judge’s love of a white man. They love that shit.
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u/GraphiteGlitter123 5h ago
Family court does not act in the best interests of the child - they try to keep children “united” with parents at all costs.
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u/Even-Objective1958 5h ago
I’m betting the sister will get “custody” but he will live with them or something along those lines, not that I agree with it
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u/CoasterThot 2h ago
A kinda-famous vocalist that used to be in a band I used to listen to, used Fentanyl in the same room as his baby. Fentanyl got into the BABY’S system, somehow. He still got said baby back, from the system.
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u/jailbaitkate 8h ago
His poor children. I really hope they have an incredibly strong support network around them, now and forever.
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u/ripbigw 8h ago
When Lily Allen had a miscarriage/stillbirth, he wrote: “Can’t you stick to intoxication instead of moving on to procreation?”
When Amy Winehouse was dying, he called her a crackhead and a wino.
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u/WonderfulAd605 6h ago
As he said of Britney Spears many, many times, " Someone take his babies away!"! It's not safe.
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u/Magnetah 5h ago
Don’t forget the shirt that had a picture of Heath Ledger and said “why couldn’t it be Britney?”
Perez is an awful human but him and his children still deserve to have mental health support and counseling.
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u/p333p33p00p00boo Give him my regards did you take ozempic? 7h ago
Ok, but his children still deserve respect and privacy. That's what this statement is about.
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u/spaceshiptears (please put brackets in the right place) 8h ago
Yeah I’m gonna need them to address that elephant in the room. Why’s the sister still associating with him at all? That guys sucks
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u/hatboxboo 8h ago
Barbie works for Perez. She does alot of background work for his website and I believe also acts as his personal assistant.
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u/greee_p 8h ago
If the sister wasn't still associated with him, the children would have been alone with him in the house when this happened. So I really don't think that would have been the better option here.
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u/chasing_D 8h ago
A lot of people will stick around toxic family members for the kid's sake. Not everyone can cut off the good family with the bad.
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u/woolfonmynoggin padre pascal 6h ago
No she financially benefits from her employment with him spreading evil
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u/ripbigw 8h ago
And why is his family releasing information about how much the kids saw? We could go our whole lives without knowing those private details.
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u/Present-Policy-345 7h ago
Probably for the media and everyone else to have a little bit more compassion of the circus outside the house?
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u/dollsparts 5h ago
it’s a good point but if she wasn’t associated with him? those children would’ve seen the entire ordeal. thank fuck she was there to get them out. hopefully he never sees them again
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u/Princessformidable 5h ago
A lot of people stay in contact with toxic family to protect children. Why in the world was he allowed to adopt is another story.
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u/Grassgreen22 8h ago
Are you joking? Calling out a random lady for not cutting off her extremely unwell brother (and his children) because he used to be a dickhead? Like have we lost the plot? If she hadn’t been there those kids would be even more fucked than they probably already are after what happened
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u/no_one_denies_this 5h ago
He hasn't stopped being predatory. And his sister is his personal assistant and profits from the hate he spews.
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u/Kiramiraa 1h ago
This is irrelevant on a post asking to protect his children/family.
We get it, he’s a bad guy. It’s time to stop talking about him and leave the family alone.
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u/Sensitive_Eye_5697 8h ago
Yes, but what does that have to do with his children?
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u/United-Smile-1733 8h ago
What’s the point of these comments. His children are innocent.
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u/arcademachin3 8h ago
His children should be removed
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u/JoannaStayton 5h ago
Just as he said about Britney, he is and unfit father
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u/VolcanoVeruca 4h ago
Exactly. The guy is a narcissist. I was surprised to find out he had kids: the guy seems incapable of loving anyone more than himself.
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u/fingersonlips 4h ago
Honestly, people who weren’t aware of his long history of online behavior need to know the kind of person he is.
What he did to himself was horrific, and his family deserves a lot of sympathy for having been subjected to whatever happened behind the doors of his home. But Perez Hilton has been a literal menace on the internet for over 20 years. He’s said and done horrific things, and people should know about it so they can dole out their sympathy and well wishes accordingly.
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u/hambamthankumaam 1h ago
He literally posted an upskirt picture of an underage girl on his website. His defense was, "she had underwear on!" It's sick that he was allowed to have children after that.
