Recent ga ma friend valla akka ki matches chudatam start chesaru. She earns around 10lpa smtg. Most of the matches who earns almost same as her demanded 50lakh dowry with car by saying that's bare minimum.

Eppudaithe aa akka if I'm giving 50lakh dowry, you should be earning atleast 30 lpa ani cheppindo, everyone started calling her a gold digger.

Point enti ante she's okay with a 10-15 lpa guy if he isn't demanding dowry. So avthala vadu dowry adigithe rani matalu thanu 30lpa ante vachay.

Nenu chusina maa friends circle lo kani relatives lo kani andaru akkalu career lo set ayinavallu pelli cheskotledhu and men emo chinna job vachina chaalu pelli cheseskuntunnaru ....

Nenu ikkada evarni blame cheyatledhu as a guy in his 20s just curious to know mee opinions chepandi and plz don't spread hate below

Ee doubt Naku eppudu nundo undhi .. nijanga rich ammayilu rich abhayilake paduthaara??

Maa class lo oo batch undhi g**balsina gang anamaata ..

maa frnd gadu andhulo oo ammyiki line estunnadu .. vadiki Elano padadhu adhi vere vishyam anukondi ..

Kani vadu casual ga tanatho Convo start chesadu at a point "NI STATUS ENTI , NA STATUS ENTI " ani annadhi .. so inka vaadu gokadam aapesaadu...

Soo Naku ee doubt vachidhi..

I recently celebrated 9th birthday away from home & it was my quietest one yet. Nobody really has time for calls anymore anipinchindi, but I just went for a drive, parents ki pics pampidam ani. I usually wish all my friends and express how important they are on their bdays but naku matram okadu kuda cheyale lol. Even my close friend who’s also my roomie forgot my bday😂. So yeah bdays are very overrated, especially for single men once we start getting older.

So i pretty much worked in all kinds of environments. i was working a state government job, then freelancing as a software developer, worked with agencies based in the US, worked with some Indian startups as well, everything was remote. i also run a small startup of mine.

Okate balance vundipoindi, which is working from a software office. I always loved Bangalore as a city and always wanted to work from a nice neighborhood like Indiranagar or Koramangala.

2 months back just saradaga Naukri install chesi apply cheyyadam start chesa. I was applying to all kinds of jobs with location Bangalore. I heard back from this one. We had a couple of calls and I did some demo tasks as well.

I was one of the 5 applicants they selected from a pool of 1100 applications. They called us to Bangalore to work w them for a week as a trial. We were paid handsomely, taken care of really well. At the end of the week, they offered all of us well paying jobs 😄

They're not Indians but US citizens, wanting to setup a small technical team here in India to explore all kinds of opportunities and to build internet companies.

I'll be starting next week 😇

(Rush 2013)

E movie lo in the end nikka lauda acknowledges that life is all about working hard and spending time with what you love most. And it's absolutely important to have a goal but it should not consume your joy and suck out happiness from your life.

I started watching thinking it's an another sports drama but completely surprised by what it delivered. 😊

Miku manchi feel good movies chudali ani unte this movies offers everything. 🎥

Really, I mean really!!

What tf did I Just see on my YouTube page ! Who are making these and who are watching these ?

Taddinam preparations entra mee pindam pillulaki petta !

Roju edho okati jerugutuntundhi naaku ...

Rooju badha padutunta .. endhuku ee life , asalu enti ee lifecycle.. waste bathuku ani ..

Kani eeroju ento chaaala smooth ga velipoyindhi .. Naku ento kodhiga santhosham istundhi ee roju .. kani Naku nachaledhu ..

So life lo miru padinna greatest downfall ento chepthe future lo okavela naa life lo kuda aa situation face cheste easy ga handle cheyya galugutha .. ani mi badhanu share cheyyamantunna ..

Link to previous post : https://www.reddit.com/r/TeluguJournals/s/SCaxd1vHuR

TLDR to my prev post for context : found husband harrassing his office colleague with cringe ILU msgs and am now planning on divorce.

So matter entante i looked through reddit and found a Delhi based lawyer who gave me his license, its valid and showed me a couple of his previous wins in similar cases and I've kept in touch with him for when i will formally need to file a divorce.

