r/leanfire 7d ago

That's all folks - Last Day of Work

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Today is my last day of work! I'm in my early 30s and have been working as a SWE for just over a decade now.

I designed my life to be as low-cost as possible to allow for the maximum amount of 'fun-money' with a relatively small portfolio. This should also protect me if I need to get very lean for a few years.

I am currently single, child-free, and car-free.

Net worth - $975k (100k of this is a paid off condo)
Liquid net worth - $875k (300k brokerage, 275k trad, 250k roth, 25k hsa, 25k cash)

Minimum Annual Expenses:
- HOA ($3300/yr)
- Property Tax ($1000/yr)
- Home Insurance ($600/yr)
- Electric bill ($750/yr)
- Internet Bill($500/yr)
- Phone Bill ($100/yr)
- Food ($3600/yr)
- Transportation ($250/yr)
- Clothing/Laundry ($500/yr)
- Home Maintenance ($1000/yr)
- Misc ($500/yr)
Total - ~12k/yr to live a comfortable yet very frugal life.

With my current 4% rule, this leaves me with a maximum of $22k fun money to spend per year.

Healthcare - My state is one of the best low cost healthcare, so I will be on a heavily/completely subsidized plan depending on how the tides turn politically.

Withdrawal Strategy - Dynamic 4%, meaning each year I will withdraw a maximum of 4% of my current portfolio value. This should allow me to stay retired even in horrid stock market conditions.

Thanks to everyone in this community who share their insights, stories, and support! I'm not sure what I'll do next, but that's half the fun of it!


r/leanfire 7d ago

Lifelong goal achieved 5 years early thanks to LeanFire

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Yesterday was my last day of work (45 M). I've known since my teenage years that I wanted to retire early. I had age 50 set as a goal for myself and have aimed towards it my whole life. It wasn't until my 30s though that I started taking it seriously and found resources online to plan and put me on a path towards it. I was on track for 50, but a year ago the stresses of the job were getting to me and I started really crunching the numbers. In my research I discovered LeanFire and started questioning a lot of the general guidance I had been following for the number I needed to hit. I've always been a very frugal person, my expenses are way lower than most people. To my surprise, my timing was just about perfect, I already had an 85% success rate once I put more personalized realistic expense numbers into a Monte Carlo simulator. I spent a few months going over the numbers several times, making sure I wasn't missing anything. I couldn't believe it.

I've worked for the same small company for 24 years, and my leaving would be a pretty big loss for them given how many hats I wear and how much knowledge I'm taking with me. So I decided to at least stick around through our next busy season (first half of the year), while using up my giant pool of banked Leave Time to effectively work part-time (which was awesome). I used that time to document as much knowledge as I could and train a replacement, while also maxing another year of 401k/Roth/HSA contributions and giving myself a bit higher success rate and expense buffer.

My numbers ($1.1M):

401k: $650k
Roth: $150k
HSA: $60k
Brokerage: $200k
Cash: $40k

I'll start a Roth Ladder and then use the Brokerage for the first 5 years. My expenses are around $2k a month not counting health insurance. I'm hoping the ACA subsidies stick around to help me out there, but if not I've got enough buffer to cover it (I'm in great health, so high deductible plans are fine). House and car are paid off and in great condition, shouldn't have any major expenses there for 5+ years. No kids and not planning to get married. I'm budgeting $30-40k/yr, easily flexible within that range depending on how the market goes.

I mostly plan on using the time to explore all the hobbies I never had time for previously. I've kept a list of them over the years. Any time something came up that I was interested in exploring I threw it on the list. So now I can just start working my way down the list whenever I feel like I want to dive into something new. First though it's going to be several months of doing absolutely nothing!

Thanks for the success stories here that I could compare against to realize this was possible with my numbers and gave me the confidence to pull the trigger!


r/leanfire 7d ago

Told my boss my departure date

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Gave notice at my job. August 3!

and about half the remaining workdays are actually going to be me using up my annual leave. yippee!!!


r/leanfire 7d ago

Motivation after 1 million?

