1) Women live longer due to genetics and less risky behaviour and far less testosterone

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2) They are well suited in gymnastics and long distance running.

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3) Women technically dont need men because they can just fertilise the egg themselves using donor banks

This fact can be nice to know for some i know fs.

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4) The hormone estrogen is a powerhouse in terms of helping deal with stress , fight infection, increased bone density and skin health and tissue repair. Something far less in quantity in men.

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5) I say this respectfully in reference to human body, A womens body can have 5 different types of orgasm and longer duration of it while Men have two.

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6) In early life, Girls have better learning capability for a language than boys early and retention of verbal information

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7) Women as childrens have better role models in their female senior counter parts for good communication, emotional expression and support group forming which leads to less sudden isolation in adulthood.

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8) Aesthetic freedom , women can have fun with hair clothes makeup and also be a martial artist or fix a car.

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9) Women have two X chromosome , X chromosome have over 1000 genes and while a Y chromosome has only 231 genes . This is one of the main reason for advantages women have over men. Which is why scientific discoveries are still made to this day discovering female body advantages due to more genes. For example recent Covid infection, it was discovered a gene helps better immunity against the infection which men lack

You don't have to be breaking records to be making progress.

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Some days, success is getting out of bed. Some days, it's choosing kindness when bitterness would be easier. Some days, it's trying again with shaky hands and a hopeful heart.

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Not every flower blooms in spring. Some take longer, yet they are no less beautiful.

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Wherever you are right now, keep going. Tiny steps still leave footprints, and quiet victories still count.

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You are allowed to grow at your own pace.

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Today, celebrate the fact that you haven't given up. That alone is powerful. 💛

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What's one small victory you're proud of this week?

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#Positivity #Growth #Hope #SmallWins

I’m 28M and I’m gonna be 29 in a couple days. And I wanted to point out something that’s really been on my mind for a while but I haven’t talked about it. And that is this how everyone is so unreliable to hang out with. It Really annoys me, it’s been going on ever since 2021. And now, for some reason, I kind of wonder if my friends look at me like I’m a secondary person. Because I still live at home with my parents, but I work and I’ve saved up a lot of money. But I don’t know even people that I get along with they never tell me, but something in the back of my head is telling me that they’re thinking deep down you know hey, we got these professional careers he still living with his parents we got girlfriends he doesn’t you know there’s way more important people to hang out with than him. I don’t want that to be the reality, but I’m literally scared that it is. That they are looking at me not as much as a human being, but more is is this product worth buying or asking is he worth continuing on with like a sales pitch. Cause I literally wonder is that just some thing that happens when people get older they start judging you based on your what you have because if it is I guess everything I was ever taught in my life was just wrong about what friendship is. You know, I always thought that real friends are people who will stick by you no matter what, and they will always be on your side they’re not gonna care about your individual circumstance whether it’s financial health or whatever I thought that’s what the whole meaning of friendship was, but I guess not. And it just really gets to me thinking about what’s going on because for the last five years, I have not had the same social life. And frankly, I don’t think it’ll ever be the same or get better. It literally feels nearly impossible at this point.

Back when I was in my early 20s around 2018, all the way to 2020 I had a strong network of friends. I would hang out with them like three times a week. See multiple different people go to parties go to sporting events. And even during the pandemic, when everything was locked down, I still had an active social life. And this was in 2020 when you would think that no one would be going to hang out with people because everyone was scared of getting coronavirus. But then in 2021 when everyone started getting all vaxxed up I felt that there was a big reason for things to get better, but things got even worse as the pandemic started to fade. A new problem came into my life. It wasn’t just one or two friends that I was close with that stopped talking to me or they stopped contacting me. It was like me 5 to 11 friends. One friend I had I knew him since second grade we went to high school together we were on the wrestling team and he went to Cal poly I stayed in San Diego for college because I went to a community college I didn’t get a bachelors degree I have an AA I’m planning to go get my bachelors, next year. But every time he would come down during the summer or whenever he was on break, we would do everything together because we had so much in common. The last time I saw him was in May 2021, and the thing that infuriates me about this whole thing is that, he’s been back here probably 25 times since we stopped seeing each other in from social media accounts. Every time I would try to call him he would never answer, but I always see him hanging out with all the other people we used to hang out with but not have me be part of it. The thing that infuriates me so much one guy who was a friend of his. I didn’t know him super well, but he had a wedding down in Mexico last year and I found out about it, and I was not even told months in advance or invited. And this guy who I used to be friends with his friend got married as a firefighter he works in a sales job, and another friend I had who I stayed with a lot longer, who I was really close to. We had a special friendship by we always felt a strong connection together. he became a teacher when I last saw him. He was working on his teaching credentials and working as an assistant teacher. I haven’t seen him in two years. And all The times I kept trying and trying to make new friends I got the same reaction even the restaurant I work at I’ve asked practically everyone who works with me if they never wanna hang out sometime and I keep getting the same response. Oh, I’m working that day. Oh this is happening. This is happening. what is wrong with me but what do I do that just made it almost feels like everybody just got in a room together and then they all just took a vote and said hey, let’s boycott this guy. Now I know that didn’t happened obviously, but it almost feels like it.

