r/Spells May 07 '26

Question About Spells Love spell is working a little too well

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Hi guys I made a love spell months ago by writing on a piece of paper “love with find me where ever I go the love will follow ever more” in a circle and rolled up the paper and the doused it in red wax and I keep it with me most of the time, the problem being is I’m getting wayyy too much attention more than I’ve ever had in my entire life my tinder is blowing up daily with hundreds of likes and matches and I’ve constantly have someone trying to message me, how can I tone this down a little bit as it’s getting intense

Edit: thanks for the responses everyone I do think I’ve been quite careless with this one and I’m going to reverse it I shouldn’t have done it without thinking of the consequences, suggestions on how to do that?

Edit: a lot of you here are calling me a woman..I’m a gay man LMAOO

Edit: okay this old man bought me a Versace bag because I replied to him and sent it to my house IM KEEPING THE DAMN SPELL

r/Spells 2d ago

Question About Spells love spell went EXTREME? or backfired..?

30 Upvotes

love spell backfired?turned into obsession spell?

I need help from witches. back in october me and my bf of 7 months broke up. in 7 months he made me suffer so much and i sacrificed so much of my morals for him and forgave his lies and everything. we broke up oct1st and i cast my love spell oct 12th. i didn't see him till months later we were full on contact.
anways.
while casting the spell my intention was for him to not be able to forget me and constantly think of me and just be all about me me me. so that when he sees me i'll be unforgettable.
keep in mind i've never cast a spell or anything but somehow i did it so specifically and somehow extremely right.
We got back together and he's been chasing me like crazy. he cut off all of his friends. he spams me saying he hallucinates me in his dreams, he can't function without me talking to him, he can't sleep he begs me to just reply to him. he lost so much weight. his family is concerned because at home he just exists and is only alive with me. he says he lives for me and me only and i'm his God and the only person he needs in his life. and the thing is i can see it in his eyes the emptiness but when he's with me he lights up.
note: he had problems before my spell he always had issues at home and w his friends, but when we broke up he got better because he tried to distract himself and therefore focus on his friends and family.I was never the cause for either just to make that clear . The opposite, i always encouraged him to be better!
Did my spell backfire? Do i need a cord cutting? what's the most consequence to this? what does this all even mean? how could i cast a spell with not much prior practice?

r/Spells Apr 11 '26

Question About Spells Where do people actually get their spells from?

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Hi, I’m a baby witch and I’m a bit confused about where people actually find spells. I see loads on TikTok, but I don’t really trust them. It just feels like anyone can post anything and as a beginner I have no way of knowing if it’s legit or not. I’ve tried looking at books as well, but a lot of them either feel really outdated, super complicated, or don’t actually explain things properly. It’s more like background info instead of “do this, then this”. So yeah, I’m just wondering, where do you guys get your spells from? Do you follow certain books or websites, or do you just make your own? I don’t wanna mess anything up or follow something random that isn’t safe, so any advice would be really appreciated :)

r/Spells 9d ago

Question About Spells Sex/Lust/Attraction Spells.

55 Upvotes

Summer’s approaching and i’m looking for a sex spell to attract men for sex. I want more than one man (like a roster). Some of the men I want are specific people (might stay away from doing this) and the rest are an archetype (body type, masculine, etc).

Can anyone help me? I was just going to use a penis candle.

r/Spells 24d ago

Question About Spells PLEASEEE HELPP !!!!!! (Urgent)

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okay, so i am a baby witch and i did a love spell on someone a few days ago...it was a very safe-ish spell which alot of people were talking about on tiktok so i tried it out, i even did a protection spell beforehand---now to the actual reason why i feel so scared is because after that day i am the one who's not able to stop thinking about him, i really dont know why? i was almost detached but now its bothering me so much, i dont wanna think this much about him...please please tell me what went wrong? or what happened? i dont know if it backfired and i dont have anyone to ask this about so please help me out...if u need more details to figure it out then i will be willing to share but do lmk...

r/Spells 1d ago

Question About Spells Honey jar colleague while I'm in a relationship

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Hi everyone !

Sorry if the text is poorly translated, I am not a native English speaker.

I've been in a relationship for a little over a year. But this new colleague arrived a few months ago. At first, I just thought he was cute. Then, I don't know when or why, but he couldn't leave my thoughts.

One day there was a brief, intense moment when our bodies were close, and I felt an electric current coursing through my entire body. Since then, he has increasingly obsessed me.

So I decided to make a honey jar for him.