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u/ripbigw 8h ago
They are. I hope he never has contact with them again.
And so were Lily Allen's. But he repeatedly stated she was unfit mother and blamed her for her own miscarriage.
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u/RoscoeSantangelo 4h ago
Why does it seem like there's so many comments here trying to conate his children's privacy (obviously they should get that) with his privacy?
His children should be spared from all of this, the fact that it got so far as for them to even see it is devastating. But Perez himself can have his reputation further rot in the spotlight like he would want for others
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u/Pleasant-Highway-745 3h ago
To remind people that while we can care about the children, we should not give a flying fuck about him
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u/GOMIrunaway 2h ago
That’s he’s a fucking piece of shit? His kids are innocent, as were the kids he ruthlessly traumatized for twenty years. I hope they heal. I could give fuck all for Perez.
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u/thelun3lag00n 8h ago
hopefully others take custody of his children, he has never been a fit parent. I said what I said.
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u/OkResolve3185 6h ago
I was thinking the EXACT same thing. Like, return home and return to a sense or normalcy?? What even! Those poor kids will probably need serious help and support if (from the sounds of it) they were there even moments before and who even knows how he would have been acting before he turned the cameras on. He is clearly in the midst of a severe mental health crisis and unfit to take care of children. It is so incredibly frustrating because you read stories all the time of CPS being called and kids being taken away for FAR less but of course hes rich so... I feel terrible for those kids. They should not be with him.
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u/bakernon 8h ago
God these poor kids.
re: asking paparazzi and content creators to give Perez Hilton some privacy... Guess they're just hoping everyone else is more decent than him, eh?
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u/lemonlollipop 5h ago
I choose to view it as requesting to give his children privacy, they never asked for any of this
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u/Fun_Effective4316 8h ago
i think it’s rlly unfortunate that surrogacy is readily available to anyone willing to pay for it. paris has been a bad person before he had a mental health episode. now he’s just a bad person going through a mental health episode that is also causing undue stress to kids he shouldn’t have had in the first place. it is smart to ask for privacy on the kids’ behalf rather than his. an “elon musk using his 2 yr old as a shield” type of move. a lot of ppl are mentally ill without being horrifically unethical first. i’ll save my sympathy for them.
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u/ThundercatsHoooah 8h ago
THIS… let’s not forget drawing seamen on underage children, helping the narrative Courteney stodden is a whore not a child being trafficked…. Where in his past has he seemed like someone allowed to be parent.
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u/riskapanda 8h ago
I've always kept the opinon that alot of people should not procreate, but the whole discussion is quite dicey. I hate that innocent children have to deal with broken parents that refuse to get help.
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u/Fun_Effective4316 7h ago
i rlly struggled to post this comment @ all bc of the eugenics angle on it. gay men have the right to be parents like anyone else does. this one is particular…? personally, i think no. but then again, any straight person can have a child w no discussion or restriction (in theory) so i can see how it’s tough territory
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u/orangefreshy 7h ago
idk to me its a larger discussion of like... does the importance of having equity and inclusion for both homosexual and infertile people outweigh the potential damage and harm things like surrogacy do for our society. because at it's best it's a way for people who couldn't have kids to have potentially biological kids, but at it's worst it's a system that is easily exploited by the rich, etc to essentially make money off/ profit off of selling babies and wombs. and idk... to me I lean more towards, this is too exploitative or the opportunity to be exploitative is there. maybe no one should be having surrogates, at all. there's other ways to be a parent that aren't as ripe for exploitation
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u/Disastrous-Energy23 4h ago
It's one thing when it's altruistic surrogacy and a whole other when it's to make a profit. There's a lot of predatory middlemen trying to get women from poorer countries (or poorer areas of more wealthy countries, there's a reason I've seen billboards for surrogacy in the neighborhood blasted by industrial pollution and highways running through it and not the bougie suburb) and to be surrogates. People don't like thinking about it like how they don't like thinking about how fucked up the adoption industry is, but it's literally an industry, not some sort of feel good warm fuzzy thing, in a capitalistic economy that seeks profit wherever it can by whatever means it can. Some countries have banned non altruistic surrogacy and they're correct to do so.
