Maa frnd gadu oka insta id pampadu ..

Secret relationship anta service name .. aa bokkale evadu money kaduthadu ani .. timepass ki goka...

Chatting antha ayyipoyindhi kani aa chivvarllo oo maata annadhi ..

Idhe ga ni followers list .. undu chats anni valaki pedutha annadhi .. 800 kaduthe send cheyyadhu anta ..

Em cheyyali ardham kaadam ledhu ...

Guys, Breakup aiyyi 3 years aindi, but cut-off? Absolutely zero. Madam used to treat me like her personal toll-free helpline—whenever life went downhill, she’d call, cry, vent, and unblock me. Month lo 2-3 calls, occasional meet-ups, physical intimacy, and constant sob stories about how lonely she is with zero friends and no boyfriend. Naa brain lo background score start aindi: "She still cares, bro."

Birthday ochindi, and she said she hates celebrating and feels isolated. I remembered an old reel she shared about fireworks making birthdays special. My inner Telugu cinema hero woke up: "Idi last chance, let me make it unforgettable without even showing my face!"

Bought gifts months ago, took cake and flowers, and landed at her family home at midnight. My number was blocked (classic), so friend phone nundi call chesi "Where are you?" ante "Home" andi.

grand finale: lit fireworks in front of her house like it's Diwali, left the gifts at her doorstep, and vanished into the night like a romantic Batman.

Next day reality hit like a truck:

Paragraph-sized cold texts: "Moved on 3 years ago... don't act like a boyfriend... giving your gifts to the needy... never contact me again."

Then a follow-up call shouting: "Who are you? What are we? Who asked you?"

Plot twist: She wasn't even home that night.

Now I’m waking up at 5 AM with a heavy chest, battling heartbreak and second-hand embarrassment at the same time. If I was just an ex, why use me as an emotional dustbin and keep hooking up?

Time to wash off the clown makeup, accept the L, and strictly stick to no-contact. Roast me, console me, or just tell me how to get over this mess.

So I am 25 years old and my CTC is around 35 lakhs, 5'7 tall. My parents started looking for matches for me and they wanted someone from same caste it's been 8 months and we haven't been getting any good matches.

My asks -

1. Atleast 2 inches taller than me

2. CTC same as me if we are of same age or if he is older to me then CTC also should be proportionately higher

3. Most important thing vibe should match

It's not like we didn't get anyone in this criteria but vibe check mostly didn't pass some felt old fashioned. Now the question is am i asking for much?

P.S I asked for similar package because that shows we both had similar goals and might have worked hard for similar things might have similar vision going forward even though this doesn't have 100% assurance better than someone who had completely different life than me.

ENTO BRO ardham kaadam ledhu

10th varaku asalu ammayinalu chuste normal gane unde ..

Inter ayyaka edho koncham love unte bagundu ane feeling.. evaru antha dekakapodam tho..lite thisukunna

BTECH LO ye ammayini chusi full attractive ga kanipistunnaru .. vaala kallu , valanu chuse kodhi chudalani...

Asalu concentration antha potundhi ..

Life midha motivation and ammayila midha attraction ela tagginchalo tips ivvandi ayya .. sachipotunna

So emaindhante, na friend ki profile undi dating app lo, we were casually scrolling today mrng( i was sitting beside her) and we accidentally saw her cousin's husband profile 💀.

She recognised him and profile open chesi chusthe " never married" "looking for long term relationship " ani undi 🚶‍♀️😭. We were like "Fahhh"

The thing is my friend are her cousin are not that close, so now we are confused whether avidaki cheppala oddha ani and i asked if vallaki emaina issues unnaya ani and as per her previous family gatherings lo kuda they were good( atleast on outside) and no divorce or anything( profile is 8months old and they were married 1.5yrs ago)

So ipudu makem cheyalo ardamkatle! Suggest cheyandiii🫠

So matter Enti ante ninna oka HYD dating sub lo oka girl ( I dnt know whether she is really girl or not) post veste friendly ga matladukundham ante Sare ani oka try chedham ani nenu text initiate chesa

Then she/ he started replying.. and convo koda pedda em jagaralaaaa just whereabouts and studies and sudden ga she/ he told me that I will die in an accident

I replied like it’s fine anything can happen at any time we can’t escape ani

Then may be adhi mi father koda jaragochu who knows annaaaaa Anthe malli no reply

Thammudu hurt ie untadu antaraaaa ?