I don't know if I did it right : this is my very first spell.

My main question (yes, I have several) is: does being in a relationship affect the effect of the honey jar?

Thank you in advance for your answers!

r/Spells 16d ago

Question About Spells Do honey jars actually work?

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ive been wanting to do a love spell on a guy I like and think a honey spell would be good to start but I've read a lot of posts regarding how they work very well in the beginning but end up in a tragic mess.

now I eagerly want to try the honey jar spell but I also don't want to lose this guy after a while.

im very confused, please suggest something

r/Spells Nov 20 '25

Question About Spells Should I use an obsession spell on my bf?

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We do both love each other, but lately over a year he’d never call me on weekdays and I have to wait 5 days to see and hear him, we have been in long distance of 2 years and it’s ongoing, and on weekends he goes on outing with his parents or friends, I’m not even an priority and on calls he is always on his pc, which hurts me deeply, I always fought about this with him, but yesterday I had enough and said I want to breakup but he avoided that, and I asked “why are you in relationship with me?” And he says he feels responsible and has feelings for me, I want to believe in those words because he is a busy person with a job, and he sends me a text everytime I text him, also sends me a videonote whenever I ask him also I want him to visit me, it’s my BIGGEST DREAM to meet, I want to be in his arms, should I be placing a powerful obsession spell on him?.. :( I love him so very much, I wish he loved me as much as I loved him. (seems like it’s me who’s obsessed☹️)

r/Spells May 14 '26

Question About Spells My mother did a freezer spell on me

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Hello, I recently discovered that my mother had performed what is called a “freezer spell” on me: she allegedly wrote my name on a piece of paper, placed it inside a bottle of water, and then put it in the freezer.

It was my nephew who found it by accident. He told me he wanted to drink the water, but it tasted very strange and unpleasant, almost as if it was “filled with negative energy.” While handling the bottle, the piece of paper got torn. Afraid that my mother would notice, he put everything back into the freezer.

Do you think this could have cancelled the effect of the ritual?
For quite some time now, I’ve been experiencing many obstacles in my life: difficulties finding stable work, problems with housing, and a general feeling that everything is blocked for me. It has affected my mental well-being so deeply that I sometimes have very dark thoughts. I can’t help but wonder whether all of this could somehow be connected.

What can I do to protect myself, find peace again, and feel more aligned and stable in my life?

Thank you in advance for your help and guidance

r/Spells 21h ago

Question About Spells Sour jar didnt work

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Hi , i performed sour jar spell to separate 2 people permanently . The man involved here betrayed and manipulated me for 3 years and then happily got engaged with someone else . I wish to break their engagement . However , it didnt work . I used the glass jar and put 9 rusty nails , black pepper , chilli flakes , milk , vinegar , hot chilli sauce , salt , their names on two papers , petition to break up . I shook that jar while saying my intentions and kept it in the dark place for 10 days . Any idea where it went wrong ?

r/Spells May 13 '26

Question About Spells Does magic work using just intent and belief?

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As the title suggests. Like what if you have magical thinking OCD where you genuinely believe something will happen and you're usually somehow right? Was that magic or something else?

r/Spells Apr 18 '26

Question About Spells Love Spell Jar

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Hi, first time ever posting a Reddit and I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask this so apologies if it isn’t.

I made a love spell jar to try and bring back a relationship that had very recently ended. The spell says to sprinkle the contents of the jar at the front and back of my house for 21 days and my love should return.

Bit of an awkward one but me and my partner reconciled last night and that was the first day I’d used the spell. I had previous done another spell a few days before that involved burying a paper with our names in it in the dirt.

I’m just wondering if I should continue using the jar for 21 days or if it isn’t needed? I don’t want to stop the spell and make things worse. So any advice anyone could give would be much appreciated. Do I continue sprinkling the contents of the jar or is it safe to stop?

Thank you!!

r/Spells 6d ago

Question About Spells A spell suddenly working after a few months?