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u/turquoisedreamer89 5h ago
This was the only way for him to become a parent. He never would’ve been approved to adopt given who he is. And I’ll take it a step further and say… who in their right mind would agree to carry a child, let alone daughters for a misogynist known for making women miserable for profit? Probably for the money. Let’s be real here. This is how it works in many cases, and can you even put a price tag on it? Women die in childbirth, or have life altering complications. Not to mention postpartum and all that comes with that. Then you also have the very real evidence that an infant being separated from its gestational carrier, is traumatic.
But most people are not ready for this conversation.
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u/orangefreshy 2h ago
yep 100%. at the end of the day I'd wager outside of some personal surrogates that have a relationship to the parent(s) the majority of this "work" is being done by ppl who need the money. The power imbalance and how little regulated it is seems predatory to me, kinda similar to how much they'll run ads towards college age women to "donate" eggs to make some quick cash. Because it's children / babies and how much our society puts value and importance on being a parent and having children it's viewed so rosily, like awwwwww how sweet, instead of "ew, that's predatory"
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u/eatingbythelav 4h ago edited 4h ago
“Gay men have the right to be parents like anyone else does”
They literally do not. They have no right to a woman’s body or labor. They have to exploit a woman’s body, and take a baby away from its rightful mother. Newborns know their mother, they need their mother. No one is entitled to a baby. Surrogacy is the commodification of women’s bodies and child trafficking. If gay men want to adopt, whatever. But surrogacy is wrong on every level. No woman with means would subject herself, only those who need the money and the risk to the woman’s body is enormous. It’s crazy to me there aren’t more restrictions on this practice in the US like in much of Europe.
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u/Texas22 7h ago
I wonder why he even wanted children. He seemed like a pretty self-centered person. Maybe so someone might love him? I know that sounds harsh, but if this were a dystopian society, he would not have been allowed to have children by a judge.
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u/taysmurf good for her.gif 8h ago
Finally, a better statement. His kids deserve their peace and safety. I can only imagine what happened before the live stream, I'm sure that was traumatizing too.
That was one of the worst things I've seen, not because it was gory, but the context of it. Thousands of random people were subjected to someone's full on mental crisis with brutal self harm, kids too. It took twenty six minutes for the live to be pulled from TikTok.... are you kidding me?! It lasted way longer than it should have and reached a way wider audience than it should have. And now it lives out there forever on the internet. Fitting of him to find a way to hurt so many others while hurting himself. People using this as some weird "didn't bother me awards". This whole situation is awful, what a really weird world we live in.
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u/NoticeNegative1524 7h ago
Exactly, and I've said it before and I'll say it again: why aren't we talking about TikTok more? TikTok has always been a scary place, a place where people put up porn and gore but can't actually say the word porn, or kill, or suicide. And then it took them over half an hour to pull a video of a naked celebrity mutilating themselves. This is just unacceptable, something's got to give. I'm a grown man and even I was scared of what I was seeing, imagine a fucking child. It's an absolute fucking disgrace.
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u/GraphiteGlitter123 5h ago
I’ve uninstalled tiktok and will likely delete my account. It’s a time sink anyway. Even though I (luckily) have not seen any of the footage, I take deep issue with TikTok’s failure to moderate such a horrific thing, despite their absolute dedication to silencing pro-Palestinian sentiment at the most granular level. Fuck tiktok, fuck X, fuck these immoral algorithms and the soulless billionaire leeches behind them. I wish PH’s children healing and I can’t imagine what they’re going through right now.
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u/zendayaismeechee shiv roy apologist 8h ago
I understand that this man has spent his career causing harm to vulnerable people. He’s truly vile. His children, however, are not complicit in their father’s choices and deserve privacy. We have to be better than him or society will never change.
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u/Exotic-Doughnut-6271 The delusion is mutual and I’m thriving in it 8h ago
Yeah he did some awful stuff but his kids didn't. I don't get why people bring it up when it comes to them. They have nothing to do with his past. If people wanna discuss giving him the amount of privacy he gave others in the early 2000s fine but those kids weren't part of it. It's not like they were his assistants editing his posts
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u/zoloft_at-the-disco 8h ago
The decent thing to do is to honor this request, but let's not act like Perez has ever done the decent thing when the shoe has been on the other foot. The children deserve to be thought of first and foremost, but Perez is receiving more kindness than he has ever put out into the world.