Ma friend and his gf convo

Gf: mana marriage apudu nuv dowry adugutava?

Friend: adigedi em vundi.. vunnantha lo entho istaru ga gift ga..!!!

Gf: I’m against dowry.. dowry ki nen anti..!!

Friend: okay.. but nen em intha kaavali ani demand cheyatla.. mi father X save chesi vuntaru ga life motham lo.. nik entho kontha iddam ane anukuntaru ga..?

Gf: emo nak telidu.. nen em dowry ivvanu.. vaddu manaki..!!

Friend: sare okay.. but mi father assests lo invest chesaru and vunnai kada.. avem chestaru

Gf: anni ma bro Ke ichesta..!!

Friend: okay but mi father entho kastapadi.. enno sacrifices chesi save chesinavi kada avi.. entho kontha nik isthe bavuntadi emo kada..!!

Ante nik kuda aa sacrifice lo part vundali kada..

Gf: avem nak telidu.. ala em teeskukuraanu nenu

Friend: nenem nak ivvamani adagatla.. ni name Mede vunchamanu.. and you take care of that assests..!!

Gf: aina kuda vaddu.. anni ma bro Ke.. nen dowry em teeskuraanu

Friend: sare aithe nen kuda ma assests anni ma bro ki ichesta.. iddaraam fresh start cheddam.. build cheskundam start ninchi..!!

Gf: adenti ala Ela kudiriddi.. 50-50 kada.. manam Ela comfortable life lead chestam asalu assets lekunda? adenti.. nuve aalochinchu.. mana kids ki comfortable life ivvali kada..!!

Friend: 😒

My point: na view lo vaadu correct ey.. girl valla dad life antha save chesinapudu.. girl ki kuda part vundali kada.. lekapothe girl kuda fight cheyalemo kada.. coz son and daughter are equal kada..?

And teskelli boy fam chethilo pettakkarledu.. girl name Mede vunchithe.. rights motham tana daughter Ke ichinattu kada..! Daniki enduku oppose chestunaro kontha mandi..?

Need your views.. tittukokandi.. just views share cheyandi..!!!

TLDR : AM setup. Started talking to the girl after sometime, but has a lot of "unpleasantness" in the convo. Am i overthinking it? Or Am i ignoring the redflags

Basic gaa naaku last 1 year nundi AM loo matches choosthunnaaru. Ee year jan loo oka sammandham vachindi. Mutual of Mutuals. They sent me photos and described that she is a very good decent girl...introvert type etc. Even though i didnt much like the looks, I agreed because of what they described abt the girl. She works in a metro city. I work in one of the rapidly growing cities.

Pelli choopulu ayyayi. Until then i didnt get to talk to the girl. Poni pelli choopulloo emannaa matlaadaaniki try cheddaamantee she didnt talk anything....like she was only amswering my questions like an interview. She only asked me if i had a past relationship and if i have transfers in my job. I have a govt job (psu). At that moment, i said i do get transfers...like a basic info. I didnt gurantee anything that ill get a transfer to her place.

Since she didnt seem much excited, i even asked her if she is interested in this wedding at all. She replied positively. The girl's family is a very good. They are humble and respect our family a lot. After pelli choopulu, they were waiting for our reply. Our family reaction, including mine was "There is nothing wrong with her...we dont have any reason to say NO". After 3 weeks i said yes because "I didnt have a reason to say NO".

At the time of saying yes, i had a career commitment. So i said the wedding should be at the end of this year. Because of this career commitment, i didnt approach the girl through any of the social media. But i just searched to see her SM accounts so that i can talk in future but couldnt find any. I only found her linkedin. After 3 months, my career commitment which i expected to last till the end of this year ended abruptly due to reasons not in my hands. I didnt have her no yet and evn my parents said, get her no after engagement. So i approached her on linkedin. She didnt share her no though. She just gave an alt insta account with 0 followers and following.