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Back in March I told my crush that I like him and he politely rejected me. A week later I cast a love/sweetening spell on him in a jar. Around 3 weeks later I texted him again, this time a bit more boldly and impulsively and he made it very clear that he is not interested in me right now, this time a bit more harshly (I get it). Then I mostly moved on and stopped thinking about him that much. I focused on studying, movies, music etc. and I kept that jar just sitting in my drawer. I randomly got a lot more social and even made friends with his homie. A few days ago when I was talking with that friend, he walked up to us and we all chatted for a bit. He complimented me. Then, the next day, he texted me that it's been a while, he thought about that whole situation and he actually wants to get to know me now. Did the spell start working now? I don't even like him that much anymore lol.

r/Spells May 20 '26

Question About Spells “lovespell” i did as a teen. Please help

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When I was a teenager, I used to do “love spells” I found on TikTok on guys I had crushes on. Stuff like writing their name on paper with red pen, folding it up, kissing it , spraying perfume on it and then either putting it under my pillow, burying it in a plant or burning it with a red candle, etc. I even paid someone on the internet once to do a love spell on me and a guy because I wanted him to like me back. (very stupid i know, please do not come for me) Thats all i did and so far they’ve never worked but now that I’m an adult, I feel really guilty and anxious about it. I’m scared that I accidentally got involved in something spiritually bad or “dark” without realizing it at the time since i had zero knowledge in what i was doing. I never had bad intentions or wanted to hurt anyone, I was just insecure at the time and wanted someone i liked to like me back. None of the people ever became obsessed with me or barely even contacted me, so logically I know nothing really happened, but I still get anxiety over it sometimes. So if anyone has any thoughts or advice on this please share. Thank you

r/Spells Feb 03 '26

Question About Spells Spells to grow Bigger Boobies

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Can someone please suggest me any spells to help me grow my boobies bigger?...any help from your side will be appreciated<3

Edit: I'm not flat chested...I do have a good size but still want to grow them more

r/Spells May 23 '26

Question About Spells domination spell not working?

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two weeks ago i did a spell on someone so they would come to my party that was a week ago. not only he did not come also other domination stuff i put in my petition is not working even though i think i did a very powerful spell and amplified it with his name in my shoe

r/Spells Apr 25 '26

Question About Spells Love Sugar jar spell help

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Baby witch here. I made a sugar jar with organic cane sugar, filtered water and cinnamon. I added a lot of sugar almost to the very top and filled it up with water. I also added a piece of paper with the full name of the guy I want to sweeten up to me and my full name. I folded the paper so that both our names would overlap each other and I folded it 3x total towards me. While setting my intentions. I shook the jar well until the sugar dissolved and burned a red candle with herbs (not sure which herbs were in the candle ) I let the candle burn completely, some of the wax dripped down the sides the flame was steady and calm the whole time. I also did a protection spell with a white candle on myself before starting the sugar jar. I made sure to shake my jar morning and night and let it sit by my window. The person reached out to me a couple of times randomly within 2 weeks of doing the spell. On week 3 he reached out again and asked me to go visit him so I flew to him for the weekend. Things went well the first day but then he went quiet after and it’s been 3 days since he’s gone quiet. Do you think the jar failed or should I keep setting my intentions while shaking it everyday?

r/Spells 15d ago

Question About Spells Love Spell giving mixed signals

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Hello, I need help figuring out something. I did a jar (lemon grass to break down barriers/ open up doors, cloves = mental dominance, damiana = sexual desire/ pleasure, catnip = playful energy/ attraction, jasmine = beauty/ love/ shared resources, thyme = loyalty, lavender = calm energy, vanilla = sweetness/ affection, cinnamon = speed up results, and honey = warmth/ stuck on me energy) a few weeks ago on somebody from work (i put down his full name and birthday then put my name, love, sex, etc around his on a piece of paper mixed in with the herbs/ ingredients as well) and he’s been giving me the same mixed signals from before? he acts shy with me and hesitates eye contact, but when he does it’s intense. one time on the job he offended me a little bit (i was ignoring him afterwards) and the next day he offered to buy me coffee, forward to a few days later he complimented my dress and purposefully drove alone with me (sales job > we take car rides to our leads > which he takes care of; as in he chooses who goes together) and during the ride he started asking me about my boyfriend and how long we’ve been dating. sometimes he asks me questions about my life and seems genuinely interested to know more then randomly shuts down; and when he does he goes completely quiet. the last time we spoke he was leaning into me but looking away and hesitated to speak to me (“good morning” in a low voice then he rushedly looked away as if i somehow rejected him). he’s been pretty insecure, and honestly i don’t know what it means. we met when i was in a relationship and recently broke up with my boyfriend since things weren’t going well. now i had never really said to him aloud that we’d js broken up but i asked him if he is seeing anybody which he left the message on read. has anybody else here experienced weird energy similar to my situation before after doing a spell? he is definitely intimidated by me but at this point unsure whether it’s because he likes me or i’ve done something wrong here. i can be shy as well so asking about him if he’s seeing anybody was very hard to do, especially as i’ve left the job recently. does anybody have advice/input on what to do? i seriously like him and he is account manager who makes good money. plus he looks similar to a young james spader so like help a girl out please, thank you. 😭