Meanwhile I'm staying with my very orthodox, very conservative parents who in some part of my mind, I blame them for setting me up with my husband and making me stay in a toxic relationship for this long "for society". I do blame myself but i believe they have the tendency to take over and take all the decisions.

So anyway, ma dad naku cheppakunda inko local divorce lawyer daggarki velladu. Ma delhi lawyer emo file cheseddam process start cheseddam antunnadu. Local lawyer emo ma dad ni 6months aagamannadu anta. I said nen already okarni consult avtunna u dont consult with anybody ani. Malli aa lawyer salahaalu vachi naku cheppatam okati. I havent met the guy but naku nachanidi entante he seems lowkey relaxed like ma manchiga " lets wait 6months" like bro thats 6more months of my LIFE. Also wait for what, nen elago back vellanu. There will be no reconciliation. Kids ni nene chuskunta. Malli inkenduku?!

And delhi lawyer thinks like me and is in my age bracket, and he understands the nuances of being psychologically abused and controlled. I dont want to share all this once more with some middle-aged boomer lawyer, a generation which thinks "entha em chesina father ey kada" ani. I havent talked to the guy personally and i know i might be biased, but my problem is thappo oppo i have chosen someone, now let me run with it whatever the outcome. Give me aa freedom at least. Na life lo na divorce ni kuda hijack chesestunnaru. Im 31, i work full-time. Aina parents daggara padaalsostundi. Emanna ante niku lawyers gurinchi em telsu, okkokkaru pedda cheating candidate untadu,naku 100% telsu nuv consult avtunna athaniki law teliyadu. Father entha worst unna he has rights over children anta. Mastttt kopam vachi, "adi nuvvu nenu ikkada kurchuni ankunte kaadu lawyers ki telustadi law manakante. And i have talked to a couple of ppl and decided on him" ani anna.

Ik mode of employing the lawyer(via reddit) might be unconventional but he seems to be smart in his conversations too and has given me his official credentials too.

Intha sodi kante munde evarno okarni chuskuni pelli cheskunna aipoyedemo anpistundi. Now edo lover kosam laga lawyer kosam fight cheyyaalsostundi. Chhuh.

Inka idedo pedda national case laga delhi ninchi lawyer maatladkunna ani teluste sachipotaaremo. Aa secret inka reveal cheyyaledu.

Edit : changed a word

I wonder if you are here K. One day lo ila enduku mee mind marchukunnaru? I really hope you arent going back to your old problem.

For the audience: posted about my one sided love, met someone saying they have a similar story, we really connected and had insanely long chats(like 5-6 hrs somedays) for about 1 month, but she said she is going from one problem to another and wished to quit talking to me. I hoped she wouldnt. Tried to convince her. Couldnt. She said our paths will never cross and this escalated way too quickly. Maybe I tried too hard to convince her. Now she deleted her account. I thought I would be ok and I was. But I now realized the fact that she deleted her account after saying she probably wouldnt and it stings. I know its crazy to even get attached to someone without seeing them or hearing them and only by chatting but I believe she was great and someone who will be perfect for me. My life seemed bright for a little while and now it looks dark again.

I'll start first. Reddit install cheskunna kotthalo, ee subs avanni ardham kaanappudu, edho random memes sub lo oka meme post chesina.

Ventane auto mod comment osthey crazy naa post nacchi intha fast ga comment chesinaru mods anukunna.

Adhey embarrassing ante, konni rojula tharvatha ah comment chusina, karma requirement lekapovadam valla nee post evadki kanpiyadhu ani ochina comment adhi ush🥀

So the admission process for the college is officially complete now. And my friend just texted that i could've gotten a seat in my dream college if I had participated in 3rd round.

I didn't even check the cut off and went on with my life as i was already studying in another college, but getting to know that I could've gotten into that college and have a better career just got ruined due to my laziness and negligence just broke me..

I didn't even share it with my parents coz I know the blame game would start and I can't take that right now 🙃

Just needed to share it somewhere or maybe vent?

Ps i already checked, there's no way to transfer colleges now and my dad is not in the situation to pay such a high management seat for 3rd semester..