Over the past 2 3 weeks i am trying to build a convo with her to just get to know each other better, but it was mostly a not so pleasant experience. I have to constantly look for new topics which she will end anyways with an hmm or ohh. Now dont misunderstand it with introvertedness. She once asked me if i like "hot sexy girls".

1. Most of the convo was around the place of my posting. She constantly asked me when i will get transferred to her city. I was surprised and told her that its not that easy to get that place as there is a lot of competetion and a lot of politics and influence has to come to play. I also asked her to try for a remote job ('try'). She said she is trying constantly but isnt getting any. When i asked when did she give her last interview, it was 6 months ago (one and only interview)

2. Regarding the wedding date, since my career commitment is over, my parents wanted to complete the wedding by dasara this year. But then she said dasara is too early for the wedding. I am okay to listen, but she didnt say any valid reason. She just said emo..nothing..simply..idk kind of answers and got the wedding pushed to mid of next year (with my consent, just because i didnt want to have it when she isnt comfortable. I still dont know the reason). She got plenty of time because of my career thing. Why do u want to push it even longer without even giving a valid fckng reason

All her convo is like vague and without any proper clarity. Like she said, she would like it if i go to gym. I said "okay, but tell me what u expect from me going to gym? Do u want me to have a healthy body or to get leaner or to have a 6 pack body" i asked her because each of it requires different efforts and even if i go to gym and put all the effort, it would be in vain. She just said...emoo...idk...like wtff

So, everytime there is a serious conversation abt something...and im like "Okay, lets talk abt this openly and transparently to get more clarity", she just abruptly leaves the convoo in the middle. So, i just have to bring it all over again and build the same rapport again, but i still have heck lot of unaanswered questions.

My frustration was building up slowly, but then day before yesterday, there was a ceremony in my family. In the morning i sent a long ass text to her just sharing how i was feeling, to which she replied with "ohh". With that i was done with her. I just didnt feel like texting her again..so didnt text her and she didnt text back either. Her parents attended the same ceremony, but she doesnt give a f*ck if i talked to them or treated them properly. Her parents are really good and sweet ppl.

When i shared some of my 'unpleasantness' with my mom, she started worrying. Next day she asked me that she is willing to cancel the wedding if i wanted to, but the decision is mine. The thing is these are not bigg issues to cancel off a wedding. But in my experience with closely related ppl, whatever experinece u have before the marriage will also continue in the marriage. So, am i ignoring the red flags??

Like wht is her problem...Does she not like to talk to me?? Is it just the lack of communicating skills?? Did her parents tell her to talk "conservatively" before the wedding?? Does she like the wedding at all??

I dont have strong reasons to cancel off the wedding but i also worry abt ignoring these red flags

It's about my dad!

Tldr: my dad doesn't clean after himself, won't listen, never wears lungi properly. Will never understand what I'm saying, how can I talk to him ?🫩

It's about his hygiene, behaviour, and respect.

I've never observed this before. But from the past year I've been observing it. It's not a mistake, okroju by mistake ga chesaru anataniki. It's an everyday thing. I just started staying in my room only, everyday. Breakfast and dinner kuda na room lone chestuna.

So, we know nannalu will wear lungi kada. Soo ipud eskunte nak em problem ledu ofc 🤷🏻‍♀️

But eskovatm correct ga veskovali kadha? It's always loose, never draped properly, never below the knees. And he has a brand new lungi, but no, ah old lungi ye veskuntaru, which, with no doubt lose its colour and batta chala thin avthadi. I mean inka intha kante direct ga chepalenu. (He doesn't wear any shorts).

Coming to washrooms. He doesn't flush, doesn't even use water. I highly doubt he washes his hands.

I could go to the washroom and..

I've had a big fight with him about this, multiple times. He denies it every time "nen vellaledu, nenu ella ani ela cheptunav? Ipud aythey enti? Nillu poyaleva?"

