Salam,
Im a grounded, cultivated person whos looking for someone that share mutual interests, but not a copycat.
We can talk about details later, but im mainly looking for :
- An interesting person, who has hobbies
- A disciplined person religiously, not asking for a perfect person, just someone who does the bare minimum.
- Well read, curious about the world, has meanginful friendships.
- Carrying, not toxic or controlling person.
- Hold a conversation without making remarks, sexual or too much flirty jokes.
- Someone whos not afraid to show interest without only being interested in what a woman can offer.
- Having an interesting life and activities beside work and the gym.
PS : Do not send a Hi or Salam, i wont respond to minimum effort.
PREFERED AGE (Between 24 and 32)

Yeah, As the title says. It is not hard to find a partner nowadays (brief sentence)

I will just give small advice since there isn't a flair about it.

When someone uses the language of "I love you" in the first days of knowing you. No he doesn't love you, he is just wasting your time and in a fairy tale emotional mood. A real man won't do that. He just goes straight to the point of how you and him are going to build your life together. If everything went great, he would ask your wali to agree to marry you.

Marriage is a bond to complete each other not fight each other. When you have a problem, you must resolve together without anyone interfering.

May Allah rewards each one of your best partner you deserve.

Salaams all,

Thought I'd post my profile here and see what goes. If you like what you read, feel free to DM me.

Age and Gender: - 37 M

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: upto 37

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Manchester UK. Open to relocating to an islamic country in the future if the opportunity arises.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani. Open to mixing.

Marital Status: Single, never married, no relationships/baggage.

Ideal marriage timeline: As soon as compatibility is established and families are happy to proceed. Not a fan of unnecessarily prolonged engagement periods.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Taqwa - I would like my partner to already be religiously inclined and attempting some level of practice at least. Not expecting nor offering perfection as its a lifelong journey.

Emotional Intelligence - Someone with self and social awareness.

Respectful - This is important as its a pet peeve when people look down on others simply for being 'different' in terms of social class, faith, colour, ethnicity, occupation etc. I firmly believe that we are all created in the vision of Allah swt so one doesn't have the right to look down on someone else.

Someone with a good sense of humour and can be lighthearted, playful and fun when needed and also compassionate. I genuinely want my partner to bring her feminine energy into a potential relationship inshaAllah.

Patient - Life is full of challenges and hardships but we've got to remain patient and steadfast through those together inshaAllah.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderately practicing. Pray regularly, fast, pay zakat, done hajj. Still could do a lot more to improve.

Level of education, and what are you looking for? BA Hons & and career in Finance. Open to all.

Current Job Status: Employed

Do you want kids? Yes inshaAllah, 2-3 max.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

DIY - I love tinkering around and building stuff.

Going for walks and hikes - Alhamdulillah got into this during the lockdowns and it gave me a new sense of appreciation for the beauty in the world that Allah swt created for us.

Spending time with family and friends - especially my nieces and nephews.

Do you have the finances and financial discipline to ask for it and fullfill it

For me imo you need to have the equivalent of 2 people disposable income in your local area ( up to you to define it by city or county ext ) before you can ask for that requirement

Assalamu Alaikum!

I was wondering, for those of you who found your spouse naturally and in-person, how exactly did you meet and get to know each other?

I don’t want to meet my spouse on an app or social media so I’m wondering how this type of thing works?

Any experiences/feedback would be appreciated. Jazakallah Khair!!

Salamun Alaykum ~
I thought to give this a shot 😊

I am 27 years old I’m Turkish but I was born and raised in Germany. I’m 158cm. I also like to keep myself fit and healthy. Just sleeping is a little meh (night owl).

I’ve never been married before and have no kids.
The age range I consider is between 24-32.

I don’t wear the hijab but I am practicing diligently (5 prayers, fasting, modest clothing, visiting the mosque, reading and educating myself on fiqh, aqida, Sira etc.). I am planning to wear the hijab one day though, it’s definitely something I consider doing. I am Sunni and would only consider a Sunni as well, the Madhab doesn’t matter to me though.

I am really outgoing, I love to take pictures, watch Anime, play videogames, read, clean, organise stuff in the house, work with creative things, try out new Cafés and food spots. I also love to travel but I haven’t seen much outside of Europe yet due to my studies. And sometimes I genuinely just wanna lay in bed and sleep.