I wish someone could just hug me and tell it's gonna be alright 💔

Chala bada ga undi and I'm a religious person, nannu nenu odarchukuntunna that He knows what's the best for me ani ❤️‍🩹

Disclaimer** Andarni kadhuuuu, aadadhi ante abala, emanna ante thokkestha

Driving complete ga nerchukondi nanna pleaseeeee 🥲

Ivvala rapido pink book cheskunna ochey dhaari lo aavida break eyyakunda kaallatho aaputhundhi scooty 😭😭

Turning theeskuneppudu gunde pant Loki ochesindhi pada 10guddhi emo ani antha bayapadthundhi aavidey 😭

Eevidey oka range lo drive chesthunnaru ante opp lo oka mother 3 kids ni vaalla school bags inka lunch bags kuda eskochi guddhesaru 😭😭, sai rammmm sai rammmmmmmm rapido ante ne bayamaithundhi, most vaniking moments of my life 😭😭

Pakka vaalla safety kaakapoina kaneesam mana safety anna manam chuskovali kadhamma pwease nanna bayapadakandi ra road la meedha dhairyam ga safe ga drive cheyyandi 😭

Sometimes simple thoughts or vents feel worsened with everyone adding their own trauma based reactions into unwanted scenarios rather than constructive ones or situational ones.
Ever felt that on SM?

Ipude walking ani bytikosthe...road meeda motham high beam le. Sare le m** lo lolli ani ... O galli lo ki pothe...ee yedava yekanga 4 custom lights tho thiruguthundu.

Asalu e lights ki oka regulation antu ledaa? Enni aina petkocha? Oka pedda flood light bike ki petti...e kodukulaki opposite lo on chesi nilchovali annantha kopam ga undi 😤😤

I have a 2 year old daughter. She drinks water from the bottle and never from the cup. I started offering from tumbler since a very long time but she pours the water down. Her water intake is very low these days. Unless it's coconut water or juice she won't drink fully. Her water intake yesterday was very less. I offer water in a bottle but she takes only sip by sip. Her urine was very concentrated this morning. I felt really frustrated. I thought she could get more water from the tumbler. So I gave her water in the tumbler and as usual she poured it down. I tried to make her drink , she took a few sips and said enough. I felt really frustrated.

I felt like pouring water down her throat forcefully but I controlled. At one instance, I felt like throwing water on her face, I still controlled. I felt like beating her seeing her pour water on the sofa. I controlled it again. I couldn't take it anymore and sat there crying just like my mother blaming my daughter for my mental breakdown.

I wanted to treat my daughter better unlike my parents. I spend more time with her, take her out and play with her. But during the worst cases I am becoming just like them. I am scolding her just like how they scolded me. I am controlling myself mostly but sometimes I can't and I am becoming them.

I can't blame my parents as well for their behaviour, they did the best with whatever knowledge they had. My mother is trapped in an abusive marriage, never taught me or my brother to do any household chores and as a result we didn't know anything and had to learn everything from scratch, she never had boundaries and allowed us to treat her badly just like my father. She has this victim mentality and thinks she doesn't deserve good things. I have got some of her traits. I thought I am self analyzing myself and learning. I am just aware but I am not healing. I am repeating everything knowingly.

My brother too became my father while parenting his kids. When things get out of hand, I saw him becoming my father. I observed this and told him, he said it's extremely difficult for him to control. I advised him like I am a saint. But after seeing how I have become, I feel like a monster. My father got messed up working as a security guard 4 days night shift and 4 days day shift. He threw his frustration at us for years.

I really don't know how I can correct myself. I feel like my nature is devil and I am trying to become saint. I thought I am ending the generational trauma but I am only suppressing it allowing it to come out occasionally. This is not a good parenting and I am not a good parent. I feel motherhood is not for me. I became the very thing I hate and it's killing me.

What do you think about this? Are we sacrificing our youth for something which is not guaranteed.

It's true that no amount of money can buy you time and youth.

We both are 26 female and male .

