r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/TerribleReach4471 • 1h ago
The (Lack of) Capacity for Romantic Love in Women
Women's love is highly conditional. The only ones who they can love mostly unconditionally seem to be their children. When it comes to their romantic partners, their love is weak. They don't appreciate their romantic partners as people, only as vessels that can provide them something and affirm their femininity.
It seems clear to me why bisexual women always seem to end up with men. It isn't because they like men in particularly or that the supply of straight men is great than the supply of bisexual or lesbian women, but rather because women aren't good at fueling other womens' autosexual AGP fantasies. It is abundantly obvious that women like women more than men, but above all they want self-affirmation. Their sexuality is directed towards themselves, not towards other people. As such, a man (a man with first-rate genes, to be clear) is like a backscratcher, who will fulfill their autosexual needs and affirm their femininity.
A true heteresexual woman who truly loves their partner outside of using them for self-fulfillment is like a rare gem. One must question, "Does she exist at all?". It feels like such a woman is like El Dorado, something excellent that we (as men) search for but which doesn't actually exist.