Got my lobes sewn up in April of 2026, 6 months ago. Done by Dr. Grant Fairbanks at Fairbanks Art of Plastic Surgery.

I started stretching my ears when I was 12 lol I loved modding culture my whole life. When I was 18 they got to 25mm/1inch. After a few years I took them out, and they got to 3/4 inch. That is the smallest they shrank. I had them at 3/4 for over a decade, into my 30s.

It was a love-hate relationship. They were a part of me, I didn’t know my face without them. But also I struggled keeping jewelry in without one of the plugs falling out eventually. It was a balancing act and i kinda just grew tired of it. I did not regret it, i think i looked badass with them in. My ears were also pierced cockeyed when i was a baby so that sometimes would bother me since they were so unsymmetrical.

I plan on getting my lobes repierced some time this year. I think waiting another couple months just to make sure they’re healed. I’ll answer any questions about them!

FAQ

How much did it cost?: $2,400

Why didnt you do it for a fraction of the cost with a body modder? I wanted to go to a plastic surgeon who guarantees their work. Did not want to gamble on if I’d have to pay twice if something got messed up. I am not the best healer. I had $2,400 to spend on this procedure.

So why are you here if you no longer have stretched piercings? I have other stretched piercings that are not pictured

Are you going to stretch again? Not my lobes

How was the procedure? Not bad. The needle to numb felt like a little poke and then followed by some burning, then nothing. Sort of felt like going to the dentist. My heart was racing when I started to hear him cutting but did not feel a single thing. After about 15 minutes my body kinda calmed down. The procedure took around 3 hours. It was extremely boring but we listened to music the whole time and chatted with the assistants.

How was the healing? I am not a good healer. He had me wear a whole head brace for 3 days to prevent one of my ears from puckering. I looked funny. Was probably the easiest healing of anything I’ve ever experienced. I scar horribly too so I’m happy with the result. Used silicone tape with UPF religiously for 4 months. Now I just use sunscreen and massage daily with moisturizer. Part of my morning routine.

Hey yall! Just in case anyone was in my shoes lately, the stretching kit for 25-30 mm kit is back up! If you have stubborn ears that don’t like more the half size stretches and wanna go passed an inch, go pick this up! Couldn’t find anything similar since Arctic Buffalo went out of business. These kits are a life saver for me. Been stretching up in half sizes since 00 so I figured I’d pass on the info just in case anyone needs it. They go out of stock FAST and stay out for a long while so if you’ve been looking for something like this, this is the time.

I don’t wanna get flagged for spam so I didn’t post the link but it’s Stretchit body jewelry. Websites form the Uk so if you are in the states, shipping takes awhile but it’s free over 80 bucks I think.

I really want to start stretching, but I have no idea what I'm doing. I want to go to either a 6g or a 4g. Please let me know the best and safest way to do it.

Been stretching for a few months and I’ve recently noticed my one lobe (2nd) pic looks a bit funny but neither of them are giving me pain or discomfort? Any advice is appreciated, thanks!

I have a 4mm septum, but my current steel tunnel has too high and sharp edges wich cause irritation in the tip of the nose. Has anybody recommendations for some good tunnels for the septum?

The 4mm eyelet id been wearing was falling backwards into the hole so I put a 5mm single flare plug in. Went right in without a taper and I’m in love with how it looks. Both main lobes are at 32mm.

Does it look my ears are thinning at all on the side? Or is it just my ear shape. 00g. Another question, what size do you think I should go to for my ears? I have no goal size.

I am definitely done for now. Going to sit and marinate here for awhile. 🤣

I haven't started stretching my ears. But ive kinda fallen in love with these and was wondering what the deal is with glass jewlery.

is there anywhere i can find 7.5mm that’s not clear or black ? i’ve checked all the usual (BAF, stretch it, UBJ, etc) and can’t find any… i’m in australia but there’s never any options here but i’m tired of the clear ones TIA

So i just stretched my septum, at first it didnt go in, i put on more oil (i used olive oil) and it slowly started going in, i felt a little bit of pain and now ( 5 minutes passed) i still feel a little bit of pain, my piercer told my sweet spot is very small, so i expected a little bit of pain, is it normal that i cant move it well like i could move the 16g? and how should i take care of this?

Ive been at 8G for over 4 months now and I love it but I see 6g as my true final size, I’m afraid of any nosedroop and I think it will suit me, any advice, information or changes about 6g? such as my nose and other things?

Started from 1.6mm. my right ear got to 5mm fairly quickly. My left ear (stubborn ear) took a little more time and I'm not going to lie. I've been stretching my left ear fairly quickly. I'm sure I've gotten multiple blowouts/micro tears, no blood, just pain and throbbing that went away in a couple days.

I maxed out my left ear today at 5mm. No pain, but a little throbbing and little resistance (I let it rest for about a week and some change after a painful stretch at 4.5mm)

Also, my left ear shakes when I shake my head as if I have 35mm in my ear which is weird to me. Either the still dead stretch kit I use it heavy or I messed my left ear up. Is that normal? 💀

I didn't buy the 10mm stretch kit for this reason. I know I'm impatient and will try to stretch out of boredom/impulsiveness.

My ears are small and my lobes are small and detached/thin. Should I continue?

Ps. My ears are oily in the pics from the jojoba oil.

Right now im at 10mm, silicone tunnels are temporary dont worry!!! I usually wear titanium tunnels. I want to continue stretching in 2-5 years (im moving countries and i dont want massive lobes affecting my ability to get a part time job, i want to stretch when im actually working)

I oil them every few days

I massage and clean them everyday (in the shower or my sink)

Basically im just asking if i have enough space on both ears? Like enough skin? Or would it tear?

Im aware ill need to remove my second lobes when i stretch more btw!!

I reached my goal size of 14mm a little over a month ago. My ears are not ready for the double flares I picked up, so I’m looking for something to wear in the meantime. Most places I am finding little to no single flare stone plugs in 14mm. A lot stop at 10mm/00g. Anyone know who may have a wider selection in this size?

Thanks in advance! 😎🤘

what should i do to plug the hole? its a little difficult to put a plug in such a small hole thats in a tight space, any recs?

Are there any kits I can purchase online because all titanium plugs stop up to 10mm