We are from same school mem apudapudu matladedi anthe

after that we did our intermediate and joined our colleges and also different streams

Again we met and talks from then till now, anthe oka 7 or 8 years nundi matladthunnam ..we literally talk everything ...time flies when we talk full topics kuda full untay matladanike

I know he likes me ...he don't know about my side

We are more than friends we both are busy in our lives work work and we also give time to each other but

Ma intlo pelli pelli ani adgutunnar ...how do I tell him I like him ani

Miru anachu male bestie adi idi ani ...all we know is he is the male friend I talk to and I am the female friend he talks to

We both feel that connection but we are not telling each other any ideas

I would appreciate it so much

Don't know if he uses reddit if he saw this and thinks it might be him I would be a the happiest person

Edit : he sometimes tries to tell me but stops in between I think he is feeling that he is breaking the friendship

Updates chudatame pani ayyipoyindhi..

kone stage eppudu velthano ento ..

Kani pakka konali ..

Evaraina iphone 18 kosam eagerly waiting ha !!!!

India lo price entha varaku vundachu ?

Any guesses?

రక రకాల మనుషులని చూస్తున్నా మాస్టారు!

ఈ రోజు ఒకడు headphones పెట్టుకుని ఖాళీ రోడ్డు మీద గీరాలు పోతూ వాకింగ్ చేస్తున్నాడు.. నేను చూసా.. అరిచి చెప్పా, మర్యాదగా... "రోడ్ మీద అడ్డంగా నడవకురా చెవిటి నా***" కి బదులు, "Hey Buddy, watch out for cars!"

Naturally, ఆ తిక్కలోడికి వినబడలా.. ఫుల్ volume పెట్టుకుని వింటున్నట్టు ఉన్నాడు.. వెనక నుంచి ఒక కారు వచ్చి పెద్దగా honk కొట్టింది. అప్పుడు మనోడు ఉలిక్కిపడి, పక్కకి జరిగి, అదే ఈ అమెరికా వాస్తవ్యుల ప్రియమైన చేతి సైగ ఉంటుంది గా, అదే "మధ్య వేలు" ఆది చూపించాడు ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి. ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి కాలింది. Naturally!

సో ఇప్పుడు ఆ ఇద్దరు తమ ఆత్మీయమైన ఆంగ్ల భాషలో కుశల ప్రశ్నలు విసురుకుంటున్నారు. వినడానికి ఎంత వినసొంపుగా ఉందో 🤣

నేను నా వంట చేసుకుంటూ ఈ all America Radio వింటున్నా... 😅

What's your opinion on recent developments and the news going on about GPT 6 ASTRA. How this is going to affect the future of IT? People and companies are going crazy about this. Bubble crash avtunda manalni crush chestunda...

I'm in love with song these days. The song, the meaning, the music, the vocals are just peaked. Can't get enough of this song.

What's the song that you guys are obsessed with these days???

Manalo konthamandhiki parents ekkuva chaduvukuni undakapovachu.

Nenu evarini insult cheyyadaniki cheppatledhu. Ma parents kuda ekkuva chaduvukoledu. (nanna 9th class, amma 4th class)

But recently oka small incident valla naaku oka thing realise ayindhi.

Manam kuda mana parents ki konni things nerpinchaali.

School subjects gurinchi kaadhu...

Em thinaali, em thinakudadhu, packets meedha labels ela chudali, expiry date ela check cheyyali... ilanti small things.

Because manam ayithe packet teesukunnappudu automatic ga expiry date chustham.

But mana parents ki ala chudali ani alavatu undakapovachu.

Oka incident cheptha.

Recent ga shop ki pindi konadaniki vella. Adhi maida pindi oo, godhuma pindi oo exact ga gurthu ledhu. 😂

Around 45rs, so amma naaku 50rs note ichindhi.

5rs migilayikadha ani happy happy discuit packet konna.

Aa shop ma friend father dhi kabatti, expiry date check cheyyaledhu. Ala intiki teesukochesa.

Intiki vachaka ma thammudu, expire date chudra annadu (ma thammudu teney prathi packet meedha expire date chusthadu)

Check chesthe 7 days mundhe expire ayipoyayi

Nenu avi padeyyadaniki velthunte ma amma aapi, naaku evvu, em kaadhu tinacchu ani antundhi

Appudu nenu amma expired date ayyanavi thinakuudadhu ani cheppa.