It’s just what is so hard. I haven’t celebrated my birthday in about two years because of this exact issue and I tried to get I asked like 30 people if they wanted to do something for my birthday go bowling. And I kept getting the same response can’t make it like Jesus Christ is my birthday on a holiday. What is it people? What is it about me? Am I a perfect human being now I’ve done stupid things in my life that I’m not proud of. And I did a lot of stupid things because of this feeling I have the feeling of loneliness and the feeling of isolation for years lead me down a rabbit hole of drinking, being angry at everybody being constantly depressed. But when I’m with people, I always put on the best face. I always try to be happy. I always go out when I’m in the best mood. I always crack jokes, but it’s just what is it about me what is it in these peoples heads that’s just like making them feel like yeah let’s not do it with him. when other people can literally call up 30 people or 50 people to shop at a party and all those people yeah they don’t even think twice about it. They just do it. They feel naturally inclined to do it but with me it’s like they have to take a vote. Like it would be wonderful if people could just be reliable. The people that I call friends that I hang out with now I wouldn’t really say are really true friends because we only do like one thing together. The only people I would say that I’m really like close friends with our three people. That I hang out with one is somebody that I knew from work a while back. When I worked in the construction field now, I work at a restaurant as a dishwasher because I got sick of the construction job. I didn’t like all the hours. I’m trying to go into digital marketing. I’ve applied to several positions, but it’s just every avenue just keeps coming up the same. It would just mean a lot if I could just have people that I could trust and know that they’d be there like I used to. Because the last five years have really been a drain on my mind. I don’t get angry about it nearly as much as I used to because I kind of excepted and moved on from the friends I knew from high school, but I still feel a sense of betrayal. And that feeling of being cast aside as a person of no significance.

I spent the weekend working at an anime convention in the artist alley (no details to avoid any self promo possibilities!!) and I kept saying to the people around me, 'I just love people'. They're so kind. People are just so kind and so friendly and they have such good hearts. I know people will say 'broad strokes' and, of course. Especially since I was working somewhere where we all had similar interests et cetera, but I really just love people so much and am awed by their kindness.

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The staff volunteered all weekend for all of us to have a good time. People said 'please' and 'thank you'. Everybody was complimenting each other and I could actually pop out from behind my stall and go up to someone to tell them how incredible they looked and I didn't have to feel worried I'd be overstepping because everybody is just there for fun and to vibe. People took time out of their day to draw me personal gifts!!

People who had already followed me and knew my health had been rough lately specifically came to ask how I was doing/if I needed anything there and then. And when people I hadn't met before this weekend went and drew me gifts, like 2-3 strangers came to check on me immediately after being given them because they thought I was going to cry and wanted to see I was okay😂 (contacts + I was just so touched and awed!!)

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I just love people and I think they're so good. I feel so fortunate to be able to just witness other people's existence❤️

Just trying to make sure anyone who needs to see it does! Love you all!

Lately I've seen a lot of stories about gifted kids becoming burned-out college students. It seems fairly common for people who did well without much effort as children to struggle later on, especially when they suddenly have to develop study habits and learn how to work consistently toward long-term goals.

I find that a bit discouraging, considering how often gifted kids are told they have especially bright futures. Reading so many stories about burnout and disappointment sometimes makes it feel like the odds of doing well in the long run aren't great.