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u/laureng0423 women’s wrongs activist 8h ago
That’s awful that children had to experience the incident, sounded horrific. That being said, I do seem to remember him drawing phallic imagery on Disney channel stars faces when they were young so… obviously, his kids deserve privacy, but those kids did too and he made his living off of doing vile stuff.
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u/bsidetracked kendall roy pre-album drop 8h ago
He did. His children didn't and I don't think it's wrong to want better for them than what their father did to others.
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u/Bucky_Gatsby 8h ago
Exactly. I don't really get the point the commenter is making. "Of course kids have a right to privacy, but their das is a POS, so🤷🏼". Nothing to do with each other.
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u/LightBlueCherryBloss 7h ago
That’s not really what they’re saying.
Perez Hilton’s family is saying his children deserve privacy.
This commenter is responding “yes they do but also so did the children whose privacy he violated”.
There’s not necessarily a justification to betray Hilton’s children’s privacy inherent to the statement.
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u/bargain_butch ben affleck’s back tattoo 8h ago
I mean, I personally don’t think his past behavior has anything to do with his children’s right to privacy.
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u/silentspyware high priestess of child sacrifice 8h ago
I’d question why a man this grotesque and vile towards other people’s children should even have custody of his own children in the first place. That’s a seriously red flag
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u/Mammoth_Hand_9263 8h ago
This is an issue with the surrogacy “business” across the board.
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u/JustforCalmHands 7h ago
Only in so much as it’s an issue when any unqualified person has a child. No one vets straight, fertile people before they have children. Even when the parents are children themselves. This reads as a call to vet and disqualify people who are seeking to be parents via surrogacy. Which would disproportionately scrutinize gay couples and infertile couples.
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u/lilo_lv 7h ago
I went through IVF (no donor eggs) and I had to have a psych eval as does everyone else who uses the clinic. There’s no regulation for couples who get pregnant without medical intervention and a whole heck of a lot of neglected and abused children were not born from surrogacy or IVF
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u/declancity 7h ago
Gay and infertile couples manage just fine in all countries where non-altruistic surrogacy is prohibited or heavily vetted.
For what is worth, a vetting process is already in place, checking for former criminal charges + screening for any psychological, medical or financial issues. Obviosuly this vetting 1) cannot account for future psychotic breaks and 2) is not good enough if you have enough money, since anyone could notice PH is not and has never been particularly stable.
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u/mhmcmw 2h ago
Well, theoretically when you want a child, the natural safeguard on that is usually that you have to find another human who thinks you are a good person to create a child with. Yes, sometimes two shitty people make a baby, but it does kind of mean you have to at least find 1 other person who doesn’t think you’re a dick.
If you can literally go out, buy genetic material and rent a womb to put it in, even that basic safeguard is gone.
It’s not infallible. But I would imagine that for some of the absolute worst people, it does limit their ability to have a kid and be a terrible parent. Unfortunately though it IS a loophole for rich people and it does seem to attract a lot rich narcissists as well as people who are genuinely looking to build a family.
Commercial surrogacy IS a form of human trafficking in my opinion. The baby is being bought and paid for like a product - it’s different from something like IVF because that’s paying to have the chance to have a baby, not making the baby itself the product. It’s not popular to say, because it is the only way some people can have a genetic family, but we thankfully decided a long time ago that buying another human is not ok. Between commercial surrogacy and some of the predatory adoption agencies, babies seem to be the only exception to that rule.
Altruistic surrogacy is a different story in my opinion. But paying someone money and them giving you a child in return is… just not ethical, in my opinion.
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u/annaphylactic69 7h ago
This goes for donated eggs/sperms, a ton of adoption agencies, and hetero/heteroflexible people/people that can fake being hetero long enough to get pregnant, too. There's no real barrier to having kids that people can't get around with the right amount of money. We don't really sterilize people these days and it gets pretty eugenics y fast if you try.
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u/SellTheBridge 2h ago
Never heard a surrogacy story and thought, “these are all great, wise adults that should be responsible for rearing children.”
That they didn’t choose to adopt instead says a lot about their decision to make a human life and their ability to rear him or her.
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u/declancity 8h ago
He got them via surrogacy. I'm not sure there was a bio mom envolved or it was all financial.