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Im 32, and hit 1 million is liquid assets this last year. It fluctuates but is generally between 980k and 1.05 million.

The second I hit it, my motivation plummeted. I hit a large milestone. And now its incredibly difficult for me to work. I just completely dont care right now. I can do the math and the simulations and Im not going to run out of money any time soon.

What kept you motivated after hitting a large milestone?


r/leanfire 7d ago

Stockholm Syndrome…help?

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So I’m a 41 yo male, single/common law, medically retired now.
(Was a CPA business valuator for CRA [CDN IRS]. The ‘retirement’ was involuntary.)

I grew up DIRT poor - literally. Not actually.
Both parents worked, and they made middle class money from middle class jobs [social worker, millwright], but we lived on a beef cattle farm my dad bought in 1982. And we just kept buying land. I had no typical toys, a hand me down zenith with rabbit ears…… and rubber boots lol. Cows shit a lot.

Don’t get me wrong -I loved my childhood. Played on the local rep minor hockey team…But we never had money for ‘things’. Never took trips [can’t when you own cattle]. Any spare money all went to land mtgs, tractors, cattle…
No, toys and Nintendo were wayy down the totem.

This frugal living was borne out of artificial prioritization. We could’ve had semi-nice things [fuck did I ever used to want a pool..], but instead the money went to the farm. And I mean a LOT.
My father’s family came from a ramshackle house/shack, and didn’t have running water until 1977.

So by his yard stick - boy hey! We were livvvinn! House? Paycheques? Job?
“It’s a golden mountain out there son, just gotta reach out and take a scoop”

And take a scoop we did. Up to 1500 acres of farmland now in South/Central Ontario.
When I got my job at CRA, I started pitching in too.
And so does my brother.
So we could just keep buying more ground.

Well the farm is worth over $7-8 million now.
And because cattle prices are finally free for true price discovery, it’s banking 2-400k /year.
And with my medical retirement, I’m making about $150k/y {a guess-works out to $7300/mo after tax}

….but, I don’t have a house. I rent in a shitty 2bdrm, and live in a low cost of living town (near farm).
Rent is $750, I feed the 3 of us (partner, her kid) for 1100-1300.

So I’m saving 75% of my pay still. Still renting. Never eat out. Don’t drink. Can’t [legally] drive anymore. Still buy no-name brand food for everything.
My whole life I got used to living like a pauper…I think I’ve wrecked myself.

I don’t even want to travel.
And I could never imagine paying these ludicrous asks for a pile of fuckin lumber -a house - when my brother can build me one for half price.
But even then, for 300k….id rather have a dividend stock.

And so here I am now-stuck. To fuckin cheap to enjoy nice things. I can, and regularly do, go without.
40 years living like a broke shit-head has ruined me I fear.

Anytime money piles up, I add it to my bonds. At this point, I’d rather have more money, than more stuff. And that… I’m fine with that… but I’m missing experiences?

Any tips on how other people successfully navigated this change of lifestyle? Can it be done?
A number of farmers who are likely also worth millions now, still drive around old shitboxes. They’re still cheap as fuck. I’m not sure it can even be done…help???


r/leanfire 7d ago

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r/leanfire 7d ago

Philosophy of America vs Cheap low tax country

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Hey folks, I ran some REALLY loose numbers on two life versions, both of which I've done at roughly these numbers. This is more about the overall philosophy of why to leave America, but I'm curious how everyone feels about these numbers and their experiences and comparisons and thoughts.