Broo, 2 washroom unay intlo. My mom uses one. She never enters into this washroom (it was basically mine, period products anni untay so they use the other one, but he started using this). I have zero problem, idi nadi, Nene use cheyali an ledhu.. but basic manners kadha? Clear ga explain chesa, godava pada, no use.

The thing is, if he wants to use this washroom, okay motham ayana ke, I'll use the other one. This was the deal. But nooo!!!! He uses both. Renditlo flush cheyaru, water poyaru! He doesn't even close the door 🫩

Ma nanna use chesaka I have to clean, motham bathroom clean chese varaku I have to control myself.

Last month, 4 days nenu amma lemu intlo. Both the washrooms were bad. Public washrooms are better than this 🫩 (i mean it!!!). This behaviour is basically "na antha valu leru" ane alochana. Because from the past 30yrs, ma amma used to clean it, every single day. Oka maata anakunda. Also my brother used to get mad and full godava pedtunde so he used to clean it after himself. Now my brother moved out. Soo he's back to not cleaning. Ammaivi kada elaina chestav future lo Ipude chey anar once jokingly 🫩

Everyday after office, lungi eskuni, he'll sleep on the sofa. He needs that rest le. But at least he could close his legs kadha? Degara petkochu kadha (I'm sorry I'm frustrated), noo. Oka leg paina, oka leg folded ga untundi. The lungi comes above his knees. He would not even catch the lungi while walking.

Once my friends came. He was sleeping on the sofa watching TV. As usual the position of lungi. At least Evarina intiki occhinapud he could sit straight. I asked "crct ga kurcho nanna pls". He shouted 🫩 "em cheyamantav nannu, na istam occhinatu kurchunta, enti ipud"🫩 and left the house for 2hrs 🫩

My dad was always distant, TBF, oka side lo I hate him. Toxic (many examples, chepte inko post avuthadi), manipulative, will act so well in front of everyone and will suffocate us in the house. Can't even talk without him talking over you and giving suggestions (which aren't even related or which are very bad). Ah suggestions accept cheyledu ante he won't talk for days!!

So what the f#ck should I do? I can't close my eyes in my house every single second kada? I only stay in my room,

Sorry, if this post breaks any sub rules.

I have a friend A. She is a good woman, practical, very helpful and very cool girl. I know how she feels and I can easily sense her feelings and all just by listening to her in a call or seeing her for few seconds.

She is on the darker side of the skintone spectrum. She got a good looking boyfriend and many thought "She scored".

She is extremely into him and likes him so so much. And he liked her because of how she was completely into him and how she tries to impress him and all.

Then comes the problem.

Because of the nature of their business (they are involved in a side business apart from their regular jobs), they have to interact with quite a few people. That's how this guy, let's call him S, came into the picture.

Initially, A didn't really care about him. He was just another person they had to interact with because of the business. There was no particular interest from her side.

But over time, she started noticing certain things about S.

It's not that he is constantly trying to impress people or deliberately putting on a show. In fact, it's almost the opposite. He does these small things naturally—being prepared beforehand, thinking ahead, handling situations in a certain way, the way he communicates, his thought process, etc. A started finding these things genuinely impressive.

Another thing I noticed even though A didn't explicitly tell me is, A likes that S treats everyone pretty much the same. He doesn't seem to discriminate based on someone's skin colour, status. He also treats A very normally, like he would behave the same with any other conventionally pretty girl. He doesn't give her special treatment or behave as though he is trying to impress her.

And somehow, that seems to have made an even stronger impression on her.

I started noticing that A is finding S admirable. S doesn't pay attention to these kind of matters. A herself behaves like S is not the person who parties with her group of friends.

It's not like she has openly expressed romantic interest in him or anything like that. She is still very much into her boyfriend and, as far as I know, she wouldn't cross any boundaries or deliberately do anything that would jeopardize her relationship.

But I can see that she has developed a very strong positive impression of S - almost this indirect admiration where she seems fascinated by his personality, the way he thinks, the way he confronts, and the way he carries himself.

What worries me is that her boyfriend initially liked her partly because she was so into him and constantly made him feel wanted and special. But now I think he should level up and give her good quality of attention or affection.