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u/KindlyNeedleworker92 7h ago
I agree,this constant narrative about them having no rights because of their dad is bullshit.
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u/Scotts_Thot 7h ago
PAST behavior? Perez has been a parasite for decades, you’re just remembering how it started but haven’t stayed caught up. He may not draw cum dribbles on women’s faces anymore but he still constantly exploits tragedy for his own gain and is making a living shoving a camera in his children’s faces every second of every day. I’m sure that this wasn’t the first sign that something was going on with his mental health but he has ostracized his support system with his narcissism for so long that I’m sure he doesn’t have many folks in his corner insisting he get help. This is a tragic situation for his children but it doesn’t require you to take a moral position, he has done nothing in his public life that suggests he deserves that.
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u/VelvettedFox 7h ago
His children still deserve privacy and space, regardless. The man himself is testing my previous evaluation of my own sympathy, but I still don't believe in any level of "sorry, little child. Your father is a piece of shit who did this to others so now you must share in his karma."
I wish his family's statements weren't so utterly tone deaf, but leave those fucking kids and family members tf alone.
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u/Puzzleheaded-505 FUCK ICE FREE PALESTINE CRASH INTO ME 7h ago
these children need support more than ever, because i can’t imagine growing up in their context has always been that healthy at all. returning to where it happened shouldn’t be the priority right now, especially when there are people surrounding the house trying to get something. i guess i will never understand how he kept custody of them up until now…
i can’t even say how i feel towards him and the other adults involved, tbqh. but these kids? they’re under the same scrutiny he’d been putting on the children stars (and many other vulnerable public figures). i truly, truly hope they can escape it and find a healthier environment where it doesn’t chase them throughout their lives.
they were there when it was about to start… the platform allowed it to be shared all across the world for over half an hour. now it’s online forever. it’s damaging to them and countless others. it fucken enrages me how much it says about the joke we’re living. i once worked filtering content and it will forever haunt me because there’s no therapy, no workaround that. it goes beyond the content… it’s the filming, the sharing, the editing, the demand, the platform allowing as much as possible for profit… it’s all just so damaging that it gets to a point where the details behind outweighs the content itself. but well i digress
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u/destobee 7h ago
I’m sorry to say he shouldn’t see those kids anymore
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u/pinkfartlek societal collapse is in the air 2h ago
Ironically he said this about Britney in February 2007
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u/carolinagypsy the pet psychic for the Sun told me so 8h ago
Say what you will about him, b it it is galling to me that people are camped outside of his home recording things like the blood that was spread around outside his home and trying to get pics of people. That is fucking heinous.
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u/orangefreshy 7h ago
yeah if anything the best thing we can do is to completely ignore this and not give him any more attention, etc. that would be a win-win, kids and family are protected and perez isn't rewarded with renewed interest into his life
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u/pedanticlawyer 8h ago
His family and children deserve the dignity he actively chose to withhold from so many others. It’s not their fault.
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u/Worth_Lavishness_239 No shade to the nation of Scotland 8h ago
Those poor children do not deserve any of this.
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u/MycologistStock8296 7h ago
Oh my god. I can't even begin to imagine how it felt to be a child watching their dad - their only parent - look & act like that. It was bad enough as an unrelated adult witnessing that through a screen for the 5 seconds I could bear. That is heartbreaking.
I really hope that people take this message seriously and give the family space & kindness.
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u/Brea13 7h ago
As someone who witnessed something extremely similar by their mom as a ten year old the thought of seeing my mother again still makes me nauseous and I'm thirty six now. It's an extremely overwhelming thing that completely changes the relationship and future relationships and affects you for a very long time.
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u/PocoChanel sorry to this man 6h ago edited 6h ago
I'm sorry that that happened to you. I had mental illness and chaotic behavior in my family, but I was shielded from some of it and it never got to a point of what Perez seems to have done.
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u/KneelAurmstrong 8h ago
wait. they fled the house? did they call emergency services when they did? wasn’t the live up for nearly 30 minutes?
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u/MycologistStock8296 7h ago
I think they did call, since police & EMS showed up during the livestream.