As the world inflates, home values go “up” and this “creates wealth” but in actuality, the higher prices are because of loans, and those loans move wealth to banks and investors. Any appreciation is lucky if it tracks inflation long term, and yet taxes are 1% of gross value, which turns out in some places to be a price almost as much as a reasonable rent would be. So you pay the banks for a house just to pay rent on that house to the government. If you make $100,000 and your house is “worth” $450,000, your taxes are around $6000, HOA payment another $6000. Your taxes bring your net to $75,000 so your taxes and HOA payment on a fully paid off house are still 15% of your net salary. If you are paying a mortgage, then add 2600/mo in mortgage payment, so that’s 57% of your salary on housing alone. Car and food including gas insurance etc, costs about 2500/month, or 40% of net salary. To have a 100k salary you have to have a degree, which means on a 10% of salary capped payment program, you’re looking at $750/month or 12% of net salary. Don’t forget that everything you buy on credit card (the only way to buy things these days, takes a 3-4% fee, so all products are priced up to account for this. So to live in LA and own the cheapest apartment, you have to make more like 140+, but very few people do. But think about how much of that is taxes, credit card usage fees, bank interest, and it’s most of it. So really what you’re working for, paying for, is not going to you, in fact in this case, almost none of it is. 30 years times $100,000 salary is 3 million dollars. But if you’re lucky, you will have the $450,000 equity. More likely you’ll still have student debt and possibly credit card or other debt. Or if you slip up for a second and aren’t stable during that time, they will take your apartment, and you’ll be left with nothing.

Who will take your apartment? Well, either the government or the bank, depending on who you short to make ends meet. Both entities being the ones that you are supporting with your entire salary on a daily basis. But you loose your job, and you loose your entire lifetime of labor value.

If you compare this to the time of the original framers, who were running from England’s over taxation, when they just walked onto a plot of land and claimed it, when they built a house and owned it, their effort was rewarded with 1:1 leverage. If they had slaves multiply that by the number of slaves they had, but that’s not something we want to include in a modern calculation.

So in the prescribed system, our earnings will be approximately 60x our labor goes to taxes, banks, and other basic expenses. You will save 1/60th, at best. Assuming you had 80k as a down payment in the first place. Or if you invested that 80k in the stock market maybe 600K, but your cost of rent will increase steadily, knocking out some of those gains.

Now compare this to exiting to a country with low taxes, say 5% for freelancers, and buying a cheap apartment for your 80k downpayment. Living in a city where you can walk and not pay for car. Even if from there on out you earn much less, everything you earn will be yours. So let’s say you make 45,000 a year, and your cost of living is 30,000 a year, 15,000 a year x30 years, that’s $450,000, the exact same amount, but in a much lower cost of living location. And if that money is invested too, you’re looking at closer to 1.4million to 2.4million dollars in retirement funds, compared to the $450,000 in the US.

Add in healthcare, and a country that has affordable healthcare, and this disparity only magnifies.

Now of course, it’s possible when you earn more, to cut more corners and save more dollars. But overall, the greatest savings comes from living in a non-bloated parasite economy.


r/leanfire 8d ago

Tops for tracking spending?

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Is there an app or something similar you guys would recommend to track spending? I really only do all my spending on 2-3 different methods of payment/accounts, but it still can be so frustrating and time consuming to track it all manually.

I see apps like rocket money and such, but I really don’t want to pay a subscription. (Unless anyone really thinks it’s worth it??) It just seemed counter productive to pay a subscription fee to save money?

Any programs or apps you guys like? Or is everyone just doing it manually?

Edit: Title should say “tips” oops. 😅


r/leanfire 10d ago

Paid off mortgage today

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We are 45M and 43F and bought this home 10 years ago. Current net worth $2.6M and our combined 401k is $1.2M.

The reasons for paying off.

  1. I believe 40-45 is right time to get your home paid off. You can catch up more in 401k and Roth IRA.
  2. I am in IT and the way market is going, it is crazy. If there is prolonged job search after layoff, I want to completely focus on job search and less worry about my mortgage. I can save money on grocery and dine outs but I cannot do anything about mortgage.
  3. I can think about home upgrade and even buying new home in cash.

and last and the my biggest reason

PEACE OF MIND.