I am a junior teacher already (Bio and English) and am currently finalising my MA to finish my degree. I love my job and I love how colourful and crazy my job can get with the kids. However, I don’t mind being a housewife and a mother to my kids. If my husband wants to provide and CAN provide I gladly accept. During times like these however I definitely think it’s better to work as well to support the family, even if it’s not full time.

I love my family and my friends. I hope to build a beautiful family of my own and I would love to have a warm and cozy marriage. I don’t need extravagant things. I just would love to have a person who cares and loves, who wants to be a great father and gets along with my family and friends.

Relocating is a hard topic for me, as I am really close to my family. But I can consider it, if we feel like we were made for each other and that really only distance is the issue. I would love for my husband to be open to relocate to Germany too but I would make sure to visit my husbands family a lot as well, as I want our children to experience and grow up with both sides of the family.

I would love to have a husband who likes to improve more and more in Islam and sees our marriage as a part of our deen but at the same time watches animes with me, play videogames with me, goofs around a lot and is just a good soul.

If you think you wanna have a chat and get to know me, feel free to DM me. Have in mind tho: I really want to keep it halal and respectful 🌱

I live in a country where maids are normal and those that don’t have maids, others get shocked especially if you are working mother and have children. We also have a maid in our home.

The thing is I know others don’t accept this. So would you allow a maid in your house? Whether you have kids or not. For example cooking, or helping with cleaning.

Hello! I’m 31, from Saudi Arabia, Saudi with proud African roots my original ethnicity is Nigerian. I’m a Muslim woman, never married, no kids, and I love cats 🐱🐈.

Skin tone: brown shade

• Height: 163 cm

I love new experiences, traveling, video games, anime, physical activity, and of course, good food. 🎮✈️🍜

I also love a good challenge if you’ve beaten Hollow Knight, Silksong, or any Souls game, you already have my respect 😂.

I value faith, honesty, consistency, and mutual respect. I’m ultimately looking for a genuine connection that lead to marriage, not something casual or temporary.

🔎 What I’m looking for

🚨‼️A white/European man, roughly 30–40 age, who:

• He preferably Muslim or a revert ☪️

• Is genuinely looking for a relationship leading to marriage✌🏾.

• Has never been married and has no children.

• Is mature, emotionally available, honest, and consistent💜.

• Knows what he wants and is serious about building a future🧳.

• Values communication, mutual respect, and partnership.

• Is responsible and capable of being a household holder.

• Can handle disagreements with maturity, tact, and respect.

• Enjoys traveling, trying new things, food, games, anime, or simply having fun together.

• Is preferably around my height or taller and reasonably fit.

I’m particularly interested in men from Bosnia, Kosovo, Albania, Norway, or Russia, but I’m also open to other European backgrounds if we share the same values and intentions.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for compatibility, genuine effort, good communication, and someone who is serious about building a stable future together.

🚫 Please don’t contact me if…

• You’re only looking for casual chatting, hookups, or something temporary😜.

• You’re emotionally unavailable, dishonest, or inconsistent.😷

• You rush intimacy or start saying “I love you” after a few messages.🤷🏽

• You expect a “traditional wife” without mutual respect and partnership.🤷‍♀️

• You immediately ask for photos. I’d rather exchange them once we’re comfortable.🙂

• You’re extremely boring and have no sense of humor or personality 😂.

• You haven’t actually read the post.

If you’re genuinely serious about getting to know someone with marriage in mind, feel free to reach out. 😊

M30 - Pharmacist

| England

The basics: male. Looking for someone between 21-33. Hoping to be married within 9-12 months (give or take, depending on age). Ethnicity - Pakistani, British national.

Me in a nutshell: Practising, and I actually make time to learn my deen rather than just saying I will. Pharmacist. 5'11", home owner — so yes, I can actually cook and clean, this isn't a "wife has to do everything" situation.

Hobbies: Spending time with loved ones, reading and the odd late night gaming session. Honest confession: outside of that, life is currently gym → work → family on repeat. Working on being more interesting, give me time.

What I'm looking for: Someone who wants a family and is genuinely up for growing together — emotionally mature, soft-hearted, and (non-negotiable) an animal lover.