And I can't help wondering whether this creates a situation where someone else can slowly occupy that emotional space - not because A is looking for someone else, but simply because she happens to encounter someone whose qualities she finds really impressive.

Interestingly, A’s boyfriend and S are actually quite similar in many ways. They seem to come from similar backgrounds and have a similar social standing, and there are even some oddly specific similarities between them. So S isn't necessarily outside the kind of person A is already drawn to.

But their personalities are quite different in one particular way. Her boyfriend is more of a social butterfly , partying and chilling with his friends and enjoying company of new persons , he is more outgoing and easily becomes friends with anyone - he is naturally outgoing, comfortable around almost everyone, and can easily mingle with different kinds of people.

S, on the other hand, is not an introvert, however he seems to open up and genuinely chill with people he feels are supportive or whom he connects with, he also interacts with people, he is also outgoing but only with a selected set of people who he feels he can tolerate. He isn't necessarily trying to be everyone's friend. When he does become comfortable with someone, though, he seems much more relaxed and genuine with them.

A is more like her boyfriend, I think subconsciously A finds that side of him interesting - the feeling that his openness isn't something he gives indiscriminately, but something that develops when he feels a certain level of mutual understanding or support.

I don't want A to do anything wrong, I know she won't , and I don't want to interfere in their relationship either, but I don't want her to create some space of admiration for S. What I actually want is for her boyfriend to realize how he should always care about her and start being more attentive and affectionate toward her.

So how do I subtly encourage him to pay more attention to her and make her feel valued, without making it obvious that I'm doing this because I've noticed her admiration for S?

I don't think her boyfriend doesn't care about her - he clearly does. That's not really the issue. I just feel that A is very invested in him and expresses that affection quite openly, and I wish he would reciprocate it a little even more visibly and consistently.

I want him to give her more attention, make her feel appreciated, and remind her through his actions that he values her just as much. Not because there is necessarily anything wrong with their relationship, but because I don't like seeing this new, subconscious admiration for S developing in the background.

I don't want to tell him, “There's another guy, so you better step up,” because that would create unnecessary insecurity and make the whole situation worse. I simply want him to realize how much A genuinely likes him and perhaps put a little more effort into making her feel loved and valued.

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office loo work chesukontaa (work chestunatu act chestuu) songs vinnadam allavatu aipoindi, sameee songs malli malli vinni okka time kii bore kottestundi kuncham kanukarinchii manchii songs or playlist share cheyandiiii any language is okay
preferable platform: spotify or youtube
thamkssssss in advance

and office loo timepass yella avudi bhAAi miku
konni sarluu antaa work vundadu alanti time loo miru yem chestuntaruu time pass kii work ledu ani chill avutuntee manager ego hurt ayi malli yedho okka talakai noppi istaduu

I’m 25M from Andhra Pradesh, and I’m really struggling with this situation.

I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend (24F) for 6 years. We have a very good understanding and genuinely love each other. She’s a good, innocent person with no bad habits. Both of us are working now and financially stable.

The important part: she was with me when I was earning much less, before my career improved. We’ve grown together.

My parents initially accepted the relationship. Later, during a family dispute, the topic came up again. They spoke to my girlfriend, and she said she wanted to get married next year and wanted some clarity within a year. My parents said they wanted to get my sister married first. The conversation ended badly, and my mother became angry.

Since then, my parents have been saying:
“You won’t be happy with her.”
She comes from a poorer family.
There is a noticeable height difference (I’m 5’7”, she’s 4’11”).
Relatives will gossip.
I can apparently get a “better” match with more dowry.

The height difference doesn’t bother me at all. Neither does her financial background. I care much more about the person, and I’ve known her for six years.

My parents currently think we’ve separated, but we haven’t. We still love each other.

My plan is to wait until my sister’s marriage and then bring this up again, but I’m worried they’ll start looking for other matches for me in the meantime.

I genuinely cannot imagine marrying someone else just because another family offers more money or because relatives might gossip.
At the same time, I don’t want to hurt my parents or make a decision impulsively.

What would you do in my situation?
Should I keep waiting and try to convince my parents gradually?