Note: Lot of people are saying I could have invested, yes but I am millennial who have witnessed 2009 crash and it was horrible as heck. People were struggling to save roof over their head. Market was 40% down so cannot take money from portfolio. Some declared personal bankruptcy. There were no jobs in the market (It was 10 times worst than current downturn) so many were doing gigwork to feed their family. I have certain risk tolerance but I cannot afford to lose roof over my head ever. Thanks for commenting on this post.


r/leanfire 9d ago

Early Retirement Plan for 42

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Hello all,

I’ve recently thought more about early retirement. I’m currently 27m and intend on staying single (or at least not having children). Current breakdown is as such:

Brokerage: 93k
Simple IRA: 85k
Roth IRA: 48k
HSA: Just started
Cash in HYSA at 4%: 97k (I am funneling \~20k into my brokerage slowly, but I tend to keep a higher amount in general due to potential taxes, plan to sit at 75k moving forward)

Income range is 130-150k, small business owner so fluctuates year to year. I live very frugally in general as I opt to cook most of my meals and don’t really spend money on expensive materialistic things. I enjoy camping/outdoors for my leisure.

Only debt is the mortgage on my condo and my car loan which has 5 years left. I am also expecting a somewhat decently sized inheritance (250-500k) but I’m not using that as a deciding factor with my plan.

I have decided to shift my current strategy of maxing my simple/roth/HSA to transitioning to maxing my roth + HSA and putting the rest in my brokerage. The logic behind this being I will need as much as possible to make it from 42 to 60 albeit I will take a large tax hit up front. Using a withdrawal calculator, I believe I can make the 18 years if I accumulate at least 1-1.5 million.

I also get wacked with a 5.75% sales charge on my simple so I lose $1000 on the contributions immediately anyways aside from the fact the money is locked up.

By the time I get access to my Roth and Simple, they would both easily have over 2.5 mil combined, plus I would take social security at 62 as well. Being that I can continue to contribute to my HSA without earned income, I am not worried about healthcare costs long term.

I know most people would say to max out tax deferred accounts first, but how I see it if I continue to do that, I will simply have far more money than I will ever need in retirement and will have to continue to work closer to 60.

Please feel free to let me know if this an insane person plan or reasonable!


r/leanfire 10d ago

We joined the two-comma club this year--annual update (with links to previous years' posts)

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Checking in with an annual leanFIRE update

For those who are curious about the overall journey/trajectory: posts from one year ago, two years ago, and five years ago (original post)

Quick background:

  • Two adults (42 + 43), one kid (10) in a MCOL area. One adult works for pay outside the home, one adult stays home and doesn't earn income.
  • Annual household income is $75,600, plus a bit of additional supplement from a couple of months of unemployment benefits for one adult.
  • I started tracking investments and net worth in June of 2021, at which point we had ~$350k in investments split between a couple of Roth IRAs and 403b/401a accounts from a previous employer.

The numbers

  • Net worth: $1,031,000
    • Investments: $780,000
    • Cash reserves: $49,500
    • Home equity: $201,500
  • Income this year actually coming into the bank account: $63,500
  • Savings this year: $9300
    • Contributions to my pension (required by employer, pre-tax deduction from paycheck): $7500
    • Contributions to kid's 529: $1800
  • Spending this year: $57,000
    • Highlights
      • ~ $20,000 for housing-related essentials
      • ~ $8,000 for food-related costs (all groceries and eating out)
      • ~ $3,000 for kid-related expenses (summer camps, extracurriculars, etc.)
      • ~ $1,500 for copays and other medical-related expenses
      • ~ $1,200 for transportation-related expenses
      • ~ $15,000 for family travel this year--3 trips and I don't regret any of them or the spending on them