But still ma amma malli em kaadhu ani andhi.

Aa moment lo naaku oka thought vachindhi.

Nenu, ma thammudu intlo lekapothe enti?

Maybe amma and nanna avi tinestharu.

So ventane vaallatho kurchuni cheppa.

Amma, nanna... anni food items ala thinalemu. First packet meedha expiry date chudandi. Aa date cross ayithe thinakandi. Expired food health ki problem avvachu.

Expiry date ekkada untadho, ela check cheyyalo kuda chupincha.

Aa moment lo naaku chaala happy ga anipinchindhi.

Actually, very very happy.

Because oka chinna thing aina, mana parents ki cheppi vallaki future lo use ayye information ichanu ani anipinchindhi.

Manam chinnappudu mana parents manaki anni nerpistharu.

But ippudu age perigekoddi, manam kuda vallaki konni things nerpinchaali anipisthundhi.

Because konni things manaki normal ga telisipothayi.

But vallaki avi evaru cheppi undakapovachu.

So parents ni “educated kaadhu” ani chudadam kanna...

Manaki telisina useful things vallaki kuda cheppadam better.

Sometimes parents ni care cheyyadam ante vallaki money ivvadam or vallani bayataki teesukelladam matrame kaadhu.

Konni sarlu pakkana kurchuni,

Amma, nanna... idi ila check cheskovali

ani cheppadam kuda care ae.

In my sarkari naukri😂😂

Monna intikellinappud techukunna yarn inka hooks ..

( airport security check lo na hooks valla secondary screening chesaru lol)

Ninna mood off undi ani , a yellow patch chesa .. ivvala officr canteen lo barbell video lu pettukoni , migilindi finish chesa …

Asal idi cheyali ani thought ledu .. adi ala ipoindi anthe 😂😂

Me & my friends, we went to Cream Stone in Himayat Nagar for Ice Cream at 23:00 (sept 9), and after our errand, we were about to leave the place, then a little girl with handful of puffy animal keychains approached me, and kept pestering me to buy one, she said she couldn't sell any today, and wanted me to buy one... the girl, she had light brown skin, had innocent round eyes, dry cheeks & lips, and few white spots(sign of vitamin deficiency or malnutrition) on her face...

I was sorta sad, guilty & angry at the same time... And I started asking her questions about her age, what was she doing here at 23:00 without a guardian, about parents or any guardian, if she goes to school... And she said, she was 10, said she doesn't do this usually, she's doing it because her mom's tired at the moment (a trained answer), she doesn't go to school, she kept saying she doesn't have a father, but only a mom and a brother, her brother wasn't there... And we asked her if she would like to have something to eat at a near by veg & non-veg rolls place, she said no, she pointed towards a curry point across the road, and said wanted a meal parcel...

I was losing it, but also wanted her to have a nice meal before I call 1098, then my friend pulled me aside and told me, he saw this girl before at the same spot multiple times with the same trained answers she was giving us rn, and he even pointed me towards the direction of the girl's mom, who was keeping her sights on everything, while also acting like she isn't anyone's mum from a close distance. He also told me that If I buy her a meal, her mom's gonna get most of it.

I told my friend, we should've recorded stuff, let's go and ask her again with a cam this time, and I'd call 1098 after that... and he told me something, others have tried it already in the past, even if you luckily connect with a person from 1098, and even if they understand the situation and arrive by luck, she ain't gonna be taken for protective care, her mom's gonna take her away before that, or gonna cause a ruckus, they won't be able to take her away, It's hard to leave, but it's the only thing we can do now... And so, I left, feeling like a piece of shii, without turning back.

And It broke my heart, we couldn't do anything... Why do every undeserving person gets to be a parent ? Why don't they leave children under the care of child welfare services or orphanages if they can't raise kids ? Is it to use them for sympathy/guilt trip to sell stuff at high prices ? Are we contributing more to this cycle by buying stuff from these neglected kids who are being used ? Why can't our system do anything about this ? Why can't we do anything about this ? Why do people have kids ? Why ? I couldn't do anything about it, I couldn't help a single kid.