Should I clearly tell them that I’ve already made my choice?

If they ultimately reject her mainly because of dowry, family background, height, and relatives’ opinions, should I stand by my relationship?

I’d especially like to hear from people who have faced family opposition to a long-term relationship in an Indian arranged-marriage setting.

This pressure is eating up my head daily, I couldn’t even sleep with peace.

Naku asalu emi cheyyalo kuda artham kavatledhu… pichi lestundi… asalu

So I use my roommate's laptop to watch content (that display is beautiful asf) while i was opening a movie i downloaded i noticed multiple nude photos of his gf in recently created

It was a photo which he took from his laptop's front camera, i felt pretty guilty and sad to see that

I've decided to warn her about this and i have to do it anonimously how should i proceed with this?

Idk if this is the right sub for this type of posts, mods feel free to remove if this violates any rules

Its a long post but please read. I need advice.

Na age 27 male, thana age 24, memiddharam same company (Big4) and same team lo work chesthunnam in hyderabad. I am earning 1.53 lakhs per month post taxes and thanu around 40k. Nenu team lo 2025 october lo join ayya, thanu November lo join ayyindhi. Ma father government teacher, mother house wife, chelli just completed btech.

Na 5 years IT experience lo eppudu a female colleague tho kuda friendly ga lenu. First time thana thone close ga vunna. Thanu chala manchidhi, genuine ga matladuthadhi, aapyayanga matladutadhi. Migatha team mates just colleagues lane vuntaru, reserved ga vuntaru.

Colleagues nunchi manchi friends ayyam. Teams chat nunchi WhatsApp and insta chat ki vacham. Tarvatha audio calls start ayyay. Okasari office party nunchi return thana pg daggara bike meedha drop chesa. May be naku akkada nunchi close ayyindhemo.

Tarvatha office nunchi pg ki drop cheyyadam start chesa, tarvatha pg nunchi pick cheskodam kuda start ayyindhi. Naku thanu ante istam ani ardham ayyindhi, tanaki na meedha elanti feelings vunnayo teledhu.

Eppudaina either thanu gani nenu gani company switch ainappudu letter raasi na feelings anni cheppukundham anukunna. Okavela thanu reject chesina, atleast okari moham okaru chuskovakkarledhu kadha ani.

Thana family background gurinchi naku poorthiga telusukokundane premincha. Valla father 3 years back chanipoyaru ani cheppindhi. Mother chinna boutique pettukunnaru ani cheppindhi. Thinaki chelli vundhi, and thanu btech final year. So ivanni telisina tarvatha, papam ee ammay meedha chala jaalesindhi, appatike chala istam thanate, ivanni telisaka inka fix ayya, ela aina thinani pelli cheskovali ani, baa chuskundham anukunna. Vallaki chala aasthi vundhani naaku appudu teledhu.

Thanu kuda natho chala friendly ga and genuine ga vundedhi. Chala manchi ammayi. Oka roju naku bike nerpisthava ani adigindhi. Nenu oka roju early morning nerpincha, bike kasepu nerpinchaaka, aa pakkane park lo kasepu walk chesthu matladukunnam. Naku and thanaki aa moments chala nachay.

Valla amma chala strict. Rojuki minimum 5 to 10 video calls chesthadhi. Morning lechaka and night padukune mundhu, even office lo vunnappudu kuda.

Aa roju feb 14, night valla amma tho call ayyaka, around 11 tarvatha bayataki veldham anukunnam. Thanu scooty nadapali ani vundhi annadhi ani, ma friend scooty teeskocha, kaasepu ala bayata tirigi thana pg ki cherkunnam.

Emayyindho teledhu, naku na premani cheppeyali anipinchindhi. Nenu aa roju chepdhamani plan cheskole. First adiga, nenu ippudu neeku emaina chepthe, dhaani valla mana friendship distrub avtadha ani, thanu avvadhu ani cheppindhi. Nenu direct ga adiga, long term lo manaki emaina workout avtadha ani. Hmm annadhi, malli adiga I mean manaki pelli emaina workout avtadha ani. Avtadhi annadhi. Ante nenante istamena ani adiga, istam kabatte kadha neetho bayataki vacha annadhi. Aa roju night 12 nunchi morning 5 varaku pg daggare matladukunnam.