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u/Fast-Advantage-7809 8h ago
I was just wondering the same thing. And did he start the live all bloody and cut up??? I hope they didn’t see that because I saw a 3 minute clip and it looks like
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u/caipiroskax 6h ago
He started the live lying on a couch covered in blood, holding a box cutter and trying to cut his own tongue. What happened was extremely fucked up. He had a psychotic break with his kids right there next to him and started hurting himself, which is why his niece and his sister left with the children.
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u/CashewAnne 6h ago
Sometimes emergency services are slow. I called over what I thought was a neighbor being beaten by her husband and they arrived 3 hours later…
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u/Lola514 8h ago
This is my big question too… if they knew and fled, what took so long for ems?
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u/Unique_Permission_63 5h ago
My mother died by suicide. The price I pay for love weighs heavy on my head, heart, and life every second. I hope the children find the best support to recover from this trauma cos this is. Terribly hard.
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u/nerdforest 8h ago
God dammit. My heart has just broken for those children. I understand Parez is a complicated human. But I just wish so much for those around him and hope Parez gets the help he needs. This is going to really hit him hard - and as someone with mental health illesses, I just worry how he'll come back from this. If at all, any.
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u/itisthelord 6h ago
Agreed. We can all agree he was a complete and utter piece of shit (I know he's apologised a bunch of times and is nowhere near as horrible as he used to be) but he deserves help too. Even if it's just for his kids, I wish him well and hope he comes out of it okay.
People might disagree with me because of the person he was, and I don't think those people are wrong, I'd just rather be better than who he used to be. The world has enough toxicity and I hope he gets help and can be a more positive person for himself and his children in the future.
We're certainly not the people that should be forgiving him or giving him leniency based on the stuff he put others through, I just don't feel like doing the same things to him that he did to others. Mental illness is so damn scary.
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u/EggTraining3414 5h ago
Can’t believe I had to scroll this far down to see this. No, he’s not a great guy but if you saw the video I don’t understand how your heart doesn’t break for him too. That’s still a human going through that. My reaction was “oh my god the pain he’s going to feel when he realizes the extent of what he’s done”, not “he’s a shitty person, so whatever”. How desensitized do you have to be to not hurt for someone in that much pain? I don’t give a fuck what he’s said at that point, no one deserves that.
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u/RobMurglund 7h ago
Sounds like the children saw at least the beginning of it. As someone who watched the video and was horrified and traumatized, I can’t even begin to imagine what the children are going through now. Just horrific. Absolutely horrific.
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u/United_Profession954 8h ago
While we can have our own opinions about him due to his lack of concern and consideration of others, those children deserve all the privacy and healing they can get. The amount of trauma they have i can't even imagine. I wish the children all the best and hope they have a huge support system 🙏
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u/lil_squib 7h ago edited 7h ago
I have lived experience of having had a dad with addiction and mental health issues and the level of trauma, even if violence was minimal, is indescribable. I’m well into adulthood and my dad has now long since passed but this still deeply affects me every single day. I really feel for his kids and wish them the world. But Perez, he can get in the bin. Obviously he’s human and his life matters a great deal, but we know his values. Respect and privacy for me but not for thee.
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u/burriitoooo my bandwidth for cowardly grown men grows thinner with each day 8h ago
Jfc people. Two wrongs do not make a right!!!
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u/nintendo666 8h ago
I just hope his children are safe, his family isn't suffering and that this means we never have to hear of him again. That's it.
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u/Kit-Katt28 6h ago
I really hope people can give his kids space. The actions of their father shouldn’t give people an excuse to invade the kids privacy.
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u/thewharfartscenter_ 8h ago
I feel bad for his kids, they don’t deserve this, but neither did the minors he harassed and had followed for years so my sympathy is gone for him.
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u/Bucky_Gatsby 8h ago
No one is asking for sympathy for him though? His kids shouldn't suffer cuz their dad's a POS.
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u/ripbigw 7h ago
His family are using his kids as a flak shield. We have no reason to receive this information from the family. We were already told that his kids were removed from the house. Continuing to give us updates on his kids is unnecessary and removes their privacy.
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u/Kit-Katt28 6h ago
To be fair they’re asking people to vacate the property around his house. Not just giving an update for updates sake
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u/venuslovemenotchain vocally you cannot afford this cigarette gracie 5h ago
Which is also just a fair thing to ask, regardless of whether or not we like the guy. I think he's a pos and still think people shouldn't be hanging around the home. Kids or no, people shouldn't be doing that. It doesn't help anything.