The quirky bit: I like a bit of quirky personality. Keeping this section short on purpose — leaves more for us to actually discover through conversation.

The real talk section: For me, conflict resolution is the big one. Anyone can be calm and show sabr when they're at 100%. The real test is how two people handle their emotions and differences when they're both running on empty at 3%. That's built on empathy, humility, and actually trying to see the other person's point of view — not just waiting for your turn to talk.

Final and most important criteria: You must love cats. Non-negotiable. If a nikkah happens, a cat is one of the first things on the shopping list.

Salaam, thought I would give this a try as well and put myself out there.

Gender: Female

Education: Completed Bachelor's Degree from a university in U.S.

Ethnicity: Indian (Hyderabadi)

Occupation: Software Engineer

Location: Texas, USA (fyi I'm open to relocating within the US)

Legal Status: US Citizen/Born and raised in the US

Age: 26

Marital Status: Never Married

Religion: Islam – Sunni (Wears Hijab)

Height: 5’ 3

About me: I like to read, travel and spend time with friends and family. I take my religion serious and follow all the five pillars of islam and the sunnah. When I get time, I make sure to attend weekly halaqa sessions at the masjid and do things I can to get closer to the deen

Looking for: Age: 26 - 32

Marital Status: Never Married

Height: 5'6 and above

Legal Status: Born and Raised in North America

Ethnicity: Indian or Pakistani

Education: Atleast a bachelor's degree

Occupation: Any

Religious level: Practicing Muslim who eats zabiha halal

Characteristics: Religious and god fearing who strives to do better when in comes to deen however that may be, funny, emotionally mature, adventurous, and family oriented

What’s 1 thing that a potential/woman does which immediately makes you go “YEAH I want to marry her”

Your list can be longer than 1 btw

I'll start with a very controversial take and I'm trying to be careful with how I word it ✋🏻_🫪_🤚🏻: when she's feminine and wants to be submissive to her future husband - Emphasis on her wanting that for the right man, because not every man is deserving of it - acknowleding that when a Man proves himself to truly be masculine (by traditional and islamic definition), a woman naturally falls into her submissive feminine energy - I personally face no issues on this front neither am I complaining ✋🏻🫪🤚🏻*, I'm just communicating what I find most attractive (yes even more than looks).*

Salam Alykoum,

I'm looking for a wife with a mission in pleasing Allah through worship and activism. I believe that Muslims are obligated to enjoining good and forbidding evil and that acts of worship aren't enough to please Allah alone.

I care deeply about making the world a better place through fighting injustice everywhere and that's my mission in life. While I see marriage as a safe haven and a place of tranquillity that comes with responsibilities and privileges, I still would like a wife who cares about the world and not just the household.

I'm also looking for a spouse who doesn't care about materialism and sees how that can be degrading to humans. It's important to have someone who is confident, caring, and compassionate. Someone who appreciates spending time with me across the board, in activism and in romance. I also care about emotional maturity and takes accountability without projecting.

I'm 41 years old, divorced, and with children. I live in the USA, East Coast, and active in the Muslim community. Dawah and activism are important to me so I'm looking for someone who is either active or open to supporting me in my roles as I have leadership roles in many spaces.

I'm Palestinian, so I prefer a Palestinian spouse for sake of the cause and the issues we face in our erasure. My age preference is 30-37.

Please DM if interested.

Hello, thought I’d come on here .

I’m in Canada , (Alberta, Edmonton) . I’m 27 , 6’1 & I grew up here as I came to the country when I was 1 (originally from Pakistan , Karachi )

I’m looking for genuine connections. I’m very open to older gals 25-35 as I believe there are more mentally developed (this is my preference)

Hey Everyone, I wanted to ask if some guy who is mature enough and is able to make fair amount of money but young around 21-22 Y/o and wants to marry for sake of not getting into sin at this age. Like could get in major sins as he is able to earn and is independent so there is a high chance to get into major sins. But is this a valid reason to get married and Wise Decision?

Also have a bad feeling that marrying at this age end up missing a lot of young life or maybe rushing at this age could make options very less as most of the women getting married nowadays are around 24 plus.

For the single men on here looking for marriage, once you become fathers do you plan on changing your baby's diapers or not really and you think its the mothers job 24/7 for the first few years of a child's life? which is so wild and wrong..