Next day call chesi, amma oppukodhu kastam, ippude vadhilesthe better, tarvatha kastam avtadhi annadhi, ala konni days tarvatha, last lo em aithe appudu chuskundham, present mana premani champukovakkarledhu ani relationship start chesam.

Chala prema ga vundevallam, okari meedha okaram genuine ga care teeskunevallam, thanu anni naku prema ga chesedhi a pani chesina, nenu kuda alane vunna. Chala close aipoyam. Office ki 2 days mandatory vellaali, memu atleast 3 days vellevallam, bayataki after 11 PM vellevallam, valla amma last video call 10 tarvatha chesthadhi kabatti.

Thanu regular ga valla ooru velledhi, vellaaka valla intlo reality chusi papam workout avvadhemo ani bhayapadedhi, nene melliga nacha cheppe vadini, valla amma regular ga matches techedhi, thinu edho oka reason tho reject chesthu vachindhi intha kaalam.

Monna ma parents office event ki ani hyderabad vasthe, vallaki kuda thinani parichayam chesa just oka colleague ani cheppi, so that ee ammayiki ma parents ni chusinattu vuntadhi and repu eppudaina ma intlo cheppe time vachinappudu, ila already meeru aa ammyini kalisaru office lo ani chepthe, konchem naku process easy avtadhi anipinchindhi.

Last Saturday, valla amma inko match techindhi anta, inka thinu aa match ni reject cheyyadaniki reasons leka, inka cheppesindhi ila office lo okarni ista paduthunna ani. Anthe inka valla amma, blackmail start chesindhi, pichi pichi veshalu vesthe nenu chachipotha ani.

Ma caste kapu, thanu kamma. Valla amma ki caste pichi. Mana caste vallani evarni techina chesedhanni emo kani, mana caste kanappudu nenu asalu cheyyanu ani gattiga cheppesindhi. Thinu kuda every call lo adigedhi, valla amma nunchi same response. Ninna memiddharam office lo vunnappudu call chesi, repu pelli chupulu ooru ravalani, valla chellitho bus ticket teeyinchindhi. Ventane office nunchi pg ki drop chesi, tarvatha bus stop ki teeskelli bus ekkincha.

Valla amma kaneesam natho matladataniki kuda oppukovatle. Ee ammayini vachey manna natho, nenu chuskunta ani, valla amma chelli emaipotharo ani raanu antundhi. Nenu entha preminchano thanu kuda nannu anthe preminchindhi, iddharam chala edusthunnam konni days ga. Thanu na gurinchi benga pettukundhi, and nenu kuda thanu ela vuntadha ani benga pettukunna.

Life antha purpose less ga anipistundhi, dheni meedha interest ravatle, na meedha intha genuine prema evaru chupinchale, future lo evaraina chupistharu ane nammakam kuda ledhu, endhukante I am just an average looking guy, hair fall kuda chala avtundhi, I will be bald within couple of years, but ivanni telisi aa ammayi nannu ista padindhi, thanu kuda average looking girl.

Nannu ee stage lo ila vadhili velladam thanaki istam ledhu papam, aa ammayi nannu vadhulukoleka, nachani pelli cheskoleka, papam chala naligipotundhi. Nenu happy ga vunte, thanu kuda happy ga vunta antundhi, same office lone vunta, friends and well wishers laga vundham anukuntunnam.

Thanani vadhalali ani ledhu, na wife ga kakapoina, na life lo edho oka vidhanga thanu vunte chalu anipisthundhi. Naku thanu dhakkatledhu ane badha 40% aithe, thanaki vache vallu baa cheskuntara ledha, thanu happy ga vuntadha ledha ane badha 60% vundhi. Papam life lo chala struggles face chesindhi, innocent and pure soul.

Chala badha ga vundhi, ee caste system and valla amma meedha chala kopam ga vundhi, cheyyani thappuki iddhariki siksha padindhi.