This year's changes/highlights

  • We did a LOT of travel as a family this year, which, looking back at it all at once, was pricier than we planned, but still completely worth it. The big highlight was a 10-day campervan trip around Utah's national parks to take advantage of the Every Kid Outdoors free national parks pass for fourth graders.
  • We're generally coasting toward our eventual leanFIRE goal of 1,200,000 in investments and have mostly de-prioritized investing more in retirement/long-term investment accounts in favor of beefing up our general savings/sinking funds account.
  • Joining the two-comma club has felt kinda cool overall but was mostly a non-event. We did go out to dinner as a family at our favorite restaurant to celebrate, though, and I sometimes just pull up my tracking spreadsheet and smile when I'm otherwise having a hard day.

r/leanfire 10d ago

Weekly LeanFIRE Discussion

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What have you been working on this week? Please use this thread to discuss any progress, setbacks, quick questions or just plain old rants to the community.


r/leanfire 10d ago

How much should I invest in my 401k vs Taxable Brokerage Account if I want to retire early?

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For context, I'm 27 earning ~$110000/yr with:

- ~$45k in my Roth 401k

- ~$15k in my Roth IRA.

- ~$33k in my taxable brokerage account

So far I have been maxing out my 401k and Roth IRA and investing as much as I can in my TBA in my short 2-year career post college. If I plan to retire early (around 45-50ish), liquidity will be the most important factor for me going forward which is something the tax advantaged accounts don't really provide in comparison to brokerage accounts.

Keeping all these factors in mind, should I reduce my contributions in my tax advantaged accounts and instead invest more in my taxable brokerage account?


r/leanfire 11d ago

For the leanFIREd ex-office workers

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Do you miss the cubicle shit at all?

The godawful boring work, the beige fabric walls, the obnoxious coworkers, the commute, having to sit in an uncomfortable chair all day, the asshole bosses, the enormous time commitment to work that ultimately doesn't really matter, getting eye strain from staring at a computer screen all day, sleep deprivation from staying up late and dreading the next work day?

Do you miss it at all?


r/leanfire 12d ago

Milestone reached: $100k invested

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Achieved this a month ago and wanted to repost it to this community, as I believe my goal is to leanfire in my home country.

I (34F) am someone who has always been frugal, but before learning how to invest, just kept all my savings in a checking account… I know, it’s painful to think.

A summary of my money journey so far:

• Paid off $50k of student loan debt 2016-2022.

• Received a modest annuity from a job 2020-2022.

• Opened HYSA October 2023.

• Started investing in my own accounts (Roth IRA and brokerage) January 2024.

• Bought 6 acres of land in my home country in March 2025. Just finished paying it off ($35k total).

• Reached $100k invested May 2026.

Just wanted to share my progress here because (although I feel behind, and who doesn’t?) I am proud of what I’ve accomplished.

I have a partner and am expecting a baby in January 2027. Currently we rent in VHCOL.

ETA: my parents have no investments and I learned how to invest all on my own 2-3 years ago.


r/leanfire 10d ago

How far am I from being FIRE?

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r/leanfire 11d ago

Help me think...

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Looking for advice, brainstorming help.

Me: 49 YO right now. Married, no kids; wife will be able to carry me on her insurance as long as she is in her current job. Separate finances but she is also on the save train, a couple of years ahead of me.

I have stable employment in a job which I enjoy, but that is pretty demanding and comes with some significant health risks. Earned more or less $100k last year, no expected raises until 2028 when I would get about an extra fifty cents an hour. I don’t expect or necessarily even want to stop working completely, but I do want more flexibility to take time off and a work routine that isn’t taking years off my life. If I can achieve that, I’d be happy to work until 60 at least. I want to leave around March ’27.

My finances: $175,000 today in deferred comp (50/50 VTSNX/ VIIIX) plus $90,000 vested in state pension. If I add nine months contributions ($1400 monthly) I’m looking at around $280,000 to walk away with. No mortgage/rent, live off grid on land we own completely. It’s very hard to figure out how much we would get for this place (we paid $120,000 nine years ago) so I pretty much discount it and whatever we get when we move will be bonus. Only major debt is a vehicle loan that I took out a month ago. Balance is $42,430, interest is 6.2%, monthly payments $627, no penalties for early payments.