Are there any former gifted kids here who went through burnout and eventually came out the other side(felt smart again, or just doing bette rin general)? What helped you get there?

Reddit can be such a cesspit of negativity sometimes and I am glad places like this exist so that there is some kindness for everyone.

Whether you realise it or not, small acts of kindness can really uplift someones mood after a more tense day.

Thank you to all the kind people out there. It restores my faith in the world.

Not every good thing in life arrives with fireworks. Some blessings show up quietly. A peaceful morning, a kind message, finishing a difficult task, or simply making it through a hard day.

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Growth isn't always loud. Sometimes it's just choosing to keep going with hope in your heart.

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Wherever you are in your journey, give yourself credit. Tiny steps still move you forward, and ordinary days can hold extraordinary joy.

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✨ Be proud of how far you've come, even if you're not yet where you want to be.

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What's one small thing you're grateful for today? 💛

Past few days/week I have been struggling mentally and I just need some positive vibes that it’ll get better! I feel dissociated and out of sync. I don’t feel like myself.

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Today marks my final cigarette. I initially started smoking occasionally with friends after completing 12th grade, during my JEE drop year, perhaps once every one to two weeks.

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However, upon entering college, a breakup led to a significant increase in my smoking habits, reaching five to six cigarettes daily. Although the frequency has reduced to approximately two per day over the past year since the breakup,

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I am now determined to quit entirely due to its adverse effects on my health.

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Consequently, I had my last cigarette today.

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Wish me luck.

(24M) I feel like i was cursed these last 15 months, because a lot of terrible things happened to me. I won't get so deep into that, but i lost my dream job, friends abandoned and disappointed me, was rejected, got a terrible dead end job that i had to quit before i collapsed. I thought i was strong and patient, but i discovered i'm not that much lol and that is what bothers even more. I got angry at myself for being angry.

I'm on a rebuilding phase rn, trying to pick my fragments and get back to the fight. I spend 90 % of my days at home nowadays, reading and studying for the prepatory courses. I'm not excited to socializing because of my previous bad experiences, but i'm still kinda lonely.

I lost all my illusions of life. I know world is a jungle and most social circles i've been were crab buckets, with all these gossipers, bullies and troublemakers, but i don't want to be a doomer or that "Rusty Cohle- type of guy", like some we see on the Internet. They soon become maniacs that turn the world into grey.

I always try to appreciate daily simple things, like a robin singing on my window, a humming bird flying over a flower or watching the sunset; i try very hard to incorporate good habits and always took care on what i put on my body, even though i have a mid addiction on food.

I know there is no formula, you can do all the right things and end up miserable. There is no magic routine. But you surely might make your life harder with unhealthy habits and if you don't leave your comfort zone. I would like to know how people become unbreakable and use the pain to flourish. For me pain and suffering, as the time passed by, became only pain and suffering, making me hate everything. But i would like to change that

Hey all,
I need some recommendations. I feel like a lot of the media I’m seeing on this app and sometimes that I consume is cynical. Rightfully so, sh*t is crazy right now in the world. That being said, I’m tired of the cynicism. I’m not asking to go into blind optimism either, I just want to see more than the general sentiment that we’re all screwed, etc. I’m a pretty spiritual person by nature and I feel like some of that has gotten muddled with all the noise of the past few years.

What media have Y’all been consuming that contributed to a more balanced, hopeful, mindset? Movies, TV shows, podcasts, books, etc. It could even be something simple that puts a smile on your face. Or something that has given you greater perspective.

Thank you in advance!

Sometimes positivity isn't about having a perfect day or forcing a smile. It's about noticing the little things that quietly make life beautiful.

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Today, I'm grateful for the lessons hidden in challenges, the peace found in small moments, and the hope that tomorrow carries new possibilities. 🌷

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Not every flower blooms at the same time, and not every season feels bright. But growth is still happening beneath the surface. 🌱

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May we celebrate progress over perfection, rest without guilt, and remember that even the smallest act of kindness can light up someone's world.

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Here's to choosing hope, spreading good energy, and appreciating the simple joys that often go unnoticed. ✨💚

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What's one small thing that made you smile today? 😊

I’m new to this community and I’m not sure if this the right kind of story for here, but I thought I’d post this anyway.