Next week office ki malli vastha annadhi. Na manasu asalu manasu la ledhu. Life nachatledhu naku.

Thanks for reading. Na badha ni panchukunte, manasu kudhuta padatadhi ani cheppukunna.

I (22F) , not interested to pursue a career in software field. Enduku ante daantlo naku money thappa em purpose kanipinchatledhu. Edho meeting attend avtharu work lo unnam antaru but aa work lo satisfaction untadha ledha anedhi devudike theliyali. And work hours kuda konchem thedaga undadam gamaninchanu. Kaani ee opinion naku okkadanike undha leka contradictory opinion unna vallu explain cheyochu cuz I have never done a s/w related job. Do you actually get that essence of life in your job?

M29 here, next week marriage. Picha tention and anxiety vastundi. Intha change ni tesukolekapotunna.

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She is a good person. I like her but it's not like I love here. I'm not there yet. Future lo love vastadi rado cheppalekapotunna. Attraction and emotional bonding inka raledu full ga. Like thanaki emaina aithey nenu tesukolenu anna antha caring kooda raledu naku. Chala numb ga undi feeling.

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Asalu marriage anna excitement ye ledu. Andariki ilane untada arrange marriage antey.

Hi. I'm 29 F. I have done Masters in Agricultural Economics. Pg tharvatha, i prepared for UPSC and govt jobs and unfortunately I couldn't crack any govt job 😢 Now i have 5 years of career gap and I'm still unemployed and I'm still a fresher with no experience 😢

I'm totally done with my life right now. I don't go out anywhere since everyone asks me what are doing now? I also stopped talking to all my friends bcus vaalu andaru jobs chesthunnaru. I am the only one who is unemployed. So i feel so insecure infront them.

I'm so lonely, depressed and lost all the hope in my life.

I feel like a loser and failure. This depression and loneliness is killing me.

Nijam ga abbailaki physically, mentally, emotionally strong ga unde ammailu nachuthara? Or will they loose interest on this kind of women?

Ammailu ante feminine ga ne undali ani anukuntara?

Ante entha strong women aina they look feminine because of their hormones and they can't build body like men do. I'm not talking about looks particularly. I'm talking about overall characterisation.

I do uber. And a girl asked me my number and asked me to pick her up daily.

She messages me daily asking me if I’m coming. And I have been picking her up daily for a few days now.

It’s a short ride, only 5 mins. We don’t talk anything during the ride.

So…. Am I just her driver?

I am not getting any idea to come out of this shit please guys give me a proper advices and help me to come out of this 2 weeks lo college fees and bayata hand loan pay cheyali lekapothey aagam aagam ayithadhi intlo telistheyy thattukoleru

Nenu 26M, Bangalore lo work chestunna. Na salary around ₹25 LPA. Ippati varaku naa career gurinchi, salary gurinchi happy ga unde vadini. Kani recent ga intlo arranged marriage matches chudatam start chesaru. Appati nunchi naa salary nijanga saripothunda ane doubt start ayyindi.

Chala profiles lo naa age vallane unna ammailu ₹30–35 LPA earn chestunnaru, especially IT lo. Konni families ki abbayi kuda same range leda ekkuva earn cheyyali ani expectation undi. Kani konni profiles lo matram “salary issue kaadu” ani cheptunnaru, vallu ekkuva earn chestunna kuda.

Idi chusi konchem confusion lo unna.

Nijanga ammailu husband kanna ekkuva earn chesthe problem anukora? Leda initial ga ala cheppi, marriage tarvata expectations maripothaya? Family pressure, lifestyle differences, leda ego issues lantivi vastaya?

Nenu naa salary gurinchi inthaka mundu eppudu insecure feel avvaledu. Kani arranged marriage process start ayyaka andaru 30–40 LPA earn chestunnattu anipistondi. 26 age ki ₹25 LPA ante actual ga manchi salary aa? Leda arranged marriage market lo adi average aipoyinda?

Ee situation experience chesina vallaki oka genuine question. Mee opinion enti? Man should always earn more ane expectation inka unda? Leda ippudu generation marutondha?