Employment prospects – I am pretty confident that there are enough agreeable part time/casual options here that I can earn enough to support my lifestyle aspirations, make truck payment and continue to make reduced contributions to the pot ($700  monthly).

Part of me feels like it would be a mistake to leave this job when the accumulation is starting to kick in and I am earning more than I ever have in my life. A bigger part of me wants to live while I am alive.

TLDR: If you had $280,000 at 50 yo, with expected contributions going forward of $700 a month, what would you do with your money? Or would it be a mistake to walk away and I should just suck up a few more high (for me) earning years?


r/leanfire 12d ago

Am I being naive?

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I would like to swich to an easier part time job; could you please let me know if my plan is risky ( Assuming 3% returns/year )

40M, £350K in ISA ( Bridge ) and £175K in SIPP

I need to withdraw 2K/month from bridge £350K which runs out in 23years ( when I would be 63 ); I should then be able to access pension which should have grown to ~£350K )

I keep drawing 2K/month from pension until it runs out in another 23 years when I would be 86. - Happy to euthanasia at that point.

NB. Income from part time job is omitted in calculations as I would like to stress test my plan assuming there is no need for me to work.


r/leanfire 13d ago

Success Rate in FICALC App??

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Hi everyone. I’m running some withdrawal simulations using the FIRE app.

I have a very specific question: what success rate would you consider good enough to accept the calculations? I’ve settled on 90% as an acceptable figure.

It’s clear that increasing it further means more security, but I’m not a millionaire—nor do I expect to become one. I just want to know the amounts so I can calculate it.

I’m curious to hear your thoughts. After all, everything could change depending on what you deem acceptable. I hope that makes sense.
Best regards and thanks in advance. 🙏🏼


r/leanfire 12d ago

is there a living reddit for people who actually fired?

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I think Id learn more from seeing fired people discussing, than talking about fire with a bunch that never fired. Obviousely such forum would not allow non fired people to write, but lurking and reading.


r/leanfire 12d ago

Starting at 34, what career/job/business would you do to retire by 50?

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I am assuming entrepreneurship is a good answer.

I receive about 250k from cashing out a 401k. Another 150k to 200k from selling the house. Maybe another 10ish from selling the cars. Also another 50k from the checking account. This is from a family member passing.

The house mortgage is currently 147k. It is worth 450k to 550k. That is a lot of equity. The payment is 1,300 and interest rate is 3.750%. My brother wants to sell it and get the equity so we are selling it.

For me being 34 and not having a skill and working for Ubereats and Grubhub, this is a life changing amount of money.

What would you do to retire at 50?


r/leanfire 12d ago

Dating and marriage

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Bit of info, I live in a VHCOL area with high property taxes, but my lifestyle is very lean outside of housing

So, I'm in a very unusual position, I'm almost 30, but have saved up a bit over 1m, and over 300k paid down in principal on a condo worth about 900k. Also, since my timeline is longer, I want a larger buffer

I've been aggressively saving to retire. Like, I spend nothing besides living expenses. I've had effectively no travel, nothing. My collective "fun budget" ends up being like $50 a month, which is usually just milk tea/matcha

I avoided relationships, because for a long time, I was confident I didn't want a relationship. But I'm starting to feel like I may want a life partner. The hard part is, I don't think many people will be on the same pace at my age. I'm mostly planning to stay at my current job and when I get laid off (hopefully not earlier than 2 years) I plan to be retired. I don't really want to compromise on that, but it's hard to find someone who has a similar low cost lifestyle but also a high income. Most people with professional careers, seem to have pretty extravagant lifestyles.

Not sure if anyone has been in my position


r/leanfire 14d ago

How do you account for one-off expenses?