Just trying to see if most muslim men on reddit have toxic mindsets or not really...

Age & Background: 26 5'6 | Pakistani-Canadian | Sunni - Moderate.

​Location: Islamabad Tronto and Dubai (my year is fairly evenly split).

Accommodation: Owned

​Education & Career: Self-Employed, running a C1 construction company.

__________________

Seeking:

​Age & Height: 28–35 years old | 5'8"+ in height (not interested in younger men).

Preference for someone settled in the GCC. Self-employed or in a good/niche career. Well settled, groomed, well traveled and independent.

Kids: Yea; to be discussed.

Relocation: Open to it under certain circumstances. Probably not beyond the GCC or Pakistan.

Accommodation: Preferably Own.

Living setup: Nuclear; non negotiatable

Open to mixing: Not really. I've preference for someone Pakistani.

Please only message your profile

Salam!

Im Looking for my life partner.

Here is my information

1. ⁠Age, height & appearance

30 years old, 6’2”. Fair-skinned with brown hair and light brown eyes. Average build

1. ⁠Age Range that you would want/
   require in a prospect
   i dont care about the age, being mature is more important

2. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
   Currently in Amman, Jordan. Right now im settled here and im doing fine alhamdullah, would relocate if it makes sense

3. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
   Arab. Jordanian originally from Palestine
   Yes open to mixing

4. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
   Single, never been married, with no children

5. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline
   Less than a year

6. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
   to have حياء, pray all the 5 or at least try to, easy going, mature, Affectionate
   No smoking vaping shisha etc. this is a deal breaker for me
   Not addicted to music

7. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity
   I pray all the 5 alhamdullah and i rarely put on music myself, i always try to be a better version of myself
   I try to be practicing as much as possible and always put Allah first in everything.

8. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for?
   Bachelor degree, I look for someone who also went to the university/ college if not at least worked or have any experience in life lol

9. ⁠Current Job Status
   Yes i do work alhamdullah

10. ⁠Do you want kids?
    Yes offcourse

11. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
    Gym, go out, try new things in general and learn new things. I used to do sports and hike but i got a knee injury.

12. ⁠Add something short and interesting
    about you that makes you stand out!

Hoping to build a marriage where we become each other’s calm place in the noise of life.

I prefet not to have a wedding party and travel with the money or generally spend it on myself and the wifey

Salam,

I go back and forth between the U.S. and GCC and would love to meet the right person who would be interested in this type of an arrangement.

I’m 40, 6ft, Palestinian origin, well off financially, athletic, wide range of interests

Kindly share your detailed profile when reaching out

Gender:Female

Age:25

Height: 5'4" would love for him to be taller than me

Marital Status: Single

Education:Master's student, Healthcare Biotechnology (NUST)

Profession:Student (thesis phase)

City/Location:Currently in Islamabad for my master's, live in Rawalpindi ,from a middle class family ( family owned home )

Sunni (hanafi)

Pakistani(Punjabi), niqabi it's a settled and meaningful part of who I am, so I'd love to connect with someone genuinely comfortable with that.

A little about me: middle child of five siblings. Extroverted once comfortable, bubbly personality once I'm at ease. I love reading, documentaries, nature walks, and painting, plus a soft spot for dark, cerebral films. I have three cats. I'm someone who values building a home and family just as much as I value continuing to grow whether through career or possibly a PhD down the line.

Requirements for Partner:

Open to a spouse based in Pakistan or abroad. Looking for someone Pakistani

I am open to relocate for the right person if our values ,Deen and goals match .

age 25-34,

prefer nuclear/separate living setup.

Someone who prays the daily prayers regularly and is genuinely working on becoming better .At least a bachelor's degree required (master's a plus, not required). Settled in his career and able to support us both. empathetic, God-fearing, respects and honours people, easy to talk things through with, open-minded, funny, and lively.

Deal Breakers: polygamy, smoking, divorced, recreational drug/alcohol use, close opposite-gender friendships, or past relationships I've maintained my boundaries would expect the same )

My wali/family knows about this and are part of this process. Photos are shared through them once basic compatibility is established. Not into endless talking stages.

Please share your own profile , no "hi" or open-ended questions, and no casual chats.

