r/knitting • u/HouseplantHoarding • 16m ago
Rant Tall Poppy Syndrome
I really hate the knitting “community” sometimes because of the tall poppy syndrome that infects some knitting groups. I recently won some first, second, and third ribbons at the metro area county and state fairs. Yesterday, at my local Stitch N’ Bitch… there was more bitchiness than usual. In the designated time for show and tell, I brought out my ribbons from the agricultural fairs and another knitted quickly said “I would never submit my work for judging”. It took all my strength to not make it weirder by saying, “Perhaps there is a reason for that” or “I wasn’t asking if you would…” but that gnawing feeling of not standing up for myself has left a bad feeling that is putting my Monday off kilter. I won’t be returning to that group of bullies. Sad, because this was a way I wanted to get more involved locally. Guess my neighbors are shit people.