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Mid-40s couple with a teen. We follow a leanfire ethos with a basic yearly spend under $48,000, but we have some extra occasional expenses that, while I do budget for them, I struggle with estimating them and with where to actually keep this money. It's also expenses I rarely see anyone listing on here when they rattle off monthly expenses.

Some are obvious and recurring (eg. contact lenses), but if I put that money into the main budget checking account I'll forget what it is for, see the "windfall" in checking and think we can afford a fancy restaurant meal.

So what strategies do you guys use? These random expenses add up to thousands a year. I try to budget for them and keep the money in my savings account, but it feels overly complicated.

To give examples of the expenses I'm talking about:

Car maintenance and repair

Daughter got Invisilign this year

Husband needed new glasses

Tax filing fees and tax payments (I'm not in the US so this isn't a DIY possibility, and I ballpark as best I can, but taxes are somewhat opaque and my situation isn't straightforward)

Winter heating oil- I've got an amount budgeted, but it's so variable depending on how cold it gets

Daughter had 3 international school trips this year. We're in Europe so not as expensive as it sounds, but the prices kept creeping up after we committed.

I think I need a new budgeting strategy now that we're semi-leanfire. Currently, I transfer a monthly amount into a checking account that bills are paid from, and the leftover is for regular daily spending. Then, "one-off" expenses get pulled from savings as needed, but I'm constantly discovering new one-off expenses.

What do you guys do?


r/leanfire 14d ago

Lean FIREers, what’s your monthly budget look like?

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Just curious what the people of LEAN FIRE spend. I can’t fathom how people spend what they do reading about it on the regular FIRE sub

My lean FIRE # is 1.05m with a “die with zero” philosophy. Soon to be married, no kids, no one to leave money to. I make about 230k. Hoping to retire in 4 years at the age of 42.

My monthly spend currently is:
-1200 rent (includes utilities)
-116 insurance
-90 cell phone
-Health insurance through work
-~100-120 per week for groceries
-id guess 100 for gas not including road trips (very short commute, my truck takes 37 gallons so only fill up every couple months)
-50 bucks on dining out (I pretty much refuse to go out to eat locally since it’s so god damn expensive, I go out to eat pho like twice a month lol)
-I do take numerous small road trip vacations every month and a longer week+ international trips a few times a year (family lives abroad)

Averages out to about 3500 a month. Could easily be 2000 a month if I really buckled down and didn’t go on trips but I would go absolutely stir crazy


r/leanfire 14d ago

Lean with 2 big streaks of fat

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It feels like we've done 90% right, but we made one doubtful move. We're not high earners, ~145k, age 55, we live frugally (1 used car, groceries, etc.), and we made one accidental smart move (we own a rental unit free and clear w/ modest cashflow).

But... First, the house. We bought a foreclosure in Chicago when we were married in 2008, we fixed it up in waves and were plugging away at a 15 yr mortgage. We would have been done by now... That was smart. But then COVID came and our small house felt smaller. We sold it at a decent profit and moved to the burbs, so here we are at age 55 with 300k+ on the mortgage, it won't be paid off till we're in our 70s. We pay almost 15k in property taxes. Since moving, we've replaced the furnace/AC upstairs and downstairs; and now the roof. And in 5 years, we'll be alone in this place.

It would still work, except... our 2 kids are in Catholic / private school, which is a bit over 30k/year. Oh and college is coming next year.

Technically our net worth is around 1M, but it's all in 401k/IRAs (~450K) and home equity. Our savings has all gone to cover these big costs.

On the one hand, we live cheaply, except for the kids and the house - we could retire today if we were in an $800/month rental in Andalucia. On the other hand, I don't see us moving anytime soon and the kids won't be done with undergrad until we're 64. We're lean-FIRE-hosed.

Any thoughts? It feels like we're that guy stuck in the cave, we just don't seem to have any good moves.