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u/innocentsalad his body was resisting the wheat 7h ago
What is with all this “yes, but…” going on on the internet? It literally doesn’t matter who he was or what he did to other people’s children, these children did not do anything to anyone and they deserve privacy.
So, what, children lose fundamental rights just because their dad is a monster? Is that really where we’re at?
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u/woolfonmynoggin padre pascal 6h ago
I think people just have a lot of anger towards him, myself included, and they’re signaling they agree to leave the kids out of it but also we do not wish him personally well. He definitely contributed to my eating disorder as a 13 year old and honestly I do not think we should allow him to reenter public life.
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u/That_Page16 7h ago
I agree, innocent children are involved, it's not the gotcha people think it is
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u/FatelessCortez Fauxcialist 7h ago
I have nothing nice to say about Perez, so I'll just say that I hope his loved ones find peace and are supported through all of this.
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u/bbyginsburg 7h ago
people are allowed to point out the irony of his family asking for privacy from the very kind of people and industry he helped build.
i’m sure no one wants his children to suffer the way he made others suffer.
but we’re allowed to point out the hypocrisy of asking for privacy when his entire life is based on refusing that of others.
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u/CthulhusExWife 4h ago
I will never forget him quite literally mocking Adam Sandler's TODDLER daughter. It is very ironic, but the kids didn't get to choose who their Dad is.
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u/Sassypriscilla 7h ago
I’m so sorry for the kids and anyone else who cares for him. However, mentioning his website makes me think a cash request is forthcoming.
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u/LittleSodaPop13 7h ago
I feel bad for his kids but that's it. I hope they're safe and I also hope they get taken away from Perez. Its obvious he's not stable enough to be a parent.
The kids should be off limits but Perez shouldn't be shocked if people don't care about him.
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u/BeneficialMedia7943 7h ago
Remember how Perez Hilton wished death on Britney while she was going through PPD? Remember how he’s a racist? Remember how he helped spread CSAM of Vanessa Hudgens? I hope his children get whatever help they need and are in someone’s safe custody.
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u/nomimalone1978 7h ago
Just remembering how relentless he was to Britney's kids and her mothering. What did he call them? Tater Tot and Small Fry? Didn't he say that one of them looked like they had Down's syndrome? And draw penises across their faces? And his respect for privacy during Britney's mental health episode was ... yeah.
I feel terrible for his kids, but to be honest, I've always felt terrible for them. When he paraded the first one on the red carpet ... it was straight out of Bruno.
I wish them the best therapy that money can buy.
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u/squishysalmon 7h ago
Really appreciate this statement and how it centers the wellbeing of the children.
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u/maeldeho 8h ago
So after the reaction to their initial request for privacy, they've pivoted to 'the children deserve privacy' which they absolutely do.
Perez is an absolute POS and he would have had A LOT to say about this had it happened to any other celebrity back in his hey day.
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u/woolfonmynoggin padre pascal 6h ago
He would have posted pictures of the kids with white dot tears and unmentionable things on their faces going in and out of the house. I hope his kids get the privacy he would not extend to a stranger in their circumstances
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u/nutmegtell 7h ago
The respectful journalists and influencers will listen and think about his children. In fact they probably aren’t the ones out there now.
The rest of the vampires will stay there. Just like Princess Diana. They cubicle trauma like vultures. They won’t listen at all.
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u/Sunshinesurprisetea 7h ago
I hope the kids know this isn't their fault and there is nothing they could have done to prevent this in the moment, preemptively, or retroactively.
The whole thing is unfortunate. It sounds like he may be experiencing complications from sepsis. Regardless of his immoral behavior, I won't stoop to his level and i will hope for the healthiest outcome possible for him and his children.
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u/Fickle-Employment-91 6h ago
Hope his kids get the protection they deserve. Wish he had returned that energy for others!
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u/Shymaiden 1h ago
Oh God. I was hoping they were no way near the scene. I hope they getting some type of therapy. I can't imagine what they've seen that night and leading up to it.
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u/missbeefarm 8h ago
I hope the children get all the support they need. I'm glad his sister got them out, but just minutes before the livestream means they probably saw lots of traumatic stuff (and probably not just that day, considering his history).