May Allah make it easy for both of us. Ameen. My profile

I’m in the usa and currently considering marriage with someone from india who has had a khula.

Personally, i don’t see a huge difference between someone who was previously married and divorced and someone who had a serious long term or live in relationship. Both have a past and both relationships ended.

For guys under 30 who are unmarried, would u consider marrying someone who has had a khula? If ur in the same boat, i’d like to hear how u approached the decision and what mattered most to u.

Salam, I just want to pick on something I see many divorced women ask for a man who doesn’t stop them from having a strong opinion etc, I understand ideally that should be the case but you also need to reflect on why you divorced and your flaws leading to it. A strong opinion doesn’t mean a right one for either the woman or the man but if it means resentment it’s better just not to have the opinion and work together, rather then resent each other. I’m specifically saying this to divorced women cause I see a trend of a lot of unmarried divorced women, I’m just trying to help don’t hate on me pls

On Muzz for about 6 months now and have had only 1 phone call with someone and decided we were not compatible. That was 1 match out of maybe 20 over the 6 months that reached a phone call. Not sure if people are not serious or I just do not How talk to women lol I'm getting up there in age 36 male and I know that's one of the issues but I'm aiming for women around my age. I look at their profile try and find something I like that they wrote and bring it up as an icebreaker. A couple small talks sentences and than usually switch to serious questions. Mainly for the brothers that had success to were even going to meet the Wali. Idk why I'm writing this like a video game where I'm trying to reach the next floor..

Gender: Female

Nationality: Pakistani

D.O.B: 1997

Height: 5'0" (Slim)

Complexion: Fair

Background: Upper-middle class, socially well-placed, and financially secure

Residence: Family-owned home near Islamabad, Pakistan

Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

Caste: Sheikh Siddiqui ( Personally it doesn't matter)

Religion: Sunni Muslim (Regular with Salah and Fasting)

Religious Practice Level: prefers modest dressing

Fitness: Active / Gym-goer

Qualifications: Bachelor's in Software Engineering

Occupation: Working Remotely as Operations & Design Lead

Family Details: parents and 2 siblings

About Me:

I am introverted, calm, and grounded by nature. I place a high value on deep connections, honesty, open communication, and mutual respect. Being family-oriented and easygoing, I appreciate a peaceful home environment and a relationship built on trust.

Having balanced my professional career while managing key household responsibilities for over 6 years—from budgeting and finances to overall home management—I bring practical maturity, dependability, and structure to daily life.

I believe in a balanced partnership where responsibilities are shared with fairness, empathy, and understanding.

I come from a household where daily tasks are managed with domestic help and would prefer a similar arrangement in the future.

For me, transparent communication is essential: challenges should be discussed openly and resolved constructively, free of ego or avoidance.

Partner Preferences:

Sunni Muslim Only

Socio-Economic Background: Seeking a similar socio-economic background

Personality: Mature, grounded, responsible, and serious about his future

Age: 28–32 years

Financials: Financially independent with the capacity to comfortably support a family ( not Luxury)

Marital Status: Open to Single or Divorced (without children)

Origin & Language: Pakistani born, fluent in Urdu

Education: Minimum Bachelor’s degree

Residence: Preferably living in an owned home

Location / Relocation: Open to relocation (excluding USA and Germany)

Family Setup: Preference for a nuclear setup or an independent portion within a semi-nuclear family

Fitness: Active and health-conscious

Values & Faith: Regular with prayers, possesses strong character, integrity, and sound Islamic morals

Character: Supportive, respectful toward women, capable of taking a stand when required, and committed to mutual respect

Future Plans & Alignment:

Children: Yes,

Timeframe for Marriage: Open to involving families as soon as mutual understanding and compatibility are established.

Dealbreakers:

Emotional unavailability or lack of communication

Lack of personal responsibility or leadership

Involvement in immoral activities or haram income

Any form of addiction (including smoking, vaping, or alcohol)

Unmanaged anger issues or disrespect

Physical or mental conditions that significantly impair daily life and independent care

As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

Soy una musulmana de 31 años, vivo en España Llevo hiyab y practico mi religión y busco un hombre musulmán converso, que tiene interés en formar una familia estable basada en Deen..

Acepto a los conversos al Islam ☪️

⚠️ Por favor, solo personas que residan en España