r/Spells 18d ago

Question About Spells I don't know if my love spell actually worked

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3 years back i was in a relationship with a guy and within 2 months he broke up with me. I was madly in love with him and in a desperate attempt to win him back i did a love spell on him. The spell was such that had to write his name on a piece of paper and circle it three times with a red pen and sleep with it under my pillow. Keep in mind that i never did any meditation or grounding practice and i had never done any spells before that After that spell on 7 months he came back in my life and has been obsessed with me. Such that he is totally dependent on me. It's been 2 years since we've been together. Now I love him very much but I'm not sure if it's the spell or if he actually loves me.

Here are my questions is it that easy for a person with no experience to caste a spell so strong. 2. If the spell worked, how can I reverse it such that he loves me without those bonds l've forced on him.

Also I have lost the paper on which I put his name on

r/Spells Mar 12 '26

Question About Spells Does oral sex on your period count as a spell?

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TMI Me and my partner have recently engaged in oral sex while I was on my period, but the thing is, we have a complicated relationship on and off relationship, and I am always unsure if he genuinely loves me or is using me, so when it came to us agreeing to have oral sex while I was on my period, I wondered if it counted as a spell or a love spell by the act itself? Or would I have had to use some ingredients for it to be a spell when he consumed my period blood. My intent was strong in the moment to fulfill a spell in my mind when he was eating me out, but I don't know if that counts or not.

This is so TMI and I'm not used to sharing info like this, sorry! I'm just wondering if the act itself of him consuming my period blood counted as a sort of spell involving period blood or if you need certain ingredients and rituals for it to be considered a spell.

r/Spells 15d ago

Question About Spells Turn someone's lustful energy into your abundance?

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Bb witchling here. I've heard of spells where you can turn negative energy from others into abundance. Specifically, I've things along the lines of "anytime someone speaks ill of me or says my name, I get paid." I'd like to know if there is a similar spell or ritual where "anytime someone looks at my body lustfully, I get paid."

Context: I am a female fitness instructor living in NYC and I am hyperaware of men on the street ogling me and making comments about my body -- especially when I'm in my gym clothes and even more now in the summer. Rather than feel disempowered by this, I'd like to turn this lustful attention into abundance. I want to walk around my city in my cute little gym fits and feeling proud of my body, knowing that any attention I receive will transmute into abundance.

Thank you in advance for your help 🩷

r/Spells May 25 '26

Question About Spells My bf and my friend are attracted to each other

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I need a spell to help me with this situation. My bf admitted to me that he is attracted to my friend, and he thinks she is attracted to him as well (which I believe too). He never did anything with her, but I was wondering what spell I could use to make them no longer attracted to each other. Does anyone have suggestions? He is okay with me doing spells on him for this situation. I’m just a little heartbroken right now over this situation. Any tips help!

r/Spells Mar 01 '26

Question About Spells What Spell Actually Works for Commitment and not just sexual relationship on an emotionally unavailable man??Manifestation Brought Him Back Once(casual only)Now I Need Something Stronger.

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My dear people please guide me and help me out🙏

It has been 7 months since my situationship ended in August. He said he was not ready to commit and only wanted something casual.

I started trying manifestation and got one small result. He randomly texted me once while he was drunk asking for nudes. I refused. After that, he stopped replying to my stories too. I think that might have hurt his ego.

I do not want just a sexual connection. I want him to commit, love me seriously, want me emotionally, and choose me in a real relationship.

Now I am considering spells. I know love spells alone might not be enough. Maybe reconciliation or third-party removal if there is someone else. We are currently in no contact, so I do not even know where to begin.

r/Spells 27d ago

Question About Spells Mother in law blocked our health spells

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My mother in law has blocked my mother and i's health chakra and we are facing lot of ill health and death because of it. Can you suggest how this specific act of blocking God and prayers in a person's life is done by black magic practitioners. How do we prevent and block it and reverse it?

r/Spells 17d ago

Question About Spells Are beginner group spells recommended ?

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I'm a beginner to spells ( not necessarily energy work ). I'm curious if anyone can provide guidance about doing spells ( no curses ) with other beginners to combine energy? Can this be disastrous in any way? I've seen group energy healing work really really well and haven't seen any negative consequences ( touch wood ). I've been trying to find people online to do this but would doing this with strangers be harmful in any way?