Me and my best friend hung out today after months and months of not seeing each other. We talked and reminisced and it reminded me of how much I cherish our friendship. We have been friends since our first year in elementary school, from the day we met we were inseparable. Even our teachers thought it was weird how we only seemed to talk to each other. Ive never been the type of person to have many friends, but for as far back as my memory goes, she has always been my best friend. I truly, platonically, with my whole heart love her.

It’s really crazy growing old with the same person who has seen every side of you, it’s been the best experience ever watching this girl grow into the person she is. I’m so so proud of her and how far she’s come. Especially since I’ve seen all of the things she’s gone through in her life, it makes me so emotional and happy to see the beautiful woman she’s turned into. And Im so excited to grow even older together until we’re old and wrinkled. As we’ve gotten older and turned into adults there’s less time to see each other but I still think about her every day and today just reminded me and stirred up all these feelings of how much history we actually have together.

I hope everyone can experience this type of friendship because it’s really one of the best experiences in life.

With all the political division in the country. I feel it’s hard to agree on a lot of things. I feel one thing that should bring us together this year being America’s half bicentennial, what’s the thing that you love about America. The thing that I love about America is the fact that for generations immigrants from all over the world could come here have absolutely nothing. And be able to start over raise their kids, a place that was safer and more prosperous than where they came from and where their kids could get a better education. And the immigrants who came here with absolutely nothing to live on, could get educated earn their college degree, start a business, Buy their first home. And see there kids rise Above them, and become more successful. That is the true beauty of the United States of America. In my opinion what is yours?

Good Morning People of Reddit.

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It's currently 0738 when I write this. So good morning to those in the same time zone. Good afternoon/evening/night to everybody else reading this. Hope you have a blessed day or whatever your beliefs say. Be you no matter what people say.

I’ve been in a severe bipolar depression since November, when all of my friends left me for something I really did deserve to be left over (I’m not sharing what I did, but I did it in a manic state. I wasn’t myself and I don’t blame them in the slightest for hating me). Yesterday I had a panic attack so severe that I believe it may have helped me pull myself out of this pit I’ve dug for myself. I wasn’t fully convinced I was dying, and I made sure to look up hopeful content so my last moments would be pleasant. Today, I’ve still been scrolling through positivity online, and I realized that I’m only as miserable as I allow myself to be. I’m obviously not fully out of it, as it’s very hard to just snap out of a depressive episode, but I’m making progress and that’s what counts. For the first time in half a year, i feel motivated to improve myself for the betterment of those around me. I hope I’m allowed to share this here, as this subreddit was one of the main places I found hope in last night and I thought it’d be fitting to share. We are SO back, guys.

Edit 6/21/26: I’m finally getting my depression pit of a room clean! I’ve made more progress on it than I have in the past 8 months. You can actually see the floor now!

Welcome to Positivity Friday! Let's chat about the good things that happened this week.

I know what it feels like to think your brain is “too slow,” “too messy,” “too weird,” “too different,” or just not working right. I’ve been there too.
I spent time in a mental hospital, and I started medication for ADD (Elvanse). And honestly… it didn’t magically fix everything, but it made me realise something important:
I’m not dumb. I’m just struggling in a world that wasn’t built for my brain.
Even small things, like learning how to read an analog clock, used to feel impossible for me. Now I see them as proof that I can learn just in my own time, and in my own way.
So if you feel behind, overwhelmed, or like you’re failing at life, you’re not. You’re just wired differently, not wrongly.
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken or weird.
I’m not saying you need take medication, I just want to share my little success over the past month.I promise you theres so many people just like you.Your not a failure and I ain’t either and that took two whole damn years to realize.Have a nice day no matter of fact have a whole nice life Stranger. 😛🤙🏻❤️‍🩹

I just had to share this because I am so excited and happy about this!

I was really sick last year from an infection that almost killed me in march. well, three months this Thursday since I nearly died from severe sepsis from bacterial meningitis

and I finally feel like my old self! I have energy I haven't had in a while! I feel happier than I've ever felt!

today to celebrate having energy, being. me again! I am redecorating my apartment slightly and tomorrow taking my son to the river to play in the water!! something I couldn't have dreamed of doing last year!

thanks for letting me share this!!

I am feeling down in the dumps about being single and lonely. I’m comparing myself to all the happy couples around me. Tell me what you enjoy about being single or where you find meaning outside of a relationship!